Cheating

[Yogi]

Originally posted by Spider_dude+3 May 2004 - 17:21--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Spider_dude @ 3 May 2004 - 17:21)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-SensualBarfing@3 May 2004 - 15:19
Both my girl and me have had our share of "fresh meat" over the past eleven

years together&#33;&#33;

We never cheat, though. Why would we???


YoHole

see i could never do that, be in an open relationship. i am too possessive. [/b][/quote]
I understand.

But i must add we are allways both present&#33;&#33;&#33;

I&#39;d like to call it a "very happy" and free relationship.

But i know i&#39;m very lucky not being jealous or fearfull..........

Posessiveness leads to misery.........., by default.



YoJoy

[brenda]

Originally posted by *goddess*@3 May 2004 - 14:42
I know this is a bit of an oldish thread but I was curious to get some opinions.

:helpsmile: I did cheat on someone, yes I used protection but no I didn&#39;t tell the guy. As far as I was concerned it wasnt&#39; a &#39;serious&#39; relationship I was on the rebound after a 3 and half year relationship.

My longest relationship aside from that was 12 years, during which time I never cheated.... in any definition not even a sneaky snog. B)

I guess my question is...... does that make me a cheater, is it in my nature? I don&#39;t think so myself.

i don&#39;t think that cheating can be defined in simple terms. For example you cannot compare someone who makes a bad decision and decides not to tell their partner because it will hurt them with someone who is having an affair.

Cheating comes in many guises and i agree with jonno&#39;s point that cheating is in the eye of the cheatee

and *goddess* no I dont think that your one indiscretion makes you a habitual cheater

[*goddess*]

Bless you Brenda


I don&#39;t think people should be too quick to judge others.

I gotta go bed and .......dream about cheating now.

[Gemby!]

i dont think i will ever cheat - im too fussy bout who i like

[brotherdoobie]

Originally posted by gemby&#33;@3 May 2004 - 15:07
i dont think i will ever cheat - im too fussy bout who i like

Really?

Peace brotherdoobie

[Gemby!]

no its really ***

[Spider_dude]

it is all about what you have set the relationship rules to be. i have in the past seen 2 girls at the same time, the result was a massive phone bill and a sore head, but we never agreed to keep it between the 2 of us. however in my old age (21) i like to have one woman, i want security in life not to be fucked about and treated like shit. i am a good guy as most people say and i think i deserve to be treated like that.

[brotherdoobie]

Originally posted by gemby&#33;@3 May 2004 - 15:11
no its really ***

There I edited my post feel better?....Not really?
Your one of the last people I would expect to correct spelling mistakes

I mean really

Peace brotherdoobie

[Gemby!]

Originally posted by brotherdoobie+3 May 2004 - 20:20--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (brotherdoobie @ 3 May 2004 - 20:20)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-gemby&#33;@3 May 2004 - 15:11
no its really ***

There I edited my post feel better?....Not really?
Your one of the last people I would expect to correct spelling mistakes

I mean really

Peace brotherdoobie [/b][/quote]
wise words ...

hey theat girl from steps is in the bride 4 u ad &#33;&#33;&#33; the first one...

ok just me then