I must also confess to being somewhat disconnected of late; busier with "stuff" than usual, then Reagan's death (sorry, he was a hero of mine), the D-Day remembrances, the board's difficulties (just when I had gotten back into my "rut", so to speak)-I have spent much time mulling the events of the last several decades, and come to the conclusion that, while we share much, we don't share all.
While this has actually cost me some sleep lately, I have also concluded that it matters not at all-I have significant areas of empathy with everyone here, and none of us is diminished in the least by our ongoing failure to convince the other(s) of the rightness of our positions or the wrongness of others'.
There are wires that will remain crossed, shorted, or missing altogether, but it doesn't matter, because just as repairs and arguments are made or accepted, other things arise to replace them.
I believe this is indicative of the human condition, rather than any special thick-headedness on anyone's part.
Liken it, if you will, to a gender conflict; the only solution ever to be found is the rare (very rare) and special connections formed by the luck or happenstance of a chance pairing or timely point.
I feel incredibly blessed to have had rather more than my share of such luck on this board, and, unless I totally miss my guess, a few others may feel the same way.
I think I prefer this latest brand of interplay; there is a tone of acceptance and acknowledgement that doesn't often show itself, and I think that is a good thing.
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