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muchspl3
10-07-2005, 02:30 AM
http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?action=usersrecentposts&user=Shadow


"For those wondering I'm 5'5" and around 74-78lbs right now...but my target in IP is gonna be 105---so I most likely will NEVER post pictures again since I'll be a fatass...*cries*"


that whole forum is a train wreck I just cant stop looking through the threads and lmao

those bitches need a hamburger

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 02:33 AM
poor girl. wtf is wrong with people

abu_has_the_power
10-07-2005, 02:40 AM
she's not gonna live past her 30's. sigh

why would u starve yourself, die, then regret in heaven that u starved yourself and missed out on so much great food?

and imagine sleeping with an anorexic girl. you'd get aches and sores in the morning

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 02:54 AM
WHOLE cheese bakery coffee cake
McDonald's Pancakes(2)
McDonald's hashbrowns(3)
cream cheese muffin
biscuit
syrup for pancakes
cinnamon roll
cocoa puffs

*purged* it all ..... fun fun (NOT)...hardly can swallow now http://207.44.144.11/boardimages//sad.gif
:lol:

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 02:56 AM
purged meaning threw up because you're fucking retarded?

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 02:57 AM
OMG, who posted tubgirl?

abu_has_the_power
10-07-2005, 03:00 AM
WHOLE cheese bakery coffee cake
McDonald's Pancakes(2)
McDonald's hashbrowns(3)
cream cheese muffin
biscuit
syrup for pancakes
cinnamon roll
cocoa puffs

*purged* it all ..... fun fun (NOT)...hardly can swallow now http://207.44.144.11/boardimages//sad.gif
:lol:

:pizza: :sick: :wacko: :wacko: :pinch: :frusty:

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 03:07 AM
i'm tempted to sign up to tell those sticks off :unsure:

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 03:10 AM
purged meaning threw up because you're fucking retarded?
lol
yes as in "binge & purge"

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 03:11 AM
:lol:

:pizza: :sick: :wacko: :wacko: :pinch: :frusty:

you forgot rinse and repeat

they do that shit a few times aday, some also use laxatives its a fucked up circle

ziggyjuarez
10-07-2005, 03:14 AM
Ribs look like boobs X/

Samurai
10-07-2005, 03:20 AM
they're fucking applauding this shit...


you look amazing---killer collarbones too!!

yes killer indeed. they probably weigh enough to suffocate you in your sleep.

4play
10-07-2005, 03:21 AM
im trying to work out if http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/skinny057.jpg she is alive or not.

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 03:21 AM
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Picture173.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Picture175.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Sam2.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Sam1.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/blue.jpg
Thats all for now. Im wayyyyy too fat to be posting any more. when i lose more weight, il post more pics. damn i wish i was thin http://207.44.144.11/boardimages//undecided.gif


http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?board=pics&action=display&num=1126179323


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muchspl3
10-07-2005, 03:24 AM
http://pic14.picturetrail.com/VOL557/2303247/5808910/76010565.jpg
http://pic14.picturetrail.com/VOL557/2303247/5808910/76096349.jpg


:lol:

Samurai
10-07-2005, 03:30 AM
those were the ones i was looking at when i made my comment above.

god damn crazy. the claim to be a "support" site but they're all trying to lose weight further. some of these girls look like skeletor from he-man

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 03:35 AM
those were the ones i was looking at when i made my comment above.

god damn crazy. the claim to be a "support" site but they're all trying to lose weight further. some of these girls look like skeletor from he-man
:lol:

someone should sign up and call them fat, help Darwin along, at least he is thinning the herds.

no pun intended

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 03:36 AM
i think you can post without signing up

Virtualbody1234
10-07-2005, 03:46 AM
@muchspl3, I fail to see what you find so funny.

It's far from funny.

Busyman
10-07-2005, 03:47 AM
I'm just curious. Are there any black women on that site?

Again just curious.

They die not because of a momentary lapse in judgement, but a constant vanity.

Stupid bitches....unfortunately.

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 03:49 AM
i don't know, seems pretty funny to me, maybe I'm just as messed up as they are
who knows

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 03:51 AM
I'm just curious. Are there any black women on that site?

Again just curious.
I'd be willing to bet there is no badonkadonk on that site, just a guess
I could be wrong

Busyman
10-07-2005, 03:55 AM
@muchspl3, I fail to see what you find so funny.

It's far from funny.
How so?

The pics may not be but the posts definitely are.

To see someone looking like that saying they're fat is hilarious (and folks saying some boney woman looks great is too).

It'd be the same as a fat guy (Louie Anderson) saying let me move this microphone stand so you can see me.

It is funny like watching idiots....sorta like Jackass Disorders.

I'd tell them they look like shit and that it'd be better to fuck a cemetary resident.

Busyman
10-07-2005, 03:56 AM
I'm just curious. Are there any black women on that site?

Again just curious.
I'd be willing to bet there is no badonkadonk on that site, just a guess
I could be wrong
Well no. I'm wondering if there's the opposite but in black.

Virtualbody1234
10-07-2005, 03:56 AM
It's a genuine psychological problem. Nothing to laugh at.

Samurai
10-07-2005, 03:57 AM
Some girl showed her "cleavage" until i realised it was her ass and people were saying "oh you look gorgeous!!!"

i find that funny :D

Busyman
10-07-2005, 04:01 AM
It's a genuine psychological problem. Nothing to laugh at.
Yup. It's called vanity....distorted vanity.

I understand the "purgers" a little bit more. They get the taste of food without gaining the weight....there's at least some small ounce of logic there.

Anorexics are just fucking stupid.

Busyman
10-07-2005, 04:09 AM
OMG!!!

Take a look at the encouragement from the google spider!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 04:10 AM
welll... i did my best :unsure:

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 04:16 AM
welll... i did my best :unsure:
link :lol:

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 04:17 AM
no seriously. i said nobody likes skinny girls and gave them a link to bang bros

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 04:24 AM
awwww you called me a friend :wub:

GepperRankins
10-07-2005, 04:26 AM
i called you i friend :snooty: :ermm:

muchspl3
10-07-2005, 04:33 AM
http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?board=comments&action=display&num=1128657797

i friends forever :inlove:

ziggyjuarez
10-07-2005, 04:36 AM
link?"

Wolfmight
10-07-2005, 04:45 AM
STEAKFAT STEAKFAT, WHERE THE DAMN FRY DADDY!?!?
I'm serious, she's literally dieing. Her body has fed off all the muscle!!! I bet she can't even lift 50 Ibs without pulling a mus....err...bone?

Skinny? NO!
Boney? NO!
Corpse and Remains? Soon...

bastard posted this...wtf: http://img395.imageshack.us/img395/2839/jiggle0tu.gif

She doesn't need to gain 400Ibs...just 100.

Wolfmight
10-07-2005, 04:48 AM
http://img395.imageshack.us/img395/9493/778049546js.jpg
Looks worse than grandma's back.

btw, I just noticed all of them are mainly "for" anerexia. WTF, are they IDIOTS!? Humans look good with toned lean muscle and some fat, not skin-n-bones.
They should know that they'd look better working out and eating protien, veggies, fruit, bread...the works.

Shit, they need to pig out on ice cream before they die.

Wolfmight
10-07-2005, 05:00 AM
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Picture173.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Picture175.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Sam2.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/Sam1.jpg
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y132/gymnast87/blue.jpg
Thats all for now. Im wayyyyy too fat to be posting any more. when i lose more weight, il post more pics. damn i wish i was thin http://207.44.144.11/boardimages//undecided.gif


http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?board=pics&action=display&num=1126179323


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SHIT, IT"S THE HOLOCAUST ALL OVER!!!
They need smoke some Pot or take some pills that give them munchies...Hell, I'd personally take em to a restaurant and pay the chefs something around double to make the FATTEST FOOD they possibly can. They are probably permanently damaging their bone structure and stuff...ouchie.

Wolfmight
10-07-2005, 05:08 AM
http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?board=pics&action=display&num=1128647019
This fool lost muscle mass due to a "need to lose weight".
IDIOT! Doesn't he know "MUSCLE" weighs more than fat? Muscle weighs nearly twice as much.

Samurai
10-07-2005, 05:12 AM
Stop spamming FFS.

Try breathing.

Wolfmight
10-07-2005, 05:35 AM
Stop spamming FFS.

Try breathing.
Heh, I just dislike it when people are so stupid they forget the whole point in living. People are meant to survive...not slowly waste away. Boney ass weaklings are mere pawns due to the lack of strength. They can't even defend themselves against natural causes. It's hard to differentiate between a "mental problem" and the "natural instincts". I'd think everyone would eat to live.

manker
10-07-2005, 09:51 AM
I went out with a bulimic girl when I was 19 for about 6 months, I didn't know she was that way inclined for a while. Just thought she was a bit skinny, it was hard for me to deal with - the relationship didn't last but she got help and by the third year of our uni course, she had got thro' the worst.

It's kinda sad. It takes over their whole lives - she was really intelligent but couldn't see past her fucked up notion of how others perceived the way she looked.

Definitely not something to laugh at, anyway.

Rip The Jacker
10-07-2005, 09:54 AM
Well... this is an interesting thread...

ahctlucabbuS
10-07-2005, 09:58 AM
http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?action=usersrecentposts&user=Shadow


"For those wondering I'm 5'5" and around 74-78lbs right now...but my target in IP is gonna be 105---so I most likely will NEVER post pictures again since I'll be a fatass...*cries*"


that whole forum is a train wreck I just cant stop looking through the threads and lmao

those bitches need a hamburger

WTF is wrong with you?

I'd be inclined to call you a psycho, bitch. :dry:

Barbarossa
10-07-2005, 10:22 AM
http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?board=general&action=display&num=1128416512

It's so very sad. They are all so fucked up. :(


GepperRankins, what you posted in their forums was exquisite! :wub: ..nice pron link! ;)

Busyman
10-07-2005, 10:44 AM
I went out with a bulimic girl when I was 19 for about 6 months, I didn't know she was that way inclined for a while. Just thought she was a bit skinny, it was hard for me to deal with - the relationship didn't last but she got help and by the third year of our uni course, she had got thro' the worst.

It's kinda sad. It takes over their whole lives - she was really intelligent but couldn't see past her fucked up notion of how others perceived the way she looked.

Definitely not something to laugh at, anyway.
That's the part that makes me laugh also. They can't see past how others perceive them yet we perceive them as looking fucked up by not eating.

They are fucking stupid.

People ogling over skinny women like Paris Hilton (I can see her pelvic bone ffs) or getting complements off a forum like FM, where they congregate like malnourished roaches, don't help either.

manker
10-07-2005, 10:50 AM
They are fucking stupid.I think the stupidity charge should be levelled at you.

Bulimics and anorexics have a mental disorder. Have you watched A Beautiful Mind.

Mental disability is not the same as being fucking stupid.

Gripper
10-07-2005, 10:52 AM
One of them has replied to you.
Its like looking at pictures of Cambodia,I feel so sorry for them,how sick must you be if you imagine that people look good looking like death.
If you have a weak stomach don't look at the post by mo.that says "wtf i'm bleedin"
I think someones trying to spam them to death

Samurai
10-07-2005, 11:02 AM
If you have a weak stomach don't look at the post by mo.that says "wtf i'm bleedin"

that sounds gruesome :sick:

Barbarossa
10-07-2005, 11:05 AM
Someone called Mo has spammed the tubgirl picture about 30 times... twat.


EDIT:

Forum Statistics.. Total Members: 1124, Newest Member: jonno

??? :O

DarthInsinuate
10-07-2005, 11:42 AM
i blame lilmiss for calling him fat all the time

Busyman
10-07-2005, 12:17 PM
Someone called Mo has spammed the tubgirl picture about 30 times... twat.


EDIT:

Forum Statistics.. Total Members: 1124, Newest Member: jonno

??? :O
Awww hell, now Jonno's gonna go all cliche on the forum with helpful and encouraging words. :dry:

Busyman
10-07-2005, 12:48 PM
They are fucking stupid.I think the stupidity charge should be levelled at you.

Bulimics and anorexics have a mental disorder.
Another name for it is vanity.....to a fault.

Enough people do something stupid and they call it a disorder when it really isn't.

I guess if a number of black folks started wanting to be white and bleached their skin (Michael Jackson) it would be a disorder and congregational stupidity.

I would buy that they have low self-esteem but it ain't a disorder. There are tons of unhealthy things that people do due to lack of confidence. There are women at the club that try to pull any man they can get to have sex 'cause they have low self esteem. They want even just that one night stand as a substitute for love.

That must be a disorder.

Wolfmight
10-07-2005, 02:22 PM
I like a girl with a some tummy. It's a warm and cuddly thing.

These girls have negative stomach sizes...gross.

manker
10-07-2005, 02:57 PM
I think the stupidity charge should be levelled at you.

Bulimics and anorexics have a mental disorder.
Another name for it is vanity.....to a fault.

Enough people do something stupid and they call it a disorder when it really isn't.

I guess if a number of black folks started wanting to be white and bleached their skin (Michael Jackson) it would be a disorder and congregational stupidity.

I would buy that they have low self-esteem but it ain't a disorder. There are tons of unhealthy things that people do due to lack of confidence. There are women at the club that try to pull any man they can get to have sex 'cause they have low self esteem. They want even just that one night stand as a substitute for love.

That must be a disorder.You clearly don't know the first thing about it and I don't have a mind to educate you.

You carry on laughing at bulimics and anorexics, it makes you look super 1337.

Virtualbody1234
10-07-2005, 03:57 PM
I think the stupidity charge should be levelled at you.

Bulimics and anorexics have a mental disorder.
Another name for it is vanity.....to a fault.

Enough people do something stupid and they call it a disorder when it really isn't.

I guess if a number of black folks started wanting to be white and bleached their skin (Michael Jackson) it would be a disorder and congregational stupidity.

I would buy that they have low self-esteem but it ain't a disorder. There are tons of unhealthy things that people do due to lack of confidence. There are women at the club that try to pull any man they can get to have sex 'cause they have low self esteem. They want even just that one night stand as a substitute for love.

That must be a disorder.
Are you really saying that Michael Jackson's white skin behaviour isn't a disorder?

Good defence for you point of view.

muchspl3
10-08-2005, 01:00 AM
Well... this is an interesting thread...
:)

missie
10-08-2005, 01:07 AM
i blame lilmiss for calling him fat all the time

dont listen to her.
i hear she's a total bitch. :snooty:

Yoga
10-08-2005, 01:53 AM
She knows she has a disorder and yet her image of herself has been distorted beyond repair.

muchspl3
10-08-2005, 02:07 AM
yea its ironic

muchspl3
10-08-2005, 02:08 AM
anyone notice that forum seems to encourage that fucked up shit they're doing to them self's

or is it just me?

