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leafs116
01-01-2004, 02:53 AM
Theres a gurl that lives a couple houses over from my house. Shes 14 but for some reason I really like her. I talk to her alot, becuase shes my friends sister. So, I know her pretty well.

I also know that she likes me too. And several times she has come on to me, and asked me out. Actually she tells me that she loves me, and that she will wait as long as she has to for me.

But I feel that theres no way i can do that. ..Well I now know some new rules in Canada, after a little research, and if the gurl is 14 or older she can date and have consensual sex wiht an adult..

But still the age difference, may cause questioning in society!

What is your opinion ??

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 02:55 AM
wait 4 yrs man. That would be what i would do.

kurtsl0an
01-01-2004, 02:56 AM
she's 2 young - wait at least 3 or 4 years.

junkyardking
01-01-2004, 02:57 AM
I smell smoke and where theres smoke theres Flames.

ForbiddenDNA
01-01-2004, 02:58 AM
I think you should go for it..
14 and 18..only 4 years away..

That is not really far off..
When you're still young like this, it feels weird..

But around 25-30, the ages to get marry, ages that is 4 away off, wouldn't be a big deal..

I know a couple that the wife is 25, and the husband is 31, their relationship is going great.

So, I dont think 14 and 18 isnt a big problem..

But I want to warn you that, it's hard to hold a relationship..
90% that couples broke up..

judgeofallandnothing
01-01-2004, 02:58 AM
u dont need to have sex u know.... lol u can just go out with her a few years till shes like 17 then its ok ahah

ForbiddenDNA
01-01-2004, 02:58 AM
Originally posted by judgeofallandnothing@31 December 2003 - 18:58
u dont need to have sex u know.... lol u can just go out with her a few years till shes like 17 then its ok ahah
true true...respect that shes 14...

Aaron_T
01-01-2004, 03:07 AM
whatever you do be careful you know wot 14yr olds are like for tellin their mates and if adults hear they could take it the wrong way :)

leafs116
01-01-2004, 03:14 AM
Her mother likes me alot, and everytime i go over, they tease me about it.
But unfortunately her mother just passed away, and shes going to move in with her father, who doesnt know me

the.gringo
01-01-2004, 03:23 AM
Originally posted by ForbiddenDNA@1 January 2004 - 02:58
I think you should go for it..
14 and 18..only 4 years away..

That is not really far off..
When you're still young like this, it feels weird..

But around 25-30, the ages to get marry, ages that is 4 away off, wouldn't be a big deal..

I know a couple that the wife is 25, and the husband is 31, their relationship is going great.

So, I dont think 14 and 18 isnt a big problem..

But I want to warn you that, it's hard to hold a relationship..
90% that couples broke up..
Yeah, then when shes 18 you will be 22 thats not that much of a difference but then I don't think that you can compare that with a 25 and 31 yr old because i think that there is more of a difference in maturity between an 18 yr old and a 22 yr old which is different between a 25 yr old and a 31 yr old unless what ur saying is that their situation was similar to leafs situation in the way that they had 6 years between them like when they began dating she was 18 and he was 24

namzuf9
01-01-2004, 03:23 AM
Well I'm 22 and my girls 29 (30 this year haha!) so thats a 7 year gap. But at our ages that is acceptable.
Under the age of 16 is not socailly acceptable and you intentions could be mis-read. I'd leave it to be honest.
Happy New Year.

leafs116
01-01-2004, 03:42 AM
Shes turning 15 on monday, I told her that we should wait till shes 16 or 17
I was just wondering what other people think i Should do. Cuz I do like her, but I only want to do what is right

FuNkY CaPrIcOrN
01-01-2004, 03:47 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@31 December 2003 - 22:42
I was just wondering what other people think i Should do. Cuz I do like her, but I only want to do what is right
;) Fuck what we think.You need to worry about what her Father is going to think.If it is ok by him then date her.

