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    Well this friend of me has fallen in love with this girl he met on the internet, hes realy crazy about her.
    Problem is that this guy allready has a girlfriend and they live togheter.

    At this point hes willing to give everything up for that other girl and needs to find a new place to life but thats not so easy to do since hes with his girfriend for a couple of years. He says he never felt so much for anyone before... not even for his girfriend. (this has been going on for a few months now).

    They never met in realy life, only on webcam and they chat everyday for hours.

    I know there isnt a easy anwer , but whats your opinion? :helpsmile:
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    Originally posted by racer II@11 January 2004 - 14:39
    Well this friend of me has fallen in love with this girl he met on the internet, hes realy crazy about her.
    Problem is that this guy allready has a girlfriend and they live togheter.

    At this point hes willing to give everything up for that other girl and needs to find a new place to life but thats not so easy to do since hes with his girfriend for a couple of years. He says he never felt so much for anyone before... not even for his girfriend. (this has been going on for a few months now).

    They never met in realy life, only on webcam and they chat everyday for hours.

    I know there isnt a easy anwer , but whats your opinion? :helpsmile:
    Got any pics, I'm shallow I make my decisions based on looks.

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    That you should tell this friend of yours(You?) to meet this other girl before he decides to do anything. A keyboard talking to another keyboard is not a recipe for a happy relationship.
    The best way to keep a secret:- Tell everyone not to tell anyone.

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    There is no easy option.

    Who does he like the most? Who does he want to be with?

    I could say that relationships built on the internet don't work but then I'd be lying

    I wish him luck


    edit - he did say they have spoken on webcam stuff so they already know what each other looks like but I get your point BB

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    Originally posted by bigboab@11 January 2004 - 16:43
    That you should tell this friend of yours(You?) to meet this other girl before he decides to do anything. A keyboard talking to another keyboard is not a recipe for a happy relationship.
    The girl doesnt want to meet before he breaks up with his g/f
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    Originally posted by racer II+11 January 2004 - 16:45--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (racer II @ 11 January 2004 - 16:45)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-bigboab@11 January 2004 - 16:43
    That you should tell this friend of yours(You?) to meet this other girl before he decides to do anything. A keyboard talking to another keyboard is not a recipe for a happy relationship.
    The girl doesnt want to meet before he breaks up with his g/f [/b][/quote]
    Why not? As long as they only meet then they are doing anythig wrong.

    That last statement has made me suspicious now

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    What if this girl is taking the mickey out of your friend, what then?
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    I think he should meet her before he makes any decisions, she could be a bloke in a wig...those webcams don&#39;t give the best of pictures you know. (Well at least mine doesn&#39;t...)

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    Originally posted by danb@11 January 2004 - 16:44
    There is no easy option.

    Who does he like the most? Who does he want to be with?

    I could say that relationships built on the internet don&#39;t work but then I&#39;d be lying

    I wish him luck


    edit - he did say they have spoken on webcam stuff so they already know what each other looks like but I get your point BB
    His feelings say he wants to be with that girl.
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