This gal I met at a uni party and hooked up with that same night (making out and a bit more=) wanted some more than more.
So we met up a week or so later (after I asked her out the weekend after said party on the friday and she eventually turned me down and then she herself asked me the next day and I turned her down, resulting in her asking me for sex via SMS, to which on that saturday night I was forced to postpone as I was tired and almost asleep) and I brought her home and then I lost my condom so I fucked her for a bit without one but then she didn't have the pill so I had to stop and finish things off with my fingers. She came but I didnay as she was sloppy at handling lil' jon. She then slept over.
After this session things receded into the background during easter break, she left to morocco and then I saw her at school the week after the break and we said we'd keep in touch.
I then asked her out on the saturday but she couldnay and then she said on the sunday but then I couldnay.
Then the weekend after that she invited me out on the saturday (that night I was bragging in the Last One To Post Gets Something Else thread about getting some secksual healing later ) and we went out to a bar and all we did was talk/chat, sip some pints, and then at around 1:45 she was tired and wanted to go home. I asked her if I could come with but she said she was staying with a host family (this is true) and that she didn't think it would be OK to have me sleep over. I said I wouldn't have to sleep over but things didn't go down that road. I walked her to the cabstand, she kissed me in the mouth and left.
Tuesday next I SMS'ed her asking what she was up to and she said she was going to a concert so I left it at that. Then on Thursday night (30/04) I was out and asked her if she was too (SMS). Got no reply. I then saw her later on in the night at a square. She was talking to another guy (no stress, we're not dating so I'm not fussed, like. Thing is she was not making out or anything, just talking). My possessive mates were telling me to go up to her and talk, but I just let her do her thing. I did pass by her and the guy though on my way to take a pish and looked at them but only the guy looked back. She seemed pretty finished, like.
Today I saw her in school at the bar and said hi, but left soon after as I was taking a beer to my mate so I didn't really sit with her. She said she had to go to class too, and said she'd "see me later". I SMS'ed her saying I was still at the bar an hour or so later (in case she wanted to come back or something). She didnay.
My question is: considering the condom debacle, and the general portrait I've just painted about my relationship with said girl so far, should I have cause to worry?
My other mate (the "Don Juan") said I shouldn't bother SMS'ing or calling her, but let her ask for it if she wanted it. Leading to her request for my phallus I had kept an interest by texting her every so often to try and meet up in school and we had once to boot (just to talk, like). I don't know if she saw me on that Thursday, but I heard from a mate of hers that she was so pished she chucked up on the cab home and had to walk the rest of the way (thank God I didn't try for anything then).
Is it awkward between us? Or is that something in my mind, like. I heard if you take the reins it's only awkward if you let it be. Don't know if she's still up for it though. She's staying here until end of June or something so until then I'd like to still sex her up a few times, at least.
Is she worried I want a relationship? I don't mind either way, I'm happy with just going steady and playing around..
Sorry to bother people with this Soap Opera shite but it has been gnawing at me over the past days and that, and try as I may to ignore things I just don't want the ship to sink, like.