mrlessk
01-01-2004, 03:55 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@31 December 2003 - 17:53

But I feel that theres no way i can do that. Becuase in Canada at 18 yrs ur an adult, so quite frankly id be a pedophile..I feel that it would be wrong do even think of something like that, let alone do it!
I was just wondering what other people think i Should do. Cuz I do like her, but I only want to do what is right
You just answered your own question!! :nono: :inlove: :nono:

Marius24
01-01-2004, 04:02 AM
im 14 and think it's wrong - 14 is still young, but 15 isn't so bad. if you do people will call you pedo and pervert i think she is too young and you should wait until shes older :)

leafs116
01-01-2004, 04:08 AM
HaHa! I dont think she has to worry about being called names for going out with an older guy.

But, me on the other hand. Ive already been ridiculed by a guy cuz he heard she liked me. And, lol, my parents tease me cuz they found a letter from her.

Kinda funny :D She stuck it on my windsheld wiper, and it snowed that night so i didnt notice, turned on the wipers adn the letter was crushed into the hood. My dad found it a week later

lol

How come not many people who are 18+ are replying, thats were I would expect the most highly opinionated stuff to come from. The stuff that i would face, based on my choice

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 04:13 AM
im 19 coming on to 20. Like i said if i was in your position id wait for 4yrs. I guess in that time you'll both probably fall for other people.
I get the feeling your 14 yr old friend is in an infactuation period.

leafs116
01-01-2004, 04:15 AM
shes been there for 3 years lol..
I thought it would be better if we wait, that way we will know if we still like eachother, and we will be both more mature.. But for some reason i second guess my decision. Especially when i see her

Marius24
01-01-2004, 04:24 AM
if you do go out with her in about 2 weeks you wont be... thrill of the chase :huh:

:)

Marius24
01-01-2004, 04:25 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:15
But for some reason i second guess my decision. Especially when i see her
i know what you mean... have you talked to her about waiting a few years?

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 04:27 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:15
shes been there for 3 years lol..
I thought it would be better if we wait, that way we will know if we still like eachother, and we will be both more mature.. But for some reason i second guess my decision. Especially when i see her
are you sure shes really into you and not just into the idea of going out with an older guy? :huh:

Marius24
01-01-2004, 04:30 AM
Originally posted by thisiswhoweare+1 January 2004 - 03:27--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (thisiswhoweare @ 1 January 2004 - 03:27)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:15
shes been there for 3 years lol..
I thought it would be better if we wait, that way we will know if we still like eachother, and we will be both more mature.. But for some reason i second guess my decision. Especially when i see her
are you sure shes really into you and not just into older guys? :huh: [/b][/quote]
sounds like a teen crush

asmithz
01-01-2004, 04:31 AM
It really depends on how her parents feel about it. I say if there ok with it, it&#39;s ok. It not that big of a differance (4yrs).

Marius24
01-01-2004, 04:34 AM
Originally posted by Agent Smith@1 January 2004 - 03:31
It really depends on how her parents feel about it. I say if there ok with it, it&#39;s ok. It not that big of a differance (4yrs).
4 years isn&#39;t such a big deal - it&#39;s that she is 14 (her being too young) which is the problem

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 04:34 AM
yeah but if they ever wanna get physical, theyd have to wait a long time before they are in a legal situation. Heres where the main issues lie.

Marius24
01-01-2004, 04:39 AM
he doesn&#39;t seem like a guy who would rush someone into that situation :)

asmithz
01-01-2004, 04:43 AM
Originally posted by Marius24+31 December 2003 - 20:34--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Marius24 @ 31 December 2003 - 20:34)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Agent Smith@1 January 2004 - 03:31
It really depends on how her parents feel about it. I say if there ok with it, it&#39;s ok. It not that big of a differance (4yrs).
4 years isn&#39;t such a big deal - it&#39;s that she is 14 (her being too young) which is the problem [/b][/quote]
I know but i am saying if you think of it without the law situation. Then its only 4 years. It wouldn&#39;t matter if she were 4 years older. Its 4 years, and if you feel strongly about it that should not matter.