GepperRankins
10-08-2005, 02:31 AM
yeah. i think i saw a few people called it "pro-ED" as a good thing.


pro eating disorder? what the fuck is that!?

muchspl3
10-08-2005, 02:41 AM
I wasn't sure at first, but its like they are for it
I thought no way, but some of the comments are completely for what they are doing
what the fuck....

Wolfmight
10-08-2005, 02:50 AM
I wasn't sure at first, but its like they are for it
I thought no way, but some of the comments are completely for what they are doing
what the fuck....
mental problems///

muchspl3
10-08-2005, 03:08 AM
I wasn't sure at first, but its like they are for it
I thought no way, but some of the comments are completely for what they are doing
what the fuck....
mental problems///
darwin?

Barbarossa
10-10-2005, 08:50 AM
anyone notice that forum seems to encourage that fucked up shit they're doing to them self's

or is it just me?

The forums claims to be trying to help people get over their disorders, but unfortunately the community seems to be of the opposite opinion.

I think that site needs a little bit more moderation... ;)

Some of the links on their links section do link to genuine pro-ANA sites, now that's scary... :fear:

Busyman
10-10-2005, 10:03 AM
Another name for it is vanity.....to a fault.

Enough people do something stupid and they call it a disorder when it really isn't.

I guess if a number of black folks started wanting to be white and bleached their skin (Michael Jackson) it would be a disorder and congregational stupidity.

I would buy that they have low self-esteem but it ain't a disorder. There are tons of unhealthy things that people do due to lack of confidence. There are women at the club that try to pull any man they can get to have sex 'cause they have low self esteem. They want even just that one night stand as a substitute for love.

That must be a disorder.You clearly don't know the first thing about it and I don't have a mind to educate you.

You carry on laughing at bulimics and anorexics, it makes you look super 1337.
Super 1337 means shit to me.

Good singling out like I'm the only one laughing. :ermm: Besides that, it deserves laughter. They are complementing each other on their boneyness. They are just like everyone else but on a different scale so you call it a disorder.

What the women who are fixated on bodybuilding 'till they look like a walking bicep?

Busyman
10-10-2005, 10:05 AM
Another name for it is vanity.....to a fault.

Enough people do something stupid and they call it a disorder when it really isn't.

I guess if a number of black folks started wanting to be white and bleached their skin (Michael Jackson) it would be a disorder and congregational stupidity.

I would buy that they have low self-esteem but it ain't a disorder. There are tons of unhealthy things that people do due to lack of confidence. There are women at the club that try to pull any man they can get to have sex 'cause they have low self esteem. They want even just that one night stand as a substitute for love.

That must be a disorder.
Are you really saying that Michael Jackson's white skin behaviour isn't a disorder?

Good defence for you point of view.
.....and what's the exact disorder? Lightskininemia? What about the folks that constantly get plastic surgery on their face?

I bet doctor's have a name for all this shit.

manker
10-10-2005, 10:16 AM
You clearly don't know the first thing about it and I don't have a mind to educate you.

You carry on laughing at bulimics and anorexics, it makes you look super 1337.
Super 1337 means shit to me.

Good singling out like I'm the only one laughing. :ermm: Besides that, it deserves laughter. They are complementing each other on their boneyness. They are just like everyone else but on a different scale so you call it a disorder.

What the women who are fixated on bodybuilding 'till they look like a walking bicep?I made a general statement (http://www.filesharingtalk.com/vb3/showpost.php?p=1142964&postcount=42) saying that eating disorders aren't something to laugh about because a few people found it funny.

You replied to that so I directed my subsequent response at you because the other people who laughed didn't answer. I'm not bullying you, just replying to the only person who addresed me.

That's quite a siege mentality you're nurturing there.

As to your continued mirth, perhaps you could find a forum that discusses OCD - the number of times in a day that those freaks freaks wash their hands is really funny :huh:

Busyman
10-10-2005, 01:19 PM
Super 1337 means shit to me.

Good singling out like I'm the only one laughing. :ermm: Besides that, it deserves laughter. They are complementing each other on their boneyness. They are just like everyone else but on a different scale so you call it a disorder.

What the women who are fixated on bodybuilding 'till they look like a walking bicep?I made a general statement (http://www.filesharingtalk.com/vb3/showpost.php?p=1142964&postcount=42) saying that eating disorders aren't something to laugh about because a few people found it funny.

You replied to that so I directed my subsequent response at you because the other people who laughed didn't answer. I'm not bullying you, just replying to the only person who addresed me.

That's quite a siege mentality you're nurturing there.

As to your continued mirth, perhaps you could find a forum that discusses OCD - the number of times in a day that those freaks freaks wash their hands is really funny :huh:
Anorexia is based low self-esteem, vanity, and extreme sensitivity to what others think. It has a severe cultural relation.

There is also anorexia athletism or some shit where the woman has a thing about working out all the time.

There is a disorder name for almost anything that doesn't fit a small cubby hole of normalcy.

There's probably one for extreme procrastination for all I know.

I've seen the cultural thing of many (especially white) women saying, "My butts too big," and it looks like a little girls butt. Couple some of that with low self-esteem and there ya go and some take "getting in shape" too far.

Maybe if some of this behavior weren't coddled with a name and actually shunned, woman wouldn't think it's the way to go so much.

Some girls learn bulimia from other girls ffs. Some disorder...it's contagious too.

There have been times I ate a whole pack of EL Fudge cookies although it wasn't good for me. I am a massive overeater and eat disorderly sometimes. :lol: :lol:
Yet I'm 15 pounds overweight. :(

manker
10-10-2005, 01:49 PM
I made a general statement (http://www.filesharingtalk.com/vb3/showpost.php?p=1142964&postcount=42) saying that eating disorders aren't something to laugh about because a few people found it funny.

You replied to that so I directed my subsequent response at you because the other people who laughed didn't answer. I'm not bullying you, just replying to the only person who addresed me.

That's quite a siege mentality you're nurturing there.

As to your continued mirth, perhaps you could find a forum that discusses OCD - the number of times in a day that those freaks freaks wash their hands is really funny :huh:
Anorexia is based low self-esteem, vanity, and extreme sensitivity to what others think. It has a severe cultural relation.

There is also anorexia athletism or some shit where the woman has a thing about working out all the time.

There is a disorder name for almost anything that doesn't fit a small cubby hole of normalcy.

There's probably one for extreme procrastination for all I know.

I've seen the cultural thing of many (especially white) women saying, "My butts too big," and it looks like a little girls butt. Couple some of that with low self-esteem and there ya go and some take "getting in shape" too far.

Maybe if some of this behavior weren't coddled with a name and actually shunned, woman wouldn't think it's the way to go so much.

Some girls learn bulimia from other girls ffs. Some disorder...it's contagious too.

There have been times I ate a whole pack of EL Fudge cookies although it wasn't good for me. I am a massive overeater and eat disorderly sometimes. :lol: :lol:
Yet I'm 15 pounds overweight. :(Yeah, dude. A lot of mental disorders are brought on, in part, by the sufferer. If a person who has a nervous breakdown, for example, quit his stressful job at the onset of the problem, he might have been okay. If the OCD sufferer had recognised the problem and seen a professional at an earlier stage, she might be fine.

If the woman (or man) had decided that image wasn't such a big deal then maybe they wouldn't be sick now. It goes way beyond that once a certain point is reached and the image thing is often not the main factor when they purge.

You only see the small picture. With many bulimics, the problem isn't related to how they want to look - it's because they feel disgusted with themselves, for any reason, and the sickness itself has more to do with a desire to self-harm. It is a symptom of some other, deeply rooted, psychological problem.



Whatever, the point is that the sufferers are in pain and are sick individuals. It ain't funny and it's not big or clever to ridicule them.

Busyman
10-10-2005, 02:04 PM
Anorexia is based low self-esteem, vanity, and extreme sensitivity to what others think. It has a severe cultural relation.

There is also anorexia athletism or some shit where the woman has a thing about working out all the time.

There is a disorder name for almost anything that doesn't fit a small cubby hole of normalcy.

There's probably one for extreme procrastination for all I know.

I've seen the cultural thing of many (especially white) women saying, "My butts too big," and it looks like a little girls butt. Couple some of that with low self-esteem and there ya go and some take "getting in shape" too far.

Maybe if some of this behavior weren't coddled with a name and actually shunned, woman wouldn't think it's the way to go so much.

Some girls learn bulimia from other girls ffs. Some disorder...it's contagious too.

There have been times I ate a whole pack of EL Fudge cookies although it wasn't good for me. I am a massive overeater and eat disorderly sometimes. :lol: :lol:
Yet I'm 15 pounds overweight. :(Yeah, dude. A lot of mental disorders are brought on, in part, by the sufferer. If a person who has a nervous breakdown, for example, quit his stressful job at the onset of the problem, he might have been okay. If the OCD sufferer had recognised the problem and seen a professional at an earlier stage, she might be fine.

If the woman (or man) had decided that image wasn't such a big deal then maybe they wouldn't be sick now. It goes way beyond that once a certain point is reached and the image thing is often not the main factor when they purge.

You only see the small picture. With many bulimics, the problem isn't related to how they want to look - it's because they feel disgusted with themselves, for any reason, and the sickness itself has more to do with a desire to self-harm. It is a symptom of some other, deeply rooted, psychological problem.



Whatever, the point is that the sufferers are in pain and are sick individuals. It ain't funny and it's not big or clever to ridicule them.
Uh huh and with many bulimics they want to be able to taste the food and enjoy it without the weight gain. If that same food had 0 calories they probably eat the hell out of it.

Take a look at the TV show Starved. It's a hoot and a holler.

Btw, what brings on anorexia? I call some woman a fat ass and she takes it heart getting all sensitive and shit so she's decides that being thin is more important than being called a name. I guess I caused her not to eat.

Perhaps if they lived around my area (or one similar) they wouldn't have this "my ass is too fat" problem. It would be "my ass is not fat enough."

I guess that would be a disorder too. All these fat ass walking around...and all the fellas like it....what to do, what to do.

Every culture has a thing about what looks good. Look at the runway models. They are boney as hell. Pelvic bone is sticking out. Yet many think that's sexy. They are a step away from anorexia.

All budding anorexics should be forced to live in southern Prince George's County, MD or Southeast Washington D.C. They will turn(ed) out just fine. :D

manker
10-10-2005, 02:31 PM
Anorexia is totally different, I don't know much about it.

Tho' I am pretty sure that isn't funny either.

Samurai
10-10-2005, 02:38 PM
:beer: :pizza:

brotherdoobie
10-10-2005, 03:14 PM
Yeah, dude. A lot of mental disorders are brought on, in part, by the sufferer. If a person who has a nervous breakdown, for example, quit his stressful job at the onset of the problem, he might have been okay. If the OCD sufferer had recognised the problem and seen a professional at an earlier stage, she might be fine.

If the woman (or man) had decided that image wasn't such a big deal then maybe they wouldn't be sick now. It goes way beyond that once a certain point is reached and the image thing is often not the main factor when they purge.

You only see the small picture. With many bulimics, the problem isn't related to how they want to look - it's because they feel disgusted with themselves, for any reason, and the sickness itself has more to do with a desire to self-harm. It is a symptom of some other, deeply rooted, psychological problem.



Whatever, the point is that the sufferers are in pain and are sick individuals. It ain't funny and it's not big or clever to ridicule them.
Uh huh and with many bulimics they want to be able to taste the food and enjoy it without the weight gain. If that same food had 0 calories they probably eat the hell out of it.

Take a look at the TV show Starved. It's a hoot and a holler.

Btw, what brings on anorexia? I call some woman a fat ass and she takes it heart getting all sensitive and shit so she's decides that being thin is more important than being called a name. I guess I caused her not to eat.

Perhaps if they lived around my area (or one similar) they wouldn't have this "my ass is too fat" problem. It would be "my ass is not fat enough."

I guess that would be a disorder too. All these fat ass walking around...and all the fellas like it....what to do, what to do.

Every culture has a thing about what looks good. Look at the runway models. They are boney as hell. Pelvic bone is sticking out. Yet many think that's sexy. They are a step away from anorexia.

All budding anorexics should be forced to live in southern Prince George's County, MD or Southeast Washington D.C. They will turn(ed) out just fine. :D

Busy, you are perpetuating a cultural expectation amongst black women,by
continually glamorizing the "thickness" of their asses.

Between 50-66% of black women are considered "overweight" and not just
in a "cultural" sense. It's due to numerous causes, diet and socioeconomic factors being large contributors.

Is this not an unhealthy mentality? (I'm not posing the question as a rhetorical one)

My grandmother, on my biological fathers side of the family died from hypertension.


Peace brotherdoobie

megan343
10-10-2005, 03:22 PM
you guys, Anorexia is no laughing matter.

Also you're assuming that it only affects females, in fact many men suffer from eating disorders...

The thing about the support sites is that as much as everyone wants to recover, everyone has a distorted image of what's beautiful, so yeah they think someone underweight is beautiful, but at the same time they dont want to think that.

They think that by telling the girls that the are beautiful and by reassuring them, it will stop them from losing more weight.

Andi, the girl who's pictures you've been posting has been in recovery multiple times, but eating disorders are a hard thing to get over. She is currently in recovery now. TRYING desperately to get over a disease which has taken over her life.

As a recovered anorexic I know how hard it is to get over, even now I still have a skewed perception of myself. I would never consider myself as beautiful, although people say that.

Most people who suffer from eating disorders are survivors of abuse. They find it's a way of coping for them. It's a mental disorder WHICH CANNOT BE HELPED.

It is also a disorder that isn't very understood, most hospitals will feed a patient to normal weight and then send them on their way but never treat the underlying problems. Recovery takes YEARS of phsychiatric help, alongside medication. It is a 24hour task for most people.

People do not "choose" to be anorexic or bulimic, despite what some of you morons think.

Laugh at them all you like, just make sure you're informed about what you're laughing at.

IT IS NOT A VANITY THING. It comes from low self esteem and is a control issue.

Seriously, some of you are far more fucked up than any of those girls on the site. It's like laughing at someone with cancer. It's sick


And for those who went to the site...there are very FEW girls there as underweight as Andi, most are at a normal weight range.

megan343
10-10-2005, 03:24 PM
oh and yes there are black people who suffer from eating disorders. Although it is a predominantly white disease. Although there are fuck loads of black people who suffer from other disoders such as COE.

sp88
10-10-2005, 04:56 PM
you guys are such fucked up losers. exept for those few who are actually using their brains while they reply to this dumbass thread. its fucking stupid for you to go after these girls..no matter how their eating disorder may have been instigateted.

its morons like you who'd tell a girl she deserved to be raped if she ever did. almost 90% poeple who are suffering from an eating disorder (regardless of their sex) develop it because of a trauma that they may have suffered previously. they dont dont do it to look better you ass holes but quite the opposite. most rape and molestation victims do it so that people will stay away from them. and those who blame themselves find that depriving themselves from food is form of punishment!

so get a fucking life and leave them along. i saw what some of you wrote and god you think these girls deserve to die??? take a fucking good look at yourselves. and whoever posted those gross pics with the girl in the tub.....honestly i wouldnt feel on once of symphathy if you dropped dead right now or even if that happened to you. actually i would pay good money to see that happen to you.

