your perspective on this puzzling erm........ situation.
Okay, here's the deal, I was seeing a youngun for a few months, argued like crazy and basically clashed loads tho the shaggin was.......the bomb
I turfed his butt a couple of times, the first time I actually missed him which is why I went back. The second time I definately didn't.
We haven't seen each other for a coupla weeks but he keeps sending me messages saying he's gonna call and then just doesn't. When I send a message questioning this cos I think it's rewd, he has excuses. He was supposed to call last night and again didn't so I told him how rude I think he is and said G'bye and g'luck. Thinking that'd be the end of it.
Next thing he leaves a message again with the daft excuses, I didn't reply. Few hours later I get a text message from him inviting me to the footy. I'm thinking, wtf?? I've told you in person it's over and I've told you in text it's over are you demented or what? I don't reply to that one hoping he'll finally get the hint. He sends yet another invitation, to which I reply you're daft and just let it go. This prompts him to finally ring and I eventually work out from this rushed call that the reason he hasn't called is cos he knows I'll reiterate yet again that it's over.
So basically he's thinking we're still together even as I'm saying we're not.
Trouble is I'm far too soft and hate hurting people so it's hard for me to say definatively that it's over once let alone again and again.
Any suggestions on what I do now to convince him once and for all?