life - before and after marriage

**J-dye** · 03-25-2008, 07:28 AM

i wonder what biggles has to say ?

**J-dye** · 03-25-2008, 07:33 AM

**Alien5** · 03-25-2008, 07:34 AM

don't do it man, step away from the wedding ring!!!

**Squeamous** · 03-25-2008, 07:39 AM

I'm sure in Biggles World marriage doesn't exist....people just link arms around you and do a little dance while you wear flowers in your hair. Or something

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**brotherdoobie** · 03-25-2008, 08:14 AM

Originally Posted by Squeamous

Marital head can be ok. What did I hear the other day.....something about....let me see if I can remember...wait....oh yes 'that was the best I've ever had'

. Always learning my friend.

I guess really whether marriage changes your life depends on what your life is like before. It will change is massively if you've never lived together beforehand. If however it's just a bit of a formality in an already committed relationship you won't notice much different in the short term.

I do think people fall into the trap of building it up and then when it happens think 'shit, is this it?'. You have to think about life after marriage, not fixate on the event. It's about spending the rest of your life with someone not having a big party.

Life staying the same after marriage probably isn't that natural anyway....not in the long run. You might change, they might change, you probably both will. All you can hope is that you change together in the same way and if you don't, find ways to accommodate each other. Or alternatively, have kids and stop talking....that should distract you long enough to have a long, disinterested marriage.

Wait....this was meant to sound positive...

Exactly, my point (OK). I used to grow excited about the wantonness of her manner
(now she's so feckin genteel, and deliberate; head should not be premeditated).

Fact.

-bd

**Squeamous** · 03-25-2008, 08:34 AM

I'll tell you what worked for me.....porn. Not only do you get some tips but it kind of fires the libido. Try buying her some. Oh, and try to move and make a noise while she's doing it so it doesn't feel like she's sucking a corpse.

EHS.

**brotherdoobie** · 03-25-2008, 08:47 AM

Originally Posted by Squeamous

I'll tell you what worked for me.....porn. Not only do you get some tips but it kind of fires the libido. Try buying her some. Oh, and try to move and make a noise while she's doing it so it doesn't feel like she's sucking a corpse.

EHS.

I scream like a naughty schoolgirl, dear.

-bd