Did I Make The Right Decision?

[monkfi5h]

Last night I had me birthday party and there were lots of people and lots of drink...

Later when I was hammered after drinking shots of vodka/barcardi I hooked up with this girl who i'd only known for a day a while back...

To cut a long story short I could have made sweet kirsten love to her but morally I thought that was wrong, espeically as we were both wasted

Do you think I did the right thing? Or should I have just 'gone in there' and had my dirty way with her

Half of my mates are calling me a pussy for not whereas the other half think I did the right thing...

All I want is the opinion of good, decent people that haven't yet judged me for what I am :lol:

Anyways I gotta go save the world again...

:D

[Snee]

I'd say you did the right thing. Thumbsup buddy! :D

[Lilmiss]

as long as she was sober (and old enough) enough to consent, i find no problem.
in fact, thats usually the best kind. ;)

[DanB]

Yep i'm pretty sure you did the right thing, but then not all blokes think with their brains as well as their c*cks!! i for one will own up to that on occasions :P

[-Archwolf-]

you did the right thing like a gentlemen

[3rd gen noob]

very 'chivalrous'
congrats that man

edit: now go and get laid ya pussy...:P

[chalice]

Plenty of time for that.
The fact that you didn't jump her bones will stand you in good stead for penetrating her panties in future.

[pol]

2 words spring to mind, pie + shy :D






(j/k :P)

[J'Pol]

Me thinks you may be a nancy boy.

[fugley]

Course I boned her!!!!!! :ph34r:

[hobbes]

Assuming consentual adults, I would say that you are a total pussy.

Why do we have parties? To get women into our realm.

Why do we serve them alcohol? To lower their resistance.

You have missed the entire reason for such an occasssion. We don't drink and talk to girls at parties or bars to "make love", and that's not why they are there either. (Women go out to be admired by men. Take an ugly girl, let her bare her breasts in a bar and watch her feel like a princess as all the guys suddenly flock to her.).

Who has a girlfriend they picked up at a bar? Anyone?
Who married that drunk girl from the party? Hello?

Bottom line, an opportunity arouse, you bailed.
Are you going to call her today for a romantic walk in the park followed by a candlelit dinner. Hell no! This was a one shot deal.

[hobbes]

Originally posted by chalice@14 September 2003 - 16:52
Plenty of time for that.
The fact that you didn't jump her bones will stand you in good stead for penetrating her panties in future.
Yeah right, they will probably never speak again.

Why put off jumping bones for tomorrow, when you can do it tonight?

[J'Pol]

Hobbes you tiger, you is lowering the toan as always.

[chalice]

I've changed my mind. You should have shagged her.
Did you have protection with you?

[Lilmiss]

:P

[hobbes]

Originally posted by JPaul@14 September 2003 - 17:05
Hobbes you tiger, you is lowering the toan as always.
Do I sense "the apple" at work? I is doing what to the "toan"? We have not imported that word into the States yet, so can you please provide a synonym.

[hobbes]

Originally posted by chalice@14 September 2003 - 17:07
I've changed my mind. You should have shagged her.
Did you have protection with you?
It was his house/apartment, I'm sure he has a knife or something lying around. Anyway, most women don't attack unless extremely provoked.

[Everose]

When in doubt, don't whup it out. ;) And develope enough confidence to know this in your self. Either that or don't take all advice given here. :D

[Lilmiss]

wimp. :-"

[chalice]

Originally posted by hobbes+14 September 2003 - 16:11--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (hobbes @ 14 September 2003 - 16:11)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-chalice@14 September 2003 - 17:07
I&#39;ve changed my mind. You should have shagged her.
Did you have protection with you?
It was his house/apartment, I&#39;m sure he has a knife or something lying around. Anyway, most women don&#39;t attack unless extremely provoked. [/b][/quote]
LOL.
You should try living at my house. Just my presence provokes her.

(joke, sweetie, just in case you read this) :)

[exeus]

i think if they r pearly gates when u get there the only person that can judge the type of life you lived is yourself
so if you think you done the right thing then you did...

[imnotanaddict]

Originally posted by hobbes@14 September 2003 - 16:03
Assuming consentual adults, I would say that you are a total pussy.

Why do we have parties? To get women into our realm.

Why do we serve them alcohol? To lower their resistance.

You have missed the entire reason for such an occasssion. We don&#39;t drink and talk to girls at parties or bars to "make love", and that&#39;s not why they are there either. (Women go out to be admired by men. Take an ugly girl, let her bare her breasts in a bar and watch her feel like a princess as all the guys suddenly flock to her.).

