I have generally been happy with my 3-4 private torrent sites, in which I have always been pretty much able to find the things I need the most..
RevTT - For tv shows, software, games.. recent movies
Bitme- for all the learning and books I get into.
Pro-audiotorrents= for music prod software
and Demonoid - For sort of a one stop shop for everything else..
It is the everything else category that is severely lacking. I have now received 2 letters in the mail for hitting up public sites, and I am not willing to do so again.. I can provide screen shots of my account info at all but demonoid as it is down.. Generally, above 600gb uploaded at each, except p.a.t... I need something with a decent range of everything. I listen to a lot of books, so that would not hurt as well. My second letter was for an audio book.. I thought they only got upset about tv and movies..
Anyways, if anyone has anything good to offer, I am open to suggestions. I will submit to any sort of tests you may require, as long as I can keep my clothes on... Thanks!!