I've known my friend for like a long time, we have been good friends for about 20 years; I've been seeing a lot of her in the last 6 months or so.
at one time I could see that her partner was not impressed with the amount of time we spend with each other, I did have a chat and said no way would I interfere with their relationship.
But things are quite odd, this is the 3rd time in the last 6 months that she has tuned against me for no reason, at the end of the day all I wanted was good friendship, we all need good friends, but I now get the feeling that she has some feelings for me, if I mention that Iím seeing someone, like on a blind date, she seems to go into one and won't speak to me for a week.
Perhaps she's just possessive
It's fucked things up, as she was the only person I get on well with, I know we have spent a lot of time together, but I only did this as I have only a few friends, and she was the one who phoned me or popped in to see me.
don't get me wrong, I'm not troubling her with my probs, we honestly have a great time and enjoy our friendship.
What the fuck do I do?
I think the only thing I can do at the mo is back off a bit, before it gets out of hand, I've have not made a move on her at any time, I respect friendship & I have respect for her partner, i'm just not like that.
It's a big fecking pickle; I don't want to loose my friend