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[N][O][B]
04-26-2004, 11:43 AM
is it better to know if your girlfriend has cheated on you, or better to not know?

summerlinda
04-26-2004, 11:45 AM
If it was serious, yes.
If it had no meaning, no. [unless she keeps doing it, then id say, yes]

FuNkY CaPrIcOrN
04-26-2004, 11:46 AM
;) It is better to know.Why would you want to be with somebody that has had some other guys dick up in that shit?

[N][O][B]
04-26-2004, 11:48 AM
Originally posted by FuNkY CaPrIcOrN@26 April 2004 - 11:46
;) It is better to know.Why would you want to be with somebody that has had some other guys dick up in that shit?
obviously if it wads a once off and there are feelings involved it is better to??? <---i should have had this in the origional question.

ahctlucabbuS
04-26-2004, 11:52 AM
Think its better to know, then if it is serious and you both have feelings for each other you might be able to overcome it... Sounds like a textbook answer doesnt it? ;)

Snee
04-26-2004, 11:54 AM
Originally posted by summerlinda@26 April 2004 - 12:45
If it was serious, yes.
If it had no meaning, no. [unless she keeps doing it, then id say, yes]
You have a girlfriend? :D

(Sorry)

It&#39;s good to find out, an&#39; when you do, dump &#39;er.

Unless you&#39;ve done it yerself, &#39;cus then yer operatin&#39; on a whole different set o&#39; rules.

EDit: and damn the feelings, you&#39;ve been betrayed.

JONNO_CELEBS
04-26-2004, 12:22 PM
Originally posted by summerlinda@26 April 2004 - 11:45
If it was serious, yes.
If it had no meaning, no. [unless she keeps doing it, then id say, yes]
That basically gives your partener a liscense to have one night stands.

I&#39;d want to know, I&#39;d also get very violent towards the guy, I know it&#39;s not the way to do things but you don&#39;t go round shagging other peoples parteners. I have done, I got whacked for it and rightly so, I stood there and took it like a man and did&#39;nt retaliate cos I deserved it.

To me, those who say sex has no meaning are either lying or slags (male or female before you all start) and people who go round shagging cos they say their pissed are the main reason we have aids.

So yes I&#39;d want to know, I&#39;d also make her have an HIV test before anything else happend other than oral :)

Jonno B)

FuNkY CaPrIcOrN
04-26-2004, 12:31 PM
;) I would have nothing to do with her.Go get myself tested and move on.

Well make sure I Rip all her CDs first. :D

And I love when a Women says "He used a Condom".Like it makes it all right because it was safe. :rolleyes:



* :P This Thread is going to heat up.I just know it.Bring on some more Women and get their opinions. :P *

100%
04-26-2004, 12:49 PM
http://www.writersbbs.com/members/jack_crow/ass.jpg

Snee
04-26-2004, 12:50 PM
"If you are ass looked more like this, maybe I wouldn&#39;t have dumped you"


???

:blink:

summerlinda
04-26-2004, 12:58 PM
I would not want to know because im pretty sure I could not forgive him. And that is my bad ;)
So if it was once [we all make mistakes&#33;] and had no meaning at all I would not want to know. I mean, is it worth breaking up over? And thats what id probably would do, break up...

JONNO_CELEBS
04-26-2004, 01:32 PM
Originally posted by FuNkY CaPrIcOrN@26 April 2004 - 12:31

And I love when a Women says "He used a Condom".Like it makes it all right because it was safe. :rolleyes:

Yeah and of course the&#39;re 100% safe :rolleyes: And there&#39;s no sick fuckers out there that prick them? <_<

@Linda........But what if he had slept with someone and contracted a STD? :unsure: You would&#39;nt know and would get it yourself :unsure:

Jonno B)

summerlinda
04-26-2004, 01:42 PM
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@26 April 2004 - 15:32
@Linda........But what if he had slept with someone and contracted a STD? :unsure: You would&#39;nt know and would get it yourself :unsure:

Jonno B)
I would have to trust him on that :lol:

But, Duddes never mentioned sex in his original post, whats cheating? Sex?
Maybe they just kissed... Whats the definition of sex and cheating anyway?