Busyman
10-10-2005, 04:58 PM
Uh huh and with many bulimics they want to be able to taste the food and enjoy it without the weight gain. If that same food had 0 calories they probably eat the hell out of it.

Take a look at the TV show Starved. It's a hoot and a holler.

Btw, what brings on anorexia? I call some woman a fat ass and she takes it heart getting all sensitive and shit so she's decides that being thin is more important than being called a name. I guess I caused her not to eat.

Perhaps if they lived around my area (or one similar) they wouldn't have this "my ass is too fat" problem. It would be "my ass is not fat enough."

I guess that would be a disorder too. All these fat ass walking around...and all the fellas like it....what to do, what to do.

Every culture has a thing about what looks good. Look at the runway models. They are boney as hell. Pelvic bone is sticking out. Yet many think that's sexy. They are a step away from anorexia.

All budding anorexics should be forced to live in southern Prince George's County, MD or Southeast Washington D.C. They will turn(ed) out just fine. :D

Busy, you are perpetuating a cultural expectation amongst black women,by
continually glamorizing the "thickness" of their asses.

Between 50-66% of black women are considered "overweight" and not just
in a "cultural" sense. It's due to numerous causes, diet and socioeconomic factors being large contributors.

Is this not an unhealthy mentality? (I'm not posing the question as a rhetorical one)

My grandmother, on my biological fathers side of the family died from hypertension.


Peace brotherdoobie
Good point doobie.

However, I should have said phat ass and not fat ass. A phat ass is one that is in shape but thick.

Look at some black porn and it will probably be evident...but for that matter so is white porn.

Another thing too is that I know of no black woman who ate a ton to get that phat ass. One can't direct where the "phat" goes (unless it's surgery).

Either way, what I said in no way perpetuates black women to eat more. :sick: Do I glamorize it? Damn skippy. I do the same when a white woman has a phat ass (even though it's not as often).

manker
10-10-2005, 05:05 PM
you guys are such fucked up losers. exept for those few who are actually using their brains while they reply to this dumbass thread. its fucking stupid for you to go after these girls..no matter how their eating disorder may have been instigateted.

its morons like you who'd tell a girl she deserved to be raped if she ever did. almost 90% poeple who are suffering from an eating disorder (regardless of their sex) develop it because of a trauma that they may have suffered previously. they dont dont do it to look better you ass holes but quite the opposite. most rape and molestation victims do it so that people will stay away from them. and those who blame themselves find that depriving themselves from food is form of punishment!

so get a fucking life and leave them along. i saw what some of you wrote and god you think these girls deserve to die??? take a fucking good look at yourselves. and whoever posted those gross pics with the girl in the tub.....honestly i wouldnt feel on once of symphathy if you dropped dead right now or even if that happened to you. actually i would pay good money to see that happen to you.Hmm, I don't think you're going to be as much fun as Megan http://img309.imageshack.us/img309/816/dabs5sy.gif

I agree with the essence of what you say, I was trying to put across the same points - even tho' I was aware of it, I didn't really go into as much detail wrt girls' personal problems.

However, you don't actually know that the members from here posted those pics or made those comments.

I doubt anyone from here would be that callous.

brotherdoobie
10-10-2005, 05:07 PM
Busy, you are perpetuating a cultural expectation amongst black women,by
continually glamorizing the "thickness" of their asses.

Between 50-66% of black women are considered "overweight" and not just
in a "cultural" sense. It's due to numerous causes, diet and socioeconomic factors being large contributors.

Is this not an unhealthy mentality? (I'm not posing the question as a rhetorical one)

My grandmother, on my biological fathers side of the family died from hypertension.




Peace brotherdoobie
Good point doobie.

However, I should have said phat ass and not fat ass. A phat ass is one that is in shape but thick.

Look at some black porn and it will probably be evident...but for that matter so is white porn.

Another thing too is that I know of no black woman who ate a ton to get that phat ass. One can't direct where the "phat" goes (unless it's surgery).

Either way, what I said in no way perpetuates black women to eat more. :sick: Do I glamorize it? Damn skippy. I do the same when a white woman has a phat ass (even though it's not as often).

Agreed, a phat ass is not a fat ass!

Peace bd :01:

Busyman
10-10-2005, 05:08 PM
oh and yes there are black people who suffer from eating disorders. Although it is a predominantly white disease. Although there are fuck loads of black people who suffer from other disoders such as COE.
....and? I know there are black folks with with anorexia as well as COE.

sp88
10-10-2005, 05:11 PM
manker: i think they did. because some people seem to be dropping pretty heavy hints of some of the threads there. and besides no one else but people from this forum has been attacking that site during that period of time. based on what some of the idiots here have posted i wouldnt be shocked if they did.

obviously no ones going to admit it so ill leave it to karma to bite their ass and a pretty shitty ass it wil be.......

Busyman
10-10-2005, 05:12 PM
you guys, Anorexia is no laughing matter.

Also you're assuming that it only affects females, in fact many men suffer from eating disorders...

The thing about the support sites is that as much as everyone wants to recover, everyone has a distorted image of what's beautiful, so yeah they think someone underweight is beautiful, but at the same time they dont want to think that.

They think that by telling the girls that the are beautiful and by reassuring them, it will stop them from losing more weight.

Andi, the girl who's pictures you've been posting has been in recovery multiple times, but eating disorders are a hard thing to get over. She is currently in recovery now. TRYING desperately to get over a disease which has taken over her life.

As a recovered anorexic I know how hard it is to get over, even now I still have a skewed perception of myself. I would never consider myself as beautiful, although people say that.

Most people who suffer from eating disorders are survivors of abuse. They find it's a way of coping for them. It's a mental disorder WHICH CANNOT BE HELPED.

It is also a disorder that isn't very understood, most hospitals will feed a patient to normal weight and then send them on their way but never treat the underlying problems. Recovery takes YEARS of phsychiatric help, alongside medication. It is a 24hour task for most people.

People do not "choose" to be anorexic or bulimic, despite what some of you morons think.

Laugh at them all you like, just make sure you're informed about what you're laughing at.

IT IS NOT A VANITY THING. It comes from low self esteem and is a control issue.

Seriously, some of you are far more fucked up than any of those girls on the site. It's like laughing at someone with cancer. It's sick


And for those who went to the site...there are very FEW girls there as underweight as Andi, most are at a normal weight range.
Tbh, a person stops as a result of molestation or physical abuse, to me doesn't fall in the category.

There are a number of things people do to like stop talking, over eat, not eat, turn violent, blahblahblah.

I laugh 'cause these folks we see glorify it.
I laugh when you were simply taunted about your weight, you yakking all your food and simply stop eating. Gotta go.

manker
10-10-2005, 05:14 PM
manker: i think they did. because some people seem to be dropping pretty heavy hints of some of the threads there. and besides no one else but people from this forum has been attacking that site during that period of time. based on what some of the idiots here have posted i wouldnt be shocked if they did.

obviously no ones going to admit it so ill leave it to karma to bite their ass and a pretty shitty ass it wil be.......Well, I won't judge them without knowing for definite. You're right about the karma thing tho' ;)

manker
10-10-2005, 05:21 PM
you guys, Anorexia is no laughing matter.

Also you're assuming that it only affects females, in fact many men suffer from eating disorders...

The thing about the support sites is that as much as everyone wants to recover, everyone has a distorted image of what's beautiful, so yeah they think someone underweight is beautiful, but at the same time they dont want to think that.

They think that by telling the girls that the are beautiful and by reassuring them, it will stop them from losing more weight.

Andi, the girl who's pictures you've been posting has been in recovery multiple times, but eating disorders are a hard thing to get over. She is currently in recovery now. TRYING desperately to get over a disease which has taken over her life.

As a recovered anorexic I know how hard it is to get over, even now I still have a skewed perception of myself. I would never consider myself as beautiful, although people say that.

Most people who suffer from eating disorders are survivors of abuse. They find it's a way of coping for them. It's a mental disorder WHICH CANNOT BE HELPED.

It is also a disorder that isn't very understood, most hospitals will feed a patient to normal weight and then send them on their way but never treat the underlying problems. Recovery takes YEARS of phsychiatric help, alongside medication. It is a 24hour task for most people.

People do not "choose" to be anorexic or bulimic, despite what some of you morons think.

Laugh at them all you like, just make sure you're informed about what you're laughing at.

IT IS NOT A VANITY THING. It comes from low self esteem and is a control issue.

Seriously, some of you are far more fucked up than any of those girls on the site. It's like laughing at someone with cancer. It's sick


And for those who went to the site...there are very FEW girls there as underweight as Andi, most are at a normal weight range.
Tbh, a person stops as a result of molestation or physical abuse, to me doesn't fall in the category.

There are a number of things people do to like stop talking, over eat, not eat, turn violent, blahblahblah.

I laugh 'cause these folks we see glorify it.
I laugh when you were simply taunted about your weight, you yakking all your food and simply stop eating. Gotta go.Fuck off, Busy. If a person stops eating because of that then they are just as bulimic/anorexic as the next person.

You said bulimics were fucking stupid in direct reply to me relating something that had happened to a girl I went out with. She wasn't yakking up her food because she wanted to be thinner - it was because she felt disgusted about stuff that had happened to her when she was younger.

Sure, you're not to know that but then because you don't - you think maybe you could keep your uninformed, dumbass blanket statements to yourself.

Cheers.

sp88
10-10-2005, 05:33 PM
busyman: god your such a fucked up loser arent you. ok in some bizarre way i actually try to understand what the fuck ur constantly spewing out.....those girls dont put their pics up there to get 'glory' you dumb fuck. i cant deny that there are some of them who do that intentionally to get compliments but that doesnt give you or anyone the right to attack someone whos really sick.

so if there was a support group for cancer patients and they posted their progress pics...what ur going to say their fucked up too for gloryfying cancer! god do you even make use of 0.00000001% of that lump of cells called your brain!!

andd the fact that you have the nerve to actually defend for fucked up perceptions. your such a fucking typical-self-absorbed-righteous-assy american!

america aint perfect but ass holes like you give that damn country a bad name.

manker
10-10-2005, 05:38 PM
Peerzy? :unsure:

sArA
10-10-2005, 06:35 PM
I think anyone suffering from any psychological disorder should be treated with sensitivity and consideration.

However, there is also a great need for humour even in these sort of situations. Without humour, all that is left is either attack or a patronising pat on the head...neither of which is helpful to the sufferer.

And yes, I am talking from experience...not me, but someone close to me...they assure me that the odd piss take helps to see the funny side of the ridiculous, but that you have to know where to draw the line.


btw...just a little warning....anyone found to be posting tub girl on here will be banned...no second chances.

Busyman
10-10-2005, 06:47 PM
Tbh, a person stops as a result of molestation or physical abuse, to me doesn't fall in the category.

There are a number of things people do to like stop talking, over eat, not eat, turn violent, blahblahblah.

I laugh 'cause these folks we see glorify it.
I laugh when you were simply taunted about your weight, you yakking all your food and simply stop eating. Gotta go.Fuck off, Busy. If a person stops eating because of that then they are just as bulimic/anorexic as the next person.

You said bulimics were fucking stupid in direct reply to me relating something that had happened to a girl I went out with. She wasn't yakking up her food because she wanted to be thinner - it was because she felt disgusted about stuff that had happened to her when she was younger.

Sure, you're not to know that but then because you don't - you think maybe you could keep your uninformed, dumbass blanket statements to yourself.

Cheers.
Oh jeez STFU. I'm mostly talking about anorexia. Bulimics at least have some sort of logic to their "disorder". I said gotta go 'cause I couldn't finish. The bottom line is someone may do many different things due to trauma.

It's amazing that it's still culturally based yet it's a disorder. I disagree 'cause I see the shit to a lesser degree in women that already skinny but think they slim down (these folks are healthy though). You remove the glorification of the "model look" and anorexia is eliminated.

It may be trauma that triggers it like molestation or simply someone calling a woman fat but it's still laughable for the person to latch on to looking like a skeleton and thinking "I look great".

I actually I was initially talking about anorexia (hence the topic) then you generalized anorexia and bulimia together ('cause they involved eating) and then I touched on bulimia.

Busyman
10-10-2005, 06:56 PM
busyman: god your such a fucked up loser arent you. ok in some bizarre way i actually try to understand what the fuck ur constantly spewing out.....those girls dont put their pics up there to get 'glory' you dumb fuck. i cant deny that there are some of them who do that intentionally to get compliments but that doesnt give you or anyone the right to attack someone whos really sick.

so if there was a support group for cancer patients and they posted their progress pics...what ur going to say their fucked up too for gloryfying cancer! god do you even make use of 0.00000001% of that lump of cells called your brain!!

andd the fact that you have the nerve to actually defend for fucked up perceptions. your such a fucking typical-self-absorbed-righteous-assy american!

america aint perfect but ass holes like you give that damn country a bad name.
America? :lol: :lol: :lol: Wtf does it have to do with America Peerzy?

You really lowered yourself comparing cancer to anorexia.

Most cancers don't involve choice by the "victim".

Some of them don't post pics for glory but it damn sure is for attention. Some of them are anorexics for attention too. Keep feeding it.

This reminds me of the disorder that the mother kept having babies and killing them for attention. 3 times I think. She liked the attention of being pregnant, showing the child off, and the funeral attention.

Btw I'm no righteous assy American. I'm just as fucked up as...well...you are. I just have a brain though. This subject is funny considering what I'm going through right now. You all are a big help.

peat moss
10-10-2005, 07:18 PM
Wonder how many new members we got from that Anorexia forum ? Sad yes but probably get more support and understanding here . :(

muchspl3
10-11-2005, 01:41 AM
who posted out url?

S!X
10-11-2005, 05:05 AM
Thats fucking brutal. And I thought I was skinny.

cpt_azad
10-11-2005, 07:08 AM
It's a genuine psychological problem. Nothing to laugh at.

:lol:

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 08:53 AM
who posted out url?

Fuck knows, but we are getting totally blamed over there for fucking up their site, which has put the real culprit's noses out of joint somewhat, so they are indignantly owning up as to who they are and where they're from!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

GepperRankins
10-11-2005, 08:54 AM
i think they followed the referrer URLs to this thread

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 09:03 AM
i think they followed the referrer URLs to this thread

No, they're not that clever.

Someone called "Anon" posted a link to this thread...

megan343
10-11-2005, 09:28 AM
The main culprits were gaming losers at IGN and Entensity...although I think Entensity is shut down now :)

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 09:35 AM
The main culprits were gaming losers at IGN and Entensity...although I think Entensity is shut down now :)

I don't understand why all the posts are still there, it's been like 5 days...