Who has a girlfriend they picked up at a bar? Anyone?
Who married that drunk girl from the party? Hello?

Bottom line, an opportunity arouse, you bailed.
Are you going to call her today for a romantic walk in the park followed by a candlelit dinner. Hell no&#33; This was a one shot deal.
Why do we have parties? To get women into our realm.

Jeez and I thought it was something about a birthday/good time.

Ego-tripping aside what ever your reasons for not taking advantage of the moment
or of her, only you know. I say trust your instincts they usually won&#39;t let you down.

And not all girls that go to parties are sluts looking to get laid. Some actually may
marry or not and live a normal life.

[hobbes]

Seriously, if you had seen the 1978 documentary about morals and college life called "Animal House", you would know that the correct thing to do is wheel her home to her parents in a shopping cart, ring the bell and run&#33;

Notice, you must return her to her parents, not her apartment or dorm, that is not the standard of appropriate behavior.

[imnotanaddict]

And by the way is that "morals" or "morales".

Also I hope you don&#39;t mind, I&#39;m stealing your avatat

[MetroStars]

Don&#39;t want 2 sound like a perv but fuck your morals


it was sex, u can&#39;t beat sex Especially with a drunk girl all her Inhabitations r gone and she wud have bin a right dirty minx ;)

[hobbes]

Originally posted by imnotanaddict@14 September 2003 - 17:33


And not all girls that go to parties are sluts looking to get laid. Some actually may
marry or not and live a normal life.
LOL, someone is taking this a bit too seriously.

Why are women who have sex sluts? It is good to see that SOME may actually go one to have normal lives, what a relief&#33; Where did you read that women go to parties to have sex. That is why men go to parties. Women go because they thrive on male attention, dancing, and maudlin conversations. And those same women know exactly why that alcohol is there, oh yes they do&#33;

Anyway, parties are, infact, solely for meeting chicks. If it is about having a "good time" how come you don&#39;t invite the boys over for some dancing and soul searching banter, why do you need women for that? Because men don&#39;t do that. We just drink beer and watch football (both types) and talk about how "doable" the cheerleaders are. (Does soccer have cheerleaders?)

Have you ever seen men watching a sporting event with single, unattached women around. Oh, the women get mad because you are ignoring them. Male attention is their dope.

[monkfi5h]

:lol:

[Lilmiss]

:P fool :D

http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/i+pity+the+fool.gif

[MetroStars]

u gotta luv lilmiss ;)

[Lilmiss]

http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/take+a+bow.gif

[J'Pol]

That really is a bit harsh mate.

Particularly for someone who has just walked thro the door. Figuratively speaking of course.

[fugley]

Originally posted by JPaul@14 September 2003 - 17:22
That really is a bit harsh mate.

Particularly for someone who has just walked thro the door. Figuratively speaking of course.
Or should I say "fugeratively"? :blink:

[chalice]

It&#39;s thick and fast today, lads.

[J'Pol]

Originally posted by chalice@14 September 2003 - 18:26
It&#39;s tick and fast today, lads.
But who is thick and who is fast, one wonders.

BTW I love your accent.

[chalice]

Originally posted by JPaul+14 September 2003 - 17:27--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (JPaul @ 14 September 2003 - 17:27)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-chalice@14 September 2003 - 18:26
It&#39;s tick and fast today, lads.
But who is thick and who is fast, one wonders.

BTW I love your accent. [/b][/quote]
Now it wud be me bein&#39; da tick wan der.

[hobbes]

Originally posted by lilmiss@14 September 2003 - 18:12
:P fool :D

http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/i+pity+the+fool.gif
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies here certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well.

[Everose]

Originally posted by hobbes+14 September 2003 - 13:56--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (hobbes @ 14 September 2003 - 13:56)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-lilmiss@14 September 2003 - 18:12
:P fool&nbsp; :D

http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/i+pity+the+fool.gif
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smoother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies her certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well. [/b][/quote]
I for one, wish there were more women on this forum.

&#39;Little Pond" ? Dang. I am in the wrong place.

Adios. ;)

[Keikan]

You gave up sex&#33;? :angry:

What in the sam hell were you thinking?

[summerlinda]

Originally posted by hobbes@14 September 2003 - 18:56
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies here certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well.
A "shut up" comes to mind...

[hobbes]

Originally posted by summerlinda+14 September 2003 - 23:31--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (summerlinda &#064; 14 September 2003 - 23:31)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-hobbes@14 September 2003 - 18:56
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies here certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well.
A "shut up" comes to mind... [/b][/quote]
Ah yes, but the ladies here are exceptional. Engaging in online debate is not the interest of the common woman. The women who come here demonstrate their intelligence while maintaining their femininity, thus are worthy of such attention.

