Is It Possible For A Woman To Be In Love-

[MediaSlayer]

I've seen some talk shows where they have a woman saying she was dating a guy blah blah blah and she slept with another guy blah blah blah and accidentally fell in love with both guys. Can u be in love with 2 people at once? When they say "i'm in love with two guys" do the really mean "lust" instead of "love"? How do these scandalous love triangles get started anyway? I've participated in group sex b4 but even if it was legal(marriage i mean) there is no way I would ever try to have a relationship with 2 or more women at once! Imagine how difficult it would be keeping them both happy, and not jealous of each other :lol:

[Lamsey]

I don't see any reason why it's not possible as such, but it would be very unlikely and extremely impractical. :blink:

[JONNO_CELEBS]

I don't even have to read that.........I know.........Yes........it is :(

Jonno B)

[bigboab]

Originally posted by MediaSlayer@13 November 2003 - 23:50
and not jealous of each other
Wow! Here was me thinking I was bigheaded. :lol: :lol: :lol:

[MediaSlayer]

you got me bigboab :lol:

[JONNO_CELEBS]

Originally posted by Lamsey@13 November 2003 - 23:52
I don't see any reason why it's not possible as such, but it would be very unlikely and extremely impractical. :blink:
Impractical.....yes, very!..........Unlikly...no.....not by far, trust me on this :(

Jonno B)

[Rat Faced]

More than possible....quite common, i would think

[Yogi]

I love many women!!

I am in love with one. Once during our 11 year i also fell in love with another girl.
Gladly i was a good boy and chose my current girlfriend without ever cheating on her(hard stuff!!).

My girl and i are very liberal sexwise. But we have one agreement: anything goes, as long as we both like it and in case of a third party(e.g. a threesome)she/he has to like it aswell.

Before those eleven years i once was in love with two girls, who both liked me; bummer, i couldn't choose, ending up with neither of 'm.
Looking back; for the better!!

Living with two woman??? Naahhh, count me out.
A good one 's not allways easy, but easy when needed.
Two woman not easy at the same time???
Can't handle that.



I love all of you!!!(okay...., a lot!!)

BrotherYogi

[internet.news]

yeah, why not? probably a little difficult, but why not ;)

[silent VI]

FEMALE = SCANDELIOUS so yeah i think its possible for a female to SAY there in love with two guys

[Ella]

I believe it is possible to be in love with two men at once...for example, I still love my ex husband and the father of my two kids (the same person, BTW!) and am also now in love with another man. But I don't know if I could carry on two relationships at the same time and profess to love each of them. Shit, one relationship is hard enough! :rolleyes:

[UKMan]

Lets define love first as opposed to "infatuated by", "sexually aroused by", "like very much", "has wet dreams about", "attracted to" etc etc.....

I dont believe men and women "love" in the same way, so i will let the female dudettes answer first. The females i have met that actually had brains, were too complex to fathom. So who knows how they think. :P :D

Peace
UKMan

[spooger~]

Of course it's possible :P ...but if it comes down to a choice between the two.... :unsure:....the one with more money wins!... :(

[DL.]

If 2 or 20 men are having a good time, Money, health, success, friends, then some women will claim to love them all.

But only tilll they ruin the good time. It's the nature of the beast. They can't help themselves.

[MediaSlayer]

Originally posted by UKMan@14 November 2003 - 06:50
Lets define love first as opposed to "infatuated by", "sexually aroused by", "like very much", "has wet dreams about", "attracted to" etc etc.....

I dont believe men and women "love" in the same way, so i will let the female dudettes answer first. The females i have met that actually had brains, were too complex to fathom. So who knows how they think. :P :D

Peace
UKMan
yeah i guess it should be defined what "love" is cuz there are diff types...
There are diff types of love, here's what I think, other opinions welcome.
the two main types are:

passionate love:the kind of puppy love that grabs you and doesn't let go until you give in. It is characterized by strong feelings of passion, sexual attraction, and infactuation for the other person. It is love, but undeveloped love. It may feel like true love, but it is actually the product of your brain chemistry and your hormones going haywire after meeting that special someone. The not-so-pleasant realities of what the other person is "really like" have not set in yet at this stage.

compassionate love:this is true love, between people who know each other well. It is more of an intellectual love, a fondness for the other person's habits, a willingness to cope with each other's differences, ect... This type of love is more genuine, and has stronger foundations than passionate love. It is more like a candle flame, whereas passionate love is more like a blow torch :lol: People who experience this type of love can spend lots of time together and not fight, because their personalities have adapted and grown together so much that they know each other almost as well as they know themselves. As a result, they fight less, they communicate effectively with each other, and they stay happier than couples experiencing passionate love.

how do u define it?

[Ella]

I reckon you summed it up pretty neatly, MediaSlayer...although I only ever thought you were referring to the latter - the other is lust (that can be mistaken for love, but is quite different).

[UKMan]

Very good MediaSlayer.

How would you define love between brothers/sisters - aunts/uncles etc. Can that type of love be compared to a couple?

If we talk about love between a couple as in nr:2 in your example, i can agree to that. So there must be different "chemical" reactions in the body, depending upon who you are in love with.