J'Pol
01-01-2004, 04:43 AM
This is sick.

The Admin and Mods on this board should be ashamed of themselves for letting it go on.

I personally am ashamed of being a member of a forum which would allow this.

I joined this forum exactly one year ago today. I wish I had randomly chosen something else.

May God have mercy on your souls.

internet.news
01-01-2004, 04:48 AM
Happy New Year JP :)



(OK - Maybe should have found somewhere better to say that) :blink:

leafs116
01-01-2004, 04:59 AM
JP *ouch*

I dont really know, but I do think its more then a teen crush for her

And no I wouldnt rush her into anything physical...you can have love without the sex

I like for her, not her body or what I can do with her body.

One thing that has me not wanting to date her, is society... and the view that people have on things like this..ie JP

All I can say is, Thx everyone who replied. My decision is still a big Question, but I have gotten a good view of both sides.

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 05:09 AM
i believe you wouldnt rush her, but 4 yrs is a long time to wait.
And even if you werent in a rush, its not to say she isnt.

If you really wanna date her, wait 2 years when shes reached more maturity (aint saying shes not mature, but give some time for her to get things in view), then date her. That way you wont wait as long till shes a legitimate age.

4yrs IMO isnt an issue. Heck theres a 15 yr gap between my parents. I dont find it gross, or unacceptable at all. But when underage laws come into play its a area worth thinking about (im not talking about the physical side of a relationshiop, but societys view on a nonphysical relationship between an underage and an adult), which i think leafs is doing the right thing about it.

Spindulik
01-01-2004, 05:13 AM
This is screwed up&#33;

You got to look at this realistically. What the hell are you thinking? That&#39;s jail bait. Have you watched a Lifetime Move lately on the LifeTime network? The guy is always guilty.

Do you plan on marrying her for the rest of your life? I guarantee that she&#39;ll change her mind sooner or later. A young teen girl always changes her mind.

Cheese
01-01-2004, 05:15 AM
okay leafs116:one point i want to make is that IF you do decide on "physical contact" then use protection, if you need advice on what this means then seek the appropriate channels...your school, parents, local organisations, the list goes on... but there is always someone to talk to about CONTRACEPTION.

I make no moral judgement on what you do, but make sure YOU take responsibilty for YOUR actions....also remember you are breaking the LAW...

edit: Of course it is important that this is what she wants as well...

Spindulik
01-01-2004, 05:18 AM
Originally posted by Withcheese@1 January 2004 - 01:15
...I make no moral judgement on what you do, but make sure YOU take responsibilty for YOUR actions....also remember you are breaking the LAW...

...yeah, and you don&#39;t want to end up on the Maury Povich show as a guest.

Smith
01-01-2004, 05:20 AM
if u go 4 it, and u get ocught, u get arrested, u get put in jail, u will have 2 movie away from were u live, cause thats considered being a phedophile. dude,see a phyciatrist, u need help, no offence at all. but thats plain rong.

internet.news
01-01-2004, 05:23 AM
Originally posted by TheCanuk@1 January 2004 - 04:20
u will have 2 movie away
see at least you&#39;ll be famous :)

kAb
01-01-2004, 05:24 AM
if you&#39;re both in high school, she&#39;s fair game.

Cheese
01-01-2004, 05:26 AM
I hate this but:

What the fuck does anyone in law enforcement care if an 18 year old has consentual sex with a 14 year old?

