Im nervous

[JPaul]

Yeah, but with the phoaties you posted he had assumed you were female. No wonder he didn't recognise you, beardy.

Never underestimate the sheer carnal appeal of an intellectual and coincidentally hypermammiferous female.

It's powerful stuff.

That's my favourite type of person. Fact.

[Seedler]

Just pray it's not your mother...

[j2k4]

Just pray it's not your mother...

No prayer needed.

Nikki is not my mother.

[Adster]

its amazing how fate works it way if not for this forum I would never have met her because if not for this forum I wouldn't have found soulseek... and without soulseek I wouldnt have found her

This forum brought us together!! haha!

[RealitY]

its amazing how fate works it way if not for this forum I would never have met her because if not for this forum I wouldn't have found soulseek... and without soulseek I wouldnt have found her

This forum brought us together!! haha!

So staff gets sloppy seconds then!!


Also wear a pair of manker chaps loike...

[sArA]

its amazing how fate works it way if not for this forum I would never have met her because if not for this forum I wouldn't have found soulseek... and without soulseek I wouldnt have found her

This forum brought us together!! haha!

I do believe he's got it real bad!!!

Just stay calm, take a few deep breaths and when you meet, smile and say hi, peck on the cheek and ask some previously rehearsed questions so that she can talk without you putting too much effort in.

sample questions could be..

How was your journey?
Would you like to go for a coffee?
so....you like ginge blokes then?



Seriously, I hope it goes well, you are alright you are.

[Jon L. Obscene]

Ok here's how it goes down.
You spend days and hours leading upto the meeting thinking of things to say and in a way rehersing trying to figure what she will say back and then what your reply is. You'll then go through the motions of "Should I kiss her first? hug? handshake? ruffle hair? if it's a kiss with or without tounges? etc etc
Then what will you talk about for the rest of the day? will you make yourself look a fool?

The answer to all this is simple.........nothing and I do mean nothing you reherse or have prepaired will be used, it really will be a case of what will be will be.

If your worried if she will like you, the answer obviously being yes otherwise she wouldn't be meeting you (unless you sent a picture of Vin Diesel instead of yourself or something).
Personally I had no nerves once I left my sisters house for the 20 hour journey only then to spend 2 hours in Immigration interrogation, although I hadn't splept in 2 days leading upto that so I was a bit numb lol but once we were together (I'll let Nik's story be enterted here cos I couldn't put it any differently) everything was fine, no weirdness between us no aprehension or anything, the only thing was finding out eachothers little habbits, how we like our coffee, toast, steak etc etc and I'm still here 10 months later with full intentions of staying put and building a good life for me, Nik and Nate and truely living Happily Ever after

So Ad go through the motions because you will whether you like it or not and when the time comes it will basically play out itself although you wont see that until a few hours after you meet.

Good luck

Jonno

[Seedler]

gluck

[peat moss]

Ah you'll been fine , hopefuly you have seen each others pic . ? Now that would be interesting . Let her make the first intro , hold your hand out as if to shake hands .


Rule of thumb if you open a ladies car door for her and before you get to your side if she has unlocked or opened for you , your getting lucky dude .

[Seedler]

hopefuly you have seen each others pic

Hopefully.