Well, I agree. We like who we like.
A person looks at another and instantly thinks 'that it is aesthetically pleasing.'
A person looks at a colour and instantly thinks 'that it is aesthetically pleasing.'
Same kinda thing.
I don't know where the choice comes into it tho' - My g/f has a lemon coloured car, I really do not like it. Nothing will make me like it. She also has a bit of a thing for this bloke in Eastenders. Nothing will make me like him, either.
They are different in that the sexual response is a lot more complex but for me having a choice about how I feel has never happened, I either feel something - or I don't. I can't prefer to feel a particular emotion, I just feel it.
It's all down to chemicals.
I expect the next round will come down to real life examples, since I'm here I'll get it out of the way
Homosexuality used to be punishable by death or inprisonment up until fairly recently. With this being the case why did those folk who lived in yesteryear decide to become gay and risk death by poker impaling.
Answer: They couldn't help it, they were just born that way. They did not choose to become gay.
Case closed.
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