But if it would happen Id kill him, he knows that so its his choice ;)

brenda
04-26-2004, 01:47 PM
better to know cus if you don&#39;t know thqt you have a completely pointless relationship

once u find out that someone has cheated on you, you should dump them and erase them from your life like they never existed

summerlinda
04-26-2004, 01:51 PM
Originally posted by brenda@26 April 2004 - 15:47
better to know cus if you don&#39;t know thqt you have a completely pointless relationship

once u find out that someone has cheated on you, you should dump them and erase them from your life like they never existed
Maybe you saw "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind" once to many... :D

JONNO_CELEBS
04-26-2004, 02:01 PM
Originally posted by summerlinda@26 April 2004 - 13:42

I would have to trust him on that :lol:

Not being funny Linda but thats a really silly thing to be laughing about, have you any idea how many people contract Aids etc from their parteners cheating?
And you get these people in pubs etc, tell someone "Yeah I&#39;ve always used protection" then another night they bragging to their friends that they&#39;ve never used protection <_< Slags <_<

As for what is cheating, thats down to the individual, I once snogged 40 people in one night, my partener did&#39;nt consider that cheating, but someone else would.
But I think it&#39;s pretty safe to say that stick your dick inside someone is cheating :rolleyes: :ph34r:

Jonno B)

brenda
04-26-2004, 02:02 PM
Originally posted by summerlinda@26 April 2004 - 13:51
once u find out that someone has cheated on you, you should dump them and erase them from your life like they never existed
Maybe you saw "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind" once to many... :D [/quote]
lol, i&#39;ve not seen it but i&#39;ll check it out :D

oh yeah and if you have any of her possesions burning them is always a great way to get closure

[N][O][B]
04-26-2004, 11:57 PM
closure will come on friday, maybe sending her an abusive email isnt the best idea being in the state i am in just now.

FuNkY CaPrIcOrN
04-27-2004, 12:05 AM
;) I think what Linda was trying to say in that one Post is that with "Fuck Buddys" it really does not matter what they do.

And we all have had a "Fuck Buddy".Or 2 or 3 or.....

I am just thankfull I lived through my Youth and have made it this far without catching anything.And why from now on every Person means something to me. :)

brenda
04-27-2004, 12:37 AM
Originally posted by [N][O][B]@26 April 2004 - 23:57
closure will come on friday, maybe sending her an abusive email isnt the best idea being in the state i am in just now.
just write the e-mail out but dont send it

then when you&#39;ve calmed down read it through

then send it anyway :lol:

[N][O][B]
04-27-2004, 01:01 AM
Originally posted by brenda+27 April 2004 - 00:37--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (brenda @ 27 April 2004 - 00:37)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-&#091;N
[O],26 April 2004 - 23:57] closure will come on friday, maybe sending her an abusive email isnt the best idea being in the state i am in just now.
just write the e-mail out but dont send it

then when you&#39;ve calmed down read it through

then send it anyway :lol: [/quote]
fuck it i have sent it.

[N][O][B]
04-29-2004, 10:24 AM
she wasn&#39;t cheating btw.

bigboab
04-29-2004, 10:45 AM
If they do it once then they will do it again. DUMP. :(

bujub22
04-29-2004, 11:02 AM
Originally posted by bigboab@29 April 2004 - 06:45
If they do it once then they will do it again. DUMP. :(
:o booby returned &#33;&#33; :o



nice to see u using the right account ;)

Adster
04-29-2004, 11:52 AM
hm nice thread when I found out my ex cheating on me

I nearly jumped off a 10 story tower...

then I ripped the fuck into her on the phone with her bullshit stories

in the end thats when I lost trust in her and faith and now why I hate woman.... for some reason I stayed with that bitch for 3 more years. just for the company i guess

but hell I&#39;m probably still going to find out more shit now from the past and now I don&#39;t care as it&#39;s history


so if I didn&#39;t find out Id stil tust woman ..

now I found out about it so....

