RULE No.1 : DO NOT PANIC (ever)
Weather you just chopped off your arm or you just lost your wallet or you took a left instead of a right...etc you know the situation(girls) - Even yes Even if it is indeed a Panic situation - DO NOT PANIC
itll look pretty basic later.
RULE No.2 : NEVER ASK
If you ask it means lack of confidence (uncertainty vs power) & if you ask permission be prepared for endless Debate / Discussion.
U - "Shall we hijack that plane and land on a beach in Hawaii?"
them - "well...um....etc"
its more interesting having the discussion AFTERWARDS