Baby Update 3.

**Lilmiss** · 04-05-2004, 03:09 PM

Just a quick visit to let you all know it went ok, and im home safely. Just resting and watching tonnes of video's.

I went into hosp on Thursday at 10am, I had 4 internals where they inserted pills to help with the labour. I had two injections of pethadine and diamorphine (sp?) which numbed me, and I received all the gas I wanted. I was sick in the corridors, and had very sore cramps in my stomach, but at 9.30pm I birthed my lil girl.

Because she was already dead some parts of her were decaying, and her skull hadnt fully formed so her head was like a water sack. It broke my heart looking at her. Anyway, I kept her in my room over night, and in the morning I had her blessed. After the post mortem we have to sort out funeral arrangements for her.

Got home mid day Friday and have been mooching about the house since. I feel so empty and broken hearted, but wanted to thankyou all again for your thoughts and wishes.

Thanks again.

**Peerzy** · 04-05-2004, 03:13 PM

Originally posted by lilmiss@5 April 2004 - 15:09
Just a quick visit to let you all know it went ok, and im home safely. Just resting and watching tonnes of video's.

I went into hosp on Thursday at 10am, I had 4 internals where they inserted pills to help with the labour. I had two injections of pethadine and diamorphine (sp?) which numbed me, and I received all the gas I wanted. I was sick in the corridors, and had very sore cramps in my stomach, but at 9.30pm I birthed my lil girl.

Because she was already dead some parts of her were decaying, and her skull hadnt fully formed so her head was like a water sack. It broke my heart looking at her. Anyway, I kept her in my room over night, and in the morning I had her blessed. After the post mortem we have to sort out funeral arrangements for her.

Got home mid day Friday and have been mooching about the house since. I feel so empty and broken hearted, but wanted to thankyou all again for your thoughts and wishes.

Thanks again.

Again deapest sympathys lil miss,

im sure i speak for everyone on the board when i say were sorry and were a shoulder for you to cry onto

**djweiser** · 04-05-2004, 03:15 PM

Best wishes

**j2k4** · 04-05-2004, 03:29 PM

You have some healing to do, lilmiss.

You can have cyber-hugs anytime you want.

Wish we could all be with you.

Chin up, now.

**thewizeard** · 04-05-2004, 03:35 PM

Dear lilmiss, I would like to do so much to help you, but feel so helpless, as all I can offer are words...so please, accept my condolences and deepest sympathy. I wish you love and strength....

**Marius24** · 04-05-2004, 03:40 PM

I guess it's just one of these things you hear about and hope it never happens to your own. I'm very sorry to hear about it lilmiss and hope the very best for you and your family

**Wizard_Mon1** · 04-05-2004, 03:52 PM

You sound like a brave woman, your feelings are probably are very strong right know, i guess it will get easier with time.

Take as much time as you need and don't be afraid to ask for support.

I wish you happiness in the future.

Wiz

**RGX** · 04-05-2004, 04:23 PM

Once again if there is anything I or any members of the forum can do to help, dont think twice about it. I think I speak for us all (and especially from me) that we are here for you anytime.

Thoughts are with you Lynne.

Andy