no trust at all

Adster
04-29-2004, 11:56 AM
what if I dig a hole put my dick in and away I go

is that classified as cheating BTW

lynx
04-29-2004, 12:49 PM
Originally posted by Adster@29 April 2004 - 11:56
what if I dig a hole put my dick in and away I go

is that classified as cheating BTW
Second time there&#39;ll probably be a Funnel-web in there. :P

bigboab
04-29-2004, 01:35 PM
Originally posted by bigboab@29 April 2004 - 10:45
If they do it once then they will do it again. DUMP. :(
Just an errorv when logging on Job Joob. I will try and not do it again. :lol: :lol:

Spider_dude
04-29-2004, 01:42 PM
Originally posted by bigboab+29 April 2004 - 13:35--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (bigboab @ 29 April 2004 - 13:35)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-bigboab@29 April 2004 - 10:45
If they do it once then they will do it again. DUMP. :(
Just an errorv when logging on Job Joob. I will try and not do it again. :lol: :lol: [/b][/quote]
come on just stay. i am using my proper account just now.

bujub22
04-29-2004, 06:26 PM
Originally posted by bigboab+29 April 2004 - 09:35--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (bigboab @ 29 April 2004 - 09:35)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-bigboab@29 April 2004 - 10:45
If they do it once then they will do it again. DUMP. :(
Just an errorv when logging on Job Joob. I will try and not do it again. :lol: :lol: [/b][/quote]
:( but i miss the chat bar booby ive been sober for almost a month :(

sArA
04-29-2004, 08:57 PM
Originally posted by [N][O][B]@29 April 2004 - 10:24
she wasn&#39;t cheating btw.
Were you??? <_<

[N][O][B]
04-30-2004, 02:16 AM
Originally posted by sara5564+29 April 2004 - 20:57--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (sara5564 @ 29 April 2004 - 20:57)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-&#091;N
[O],29 April 2004 - 10:24] she wasn&#39;t cheating btw.
Were you??? <_< [/quote]
i wouldn&#39;t cheat. it is not in my nature. i am going over there in 6 months time we will see.

Barbarossa
04-30-2004, 10:04 AM
Originally posted by [N][O]+30 April 2004 - 02:16--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE ([N][O] @ 30 April 2004 - 02:16)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by sara5564@29 April 2004 - 20:57
<!--QuoteBegin-&#091;N
[b][O][B],29 April 2004 - 10:24] she wasn&#39;t cheating btw.
Were you??? <_<
i wouldn&#39;t cheat. it is not in my nature. i am going over there in 6 months time we will see. [/quote]
Going over where? :huh:

[N][O][B]
04-30-2004, 10:14 AM
america.

*goddess*
05-03-2004, 02:42 PM
:ph34r: I know this is a bit of an oldish thread but I was curious to get some opinions.

:helpsmile: I did cheat on someone, yes I used protection but no I didn&#39;t tell the guy. As far as I was concerned it wasnt&#39; a &#39;serious&#39; relationship I was on the rebound after a 3 and half year relationship.

:) My longest relationship aside from that was 12 years, during which time I never cheated.... in any definition not even a sneaky snog. B)

;) I guess my question is...... does that make me a cheater, is it in my nature? I don&#39;t think so myself.

JONNO_CELEBS
05-03-2004, 03:04 PM
Do you cheat at monopoly? <_<

Hussy&#33;&#33;&#33; :lol: :lol:

Cheating is cheating, I think the definition is down to the person you&#39;re cheating on :)

If they say it&#39;s cheating then it is :)

Jonno B)

*goddess*
05-03-2004, 03:07 PM
;) I never said I wasn&#39;t cheating.

:) I was referring to the saying once a cheater always a cheater..... I don&#39;t think that&#39;s necessarily true.

:angry: And don&#39;t call me a hussy ya shithead.