Is nobody in charge of that place? :blink:

megan343
10-11-2005, 09:38 AM
Like I said before, small forums like FF are dying out, they can pretty much keep going without moderation a lot of the time. One of the mods is in IP and isnt allowed a computer, one doesnt have her own at the moment and im not sure about the other.

cpt_azad
10-11-2005, 09:45 AM
reminds me of the time me, ziggy, and smith went and flamed that LOTR forum :lol: good times

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 09:50 AM
Eating disorders are a form of mental illness and not something the sufferer can help once the disorder has taken hold. Mental illness is as valid as physical illness but is very much misunderstood. I have suffered long periods of depression in the past and although many people were supportive, some people I had to tell thought it was something I could snap out of. It took a long time, medication, therapy and a lot of hard work to recover. Being told to go and have a nice cup of tea or an early night and I'd feel better was staggeringly insensitive considering the hell I was going through. Its the same for those who have eating disorders.

Its not easy to recover from an eating disorder and you cant tell an asthmatic to "just stop wheezing and breath" just as you cant tell a sufferer of an eating disorder to "just start eating/stop purging"

Busyman and those who have expressed similar thoughts, it is clear you are an unsympathetic judgemental and coldhearted person who has no sense of empathy for other peoples suffering which is weird since it is clear you have mental issues yourself.

megan343
10-11-2005, 09:59 AM
Blythorama perfectly said..

Busyman
10-11-2005, 10:08 AM
Eating disorders are a form of mental illness and not something the sufferer can help once the disorder has taken hold. Mental illness is as valid as physical illness but is very much misunderstood. I have suffered long periods of depression in the past and although many people were supportive, some people I had to tell thought it was something I could snap out of. It took a long time, medication, therapy and a lot of hard work to recover. Being told to go and have a nice cup of tea or an early night and I'd feel better was staggeringly insensitive considering the hell I was going through. Its the same for those who have eating disorders.

Its not easy to recover from an eating disorder and you cant tell an asthmatic to "just stop wheezing and breath" just as you cant tell a sufferer of an eating disorder to "just start eating/stop purging"

Busyman and those who have expressed similar thoughts, it is clear you are an unsympathetic judgemental and coldhearted person who has no sense of empathy for other peoples suffering which is weird since it is clear you have mental issues yourself.
I tell what's weird, you comparing an asthmatic to an anorexic.

I'm going through my own little shit now and have gone through worse (completely different category then now) when I thought I was going to have a kid and my ex was in a car accident and we broke up (I was going to marry her). I did however, snap out of it. I cryed alone without attention seeking until I cryed myself out. I even bitch up playing basketball...and that's bad when you have to leave the court so fellas don't see you losin' it.

It changed me...for the better. I probably am a little colder.

The thing is anorexics locked specifically on not eating which is directly related to being vain and oversensitive.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 10:38 AM
I wasn't directly comparing asthma to anorexia you moron, I was saying people with mental illnesses should be treated with as much compassion and sympathy as those with physical illnesses, as mental illness is just as debilitating and often very much, as you have proven, misunderstood.

Sufferers of eating disorders are not the same as vain attention-seeking people. Vain people know they are attractive and play on it, being overly concerned with maintaining their looks. Sufferers of ED generally have a poor body image and struggle with feelings of disgust and inadequacy, which are symptoms of the mental illness they are suffering from.

I am sorry you are having a hard time but you not reacting well to tragedies and traumas in your life is not the same as suffering from mental illness. Everbody suffers my friend. It doesnt mean you cant show sympathy for your fellow humans even if you do not understand what they are going through. Isnt it enough to know someone is hurting to have some compassion for them?

"Changed you for the better, probably a little colder" How is colder better if you can't show compassion and understanding.

manker
10-11-2005, 10:42 AM
I wasn't directly comparing asthma to anorexia you moron, I was saying people with mental illnesses should be treated with as much compassion and sympathy as those with physical illnesses, as mental illness is just as debilitating and often very much, as you have proven, misunderstood.

Sufferers of eating disorders are not the same as vain attention-seeking people. Vain people know they are attractive and play on it, being overly concerned with maintaining their looks. Sufferers of ED generally have a poor body image and struggle with feelings of disgust and inadequacy, which are symptoms of the mental illness they are suffering from.

I am sorry you are having a hard time but you not reacting well to tragedies and traumas in your life is not the same as suffering from mental illness. Everbody suffers my friend. It doesnt mean you cant show sympathy for your fellow humans even if you do not understand what they are going through. Isnt it enough to know someone is hurting to have some compassion for them?

"Changed you for the better, probably a little colder" How is colder better if you can't show compassion and understanding.Great post.

megan343
10-11-2005, 10:51 AM
Busyman, just because you are one unhappy individual, does not mean that you have to prey on people who are less secure in themselves. You're sick. seriously.

manker
10-11-2005, 10:52 AM
Fuck off, Busy. If a person stops eating because of that then they are just as bulimic/anorexic as the next person.

You said bulimics were fucking stupid in direct reply to me relating something that had happened to a girl I went out with. She wasn't yakking up her food because she wanted to be thinner - it was because she felt disgusted about stuff that had happened to her when she was younger.

Sure, you're not to know that but then because you don't - you think maybe you could keep your uninformed, dumbass blanket statements to yourself.

Cheers.
Oh jeez STFU. I'm mostly talking about anorexia. Bulimics at least have some sort of logic to their "disorder". I said gotta go 'cause I couldn't finish. The bottom line is someone may do many different things due to trauma.

It's amazing that it's still culturally based yet it's a disorder. I disagree 'cause I see the shit to a lesser degree in women that already skinny but think they slim down (these folks are healthy though). You remove the glorification of the "model look" and anorexia is eliminated.

It may be trauma that triggers it like molestation or simply someone calling a woman fat but it's still laughable for the person to latch on to looking like a skeleton and thinking "I look great".

I actually I was initially talking about anorexia (hence the topic) then you generalized anorexia and bulimia together ('cause they involved eating) and then I touched on bulimia.The bottom line isn't that that people may do different things in response to a bad event in their lives, the bottom line is that these people have reacted in a certain way to their trauma, mental illness has resulted and they don't deserve ridicule.

Neither are they 'fucking stupid'.


I think you've learned a great deal thro' reading this thread.

Mr. Mulder
10-11-2005, 10:54 AM
I wasn't directly comparing asthma to anorexia you moron, I was saying people with mental illnesses should be treated with as much compassion and sympathy as those with physical illnesses, as mental illness is just as debilitating and often very much, as you have proven, misunderstood.

Sufferers of eating disorders are not the same as vain attention-seeking people. Vain people know they are attractive and play on it, being overly concerned with maintaining their looks. Sufferers of ED generally have a poor body image and struggle with feelings of disgust and inadequacy, which are symptoms of the mental illness they are suffering from.

I am sorry you are having a hard time but you not reacting well to tragedies and traumas in your life is not the same as suffering from mental illness. Everbody suffers my friend. It doesnt mean you cant show sympathy for your fellow humans even if you do not understand what they are going through. Isnt it enough to know someone is hurting to have some compassion for them?

"Changed you for the better, probably a little colder" How is colder better if you can't show compassion and understanding.Great post.

you too manker, keep up teh good wurk :cool:

manker
10-11-2005, 10:56 AM
Great post.

you too manker, keep up teh good wurk :cool:Thanks, chief!

I have some important news for you, but I won't spam this thread with it.

:unsure:

Mr. Mulder
10-11-2005, 10:58 AM
you too manker, keep up teh good wurk :cool:Thanks, chief!

I have some important news for you, but I won't spam this thread with it.

:unsure:

a new thread perhaps?:ph34r:

SpatulaGeekGirl
10-11-2005, 10:58 AM
I'm sorry that people with anorexia go through shit like that; I can only imagine how sad and stressful it must be on them and their families. I hope all the people on the forum get better.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 11:00 AM
Thanks Manker. You too. Pats on the back all round.

manker
10-11-2005, 11:01 AM
Thanks, chief!

I have some important news for you, but I won't spam this thread with it.

:unsure:

a new thread perhaps?:ph34r:I added it onto a different one ftw.

This Busyman pwnage thread deserves my respect :01:

megan343
10-11-2005, 11:20 AM
Also, if you think that Anorexia is about vanity...Take a look at this...

This is a good friend of mine, and she's so "vain" that she cuts herself to pieces. Yeah that's right she wants to be "attractive" SO BAD that she makes the task more difficult by scarring herself.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v352/Lofotpi89/Bilde81.jpg

Oh look here another example...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v352/Lofotpi89/Bilde3.jpg


Yeah it's all about beauty... Just look at how beautiful this girl is... She loves the fact that she's dying, that her hair is falling out, that she has to shave her body because she's covered in lanugo. Yeah she's so pretty, her teeth and nails are rotting away because they are constantly exposed to stomach bile.

WHO THE FUCK WOULDNT WANT THAT

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v411/dancin_diva_forever/IMG_2020.jpg

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 11:31 AM
Before you say that self-harm is attention seeking, Busyman, I would like to point out that for some people its a way of releasing unbearable internal pain and punishing youself because you feel worthless and not deserving of anything else. Also, the absence of feeling and numbness sometimes experienced by those suffering from mental illness can be very distressing and inflicting physical pain on oneself can remind you that you are real.

Its probably unfair to target Busyman when he hasn't commented on this yet, but he's annoyed me.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 12:58 PM
Busyman, just because you are one unhappy individual, does not mean that you have to prey on people who are less secure in themselves. You're sick. seriously.
Why 'cause I don't view a person not eating like you do?

I didn't make comment on FF (like many others NOT on this forum have).

That fucking site is sick. It even has a dumbass motto that spouts words of encouragement. The people on the site are indeed sick are folks giving them therapy for what their underlying problem is or the anorexia?

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:04 PM
Oh jeez STFU. I'm mostly talking about anorexia. Bulimics at least have some sort of logic to their "disorder". I said gotta go 'cause I couldn't finish. The bottom line is someone may do many different things due to trauma.

It's amazing that it's still culturally based yet it's a disorder. I disagree 'cause I see the shit to a lesser degree in women that already skinny but think they slim down (these folks are healthy though). You remove the glorification of the "model look" and anorexia is eliminated.

It may be trauma that triggers it like molestation or simply someone calling a woman fat but it's still laughable for the person to latch on to looking like a skeleton and thinking "I look great".

I actually I was initially talking about anorexia (hence the topic) then you generalized anorexia and bulimia together ('cause they involved eating) and then I touched on bulimia.The bottom line isn't that that people may do different things in response to a bad event in their lives,

No shit. I said that back in post 84.

the bottom line is that these people have reacted in a certain way to their trauma, mental illness has resulted and they don't deserve ridicule.

Why 'cause they aren't hurting others? I'd give ridicule to a person that kills themself as a person that kills others. I think both are morons.

Neither are they 'fucking stupid'.

Well I think so.

I think you've learned a great deal thro' reading this thread.
I learned alot awhile ago. This is nothing new.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 01:09 PM
Busyman... I think I love you. Your compassion and humility makes me weak at the knees. :blushing:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:10 PM
Also, if you think that Anorexia is about vanity...Take a look at this...

This is a good friend of mine, and she's so "vain" that she cuts herself to pieces. Yeah that's right she wants to be "attractive" SO BAD that she makes the task more difficult by scarring herself.

Oh look here another example...

Yeah it's all about beauty... Just look at how beautiful this girl is... She loves the fact that she's dying, that her hair is falling out, that she has to shave her body because she's covered in lanugo. Yeah she's so pretty, her teeth and nails are rotting away because they are constantly exposed to stomach bile.

WHO THE FUCK WOULDNT WANT THAT

She does quite obviously. What's with her taking pics anyway?

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:14 PM
Busyman... I think I love you. Your compassion and humility makes me weak at the knees. :blushing:
Don't get me wrong. I doubt I'd call them stupid to their face but I wouldn't coddle them either.

I've had my own tragedies to deal with and I know first hand that it can be hard. However, people latch on to do different things in those times and there is a culture that fuels certain "behaviors".

megan343
10-11-2005, 01:17 PM
No one wants that. It is a mental disease. The pictures we taken to show her before and after of IP.

Seriously, if i were you i would kill myself. I went through more shit that you can imagine, more than a broken heart. I then got over my anorexia. I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT.

You are just a moody twat because you had your heart broken and you have to put everyone down to make yourself feel big.

GET RID OF YOUR COMPLEX

manker
10-11-2005, 01:21 PM
The bottom line isn't that that people may do different things in response to a bad event in their lives,

No shit. I said that back in post 84.

the bottom line is that these people have reacted in a certain way to their trauma, mental illness has resulted and they don't deserve ridicule.

Why 'cause they aren't hurting others? I'd give ridicule to a person that kills themself as a person that kills others. I think both are morons.

Neither are they 'fucking stupid'.

Well I think so.

I think you've learned a great deal thro' reading this thread.
I learned alot awhile ago. This is nothing new.You can't control the way your mind reacts to stimulus. We know how blue looks but some folk see green. I would like to think that I wouldn't feel the need to stop eating and emaciate myself or cut my arms if I was exposed to trauma, but some people do.

Why does a mental reaction to something that differs from your own make someone worthy of ridicule or, indeed, fucking stupid.

See, I know that Megan suffered from this illness and she has demonstrated in this thread that she is far from stupid - I'm not sure if Blythorama has or not but, again, he or she has demonstrated a depth of understanding about this subject that has completely dwarfed your own intellect.

Blanket statements suck, they make you look silly, ya know.

megan343
10-11-2005, 01:23 PM
Busyman you piss me off more than you'll ever know.

Telling people that already have low self esteem that they are stupid are the kind of triggers that push them over the edge.

manker
10-11-2005, 01:25 PM
Busyman... I think I love you. Your compassion and humility makes me weak at the knees. :blushing:
Don't get me wrong. I doubt I'd call them stupid to their face but I wouldn't coddle them either.Yeah, you'd just post derogatory, unimformed comments with the protection of anonimity on interweb message boards.

What a really courageous and all round great guy you are! :D

manker
10-11-2005, 01:28 PM
Busyman you piss me off more than you'll ever know.

Telling people that already have low self esteem that they are stupid are the kind of triggers that push them over the edge.Don't take it seriously.

He knows that he is wrong but has this image problem where he absolutely cannot admit that he has written something incorrect to anyone, lest they'll think he is weak.

Any normal person would have apologised for any offence caused when you guys turned up. But not Busy.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:28 PM
No one wants that. It is a mental disease. The pictures we taken to show her before and after of IP.

Seriously, if i were you i would kill myself. I went through more shit that you can imagine, more than a broken heart. I then got over my anorexia. I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT.

You are just a moody twat because you had your heart broken and you have to put everyone down to make yourself feel big.

GET RID OF YOUR COMPLEX
Anorexia is not an illness. That's like saying homicide is an illness. Suicide is an illness.

Oh I forgot to mention that me and that ex got back together (later) but everyone has had a love trial at some point and the initial break-up was a wake-up call. That's nothing new for most.