Just be safe.

internet.news
01-01-2004, 05:26 AM
Originally posted by kAb@1 January 2004 - 04:24
if you&#39;re both in high school, she&#39;s fair game.
You&#39;re not the headmaster are you Leaf?? :blink:

internet.news
01-01-2004, 05:33 AM
Seriously though - this kinda thing would only be worth it if it was true love under which I&#39;d question both of y&#39;all ages (the amount of times I "fell in love" at 18 :lol: ) but as Withcheese says - PROTECTION - that&#39;s what seperates these situations from quandries to horror stories - if you do - do&#33;

Spindulik
01-01-2004, 05:34 AM
Originally posted by Withcheese@1 January 2004 - 01:26
I hate this but:

What the fuck does anyone in law enforcement care if an 18 year old has consentual sex with a 14 year old?

Just be safe.
Because you always got some politician, or activist, who has a bug up their ass and has to ruin everything.

Cheese
01-01-2004, 05:35 AM
Originally posted by Spindulik+1 January 2004 - 04:34--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Spindulik @ 1 January 2004 - 04:34)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Withcheese@1 January 2004 - 01:26
I hate this but:

What the fuck does anyone in law enforcement care if an 18 year old has consentual sex with a 14 year old?

Just be safe.
Because you always got some politician, or activist, who has a bug up their ass and has to ruin everything. [/b][/quote]
I&#39;m not being rude but WTF???

Smith
01-01-2004, 05:35 AM
Originally posted by samsamsamsam+1 January 2004 - 05:23--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (samsamsamsam @ 1 January 2004 - 05:23)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-TheCanuk@1 January 2004 - 04:20
u will have 2 movie away
see at least you&#39;ll be famous :) [/b][/quote]
famous in the rong way

theres good famous- eg: found the cure 4 cancer
theres bad famous: eg michael jackson

theres no way u could win a case, it never works.

internet.news
01-01-2004, 05:38 AM
I&#39;ll win a case if i like it or not&#33; :angry:

Keikan
01-01-2004, 05:38 AM
I&#39;m 14 wanna trade ages?

Spindulik
01-01-2004, 05:39 AM
Originally posted by Withcheese+1 January 2004 - 01:35--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Withcheese @ 1 January 2004 - 01:35)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by Spindulik@1 January 2004 - 04:34
<!--QuoteBegin-Withcheese@1 January 2004 - 01:26
I hate this but:

What the fuck does anyone in law enforcement care if an 18 year old has consentual sex with a 14 year old?

Just be safe.
Because you always got some politician, or activist, who has a bug up their ass and has to ruin everything.
I&#39;m not being rude but WTF??? [/b][/quote]
No, you are not rude.
I guess you just don&#39;t understand.

internet.news
01-01-2004, 05:40 AM
ME?

Edit:

@Keikan - didn&#39;t see that post flying in like that

Keikan
01-01-2004, 05:44 AM
no

leafs116
01-01-2004, 05:45 AM
Well, theres no sexual intentions. And if that at one point if i did decide to date her, I would definitely use contraceptives. And I do know about them, and how to use them. I am 18.

Sorry not up for a change in age, but if any 18 yr olds wanna change ages wiht the gurl i like, im sure shes up for it.. lol :P

Again guys thanks. My minds becoming a bit clearer

Cheese
01-01-2004, 05:47 AM
Spindulik: I&#39;m sorry but I think you have a good point to make but I&#39;m being too dense and missing it...could you please elaborate?

i&#39;m not taking the piss i just didnt get it :huh:

internet.news
01-01-2004, 05:48 AM
Originally posted by Keikan@1 January 2004 - 04:44
no
Damnit - thought I&#39;d almost found 13 more years of being me then :( - well actually when it&#39;s put like that :)

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 05:54 AM
@ leaf:
whats your friend think about this?

leafs116
01-01-2004, 05:57 AM
About me posting this??

her feelings about me?

Broken
01-01-2004, 06:00 AM
if her parents are cool with it, what the heck... four years isn&#39;t anything.
if not, better back off, jail isn&#39;t a cool place to go for a girl.

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 06:00 AM
her feelings towards you...and vice versa.
It&#39;s gonna be odd for your friend too, since it is your friends sis.
So thats kinda thrown in the mix too.

