School-yard fights at 31 years old

[CrabGirl]

Arghhh. Women! I swear... I'll never understand my own sex properly. The other night whilst all very drunk after a fine wine tasting I inadvertently pissed off a friend of mine. I've known her for 7 years and we (were) really good mates. I can't remember for sure but I think it was because she no longer wanted to be at the House Party we were at and I didn't notice.

Her status on Facebook said "XXX XXX Does not like one thing about what her so-called friend is becoming, time to call it a day", about me, and now wont explain what she meant.


Ignorance when very pissed versus cold-sober character assasination.

I work with her, and now she, or the rest of the department she is on wont speak to me. I feel like in about 16 and an outcast from the cool gang. :cry:

[Skweeky]

That happened to me last year.
It upset me at first and then I realised that people like that aren't worth wasting your time on.

[Acid_death69]

Arghhh. Women! I swear... I'll never understand my own sex properly. The other night whilst all very drunk after a fine wine tasting I inadvertently pissed off a friend of mine. I've known her for 7 years and we (were) really good mates. I can't remember for sure but I think it was because she no longer wanted to be at the House Party we were at and I didn't notice.

Her status on Facebook said "XXX XXX Does not like one thing about what her so-called friend is becoming, time to call it a day", about me, and now wont explain what she meant.


Ignorance when very pissed versus cold-sober character assasination.

I work with her, and now she, or the rest of the department she is on wont speak to me. I feel like in about 16 and an outcast from the cool gang. :cry:
:console:, i wouldnt worry about it, i had amassive arguement with one of my mates a few years bk and ive known him since i was 6, but we ended up getting things sorted like:) im sure in time things will get bk to normal. Thats if you want it to.

[Agrajag]

Arghhh. Women! I swear... I'll never understand my own sex properly. The other night whilst all very drunk after a fine wine tasting I inadvertently pissed off a friend of mine. I've known her for 7 years and we (were) really good mates. I can't remember for sure but I think it was because she no longer wanted to be at the House Party we were at and I didn't notice.

Her status on Facebook said "XXX XXX Does not like one thing about what her so-called friend is becoming, time to call it a day", about me, and now wont explain what she meant.


Ignorance when very pissed versus cold-sober character assasination.

I work with her, and now she, or the rest of the department she is on wont speak to me. I feel like in about 16 and an outcast from the cool gang. :cry:

Why would you be mates with someone who, rather than speaking to you falls out on this Facebook thing. Tell her to grow the fuck up or do something else.

Seriously, step back and think about this, is she fucking 12. No wait, I'd give my ten year old daughter a telling off if she behaved that way. True Story.

I would tell her to delete it, apologise to her pal for being an arse and get it sorted out face to face. If they didn't want to be mates anymore fine, but not like that.

Txt her something like " cn we stll b pals :-( ".

[Agrajag]

If that doesn't work post a link to her Facebook thing and we'll rip the pish out of her.

[The Flying Cow]

"feck off you dirty wench".

That should put her in her place.

[Acid_death69]

"feck me you dirty wench!".

That'll put her in place.
fixed :P

[chalice]

Challenge her to a game of topless Scrabble and whoever loses has to wear the other one's knickers on her head for 17 days and post pics here and on Facebewk.

You rawk at topless Scrabble so you're a cert.

You knows it makes sense.

[Agrajag]

Challenge her to a game of topless Scrabble and whoever loses has to wear the other one's knickers on her head for 17 days and post pics here and on Facebewk.

You rawk at topless Scrabble so you're a cert.

You knows it makes sense.

:sage:

[chalice]

Seriously but, that girl sounds like a fucking nob-end.

If she put stuff about you in her Facilebook then you should just post on her page and let everybody know what a fucking child she's being.

[Agrajag]

Seriously but, that girl sounds like a fucking nob-end.

If she put stuff about you in her Facilebook then you should just post on her page and let everybody know what a fucking child she's being.

So lower yourself to her level you suggest.

I'll have to go with an "unsage: on that one.

[chalice]

She's posting cryptic insults about Lobstress on the interweb.

I'd just go on her page and say 'what the fuck are you spaffing on about you mental bint'. Or words to that effect.

[Agrajag]

She's posting cryptic insults about Lobstress on the interweb.