When I said I'm colder it has to do with taking shit and being a little more intolerant in relationships. Not colder in general. Though would think about what they're doing a little bit more, they'd be better off.

Ok bitch?

megan343
10-11-2005, 01:33 PM
ARE YOU A FUCKING MORON?

Anorexia IS a disease, pick up any highschool psychology textbook and it will tell you so.

Although I'm sure you were one of the ones never to get to level of schooling.


For the only retard left on this post...

What is anorexia nervosa?

Anorexia nervosa (anorexia) is an eating disorder with both physical and emotional traits. A person with anorexia severely limits food intake, has a distorted body image, refuses to maintain a normal body weight, and is intensely afraid of gaining weight, despite being very underweight. Long-term or severe anorexia can lead to serious health problems and even death. Anorexia can become a lifelong illness, although it is possible to fully recover with proper treatment.

What causes anorexia?

The cause of anorexia is not known, although certain personality traits (such as perfectionism) and a family history of eating disorders may contribute. Anorexia is more frequently found in athletes or people in professions that require thinness, such as modeling or ballet. 1

What are the symptoms of anorexia?

Common symptoms or characteristics of anorexia include: 2

Intense fear of gaining weight.
Restricting food or types of food, such as food containing any kind of fat.
Weighing less than 85% of expected body weight or failure to make appropriate weight gain for a period of growth.
Stopping or never getting a monthly menstrual period.
Seeing your body as overweight, in spite of being underweight.
Overexercising.
Secrecy around food and denial of a problem with eating.
Some people with anorexia make themselves vomit. However, bulimia nervosa is the eating disorder characterized by binge-purge behavior.

How is anorexia diagnosed?

There are no specific tests to diagnose anorexia. However, a medical history and physical examination, including assessing body mass index (BMI) to determine whether the person is underweight, will be done. A mental health assessment may also be taken to help the doctor decide whether anorexia and associated medical conditions, such as depression, are present.

How is it treated?

Anorexia is a serious illness. Early, specialized treatment may prevent a lifelong battle with anorexia and related health problems caused by malnutrition, such as osteoporosis or heart problems.

All people with anorexia need treatment, which includes taking steps to maintain a healthy weight, learning good eating habits, and receiving professional counseling. There are no proven medications to treat anorexia. However, some people with this illness may need medications to treat other conditions that often occur along with anorexia, such as anxiety or depression. Some people may need hospitalization for specialized treatment.

People with anorexia see weight loss as an accomplishment, so they usually do not seek treatment on their own. However, extreme thinness can cause serious health problems that eventually require urgent medical care. Loved ones often become concerned about the weight loss before the person with anorexia acknowledges there is a problem.

How common is anorexia?

Anorexia affects less than 1% of the general population; of that group, 90% are females. 3, 2 Anorexia usually begins during adolescence but can develop in early childhood. A few cases first occur in adulthood. It occurs in all races, although white females are most often affected. There may be a genetic link, since a person's chances of developing anorexia increase if a sister, brother, or parent has the condition. Young people who participate in sports or are in a profession that requires a certain body type (such as ballet, modeling, or wrestling) are also at increased risk for developing anorexia.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:34 PM
Busyman you piss me off more than you'll ever know.

Telling people that already have low self esteem that they are stupid are the kind of triggers that push them over the edge.Don't take it seriously.

He knows that he is wrong but has this image problem where he absolutely cannot admit that he has written something incorrect to anyone, lest they'll think he is weak.

Any normal person would have apologised for any offence caused when you guys turned up. But not Busy.
Wrong about what? It's dumb not to eat. It's dumb to kill yourself. It's dumb to make yourself look bad then saying you hate the way you look.

Get off your ass and do something about it?

The same goes for fat people that have the means to exercise and (unless they are anemic or something) just sit on their ass. I don't have a problem with a fat person. I have a problem with a fat person that is dissatisfied with how they look and do nothing. Many of them are depressed too.

Strengthen the mind.

SpatulaGeekGirl
10-11-2005, 01:34 PM
Busyman's an asshole.

megan343
10-11-2005, 01:35 PM
taken from yahoo health...

i highlighted the bit that i especially wanted you to read...

megan343
10-11-2005, 01:36 PM
Results 1 - 10 of about 16,400,000 for "anorexia"

seems like a hell of a lot of sites dedicated to treating anorexia etc... for a "made up" illness

manker
10-11-2005, 01:36 PM
Anorexia is not an illnessQuite. It's a term to describe loss of appetite. It can be a symptom of an illness.

Now, anorexia nervosa is a psychophysiological disorder. This means that mental illness has manifested itself in such a way as to affect the sifferer in a physical way.

manker
10-11-2005, 01:40 PM
Don't take it seriously.

He knows that he is wrong but has this image problem where he absolutely cannot admit that he has written something incorrect to anyone, lest they'll think he is weak.

Any normal person would have apologised for any offence caused when you guys turned up. But not Busy.
Wrong about what? It's dumb not to eat. It's dumb to kill yourself. It's dumb to make yourself look bad then saying you hate the way you look.

Get off your ass and do something about it?

The same goes for fat people that have the means to exercise and (unless they are anemic or something) just sit on their ass. I don't have a problem with a fat person. I have a problem with a fat person that is dissatisfied with how they look and do nothing. Many of them are depressed too.

Strengthen the mind.It's a mental disorder. Same as OCD. You can't 'think' your way out of it.

Why can't you comprehend this simple fact.


I levelled the stupidity charge at you with my second post in this thread - you really didn't have to go to such lengths to prove me right, a simple acknowledgement would have done :huh:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:47 PM
ARE YOU A FUCKING MORON?

Anorexia IS a disease, pick up any highschool psychology textbook and it will tell you so.

Although I'm sure you were one of the ones never to get to level of schooling.


For the only retard left on this post...

What is anorexia nervosa?

Anorexia nervosa (anorexia) is an eating disorder with both physical and emotional traits. A person with anorexia severely limits food intake, has a distorted body image, refuses to maintain a normal body weight, and is intensely afraid of gaining weight, despite being very underweight. Long-term or severe anorexia can lead to serious health problems and even death. Anorexia can become a lifelong illness, although it is possible to fully recover with proper treatment.

What causes anorexia?

The cause of anorexia is not known, although certain personality traits (such as perfectionism) and a family history of eating disorders may contribute. Anorexia is more frequently found in athletes or people in professions that require thinness, such as modeling or ballet. 1

What are the symptoms of anorexia?

Common symptoms or characteristics of anorexia include: 2

Intense fear of gaining weight.
Restricting food or types of food, such as food containing any kind of fat.
Weighing less than 85% of expected body weight or failure to make appropriate weight gain for a period of growth.
Stopping or never getting a monthly menstrual period.
Seeing your body as overweight, in spite of being underweight.
Overexercising.
Secrecy around food and denial of a problem with eating.
Some people with anorexia make themselves vomit. However, bulimia nervosa is the eating disorder characterized by binge-purge behavior.

How is anorexia diagnosed?

There are no specific tests to diagnose anorexia. However, a medical history and physical examination, including assessing body mass index (BMI) to determine whether the person is underweight, will be done. A mental health assessment may also be taken to help the doctor decide whether anorexia and associated medical conditions, such as depression, are present.

How is it treated?

Anorexia is a serious illness. Early, specialized treatment may prevent a lifelong battle with anorexia and related health problems caused by malnutrition, such as osteoporosis or heart problems.

All people with anorexia need treatment, which includes taking steps to maintain a healthy weight, learning good eating habits, and receiving professional counseling. There are no proven medications to treat anorexia. However, some people with this illness may need medications to treat other conditions that often occur along with anorexia, such as anxiety or depression. Some people may need hospitalization for specialized treatment.

People with anorexia see weight loss as an accomplishment, so they usually do not seek treatment on their own. However, extreme thinness can cause serious health problems that eventually require urgent medical care. Loved ones often become concerned about the weight loss before the person with anorexia acknowledges there is a problem.

How common is anorexia?

Anorexia affects less than 1% of the general population; of that group, 90% are females. 3, 2 Anorexia usually begins during adolescence but can develop in early childhood. A few cases first occur in adulthood. It occurs in all races, although white females are most often affected. There may be a genetic link, since a person's chances of developing anorexia increase if a sister, brother, or parent has the condition. Young people who participate in sports or are in a profession that requires a certain body type (such as ballet, modeling, or wrestling) are also at increased risk for developing anorexia.
Uh megan, in that case everything is an illness. There alot of things I knew about anorexia just from how I've seen it before (sans the googling). I've been accused of anorexic athletism (something like that) as a joke and found out the lady was semi-serious. The only thing is, I always ate like a fat boy.

Genetic link is bullshit. Anorexia is learned, mimicked, suggested, or the result of ridicule.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:51 PM
Results 1 - 10 of about 16,400,000 for "anorexia"

seems like a hell of a lot of sites dedicated to treating anorexia etc... for a "made up" illness
That illness, if anything, would be depression and anorexia is a bad habit.

megan343
10-11-2005, 01:52 PM
Ok i'm going to break this down for you. As you're too dumb to understand it in any other way.

You are arguing with PROFFESIONALS now. It didn't say THERE WAS a genetic link, it said THERE MAY BE. very different.


1. Anorexia Nervosa is a disease. This I think everyone has established by now except you.

2. The sufferer CANNOT help getting it, they may be predisponed to it, WE DONT KNOW, there havent been enough studies yet.

3. You are obviously a retard. and i bet you voted for bush.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 01:53 PM
There is growing evidence that some mental illnesses, including depression and EDs are linked to wonky seratonin and other hormone levels, in times of trauma or stress. In some people it goes as follows... You have a hard time, your brain chemistry changes, you spend ages trying to recover. This is why excersise (in the case of depression, not ED, where it can become part of the problem) can help as it raises seratonin levels.

Mental issues, grounded in physical causes, in reponse to stress.

People in the throws of an ED often do not want to help themselves, but this is part of the abberant behaviour CAUSED by the disorder, NOT because they don't deserve help or are attention seeking or something.

Eating, to most people, is a pleasurable activity necessary to feed the body and the soul. To some it can be hell. Because it's an activity necessary to survive, those who have problems with it make us uneasy. To those not suffering EDs, eating is easy, so they don't understand how or why people have problems with it.

Busyman, would you tell a person with parkinsons to stop shaking because they are attention seeking, or a person with tourettes to stop being rude, or an epiliptic to stop fitting? These are all as far as I know, disorders where the brain misfires in some way, but they have outward physical manifestations. Mental illness can be caused by the same thing but the symptoms are all inward. Personally I think need to go and do some more research before you judge people who are suffering and in distress.

Blythe. (Lass)

megan343
10-11-2005, 01:54 PM
YOU ARE A FUCKING MORON. I hope you have a child with anorexia one day, not that i would wish it on anyone, but just so you see.

manker
10-11-2005, 01:54 PM
Results 1 - 10 of about 16,400,000 for "anorexia"

seems like a hell of a lot of sites dedicated to treating anorexia etc... for a "made up" illness
That illness, if anything, would be depression and anorexia is a bad habit.So depression - a mental disorder - is an illness.

Anorexia nervosa - a mental disorder with physical manifestations - isn't an illness.

Use logic or STFU :lol:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 01:57 PM
Ok i'm going to break this down for you. As you're too dumb to understand it in any other way.

You are arguing with PROFFESIONALS now. It didn't say THERE WAS a genetic link, it said THERE MAY BE. very different.


1. Anorexia Nervosa is a disease. This I think everyone has established by now except you.

2. The sufferer CANNOT help getting it, they may be predisponed to it, WE DONT KNOW, there havent been enough studies yet.

3. You are obviously a retard. and i bet you voted for bush.
:lol: :lol: :lol:

I'm one you'll never put your finger on then.

It's a "disease" when enough people partake in it.

You make anorexia sound like something you catch like a cold. When that becomes true, I'll STFU.
It also seems very prevalent in athletes, ballerinas, models and so forth. So this "disease" is picking on our esteemed movers and shakers. :ermm:

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 01:58 PM
"That illness, if anything, would be depression and anorexia is a bad habit."
__________________

So depression is an illness and anorexia isn't??? Excersise some reason and logic over your OWN arguments will you??

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 01:59 PM
Its prevelant in every sector of society where people are under pressure. Moron.

manker
10-11-2005, 02:00 PM
You make anorexia sound like something you catch like a cold. When that becomes true, I'll STFU.There are loads of diseases that you can't 'catch like a cold'. Like ... oh, I don't know ... cancer.

You really are sounding particularly moronic just at the moment.

Please, take a moment to think your posts thro'.

megan343
10-11-2005, 02:01 PM
It is also prevenlant in people who have suffered abuse. There are also the "average joes" that get it too.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:02 PM
That illness, if anything, would be depression and anorexia is a bad habit.So depression - a mental disorder - is an illness.

Anorexia nervosa - a mental disorder with physical manifestations - isn't an illness.

Use logic or STFU :lol:
I said if anything.

I've been depressed before. I didn't stop eating and turn into a skully.

Depression and anorexia are not interchangaeble.

Depression and homicide aren't either.

Just STFU.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:05 PM
If you had suffered from real depression you would understand why its not a simple matter for ED sufferers to just sort it out. You have maybe been under stress or had difficulty coping with a hard time for a while but I doubt you've suffered from depression, the illness.

Diagnosed by a medical professional were you? Oh sorry. You're an expert in everything so you could diagnose yourself couldnt you.

manker
10-11-2005, 02:05 PM
So depression - a mental disorder - is an illness.

Anorexia nervosa - a mental disorder with physical manifestations - isn't an illness.

Use logic or STFU :lol:
I said if anything.

I've been depressed before. I didn't stop eating and turn into a skully.

Depression and anorexia are not interchangaeble.

Depression and homicide aren't either.What has interchangibility got to do with anything :blink:

You inferred that depression, a mental disorder, was an illness - making a complete mockery of your previous assertions that anorexia (nervosa), also a mental disorder, wasn't an illness.


Just STFU.Haha, you wish!

I haven't seen you make such an idiot of yourself since ... last week or something :D

It would be pretty funny if the subject matter wasn't so serious.

megan343
10-11-2005, 02:06 PM
oh so you're basing this on your personal experience. how about we do mine, since yours was a girlfriend that didnt want you.

I was raped at the age of 11, i became extremely depressed and the self harm started then.

i was then moved from the states to england by my parents, i stopped eating because it was the only thing i could control. I didn't want to lose weight, but that's what happens when you dont eat. And it carried on like an addiction.

I would binge and purge because i felt disgusted with myself, because after a while i couldnt control my eating disorders, you think you have the control until it's to late and you realise you didnt have any control all along.

Virtualbody1234
10-11-2005, 02:06 PM
Wouldn't it be interesting to see the reaction of Busyman if he actually were to become anorexic himself?

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:10 PM
Its prevelant in every sector of society where people are under pressure. Moron.
But most prevalent where? Bitchyomama

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:12 PM
Megan. My sympathies to you, and congratulations on your recovery.