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:12 AM
Well i really like her

And from I know she feels the same way, prolly even more. She writes me poems and shit all the time.

Ive never really talked to her brother about it b4. But she tells me that because she never stops talking about me, her brother tells her just to ask me out then, if she likes me that much.

But, really im not sure of how he would feel about that

NoX
01-01-2004, 06:19 AM
lol i laugh at u.. :lol: well personally id hurt you so u would stay away from her, but thats just me and my psychotic mind *i had 2 much to drink at new years, dont mind me* :lol:

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 06:22 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 05:12
But she tells me that because she never stops talking about me, her brother tells her just to ask me out then, if she likes me that much.
sounds like something id say but not mean literally. The usual "shut up will ya" type speech saves on thinking time.

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:23 AM
lol ur right

Thats why i havent done anything about it yet, just weighing my options :smilie4:

Spindulik
01-01-2004, 06:25 AM
Originally posted by Withcheese@1 January 2004 - 01:47
Spindulik: I&#39;m sorry but I think you have a good point to make but I&#39;m being too dense and missing it...could you please elaborate?

i&#39;m not taking the piss i just didnt get it :huh:
All I am saying is, in leafs116&#39;s situation, which I assume is okay in his own mind, is a completely innocent relationship. No harm done. But then there is always somebody else who has to butt in and make it a different situation.

------------

Here&#39;s an example of a few people with bugs in their asses and nothing better to do:

In Pennsylvania, there are a few cities and towns who are in great debt. All they need is to raise money quick. The steel mills are gone and all of the steel is now imported from other countries. No money flow anymore. Almost everyone who is a citizen agrees that legalized gambling will help a lot. Surrounding states already have the casinos and Pennsylvania sits around doing nothing but try to raise taxes. Gee, how about legalizing gambling in Pennsylvania too and keep the money there? NO a few people have a bug up their ass and vote against the gambling issue. Seven to be exact and they are all protestant.

The same applies to these few wackos who spend their lifetime saying that religious symbols on Gov. buildings harm the society and the rights of people. In the meantime 95% of the people are religious, yet we all have to please this wacko and remove the symbols. The wacko with the bug up his ass.

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 06:26 AM
out of curiousity what is the age of consent in canada? Here its 16.

(Time now here is 5.28am, my brain is turning to mush =) )

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:31 AM
14 u can buy condoms
18 porn and lotto tickets
19 drink, smoke and go to casinos

Cheese
01-01-2004, 06:32 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 05:31
14 u can buy condoms
18 porn and lotto tickets
19 drink, smoke and go to casinos
consent?

Spindulik
01-01-2004, 06:33 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 02:31
14 u can buy condoms
18 porn and lotto tickets
19 drink, smoke and go to casinos
Age limit to buy condoms? Why?


Am I screwed up? At 14 you can buy condoms and at 18 you can buy porn.

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 06:34 AM
why are there age consents on condoms... 4 yr diff between being able to buy them and being able to use them :)
i wonder who makes these rules.

Im gonna soup up on caffeine to keep me awake long enough to do work. Interested to see other ppls views and opinions.

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:36 AM
u can have sex at 14 as long as its not with someone 18 or over
if u do, then that person can be charged for consensual rape. Even though she wanted u to, u can get ur ass charged.

just takes one angry asshole to report u

Spindulik
01-01-2004, 06:37 AM
I am an exception, never had a problem, but at the age of 14 would the standard condom fit a properly? Do they have early teen sizes in Canada?

