*Update*

**sArA** · 11-24-2004, 11:13 AM

Gay, Straight, Bi or just curious...there is no shame to the way you are and it does not require a public declaration, just be comfortable and accept yourself as an individual.

There is no obligation to put yourself in a box...sometimes the walls of boxes can be too restrictive.

If you choose to change the box you appear to be in, why should that make you less acceptable to those in the original box? It is other's pettiness and prejudices that create discomfort not the nature of one's self. That is what makes individuals unique.

Without individuality there would be nothing of beauty nor innovation in the world.

Above all,

Be free to be happy.

**Jon L. Obscene** · 11-24-2004, 11:14 AM

Originally Posted by Sara

There is no obligation to put yourself in a box...sometimes the walls of boxes can be too restrictive.

Depends who's box it is

Jonno

**sArA** · 11-24-2004, 11:15 AM

Originally Posted by Jon L. Obscene

Depends who's box it is

Jonno

tsk tsk...and there was me trying to offer words of tolerance and restraint and you bring the tone down with innuendo....you are sooo naughty....go stand in the corner young man whilst I get my stick!