Arrogent twats like Busyman do not have the means to:
1. have compassion for anyone but themselves
2. admit they might be wrong.

and I truly feel pity for the bloke, he's that sad. What a waste of skin he is.

megan343
10-11-2005, 02:12 PM
Busyman just get over the fact that you're wrong. Or go get laid, maybe it will help you ease up

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:13 PM
I said if anything.

I've been depressed before. I didn't stop eating and turn into a skully.

Depression and anorexia are not interchangaeble.

Depression and homicide aren't either.What has interchangibility got to do with anything :blink:

You inferred that depression, a mental disorder, was an illness - making a complete mockery of your previous assertions that anorexia (nervosa), also a mental disorder, wasn't an illness.

Cool then so is homicide.


Just STFU.Haha, you wish!

I haven't seen you make such an idiot of yourself since ... last week or something :D

It would be pretty funny if the subject matter wasn't so serious.
I can always depend on my shadow.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:15 PM
Wouldn't it be interesting to see the reaction of Busyman if he actually were to become anorexic himself?
Well I am on Atkins diet...since Sunday. Besides that I've been accused of that 'cause I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms. I simply stopped working out so much. :ermm:

megan343
10-11-2005, 02:17 PM
see the thing is busyman things like this always come back to bite you on the ass.

karma is such a bitch.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:17 PM
Megan. My sympathies to you, and congratulations on your recovery.

Arrogent twats like Busyman do not have the means to:
1. have compassion for anyone but themselves
2. admit they might be wrong.

and I truly feel pity for the bloke, he's that sad. What a waste of skin he is.
Thanks. I do hope to get better. Your compassion and warmth is always appeciated and held in the upmost regard.

Thanks again Bitchyomama.

manker
10-11-2005, 02:17 PM
Cool then so is homicide.Committing homicide can be a symptom of mental illness.

Just like anorexia (loss of appetite) is a symptom of anorexia nervosa (a mental illness).

Am I going too quickly.

Virtualbody1234
10-11-2005, 02:19 PM
Wouldn't it be interesting to see the reaction of Busyman if he actually were to become anorexic himself?
Well I am on Atkins diet...since Sunday. Besides that I've been accused of that 'cause I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms. I simply stopped working out so much. :ermm:
Looks like you're already on the path towards anorexia. Maybe that's why you are so critical of others with the disorder. You see something of yourself in them.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:19 PM
You are sooo hard. I knew I loved you.

Be careful with Atkins, it can make you ill. Better to just eat a healthy balanced diet and excersise in moderation rather than use faddy diets like Atkins or working out excessively .

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:20 PM
see the thing is busyman things like this always come back to bite you on the ass.

karma is such a bitch.
I don't believe in karma although your karma just might be a bitch.

I may anorexics are stupid and get in a car accident tomorrow and the two won't relate. I could have just as easily got in a car accident sans the noteatingisstupid remark. :ermm:

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 02:21 PM
Busyman, would you tell a person with parkinsons to stop shaking because they are attention seeking, or a person with tourettes to stop being rude, or an epiliptic to stop fitting? These are all as far as I know, disorders where the brain misfires in some way, but they have outward physical manifestations.


Don't give him ideas! :lol:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:22 PM
Well I am on Atkins diet...since Sunday. Besides that I've been accused of that 'cause I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms. I simply stopped working out so much. :ermm:
Looks like you're already on the path towards anorexia. Maybe that's why you are so critical of others with the disorder. You see something of yourself in them.
You got me. Analyzed to a tee. ;)

Virtualpsychobabble

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 02:22 PM
Well I am on Atkins diet...since Sunday.

Good luck with the bad breath, the constipation and the gall-stones... ;)

Virtualbody1234
10-11-2005, 02:24 PM
Looks like you're already on the path towards anorexia. Maybe that's why you are so critical of others with the disorder. You see something of yourself in them.
You got me. Analyzed to a tee. ;)

Virtualpsychobabble
I'm glad you agree.

manker
10-11-2005, 02:24 PM
Well I am on Atkins diet...since Sunday. Besides that I've been accused of that 'cause I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms. I simply stopped working out so much. :ermm:
Looks like you're already on the path towards anorexia. Maybe that's why you are so critical of others with the disorder. You see something of yourself in them.You might be on to something there.

He's also got a downer on gay marriage when he is so obviously bisexual.

megan343
10-11-2005, 02:25 PM
I may anorexics are stupid and get in a car accident tomorrow and the two won't relate. I could have just as easily got in a car accident sans the noteatingisstupid remark.

what? that didnt make sense?

manker
10-11-2005, 02:26 PM
Well I am on Atkins diet...since Sunday.

Good luck with the bad breath, the constipation and the gall-stones... ;)That Atkins bloke died this year.

He was obese at the time of his death.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:26 PM
Busyman, would you tell a person with parkinsons to stop shaking because they are attention seeking, or a person with tourettes to stop being rude, or an epiliptic to stop fitting? These are all as far as I know, disorders where the brain misfires in some way, but they have outward physical manifestations.


Don't give him ideas! :lol:
Did she say the brain misfires? :O Oh mmk?

Was a Parkinsons victim told they were too stiff and so decides to shake?

A tourettes victim told they were too mannerly and decided blurt out or curses on a whim?

An epilieptic was told they were too loud and they decided to do their best to keep quiet?

:dry:

manker
10-11-2005, 02:27 PM
I may anorexics are stupid and get in a car accident tomorrow and the two won't relate. I could have just as easily got in a car accident sans the noteatingisstupid remark.

what? that didnt make sense?You're forgetting that he's an idiot.

Cut him some slack, why dont ya.

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 02:27 PM
I may anorexics are stupid and get in a car accident tomorrow and the two won't relate. I could have just as easily got in a car accident sans the noteatingisstupid remark.

what? that didnt make sense?

He's falling apart! :lol:

We can handle this... Quick! Go back and hide in the "Show Your Pants" Thread... ;)

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:28 PM
Stupid body-pumping dismissive heartless arrogant egotistical supercillious people like this man don't generally make sense.

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 02:28 PM
Good luck with the bad breath, the constipation and the gall-stones... ;)That Atkins bloke died this year.

He was obese at the time of his death.

Didn't he get hit by a bus? :blink:

manker
10-11-2005, 02:29 PM
Don't give him ideas! :lol:
Did she say the brain misfires? :O Oh mmk?

Was a Parkinsons victim told they were too stiff and so decides to shake?

A tourettes victim told they were too mannerly and decided blurt out or curses on a whim?

An epilieptic was told they were too loud and they decided to do their best to keep quiet?

:dry:You never reply when I mention OCD.

Imo, it's close to anorexia nervosa. A mental disorder that makes you do things that seem weird to people who don't have the disorder.

Are OCD sufferers stupid too. Are they funny, in any way.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:36 PM
I think all mental illness is funny. Don't you? By the way its kitten stew for dinner. :dry:

manker
10-11-2005, 02:44 PM
I think all mental illness is funny. Don't you? By the way its kitten stew for dinner. :dry:That'll be the third time this week I've had to chow down on pussy :lookaroun

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:45 PM
I think all mental illness is funny. Don't you? By the way its kitten stew for dinner. :dry:That'll be the third time this week I've had to chow down on pussy :lookaroun
:lol: :lol: :lol:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:48 PM
You are sooo hard. I knew I loved you.

Be careful with Atkins, it can make you ill. Better to just eat a healthy balanced diet and excersise in moderation rather than use faddy diets like Atkins or working out excessively .
Yeah I know. I'm only 15 pounds overweight (more if you consider BMI).

I'm 5'9" 200 lbs. I used to be 185 when I was seriously cut-up.

I moved into a new house, got a ready made family (girlfriend with child), reinjured my knee that already had a torn ACL and meniscus, and can't play basketball like I used to (can't cut or in essence cut-it). I stopped lifting like I was supposed to.
I have always ate WTH I wanted even during my slowdown. I'll eat a whole foil of Entemmens Raspberry Danish, a pack of EL Fudge cookies, or two heaping bowls of ice-cream. Friends laughed 'cause I'll two meals when we've gone out (even an obese friend of mine laughed). I eat extremely late. I do everything wrong as far as eating but I never actually worked out to get rid of the weight. It's like basketball fueled me to workout and that's gone.

I'm doing Atkins for 2 weeks. I'm eating fish, chicken, and little beef. I also add in spinach, mushroom, and others vegetables.

I allow myself a little more leeway with the carbs since I workout decently now and got a YMCA membership to swim.

I am starting to pre-rehab my legs 'cause I'm getting surgery on my knee in the winter. People still can't tell I'm 200 ilbs but they couldn't when I was 185 either.

I fear my eight-pack will turn into beer. When I run stairs I'm starting to feel other "parts" of me moving. It's like I'm in someone else's body and it's depressing. However, I recognize my problem and am doing something about it.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:53 PM
I may anorexics are stupid and get in a car accident tomorrow and the two won't relate. I could have just as easily got in a car accident sans the noteatingisstupid remark.

what? that didnt make sense?
Well neither does karma.

Oh I left out the word say.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:54 PM
Did she say the brain misfires? :O Oh mmk?

Was a Parkinsons victim told they were too stiff and so decides to shake?

A tourettes victim told they were too mannerly and decided blurt out or curses on a whim?

An epilieptic was told they were too loud and they decided to do their best to keep quiet?

:dry:You never reply when I mention OCD.

Imo, it's close to anorexia nervosa. A mental disorder that makes you do things that seem weird to people who don't have the disorder.

Are OCD sufferers stupid too. Are they funny, in any way.
Monk sure is.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:55 PM
I think all mental illness is funny. Don't you? By the way its kitten stew for dinner. :dry:
Why not let the kitten grow up....you'd have more meat then.

Member of PETA by any perchance?

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:56 PM
In your case you have recognised thats its your bad habits causing your problems, you don't have an eating disorder. Take the way you feel about your wibbly bits, magnify it by a million, have people tell you constantly that theres nothing wrong with you and you look fine when you FEEL so ashamed of your own body that you think everyone must be humouring you and you may have some idea of what I'm talking about.

Good luck on your mission though. I've learnt finally that being healthy is far more important than loosing weight and swimming is fantastic excersise for joint problems.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 02:57 PM
People Eating Tiny Animals?? Yes. Yes I am. :ermm:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 02:59 PM
In your case you have recognised thats its your bad habits causing your problems, you don't have an eating disorder. Take the way you feel about your wibbly bits, magnify it by a million, have people tell you constantly that theres nothing wrong with you and you look fine when you FEEL so ashamed of your own body that you think everyone must be humouring you and you may have some idea of what I'm talking about.

Good luck on your mission though. I've learnt finally that being healthy is far more important than loosing weight and swimming is fantastic excersise for joint problems.
Yeah. I'll be going from high-impact exercise to no-impact. Swimming is fantastic anyway. I remember the time I caught a charley horse in both legs at the same time in 12 ft. of water. Scary.

I was a COE sometimes. Then I started thinking I was going to into a diabetic coma or some shit. I tore up some sweets. I'm still pissed I got a cavity 'cause my bitch ass dentist shrugged me off about getting my wisdoms removed.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 03:01 PM
People Eating Tiny Animals?? Yes. Yes I am. :ermm:
:lol: :lol: :lol:
So you think it's wong to eat the cute and cuddly wanimals, wight?

manker
10-11-2005, 03:02 PM
I've been depressed before.

I'm 15 pounds overweight (more if you consider BMI).

reinjured my knee that already had a torn ACL and meniscus, and can't play basketball like I used to

I fear my eight-pack will turn into beer.

When I run stairs I'm starting to feel other "parts" of me moving. It's like I'm in someone else's body and it's depressing

I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms.

I thought I was going to have a kid and my ex was in a car accident and we broke up (I was going to marry her)

I cryed alone ... I cryed myself out.

I even bitch up playing basketballI think I've taken a wrong turn - is this the 'Busyman cries for help' thread :unsure:

You said earlier you didn't believe in karma ... maybe if you displayed a little more empathy in this thread, people might actually give a fuck.

manker
10-11-2005, 03:04 PM
You never reply when I mention OCD.

Imo, it's close to anorexia nervosa. A mental disorder that makes you do things that seem weird to people who don't have the disorder.

Are OCD sufferers stupid too. Are they funny, in any way.
Monk sure is.Who?

I'm not talking about a specific person, I'm talking about the sufferers of the condition.

Btw - I've thought some more and reckon anorexia nervosa and bulimia are a form of OCD.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 03:05 PM
Whats a charley horse? That some aquatic yank animal? you could combine the swimming with aquatic aerobics for some resistance training. Its not as girly as it sounds as you use weights (which float :blink: ) and foam tubes to increase the water resistance and give yourself a good workout without the joint strain.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 03:07 PM
.

"I was a COE sometimes."

Then how the HELL cant you understand what I'm talking about in terms of EDs?

Busyman
10-11-2005, 03:09 PM
I've been depressed before.

I'm 15 pounds overweight (more if you consider BMI).

reinjured my knee that already had a torn ACL and meniscus, and can't play basketball like I used to

I fear my eight-pack will turn into beer.

When I run stairs I'm starting to feel other "parts" of me moving. It's like I'm in someone else's body and it's depressing

I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms.

I thought I was going to have a kid and my ex was in a car accident and we broke up (I was going to marry her)

I cryed alone ... I cryed myself out.

I even bitch up playing basketballI think I've taken a wrong turn - is this the 'Busyman cries for help' thread :unsure:

You said earlier you didn't believe in karma ... maybe if you displayed a little more empathy in this thread, people might actually give a fuck.
Dream on. That's past shit. This is the internet and words on the screen don't tell how people are in real life. Some people on here are probably maniacs for all I know. Some people also play the high moral ground on here 'cause it sound "kosher".

Virtualbody1234
10-11-2005, 03:09 PM
I've been depressed before.

I'm 15 pounds overweight (more if you consider BMI).

reinjured my knee that already had a torn ACL and meniscus, and can't play basketball like I used to

I fear my eight-pack will turn into beer.

When I run stairs I'm starting to feel other "parts" of me moving. It's like I'm in someone else's body and it's depressing

I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms.

I thought I was going to have a kid and my ex was in a car accident and we broke up (I was going to marry her)

I cryed alone ... I cryed myself out.

I even bitch up playing basketballI think I've taken a wrong turn - is this the 'Busyman cries for help' thread :unsure:

You said earlier you didn't believe in karma ... maybe if you displayed a little more empathy in this thread, people might actually give a fuck.
You're right. I don't give a fuck.

I think we should all just ignore this anyway. The more we try to discuss it, it just gives him more attention.

Wasn't this afterall about attention seekers?

Busyman
10-11-2005, 03:10 PM
I think I've taken a wrong turn - is this the 'Busyman cries for help' thread :unsure:

You said earlier you didn't believe in karma ... maybe if you displayed a little more empathy in this thread, people might actually give a fuck.
You're right. I don't give a fuck.

