I was wakked with a stick at boarding school
what the result of that act is pure paranoia and resentment to authority
but that it actually helps i dont know
it defnetly wakes you up
Yes
No
There are other methods to make them understand that they sis wrong
I was wakked with a stick at boarding school
what the result of that act is pure paranoia and resentment to authority
but that it actually helps i dont know
it defnetly wakes you up
Isn't
No
and
There are other methods to make them understand that they sis wrong
about the same thing?
I believe a child needs a whack for certain things especially when it involves their safety.
Silly bitch, your weapons cannot harm me. Don't you know who I am? I'm the Juggernaut, Bitchhhh!
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Why?Originally Posted by manker
Silly bitch, your weapons cannot harm me. Don't you know who I am? I'm the Juggernaut, Bitchhhh!
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I'm not comfortable with the word "hit", I also have doubts with the word "punishment".
Oh dear..
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Last edited by Barbarossa; 06-11-2007 at 11:32 AM.
I haven't voted in the poll - there needs to be a better definition of "hit".
I would never, under any circumstances "hit" my child.
I would and have spanked them, generally when they are doing something that jeopardizes their safety, and only after other forms of punishment, such as standing in the corner or taking a time out have failed. It hasn't happened often.
That said, I wouldn't use anything other than my open hand to spank them.
It all depends on the kid's personality - There's no all-effective option.
If a kid is gentle and generally good, then other methods should be done.
If the kid is a little bastard and no amount of therapy can help it, then the kid needs to be hit - But only to an extent.
My dad used to smack my hand when I was naughty and that sorted me out - Raising a fist to a kid is a completely different matter.
Yes, I wish you'd posted before me, then I could just say "I agree"..Originally Posted by NikkiD
I used to get spanked with all sorts of things when I was naughty as a kid, be it a hand, a flip flop or a garden cane.
In fact I remember once the garden cane actually broke on my arse.
I don't think it has done me any harm but I would never use an 'accessory' if the point came where I did smack any children i might have
Well....you have hit them, plain and simple.Originally Posted by NikkiD
I do not necessarily hit a child for punshment. It's more to get my point across and very rarely has to be done.
I've tapped my girlfriends child on the bottom and it's more for effect than anything. Punishment er nahhhhh.
When it's something involving her safety, I'll smack her hand and make sure stings. Again this is for effect. Maybe if she remembers the sting she won't bolt out into the street in which case I won't be able to give her time-out for she won't be available.
Silly bitch, your weapons cannot harm me. Don't you know who I am? I'm the Juggernaut, Bitchhhh!
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