[Rat Faced]

Originally posted by hobbes+14 September 2003 - 22:34--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (hobbes @ 14 September 2003 - 22:34)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by summerlinda@14 September 2003 - 23:31
<!--QuoteBegin-hobbes@14 September 2003 - 18:56
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies here certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well.
A "shut up" comes to mind...
Ah yes, but the ladies here are exceptional. Engaging in online debate is not the interest of the common woman. The women who come here demonstrate their intelligence while maintaining their femininity, thus are worthy of such attention. [/b][/quote]
Hobbes,

you have something on your nose there m8...

[summerlinda]

Originally posted by hobbes+14 September 2003 - 23:34--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (hobbes @ 14 September 2003 - 23:34)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by summerlinda@14 September 2003 - 23:31
<!--QuoteBegin-hobbes@14 September 2003 - 18:56
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies here certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well.
A "shut up" comes to mind...
Ah yes, but the ladies here are exceptional. Engaging in online debate is not the interest of the common woman. The women who come here demonstrate their intelligence while maintaining their femininity, thus are worthy of such attention. [/b][/quote]
OHHH Please, demonstrate their intelligence while maintaining their femininity?

You crack me up, really.

I&#39;m not worthy your attention....

[hobbes]

Originally posted by Rat Faced+14 September 2003 - 23:36--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Rat Faced &#064; 14 September 2003 - 23:36)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by hobbes@14 September 2003 - 22:34

Originally posted by summerlinda@14 September 2003 - 23:31
<!--QuoteBegin-hobbes@14 September 2003 - 18:56
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies here certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well.
A "shut up" comes to mind...
Ah yes, but the ladies here are exceptional. Engaging in online debate is not the interest of the common woman. The women who come here demonstrate their intelligence while maintaining their femininity, thus are worthy of such attention.
Hobbes,

you have something on your nose there m8...[/b][/quote]
LOL RF, I am totally caught out.

Rudolph had his red nose, and mine is ....

Good one, I am humilitated.

[hobbes]

Originally posted by summerlinda+14 September 2003 - 23:40--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (summerlinda &#064; 14 September 2003 - 23:40)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by hobbes@14 September 2003 - 23:34

Originally posted by summerlinda@14 September 2003 - 23:31
<!--QuoteBegin-hobbes@14 September 2003 - 18:56
Look at the women on this forum, few and far between. When they appear the men smother them with effusive praise.

Look at the fervor over the NikkiD pics, you&#39;d think she were royalty or something.

Oh yes, our ladies here certainly enjoy being big fishes in a little pond and we feed them well.
A "shut up" comes to mind...
Ah yes, but the ladies here are exceptional. Engaging in online debate is not the interest of the common woman. The women who come here demonstrate their intelligence while maintaining their femininity, thus are worthy of such attention.
OHHH Please, demonstrate their intelligence while maintaining their femininity?

You crack me up, really.

I&#39;m not worthy your attention.... [/b][/quote]
If you don&#39;t have a spigot which allows you to be inflated and deflated, then probably not.

BTW, where the hell is WeeMouse.

Where the hell did Ron go?

[sArA]

And I pop in every now and again.......

[hobbes]

Originally posted by sara5564@14 September 2003 - 23:49
And I pop in every now and again.......
I knew I could draw her out, who could not love a mind as sharp as this. Anyway, my chum has attracted the Great White, as expected.

[sArA]

As for the question posed by this thread.....

If both are up for it then have the sex....

try it on a bit to see...but thats it...

Taking advantage of a semi comatose, pissed up, girl who is probably going to puke up at some point (possibly over you&#33;).....seems pretty pointless to me. (Especially if you are so pissed up that you cant finish the job)

I mean, where&#39;s the conquest or fun in shagging a blow up doll???? In which case it smacks of desperation and is a bit sad...

So...I think, right decision not to on this occasion....

[sArA]

Why thankyou Hobbes....nice to see you too&#33; :)

[hobbes]

Originally posted by sara5564@14 September 2003 - 23:59
Why thankyou Hobbes....nice to see you too&#33; :)
Drunken sex is not very satisfying for either sex, but men sure are willing to try.

Hello, BTW

[Rat Faced]

Alcohol increases the desire, and reduces the ability...

[4play]

i always found alcohol made women horny and made me erm *cough brewers drip. :(

still if you were both of legal age and had enough wits about you to consent then i would have gone for it.

Its better to regret something you did then something you did not do.