I think we should all just ignore this anyway. The more we try to discuss it, it just gives him more attention.

Wasn't this afterall about attention seekers?
Cool. I always say that one shouldn't respond to posts that don't interest them.

Barbarossa
10-11-2005, 03:11 PM
When I run down stairs I feel parts of me moving too... :naughty:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 03:12 PM
When I run down stairs I feel parts of me moving too... :naughty:
:lol: :lol: :lol:

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 03:12 PM
your legs? :blink:

Virtualbody1234
10-11-2005, 03:13 PM
I noticed you edited your post where you said you didn't have the wherewithall to do something. There's something lacking for sure.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 03:17 PM
I noticed you edited your post where you said you didn't have the wherewithall to do something. There's something lacking for sure.
I said I lacked the wherewithal to be fake.

That can't be true since everyone has this.

manker
10-11-2005, 05:21 PM
I've been depressed before.

I'm 15 pounds overweight (more if you consider BMI).

reinjured my knee that already had a torn ACL and meniscus, and can't play basketball like I used to

I fear my eight-pack will turn into beer.

When I run stairs I'm starting to feel other "parts" of me moving. It's like I'm in someone else's body and it's depressing

I worked out too much until I was bruising my arms.

I thought I was going to have a kid and my ex was in a car accident and we broke up (I was going to marry her)

I cryed alone ... I cryed myself out.

I even bitch up playing basketballI think I've taken a wrong turn - is this the 'Busyman cries for help' thread :unsure:

You said earlier you didn't believe in karma ... maybe if you displayed a little more empathy in this thread, people might actually give a fuck.
Dream on. That's past shit. This is the internet and words on the screen don't tell how people are in real life. Some people on here are probably maniacs for all I know. Some people also play the high moral ground on here 'cause it sound "kosher".You keep telling yourself that.

Words on the screen are all we have to go on.

Everyone that's contributed to the thread thinks that your view on this is completely idiotic. Most think that you're a moron - some even think that you're a stupid body-pumping dismissive heartless arrogant egotistical supercillious person (:lol:). My own premis is that you're too insecure to admit that you're wrong and too much of a prick to apologise for any offence that you may have caused.

But, of course, you'll say that you're right and everyone else is wrong - you'll prolly believe it too.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 05:24 PM
I think I've taken a wrong turn - is this the 'Busyman cries for help' thread :unsure:

You said earlier you didn't believe in karma ... maybe if you displayed a little more empathy in this thread, people might actually give a fuck.
Dream on. That's past shit. This is the internet and words on the screen don't tell how people are in real life. Some people on here are probably maniacs for all I know. Some people also play the high moral ground on here 'cause it sound "kosher".But, of course, you'll say that you're right and everyone else is wrong - you'll prolly believe it too.
Sooooo? :blink:

manker
10-11-2005, 05:30 PM
Dream on. That's past shit. This is the internet and words on the screen don't tell how people are in real life. Some people on here are probably maniacs for all I know. Some people also play the high moral ground on here 'cause it sound "kosher".But, of course, you'll say that you're right and everyone else is wrong - you'll prolly believe it too.
Sooooo? :blink:So you're deluding yourself - it's not as if you're some kind of visionary interweb forum version of Galileo.

You're not even that bright. The chances are if you're the only one disagreeing with everyone else - you're wrong.

muchspl3
10-11-2005, 05:35 PM
holy shitstorm what have I started :lol:

manker
10-11-2005, 05:36 PM
holy shitstorm what have I started :lol:It's cool with me.

If you hadn't posted then we wouldn't have seen the hawt pics of Megan.

http://img435.imageshack.us/img435/5593/eyebrows0qd.gif http://img435.imageshack.us/img435/5593/eyebrows0qd.gif http://img435.imageshack.us/img435/5593/eyebrows0qd.gif

Busyman
10-11-2005, 05:37 PM
But, of course, you'll say that you're right and everyone else is wrong - you'll prolly believe it too.
Sooooo? :blink:So you're deluding yourself - it's not as if you're some kind of visionary interweb forum version of Galileo.

You're not even that bright. The chances are if you're the only one disagreeing with everyone else - you're wrong.
I often am disagreeing with everyone else and you probably do think I'm wrong. However, I'll still be Busyman despite your thoughts.

This is passing the time bubba. I leave the visionaryinin' to folks like yerself.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 05:37 PM
Or had the pleasure of making Busyman look like a twat...or does he do that himself?

manker
10-11-2005, 05:39 PM
Or had the pleasure of making Busyman look like a twat...or does he do that himself?It's a weekly thing :lookaroun

Busyman
10-11-2005, 05:40 PM
Or had the pleasure of making Busyman look like a twat...or does he do that himself?
I'm often considered a twat on here, Bitchyomama.

Being politically correct is a bore (thru the head).

manker
10-11-2005, 05:41 PM
Sooooo? :blink:So you're deluding yourself - it's not as if you're some kind of visionary interweb forum version of Galileo.

You're not even that bright. The chances are if you're the only one disagreeing with everyone else - you're wrong.
I often am disagreeing with everyone else and you probably do think I'm wrong. However, I'll still be Busyman despite your thoughts.

This is passing the time bubba. I leave the visionaryinin' to folks like yerself.Have you thought that maybe calling folk with eating disorders 'fucking stupid' and laughing at their misfortune may not be the most productive way to pass the time.

I mean ... if I've got an hour to kill, that's not the first thing that springs to mind.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 05:43 PM
Or had the pleasure of making Busyman look like a twat...or does he do that himself?
I'm often considered a twat on here, Bitchyomama.

Yeeees. I can tell me dear. Keep em coming lovey. :D

Busyman
10-11-2005, 05:48 PM
So you're deluding yourself - it's not as if you're some kind of visionary interweb forum version of Galileo.

You're not even that bright. The chances are if you're the only one disagreeing with everyone else - you're wrong.
I often am disagreeing with everyone else and you probably do think I'm wrong. However, I'll still be Busyman despite your thoughts.

This is passing the time bubba. I leave the visionaryinin' to folks like yerself.Have you thought that maybe calling folk with eating disorders 'fucking stupid' and laughing at their misfortune may not be the most productive way to pass the time.

I mean ... if I've got an hour to kill, that's not the first thing that springs to mind.
They didn't eat on one their own accord. Trauma may have been there but they chose not to eat. Trauma is in other people and they lash out and kill.

I think a person not eating and especially glorifying it is incredibly stupid.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 05:56 PM
There is nothing in someone with an eating disorder to glorify. By your own admission you have to a certain extent suffered from depression and compulsive overeating. Not to mention an addiction to exersise. All of which point to a problem with your self esteem and poor self image. I would have thought you would be more sympathetic to those who have developed serious and life threatening illnesses. So, they are mental illnesses but as I have mentioned before, grounded in the physical, and as serious as physical illness too. Sufferers often face such ignorance as that which you portray and it really does not help.

Gripper
10-11-2005, 06:20 PM
Damn and I thought I was the only Manic Depressive in the village,only to turn up today and find the place full of 'em.

GepperRankins
10-11-2005, 06:35 PM
holy shitstorm what have I started :lol:
you got us the most interesting thread in months and two members, one owned busyman and one posted hawt pics :01:


welcome blythorama and megan btw :guilliame: :01:

Busyman
10-11-2005, 07:06 PM
There is nothing in someone with an eating disorder to glorify. By your own admission you have to a certain extent suffered from depression and compulsive overeating. Not to mention an addiction to exersise. All of which point to a problem with your self esteem and poor self image. I would have thought you would be more sympathetic to those who have developed serious and life threatening illnesses. So, they are mental illnesses but as I have mentioned before, grounded in the physical, and as serious as physical illness too. Sufferers often face such ignorance as that which you portray and it really does not help.
Enablers don't help either. I believe in tough love first and foremost.

Me being depressed, eating too much, and working out to hard all were fixed by myself.

Tbh, the depression just went away. I just cryed myself out.

The overeating will actually come back sans the sweets 'cause Im worried about diabetes (even though the greatest chance of that comes from genetics). When I get back to running around like I used to, I'll eat the same.

The over-exercising was an accident just like when my cousin tore a bicep.
Once I realized what was going on. I chilled the hell out.

I think it's important early on for a person to surround themselves with more than one thing they like to do. The only poor self-image I have is the fact that I should have taken my music more seriously. I could be filthy rich right now. Some of my friends are and have been pleading for my music for awhile and I've been holding on to it like a dumbass.

People need to find things they like to do...healthy things. They can go to those things when there are "problems".

Having a family now will change that since I want more money to support them. The thing is, it's also a lifestyle change somewhat because it involves being in the clubs a bit and around unsavory characters that I've done my best to stay away from.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 07:16 PM
Good luck to you.

The point I was making is that if you have been through shit yourself, you know how hard it can be. There are things in life that you don't have to understand to show compassion over. You may not understand eating disorders but it doesn't give you the right to judge the sufferers. Understanding and compassion is not the same as condoning or enabling.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 07:53 PM
Good luck to you.

The point I was making is that if you have been through shit yourself, you know how hard it can be. There are things in life that you don't have to understand to show compassion over. You may not understand eating disorders but it doesn't give you the right to judge the sufferers. Understanding and compassion is not the same as condoning or enabling.
If a sufferer were to see what we are writing here, I wouldn't want them to see sympathy for their situation.

There actions or inactions should be seen as deplorable and if anything, solutions should be offered.

I don't look at it thesame way as you do.

Blythorama
10-11-2005, 08:11 PM
I do not expect you to offer sympathy. It is obvious you are incapable of looking beyond your own inflexible viewpoint to acknowledge that you do not understand the situations of sufferers. Compassion without understanding is possible and compassion towards those who are suffering is human. You do not have to understand what they are going through to recognise their pain. You are so fixated on being right that you do not bother to listen or reason. Yet you expect people to have sympathy for your situation. You really are laughable.

Sufferers, ex-sufferers, and those who DO have some compassion HAVE seen what has been written here. Do you enjoy taunting those in pain? Here. My legs are broken. Why don't you stamp on them.

Busyman
10-11-2005, 08:29 PM
I do not expect you to offer sympathy. It is obvious you are incapable of looking beyond your own inflexible viewpoint to acknowledge that you do not understand the situations of sufferers. Compassion without understanding is possible and compassion towards those who are suffering is human. You do not have to understand what they are going through to recognise their pain. You are so fixated on being right that you do not bother to listen or reason. Yet you expect people to have sympathy for your situation. You really are laughable.

Sufferers, ex-sufferers, and those who DO have some compassion HAVE seen what has been written here. Do you enjoy taunting those in pain? Here. My legs are broken. Why don't you stamp on them.
If you laid out in the middle of the street and a car ran over your legs, I'd think you an idiot. If you basked in the glory of your broken legs I'd lmao.....especially since you come off as an intelligent person.

I never expect sympathy on here. Hell when one of my friends died of a heart attack in front of me on the b-ball court and there was much laughter when I mentioned it here. If this laughter was in front me I'd probably cave their face in but nevertheless it's on here. Then again I wouldn't tell such things to a stranger in real life. I am but an IP address that could fade away.....yet I wouldn't be dead.

Oh well.

muchspl3
10-11-2005, 08:56 PM
I do not expect you to offer sympathy. It is obvious you are incapable of looking beyond your own inflexible viewpoint to acknowledge that you do not understand the situations of sufferers. Compassion without understanding is possible and compassion towards those who are suffering is human. You do not have to understand what they are going through to recognise their pain. You are so fixated on being right that you do not bother to listen or reason. Yet you expect people to have sympathy for your situation. You really are laughable.

Sufferers, ex-sufferers, and those who DO have some compassion HAVE seen what has been written here. Do you enjoy taunting those in pain? Here. My legs are broken. Why don't you stamp on them.
If you laid out in the middle of the street and a car ran over your legs, I'd think you an idiot. If you basked in the glory of your broken legs I'd lmao.....especially since you come off as an intelligent person.

I never expect sympathy on here. Hell when one of my friends died of a heart attack in front of me on the b-ball court there was much laughter. If this laughter was in front me I'd probably cave there face in but it's on here. Then again I wouldn't tell such things to a stranger in real life. I am but an IP address that could fade away.....yet I wouldn't be dead.

Oh well.

http://img406.imageshack.us/img406/4152/seriousbusiness26vy.jpg

megan343
10-11-2005, 11:11 PM
haha love the pic!


Busyman, I think I speak for EVERYONE when I say shut up. Your view is wrong. Stop trying to put it across like it's right or even normal.

Virtualbody1234
10-11-2005, 11:16 PM
This isn't a lack of compassion. It's insulting others just for the sake of insulting them.

Bullying.

peat moss
10-12-2005, 12:37 AM
holy shitstorm what have I started :lol:
you got us the most interesting thread in months and two members, one owned busyman and one posted hawt pics :01:


welcome blythorama and megan btw :guilliame: :01:



Funny thing is they both seem so strong willed , love that in a person . :)

Anorexia being called a disease is easy is understand , like alcoholism is also considered a disease .

Busyman
10-12-2005, 12:41 AM
haha love the pic!


Busyman, I think I speak for EVERYONE when I say shut up. Your view is wrong. Stop trying to put it across like it's right or even normal.
Dead horse at this point.

Busyman
10-12-2005, 12:41 AM
This isn't a lack of compassion. It's insulting others just for the sake of insulting them.

Bullying.
Bullying who?

muchspl3
10-12-2005, 12:56 AM
you got us the most interesting thread in months and two members, one owned busyman and one posted hawt pics :01:


welcome blythorama and megan btw :guilliame: :01:



Funny thing is they both seem so strong willed , love that in a person . :)

Anorexia being called a disease is easy is understand , like alcoholism is also considered a disease .
"Damn it Muchspl3, you are an alcoholic." "Damn it Muchspl3, you have Lupus"...One of those two doesn't sound right

Busyman
10-12-2005, 01:04 AM
Funny thing is they both seem so strong willed , love that in a person . :)

Anorexia being called a disease is easy is understand , like alcoholism is also considered a disease .
"Damn it Muchspl3, you are an alcoholic." "Damn it Muchspl3, you have Lupus"...One of those two doesn't sound right
I think anorexia is called a disorder and alcoholism is called a disease.

