:helpsmile: i just dont know what to do. i am a confident attractive female, but the men in my life dont seem to notice. i have pined after this guy for 3 years, and it was till recently that he noticed me. i have no idea what to do. we've been on a few dates, and i've hinted at the fact that i am ready to go to the next (physical) level, but hejust doesnt seem to pick up on this. is it just me? arg! its been a few months since i've been laid, and i am ready, but apparently he's not. what can i do to speed things along? i think i might be in love with him as well, this wholething seems so surreal....if anyone can help, please let me know.....thanks.