Yogi
05-03-2004, 03:19 PM
Both my girl and me have had our share of "fresh meat" over the past eleven

years together&#33;&#33; :P

We never cheat, though. Why would we??? :lol:


YoHole

Spider_dude
05-03-2004, 03:21 PM
Originally posted by SensualBarfing@3 May 2004 - 15:19
Both my girl and me have had our share of "fresh meat" over the past eleven

years together&#33;&#33; :P

We never cheat, though. Why would we??? :lol:


YoHole
see i could never do that, be in an open relationship. i am too possessive.

*goddess*
05-03-2004, 03:21 PM
;) Sounds like you don&#39;t need to

:D And good onya&#39;s ...... well done.

Yogi
05-03-2004, 03:27 PM
Originally posted by Spider_dude+3 May 2004 - 17:21--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Spider_dude @ 3 May 2004 - 17:21)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-SensualBarfing@3 May 2004 - 15:19
Both my girl and me have had our share of "fresh meat" over the past eleven

years together&#33;&#33; :P

We never cheat, though. Why would we??? :lol:


YoHole
see i could never do that, be in an open relationship. i am too possessive. [/b][/quote]
I understand.

But i must add we are allways both present&#33;&#33;&#33;

I&#39;d like to call it a "very happy" and free relationship.

But i know i&#39;m very lucky not being jealous or fearfull..........

Posessiveness leads to misery.........., by default.



YoJoy

brenda
05-03-2004, 04:14 PM
Originally posted by *goddess*@3 May 2004 - 14:42
:ph34r: I know this is a bit of an oldish thread but I was curious to get some opinions.

:helpsmile: I did cheat on someone, yes I used protection but no I didn&#39;t tell the guy. As far as I was concerned it wasnt&#39; a &#39;serious&#39; relationship I was on the rebound after a 3 and half year relationship.

:) My longest relationship aside from that was 12 years, during which time I never cheated.... in any definition not even a sneaky snog. B)

;) I guess my question is...... does that make me a cheater, is it in my nature? I don&#39;t think so myself.
i don&#39;t think that cheating can be defined in simple terms. For example you cannot compare someone who makes a bad decision and decides not to tell their partner because it will hurt them with someone who is having an affair.

Cheating comes in many guises and i agree with jonno&#39;s point that cheating is in the eye of the cheatee

and *goddess* no I dont think that your one indiscretion makes you a habitual cheater

*goddess*
05-03-2004, 04:24 PM
;) Bless you Brenda


:rolleyes: I don&#39;t think people should be too quick to judge others.

;) I gotta go bed and .......dream about cheating now. :lol:

Gemby!
05-03-2004, 08:07 PM
i dont think i will ever cheat - im too fussy bout who i like :P

brotherdoobie
05-03-2004, 08:10 PM
Originally posted by gemby&#33;@3 May 2004 - 15:07
i dont think i will ever cheat - im too fussy bout who i like :P
Really?

Peace brotherdoobie

Gemby!
05-03-2004, 08:11 PM
no its really *** :rolleyes:

Spider_dude
05-03-2004, 08:13 PM
it is all about what you have set the relationship rules to be. i have in the past seen 2 girls at the same time, the result was a massive phone bill and a sore head, but we never agreed to keep it between the 2 of us. however in my old age (21) i like to have one woman, i want security in life not to be fucked about and treated like shit. i am a good guy as most people say and i think i deserve to be treated like that.

brotherdoobie
05-03-2004, 08:20 PM
Originally posted by gemby&#33;@3 May 2004 - 15:11
no its really *** :rolleyes:
There I edited my post feel better?....Not really?
Your one of the last people I would expect to correct spelling mistakes :P

I mean really ;)

Peace brotherdoobie :lol:

Gemby!
05-03-2004, 08:27 PM
Originally posted by brotherdoobie+3 May 2004 - 20:20--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (brotherdoobie @ 3 May 2004 - 20:20)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-gemby&#33;@3 May 2004 - 15:11
no its really *** :rolleyes:
There I edited my post feel better?....Not really?
Your one of the last people I would expect to correct spelling mistakes :P

I mean really ;)

Peace brotherdoobie :lol: [/b][/quote]
wise words ...

hey theat girl from steps is in the bride 4 u ad &#33;&#33;&#33; the first one...

ok just me then :P