I'd just go on her page and say 'what the fuck are you spaffing on about you mental bint'. Or words to that effect.

Ah right, I retract my :unsage: and vote :sage:

Only if she uses those words tho'.

[Proper Bo]

phoatieshop a picture of her so it looks like she's sucking off a horse then post it on her facebook. it's the only reasonable solution, like.

[Agrajag]

As ever, Peabody finds the way.

[clocker]

Maybe she's just angling for some hot "make-up sex".


I'm channeling Mr. Mulder today....

[Agrajag]

Did he die like.

[clocker]

Possibly.

[Agrajag]

Why was I not informed.

[The Flying Cow]

He's migrated to Ben's internets.

For the afterlife.

[Agrajag]

Died and went to hell. Gotcha.

[brotherdoobie]

phoatieshop a picture of her so it looks like she's sucking off a horse then post it on her facebook. it's the only reasonable solution, like.


Bo, you should start an interweb advice column.


-bd

[Agrajag]

I'd read it to the max.

[brotherdoobie]

Dear, Bo...has a nice ring to it.


-bd

[Agrajag]

Start a thread, Bo.

[Proper Bo]

I've got nothing to give advice about, like.

[brotherdoobie]

I've got nothing to give advice about, like.


a nihilistic advice column - brilliant.


-bd :01:

[Agrajag]

I've got nothing to give advice about, like.

People would ask you stuff and you would be all :sage:

[Squeamous]

Arghhh. Women! I swear... I'll never understand my own sex properly. The other night whilst all very drunk after a fine wine tasting I inadvertently pissed off a friend of mine. I've known her for 7 years and we (were) really good mates. I can't remember for sure but I think it was because she no longer wanted to be at the House Party we were at and I didn't notice.

Her status on Facebook said "XXX XXX Does not like one thing about what her so-called friend is becoming, time to call it a day", about me, and now wont explain what she meant.


Ignorance when very pissed versus cold-sober character assasination.

I work with her, and now she, or the rest of the department she is on wont speak to me. I feel like in about 16 and an outcast from the cool gang. :cry:

You probably told her she was turning into a haggard, sour face old whinge bucket. I had a situation like this once, where my mate (who was landlady of a pub) wouldn't throw out a woman who was being abusive to her. I offered to escort the woman outside for her and then told her she was pathetic and to get a fucking back bone. I don't actually remember saying it though.

If your 'mate' won't talk to you about it like an adult just put it down to collateral damage and get a better mate to replace her :yup:.

[Proper Bo]

People would ask you stuff and you would be all :sage:
I'm always all :sage:

[Agrajag]

Exactly

[Skweeky]

See, we all agree on this. She's not worth it. :yes:

[CrabGirl]

Thanks people. I've pretty much decided that the best solution is the do nothing one. I can't be arsed with people that play games and if she is that upset at something I've inadvertantly done then she needs to come and tell me about it. I've asked her already and all she said was that she was too pissed off to talk to me. So fuck her.

I've got a feeling its more about the fact that I've got job interviews up country and prolly going to move away from Plymouth soon and she's pissed off and jealous that I'm getting on with my life.

Using Facebook to tell me that she didnt like one aspect of my personality is stupid and childish and pretty much says it all. I have some amazing friends and I dont need ones who make me feel like shit.

Thanks guys!!!

[CrabGirl]

Double post

[The Flying Cow]

She sounds like a right cunt, don't she.

[Agrajag]

Hoi, we like her.

[Proper Bo]

Thanks people. I've pretty much decided that the best solution is the do nothing one. I can't be arsed with people that play games and if she is that upset at something I've inadvertantly done then she needs to come and tell me about it. I've asked her already and all she said was that she was too pissed off to talk to me. So fuck her.

I've got a feeling its more about the fact that I've got job interviews up country and prolly going to move away from Plymouth soon and she's pissed off and jealous that I'm getting on with my life.

Using Facebook to tell me that she didnt like one aspect of my personality is stupid and childish and pretty much says it all. I have some amazing friends and I dont need ones who make me feel like shit.

Thanks guys!!!

I still think my idea was better.

[Agrajag]

you're wise beyond your ears mate.

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[The Flying Cow]

The best one was "Thanksgiving" imo 100%.

[Acid_death69]

hmmm just kick her down a flight of stairs, see how she feels about you then:p