Depression

[4th gen]

I honestly don't know who this post is directly referring to, but I'd urge them to think about those around them before they contemplate ending it.
I don't come from a hard background, I don't want for anything in my life, but at times, like a lot of other people on our wonderful earth, I've seriously considered suicide. Not for long of course, I just have to think about the people around me. My friends and family.

"After every dark night comes a bright day"
Tupac

[Lamsey]

Got an inkling of who this is here, hope he's been sent a link to the thread...

Life is full of troughs and crests. I'd say it'd be much better to end it on a high than to finish on a low... Life can be crap but it can also be great, and the good can always outweigh the bad.

Give life a chance and it might just surprise you

[CrumbCat]

Originally posted by Lamsey@28 February 2004 - 10:23
Life is full of troughs and crests. I'd say it'd be much better to end it on a high than to finish on a low... Life can be crap but it can also be great, and the good can always outweigh the bad.

Give life a chance and it might just surprise you

Pretty good thoughts there.......I couldn't agree more.......those words are good for us all to read and hear.

[Rocktron]

Okay..,

I have been through some shit myself. And still having problems with it as we speak. (or i would have been on the Pub Crawl last saterday)

But.. Nothing can be so bad all though it feels like it now.

A crisis is there for people to look around and really look at what's important.
So, open your eyes and look around. Stop staring at the floor.. there is nothing happening there.

We are here for you man. Everybody inhere can tell story's you won't believe.
Probably even worse than yours.

PM me if you like and let's talk. You will be surprised how many people share the same thing.




Rocktron

[FlyingDutchman]

Originally posted by Lamsey@28 February 2004 - 17:23
....Life is full of troughs and crests....

For years I had a picture on the wall that became dear to me.

The picture shows breaking waves on a beach, and text:

"The Lowest Ebb is The Turn of The Tide"

Over the years I've learned to appreciate the thruth of these words.
As a concequence, it also tells you you can't expect the high tide to last forever.

Go with the flow, and enjoy the time things are working out.
Memories of the good times will help you to endure the bad times.

Regards, Han.

[Petri]

Sorry, you can't make me change my mind...

So, goodbye everyone...

I love you, Crystal... more than you'll ever know.

[thewizeard]

Goodbye Petri...I will see you next time round.


Edit:

I love you, Crystal... more than you'll ever know.

To be honest Petri, I don't think you have the slightest idea of what love is. You want to burden Crystal with this act for the rest of her life, if you really love her, you would not do that.

Sorry man, but my thoughts go out to Crystal.

I wish you strength Crystal.

Edit: I just read Rat_faced post, and realise that I jumped to conclusions...but I will leave this post as it is...

[dgmortal]

edited

[whiterook-2]

Sorry Petri....I shouldn't have said anything, anyway.
I don't even know you and i'm sorry for your pain, I know, I've been there man.
I lost focus of the more important things in life, and figured
It would be alright to quit trying.
I don't know what your going thru, mine was medical issues beyond control.
I'm not sure that the our minds allow us to see past the pain sometime...but you need to try...
Funny how you can come up with enough reasons to quit, when your feeling bad. Petri,
you need to focus on the life your GOD
(whom ever that might be) gave you, and ask for help.
Just ask for help, what have you got to loose?
Try it for one week, every night,
especially when your feeling bummed out...

[internet.news]

Originally posted by Skweeky@26 February 2004 - 23:00
Hun,

you are a wonderful person, I have told you that so many times but it's true. And even with all the troubles you had you were still there for me as much as you could when I was having a hard time.

I know you don't see it right now but life can be so beautiful, yes, for you too. You are so kind and smart and you have so much going for you if you want. But you have to take the first few steps all by yourself. You will always have people who are there for you and who are ready to listen to you.

I know we can't be there for you IRL, but it's something. You are not alone and we care a lot about you, more than you realise.

Paul is right, the people who know you would lose so much if you weren't around anymore.



Please reconsider this, we don't want to lose you

I don't know who you mean, RatFaced, but whoever you mean:

I always respected all of you here and I am always opened even
if it might be difficult.

I just say: "Thoughts are like a treasure, if you share them you can enjoy
them together."

PS. I am not feeling well at the moment, have a little headache.
Took some aspirin. Will go to bed soon.

Nice dreams,

David.


Added: Petri, I don't know having talked to you so far. But as each thought counts
just come on and share it with me. Have some coffee and even if you can't be
online, offline sharing is quite more important

You all are always welcome in Nuremberg here though it would be hard if
all members would come at once...