i'm not really using MSN messenger as much just now as i used to. Among the list of reasons why i'm not using it is the "uncomfortable silences" problem
over the time i've had msn, i've accumulated quite a large number of contacts (37 at the moment, i think)
i only frequently talk to about 4 or 5 of those on my list, the rest of the people i talk to either infrequently or not at all
when i see the people that i don't talk to sign in, i feel very awkward, i don't know if i should try to speak to them or if they might be speaking to other people or they might be related to the account owners or what...
anyway, i just wanted to know if anyone else has this problem and any mesaures they took to solve/ease the situation...?
tia for any help/advice