I think some people have a genetic predisposition towards alcohol. Not sure though. It's probably in google. Alcoholism is many times completely brought on by the person though. Alcohol can end up being physically addictive. A person suffering from alcoholism can have physical withdrawal if they don't get some o dat good sweet tasty.......Vodka. :blink: In the beginning I think it's all mental though.

tinkerbell09
10-12-2005, 02:13 AM
http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?action=usersrecentposts&user=Shadow


"For those wondering I'm 5'5" and around 74-78lbs right now...but my target in IP is gonna be 105---so I most likely will NEVER post pictures again since I'll be a fatass...*cries*"


that whole forum is a train wreck I just cant stop looking through the threads and lmao

those bitches need a hamburger

Im not really sure why it is that you get off on making fun of this stuff... have you no respect for other people??? :angry:

muchspl3
10-12-2005, 02:26 AM
http://candyapple73.conforums.com/index.cgi?action=usersrecentposts&user=Shadow


"For those wondering I'm 5'5" and around 74-78lbs right now...but my target in IP is gonna be 105---so I most likely will NEVER post pictures again since I'll be a fatass...*cries*"


that whole forum is a train wreck I just cant stop looking through the threads and lmao

those bitches need a hamburger

Im not really sure why it is that you get off on making fun of this stuff... have you no respect for other people??? :angry:here we go again....


check it out http://money.cnn.com/2004/11/15/news/funny/hardees/burger_instory.jpg
with 1,400 calories and 107 grams of fat
look good doesn't it? tell me how many calorie's did you eat and/or purge today?

tinkerbell09
10-12-2005, 02:35 AM
Im not really sure why it is that you get off on making fun of this stuff... have you no respect for other people??? :angry:here we go again....


check it out http://money.cnn.com/2004/11/15/news/funny/hardees/burger_instory.jpg
with 1,400 calories and 107 grams of fat
look good doesn't it? tell me how many calorie's did you eat and/or purge today?

What I ate, or purged today doesnt matter, have you no heart??? These people are ones who are genuinely sick and hurting. How can you sit there and make fun of something you know nothing about????
All of you who went on FF should be ashamed of yourselves... not only cause you see this as nothing more than a joke, but also because you have no compassion towards other people. Put yourselves in their shoes... In a world in which Society is moulded to be a certain way, to look a certain way, it's not always easy to ignore it...
Whatever poke fun at it here... but please stop coming to the forum and posting non-sense posts. It's hurtful and irritating.

peat moss
10-12-2005, 02:49 AM
"Damn it Muchspl3, you are an alcoholic." "Damn it Muchspl3, you have Lupus"...One of those two doesn't sound right
I think anorexia is called a disorder and alcoholism is called a disease.

I think some people have a genetic predisposition towards alcohol. Not sure though. It's probably in google. Alcoholism is many times completely brought on by the person though. Alcohol can end up being physically addictive. A person suffering from alcoholism can have physical withdrawal if they don't get some o dat good sweet tasty.......Vodka. :blink: In the beginning I think it's all mental though.


I don't don't pretend to be an expert just thought that it would explain it to some on the board a little easier , in that sometimes its a struggle just to survive the day . . :unsure:

muchspl3
10-12-2005, 03:05 AM
here we go again....


check it out http://money.cnn.com/2004/11/15/news/funny/hardees/burger_instory.jpg
with 1,400 calories and 107 grams of fat
look good doesn't it? tell me how many calorie's did you eat and/or purge today?

What I ate, or purged today doesnt matter, have you no heart??? These people are ones who are genuinely sick and hurting. How can you sit there and make fun of something you know nothing about????
All of you who went on FF should be ashamed of yourselves... not only cause you see this as nothing more than a joke, but also because you have no compassion towards other people. Put yourselves in their shoes... In a world in which Society is moulded to be a certain way, to look a certain way, it's not always easy to ignore it...
Whatever poke fun at it here... but please stop coming to the forum and posting non-sense posts. It's hurtful and irritating.
sorry I struck a nerve
hey check this out
http://www.westons.com/acatalog/Online_Catalogue_Ex_Lax_2220.html
good price & its chocolate plus a laxative.

BONUS!!!

peat moss
10-12-2005, 03:13 AM
What I ate, or purged today doesnt matter, have you no heart??? These people are ones who are genuinely sick and hurting. How can you sit there and make fun of something you know nothing about????
All of you who went on FF should be ashamed of yourselves... not only cause you see this as nothing more than a joke, but also because you have no compassion towards other people. Put yourselves in their shoes... In a world in which Society is moulded to be a certain way, to look a certain way, it's not always easy to ignore it...
Whatever poke fun at it here... but please stop coming to the forum and posting non-sense posts. It's hurtful and irritating.
sorry I struck a nerve
http://www.westons.com/acatalog/Online_Catalogue_Ex_Lax_2220.html
good price because its chocolate and a laxative.

BONUS!!!


Well thats enough for me think I'll ship this thread, a little too juvenile for me . Good luck girls if you feel like talking PM me . Peat

tinkerbell09
10-12-2005, 03:25 AM
What I ate, or purged today doesnt matter, have you no heart??? These people are ones who are genuinely sick and hurting. How can you sit there and make fun of something you know nothing about????
All of you who went on FF should be ashamed of yourselves... not only cause you see this as nothing more than a joke, but also because you have no compassion towards other people. Put yourselves in their shoes... In a world in which Society is moulded to be a certain way, to look a certain way, it's not always easy to ignore it...
Whatever poke fun at it here... but please stop coming to the forum and posting non-sense posts. It's hurtful and irritating.
sorry I struck a nerve
hey check this out
http://www.westons.com/acatalog/Online_Catalogue_Ex_Lax_2220.html
good price & its chocolate plus a laxative.

BONUS!!!

Of course it struck a nerve, I don't understand how you could be so childish and insulting when this is a disease that kills so many people. If you don't understand the disease(s) then just ask a question, some girls are really open about it....don't make fun of, or even post nasty pictures... but please ask rather than making a fool out of yourself in the juvenile fashion you've chosen to.

muchspl3
10-12-2005, 03:31 AM
Of course it struck a nerve, I don't understand how you could be so childish and insulting when this is a disease that kills so many people. If you don't understand the disease(s) then just ask a question, some girls are really open about it....don't make fun of, or even post nasty pictures... but please ask rather than making a fool out of yourself in the juvenile fashion you've chosen to.
ever try ephedra? I think its still legal in the states if you get the root

brotherdoobie
10-12-2005, 04:04 AM
Of course it struck a nerve, I don't understand how you could be so childish and insulting when this is a disease that kills so many people. If you don't understand the disease(s) then just ask a question, some girls are really open about it....don't make fun of, or even post nasty pictures... but please ask rather than making a fool out of yourself in the juvenile fashion you've chosen to.
ever try ephedra? I think its still legal in the states if you get the root

Sometimes you are such a cunt, muchspl3. :)

Peace bd

Busyman
10-12-2005, 04:25 AM
This thread is in the Lounge. It was started to point how these females are glorifying themselves (and I called them stupid).

Folks coming in here from there are fair game...especially under the circumskinnys.

The whole reason the forum probably drew attention wasn't merely 'cause of it being about anorexia and such, it was them posting pics like it's something to be proud of, writing barf poems, and glorifying losing 100 lbs from 105.

spinningfreemanny
10-12-2005, 04:39 AM
This thread is in the Lounge. It was started to point how these females are glorifying themselves (and I called them stupid).

Folks coming in here from there are fair game...especially under the circumskinnys.

The whole reason the forum probably drew attention wasn't merely 'cause of it being about anorexia and such, it was them posting pics like it's something to proud of, writing barf poems, glorifying losing 100 lbs from 105.


I gotta join Busyman in one of the few times I agree (mostly) with him.

The words and actions on that forum is sick. Not, sick like ill, but sick like the cheering of someone on the brink of a tall building to jump.

Megan, If you feel compassionate about those girls then you would condemn the cheerleading that goes on there. I'm not sure what they need, But I'm pretty sure thats exactly what they DON'T need.

sorry, I'm pretty busy and all, but I'll keep tabs on this thread...

Busyman
10-12-2005, 04:44 AM
Put yourselves in their shoes... In a world in which Society is moulded to be a certain way, to look a certain way, it's not always easy to ignore it...
Hmmm...just what I thought...vanity. I try to look a certain way for myself. Stop blaming society ffs. "Jill just looks so thin in those jeans. OMG and so does Jane, Janice, and Jocelyn. I am so fat. I'll never be popular."


I don't understand how you could be so childish and insulting when this is a disease that kills so many people. If you don't understand the disease(s)
...a disease that mostly affects a certain cultural attitude, race, and gender and has no genetic link or pathogen to speak of?

Can you be more Pacific and not Atlantic with these diseases? :ermm:

Anorexia deserves condemnation. A so-called victim may have had a traumatic experience but the culture to be paper thin deserves condemnation as well.
I personally will take the thickness anyday...

http://images.crushspot.com/pictures/417930.jpg :naughty:

I'd like to see more models like that too.

S!X
10-12-2005, 05:30 AM
Anorexic women dont meet Busymans high "beefy" standards.

sp88
10-12-2005, 08:41 AM
omigod i thought we were dealing with one amazingly huge moron (cough cough: busyman....clearly not busy enough!) now we've got another. sorry couldnt waste my time remembering ur nick. the one who psted the hamburger pic. thats rite...muchspl3.

let me first say...talking to donkeys ass would get me further than talking to busy. its like we keep talking but his braincells just cant accept the information. must be far to complicated for a simple creature like that one.

for petes sake you say its dumb that those girls deprive themselves from food what the fuck are you doing???? atkins is just another lame excuse to lose weight the easy way. most of the time you end u dead or severly sick....sounds familiar (anorexic patients!! just if ur brain couldnt work hard enough). i should know since my dad died from the atkins crap.


your so fucking righteous about this whole issue but here you go galavanting into the world of dietng and starvation. god i think if opened up the ditionary an looked up the word moron, idiot, dumbfuck oor just plain supid we would see busy's face in all of it. no words needed to describe it. his face would say it all...... :D

i know what im saying will probably not improve ur fucked up state of mind but at least it would make me happier knowing that one other person has called you stupid today. once again the world is in order.

and so what if ur gf dumped you. it was a smart move on her side. you were probably to dumb to have a proper relationship. and im presuming the fact that ur dick is small as ur brain (really really small) must have made u really suck under the sheets too. just because ur going through a rough time dont dump ur shit on the world. trust me when i say WE DONT FUCKING CARE!!!

and for the moron with the burger pic. go fuck yourself cuz i doubt anyone else would want too........... :sick: :sick:

Blythorama
10-12-2005, 09:00 AM
People who are that insensitive will never change their opinions. They possess an inate inability to see from someone elses point of view bourne of stubbornness and arrogance. He who thinks he is always right will never see his own mistakes and will go on justifying what he does or says even though its obvious it may be wrong. Don't rise to the insults, its not worth it.

I would like to point out that I joined this forum before this thread was started, not because of it. I just couldnt keep quiet.

Busyman and your ilk, if you do not have the ability to see things through other peoples eyes, acknowledge they might be going through something which is causing them pain that you don't quite understand, but are able to feel compassion for them, then your personal relationships will always be a struggle. Unless you find somone who will consistantly bow to your opinions and will, which, lets face it, is the kind of
relationship you guys would want.

muchspl3. You are a cock for your purging comments, a c~nt for your hamburger post, and a wanker in general for your attitude. Didn't really want to resort to insults but in this case.... :dry:

Barbarossa
10-12-2005, 09:32 AM
holy shitstorm what have I started :lol:It's cool with me.

If you hadn't posted then we wouldn't have seen the hawt pics of Megan.

http://img435.imageshack.us/img435/5593/eyebrows0qd.gif http://img435.imageshack.us/img435/5593/eyebrows0qd.gif http://img435.imageshack.us/img435/5593/eyebrows0qd.gif

...and following on from that, as a direct result, we wouldn't have seen Guill curse himself to hell for being so bloody talented at teh photoshop... :lol:

Barbarossa
10-12-2005, 09:38 AM
This thread is in the Lounge. It was started to point how these females are glorifying themselves (and I called them stupid).

Folks coming in here from there are fair game...especially under the circumskinnys.

The whole reason the forum probably drew attention wasn't merely 'cause of it being about anorexia and such, it was them posting pics like it's something to be proud of, writing barf poems, and glorifying losing 100 lbs from 105.

I tried to start a drawingroom thread but no-one seems interested... :(

I'm surprised this thread hasn't been closed, and the serious posts moved over there to continue the discussion... That would have kept the juvenile element out of it.. Oh well.. :mellow:

manker
10-12-2005, 09:38 AM
I would like to point out that I joined this forum before this thread was started, not because of it. I just couldnt keep quiet.Shit. I thought you'd been specifically chosen from the AA forum by their admin to come here for the purpose of pwning idiots like Busyman.

Nice to know you'll be sticking around (pardon the pun).

:ermm:

manker
10-12-2005, 09:41 AM
This thread is in the Lounge. It was started to point how these females are glorifying themselves (and I called them stupid).

Folks coming in here from there are fair game...especially under the circumskinnys.

The whole reason the forum probably drew attention wasn't merely 'cause of it being about anorexia and such, it was them posting pics like it's something to be proud of, writing barf poems, and glorifying losing 100 lbs from 105.

I tried to start a drawingroom thread but no-one seems interested... :(

I'm surprised this thread hasn't been closed, and the serious posts moved over there to continue the discussion... That would have kept the juvenile element out of it.. Oh well.. :mellow:I much prefer a discussion thread in the lounge.

I already know what people are going to say in the drawing room, before they say it. It's boring.

You get a better mix in here - for good or bad.

Blythorama
10-12-2005, 09:47 AM
Thank-you! :D :D :D

Was actually recruited from the IA to assist in the recovery of escapee idiots like Piffleman.


Blyth

brotherdoobie
10-12-2005, 11:56 AM
I tried to start a drawingroom thread but no-one seems interested... :(

I'm surprised this thread hasn't been closed, and the serious posts moved over there to continue the discussion... That would have kept the juvenile element out of it.. Oh well.. :mellow:I much prefer a discussion thread in the lounge.

I already know what people are going to say in the drawing room, before they say it. It's boring.

You get a better mix in here - for good or bad.

Hence, the beauty of the lounge.

Peace bd

sArA
10-12-2005, 12:23 PM
@ tinkerbell....those insulting anorexics have already been shouted down in this thread. As far as I am aware, no one from here has owned up to the 'nasty' tub girl pics.

The thread has not been closed because it has provoked a very healthy debate despite the insults.

After having visited the FF forum myself though, I was very very disturbed at the comments encouraging further weight loss and find it appalling that a site supposedly to help victims of this dreadful condition would allow such comments to go un-moderated.

megan343
10-12-2005, 01:02 PM
Sara, it's a support forum, not a recovery forum. There is a big difference. People support the people who already have ed's. Some of them may not want to recover.

That's the difference...so yeah some comments may be more "pro" than others. And generally encouragement of further weight loss is to a healthy goal weight.

Look at the bulimia section, most girls will advise others not to purge etc.

Barbarossa
10-12-2005, 01:18 PM
But it claims not to be a pro-ANA site? :unsure:

I'm now more confused.

Even the google banner ads are confused... :wacko:

http://img50.imageshack.us/img50/2017/googleban2mx.gif

Two are to help anorexics, and one is to help you lose weight... :pinch:

Still, they've stopped guests viewing the threads there now, so at least someone is doing something finally... ;)