I'm going to see a psychic/medium tonight...

[WeeMouse]

[QUOTE=benchez;2332186]

Don't go man, that's just evil, i mean look they are really crooks...Nobody can help you with that...
Only GOD can help you my friend.
And the other side you are talkin' about ????
What is that, have you watched too many movies and believe in that....

Damnn man get real... and pray to GOD to answer you, and he will but he will show you in real life
not by human words and lies, But only by truth.

Hmm. God can help me? God isn't fair. He took my mum away a month ago, aged 48 with no prior warning. I don't think i'll be looking from truths from him cos he can't justify to me what he's done...do you know what it's like aged 21, having to explain to your two 7 year old nephews that they can't see Grannie again?

God is so not in my good books just now.

However, if a person can prove to me that they can connect to my mum's spirit and tell me she's fine now, and that comforts me, i don't think that's evil really.

[bigboab]

You should be getting ready to go out now.
Have a wee drink on me on the way home.

[WeeMouse]

You should be getting ready to go out now.
Have a wee drink on me on the way home.

my psychic cancelled!!

Theres absolut vodka somewhere...

[bigboab]

You should be getting ready to go out now.
Have a wee drink on me on the way home.

my psychic cancelled!!

Theres absolut vodka somewhere...

That will learn me to read the rest of the thread before commenting.

[peat moss]

Ah I feel for you hon , I still miss my Grandma. Why not just try to remember the good times and time is a great healer . I tried the ouija board but found old pics of her gave me satisfaction , I laffed , I cried at the same time . Talk to good friend that will understand how you feel . Good luck bud . If there was a kiss icon I'd give you one for the heart .

[Biggles]

you would have thought so....I agree with what boab said, the service is the reassurance, if she's good, you'll leave feeling better, and that's the point after all I guess???

Well it doesn't reassure me that she didn't fecking forsee that she wouldn't be able to make it!!!

Now i feel sad i won't get to talk to my mum

You can always talk to your Mum Wee Mouse you don't need a psychic for that. Faithful memories and fond heart are all that is needed.

[WeeMouse]

I've got a brother, two sisters and a dad and my boyfriend, so i talk to plenty of people to talk to about it all. It does help, especially looking at photos of the early 90s when we were all wee and had backwards baseball caps and mum had a mega perm!

But about a year ago she done something very very hurtful and i wasn't prepared to forgive her yet. I was literaly about to send her an e-mail message in work when my sister phoned me to tell me mum had a stroke and died.

Hence why i would like a psychic person to connect with my mum and tell her that we forgive her and love her and hopes she forgives us.

In the meantime hoewver, i'm watching CSI boxsets and drinking gallons of irn-bru while snuggled under my new stripy duveteating a crispy pancake i stole from my dad's plate. (having a father in a wheelchair has it's uses!

mwah

[Squeamous]

WeeMouse....if it helps you, go do it.

[Skweeky]

I've got a brother, two sisters and a dad and my boyfriend, so i talk to plenty of people to talk to about it all. It does help, especially looking at photos of the early 90s when we were all wee and had backwards baseball caps and mum had a mega perm!

But about a year ago she done something very very hurtful and i wasn't prepared to forgive her yet. I was literaly about to send her an e-mail message in work when my sister phoned me to tell me mum had a stroke and died.

Hence why i would like a psychic person to connect with my mum and tell her that we forgive her and love her and hopes she forgives us.

In the meantime hoewver, i'm watching CSI boxsets and drinking gallons of irn-bru while snuggled under my new stripy duveteating a crispy pancake i stole from my dad's plate. (having a father in a wheelchair has it's uses!

mwah

My dad died of a heart attack when I was 14. The day before he died, I stormed out of the house telling him I hated him. When I came back home, he was in the hospital and I refused to go and see him.
He died that night.

My point is, you didn't know this was going to happen to your mum.
Yes, it's a shame you never got to make up, but I'm sure she never stopped loving you. I'm also pretty sure she understands.

Don't regret what you can't change Weemouse. Accept it, remember the good times and remember to treasure every moment you get in this life.

As for the psychic...
I think anyone who can give you some sense of direction and maybe help you feel better about things, is worth a visit.

[peat moss]

You know it might sound silly but it's " you " that has to forgive , yourself I mean . Write a letter to your mom ,it will be tear stained and thats the whole point . Put it in a drawer and move on . When you look in the mirror ever morning just think I'm a good person and thats all that matters .