I love my children
I love my cat
I love my parents
I love that food
I love my job

All these are probably very much missused these days, but are types of love that exist.

Peace/Love
UKMan

[Night Ass]

loll

[summerlinda]

I think the answer is Yes.

And to spooger~ & DL. ----> You're wrong.

[UKMan]

Dont we have more ladys here??
Mostly us blokes replying :P


Peace
UKMan

[Benno]

Originally posted by UKMan@14 November 2003 - 07:50
The females i have met that actually had brains, were too complex to fathom. So who knows how they think. :P :D

Peace
UKMan
Do you wanna denote with this that the majority of women dont have Brains? :o :P

[Spindulik]

I apologize, but didn't have enough time to read this entire thread from the beginning.

Are there nay Mormons here? They have a grasp in multiple marriges and such.

[Adster]

woman woman woman

can't live with em and.........
















I can't live with em

[UKMan]

Originally posted by Benno+14 November 2003 - 13:51--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Benno &#064; 14 November 2003 - 13:51)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-UKMan@14 November 2003 - 07:50
The females i have met that actually had brains, were too complex to fathom. So who knows how they think. :P :D

Peace
UKMan
Do you wanna denote with this that the majority of women dont have Brains? :o :P [/b][/quote]
Took a long time for someone to react :P
Uhmm - no of course not...........but the ones iv&#39;e met - whooo <_<

Spindulik:
Only the men have several wives - not the other way around ;)
Where its allowed of course&#33;

Peace
UKMan

[Ella]

Originally posted by Adster@14 November 2003 - 22:53
woman woman woman

can&#39;t live with em and.........



I can&#39;t live with em
Men....


Can&#39;t live with &#39;em.....and can&#39;t kill &#39;em.

[Spindulik]

Originally posted by UKMan@14 November 2003 - 08:57
Spindulik:
Only the men have several wives - not the other way around ;)
Where its allowed of course&#33;
Oh boy. That is too bad.

[Skweeky]

Oooh, tricky question, I needed to think about this one for a while. Um ok, for me it is possible to love someone and to fall in love with someone else, would not change my feelings towards the one I love of course. Now, it is also possible for me to love two people at the same time, but I can&#39;t keep that up very long. Have to make a choice somewhere then...I guess it&#39;s because when I do something I give myself 100% or I don&#39;t do it.
Used to think it could be different though...

[Adster]

Men....


Can&#39;t live with &#39;em.....and can&#39;t kill &#39;em.

your welcoem to killme

[Wolfmight]

2 women.. when you have sex.. u gatta please em both, but what if one makes you ejaculate faster than the other and the other gets pissed off. :lol: :lol:

[Ella]

I may just do that if your spelling and grammar don&#39;t improve, Ad. You drive me fucking crazy&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33; :blink:

[UKMan]

Originally posted by Skweeky@14 November 2003 - 14:04
Oooh, tricky question, I needed to think about this one for a while. Um ok, for me it is possible to love someone and to fall in love with someone else, would not change my feelings towards the one I love of course. Now, it is also possible for me to love two people at the same time, but I can&#39;t keep that up very long. Have to make a choice somewhere then...I guess it&#39;s because when I do something I give myself 100% or I don&#39;t do it.
Used to think it could be different though...
Guess i&#39;m in with a chance then - i&#39;m schizophrenic - ha ha :lol: :(

Peace
UKSkweekyFanClubFounderMan

[Adster]

I may just do that if your spelling and grammar don&#39;t improve, Ad. You drive me fucking crazy&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;

blame rocktron he wanted me to back to the layed back style :lol: :lol:

i think i typed and posted without errors for 3 days but he said taht it made him board shitless :(

and fucks a bad word very un lady like :P

[Ella]

Well, that&#39;s your first mistake...thinking I&#39;m a lady... :lol:

[Adster]

:o

dami should hang around the lounge more often im missing all the news :lol:

[Adster]

adn the other funny thing is we were both born on septemebr 13th :o

[Ella]

Well, see, there&#39;s the rub. I find it hard to believe a Virgo would post in a manner that you do&#33; We&#39;re such anal perfectionists&#33; Crap, I even have a spell checker for my forum posts&#33; Try IE Spell (http://www.iespell.com)....you may like it&#33; :P

[Adster]

:lol: isnt their a program called typo spell??

I mean that thing is it good enough to pick up on teh very very bad mistakes I do? :P :D

[summerlinda]

Yup, i can&#39;t live without IE-Spell either, but Ad is to lazy to hit the IE-Spell button first :P

[Adster]

hold on taht program is american they spell centre center :angry:

what good is taht for me :P

and yes linda that is so true i am damm lazy

[sparsely]

It Possible For A Woman To Be In Love with 2 men at the same time?

Yes, but it usually costs a bit extra.
Have your buddy split it with you.

[MediaSlayer]

Originally posted by Ella@14 November 2003 - 13:26
We&#39;re such anal perfectionists&#33;
ummm....... uh...

[AussieSheila]

:o Look out Ella&#33; You&#39;ve got AussieSlayer on your tail&#33;

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Where&#39;s me bloody sword???

B)