Ex's birthday..

[manker]

Dont take what he says seriously or personally.

That comment hurts more than you could ever know.



Seriously, there are quite enough people with 'helpful' and/or indulgent comments. Threads like this would be shit if it wasn't for people taking the piss.

Ask neotheone.

[JPaul]

Dont take what he says seriously or personally.

Seriously, there are quite enough people with 'helpful' and/or indulgent comments. Threads like this would be shit if it wasn't for people taking the piss.

Wallow accomplices if you will.

[Smith]

Send him a bag of dog shite.

[JPaul]

Send him a bag of dog shite.

Send him one yourself pissflaps.

[NikkiD]

Ok so it's been a month since I split up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. He's 21 nest week, and I got a really special birthday present for the occasion. I got an ID bracelet, paid for someone to design 'Faith' in Evlish script, and then paid for someone to engrave the word onto the bracelet. This was all done before we'd split up.

Now here's the situation. He's made this breakup so hard, and he's said and done some really hurtful things in the past month, but as it's only been a month I'd still take him back in a heartbeat.. can't be judged for that. And this bracelet came back from the engravers yesterday. I'd forgotten all about it.

So what do you guys think I should do? I can't take it back, as it's been personally engraved, and I really wanted to do something special, for him to have something to keep. Do I still give it to him?

I'm gonna have to have a word with that boy. I remember when you started seeing each other.

As far as the bracelet, I wouldn't give it to him for the simple fact that he probably won't want it and that will hurt you more than you already are, or he'll take it grudgingly and he won't appreciate the work you put into getting it for him. Especially as you haven't parted as friends. I don't know what I would actually do with it though.

(((((((((((((Emma)))))))))))))

[Skiz]

Keep it for a month or two, you never know if you'll get back together and the bracelet could be a future gift - though to me, the gift itself would always remind me of a bad time whenever I saw it.

But like everyone else said, don't give it to him now.

[Buffalo]

@ Nikki, I think you having a word with that boy, as you say, will not help matters at all, how can it, it then becomes a matter of taking sides, and it can make things even more upsetting for Emma.
I think if anyone helps someone in a case like this it's best to be neutral.
I don't know Emma, but I sure feel for her at this time.

I agree with you on the bracelet, I know I would have dumped it or hit it with a hammer.

Life is hard, and especially at times like this.

Good luck to you Emma, it will sort, and it's nice for you to know that you have a lot of friends.

[Biggles]

Emmylee

If the bracelet is specific to him then you have three choices

1) Throw it into the sea and let it go

2) keep it as a memory (if you are confident that you can be comfortable with it around)

3) give it to him as in 1) and let them both go

If he were to return to you the bracelet would be inconsequential.

[Buffalo]

I agree with the old chap on 1 & 3

[Biggles]

I agree with the old chap

Jono nice to see you back