I saw the post sent today that in KaZaA you can’t connect with your friend, but I did it just few days ago. To remove all doubt – I saw his My Shared Folder and he saw my.
How we did it. Firstly using KaZupernodes I get an IP address of my Supernode. I send it by e-mail to my friend. He used this to connect to exactly the same supernode. Before this I put to My Shared Folder a document named (for example) gogrona.txt. My fried start searching by KaZaA all documents containing “gorgona” word in the title, and because it is rare word it can simply find me. It is possible because we are connected to the same supernode. In the same way I found him just a moment later.