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:53 AM
I wasnt purchasing condoms at 14

Waited till i was bit older then that

infamousalbo101
01-01-2004, 06:57 AM
I would of fucked her by now :)

leafs116
01-01-2004, 07:00 AM
ya, but bro, u are under 18, lol

And like i said b4, love doesnt have to involve sex

infamousalbo101
01-01-2004, 07:00 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:00
ya, but bro, u are under 18, lol

And like i said b4, love doesnt have to involve sex
To me it does :)

by the way coke and pepsi are different

UKMan
01-01-2004, 08:28 AM
Unfortunately society even frowns upon youngsters (you are still only 18 and in my eyes a youngster still) of her and your age having any sexual relationships, so my clear advice to you is to avoid any far reaching consequences by not dating this fine filly. Being 18 and obviously sexually aroused by her, you are going to do it if and when tempted to, especially as she has said she "loves" you - allthough i&#39;m not sure she even knows what it means but she feels something at least and this could lead to other problems. I&#39;m sure you must understand that? Any other advice would be idiotic.

If you wanna date underage gals i suggest moving to a country that allows it.

What my own thoughts on this subject are, are not important and neither really are anybody elses, you must be carefull here and obey what the law tells you. Whether you or i think its an ass is another problem.

Peace
UKMan

the.gringo
01-01-2004, 08:44 AM
Did you say that she was a frind of your younger sister?

kurtsl0an
01-01-2004, 08:49 AM
Originally posted by infamousalbo101@1 January 2004 - 00:57
I would of fucked her by now :)
u r so cooln&#39;t - <_<

UKMan
01-01-2004, 08:49 AM
Originally posted by the.gringo@1 January 2004 - 09:44
Did you say that she was a frind of your younger sister?
are you too bloody lazy to look yourself??


....because shes my friends sister....

Peace
UKMan

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 08:50 AM
Originally posted by the.gringo@1 January 2004 - 07:44
Did you say that she was a frind of your younger sister?
she was a sister of a friend.

sparsely
01-01-2004, 08:54 AM
I didn&#39;t bother to read any of the other replies...but...well.there&#39;re really nothin wrong with it, IMO. but it is against the law for the
two of you to copulate.

I&#39;m not sure about the legality of mutual masturbation here....but I digress....

when you&#39;re 18 & 14 it seems like a big deal, but when you&#39;re only slightly older, say 20 & 24, people don&#39;t seem to think anything about it at all.

:rolleyes:

kurtsl0an
01-01-2004, 08:57 AM
Originally posted by Sparsely@1 January 2004 - 02:54
when you&#39;re 18 & 14 it seems like a big deal, but when you&#39;re only slightly older, say 20 & 24, people don&#39;t seem to think anything about it at all.
that&#39;s because of the maturity level of the afformentioned ages....a 14 year old isn&#39;t nearly as mature as an 18 year old - but a 20 and 24 year old are pretty much on the same level - ;)

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 09:34 AM
i would say a 16yr old and 20yr old was ok too, maybe not as good as the 20/24 one but fine.

Marius24
01-01-2004, 09:41 AM
leaf - go talk to her and suggest waiting a few years and see what she says :)



tis the best and easiest thing to do :01:

the.gringo
01-01-2004, 10:57 AM
Are you sure like someone said before that sh isn&#39;t jus infactuated with older guys?

Evil Gemini
01-01-2004, 11:01 AM
cmon she is only 14 years old.
I dont think she has been around that much guys to like older men more.

I say just wait a while and get on her dads good side.

You dont wanna do something and then have the cops on your ass and her dad wanting to kill you. :lol:

sparsely
01-01-2004, 11:46 AM
Originally posted by kurtsl0an+1 January 2004 - 07:57--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (kurtsl0an @ 1 January 2004 - 07:57)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Sparsely@1 January 2004 - 02:54
when you&#39;re 18 & 14 it seems like a big deal, but when you&#39;re only slightly older, say 20 & 24, people don&#39;t seem to think anything about it at all.
that&#39;s because of the maturity level of the afformentioned ages....a 14 year old isn&#39;t nearly as mature as an 18 year old - but a 20 and 24 year old are pretty much on the same level - ;) [/b][/quote]
wrong, foo&#33;

the fact is, females mature emotionally much faster than men.
and even so...there&#39;s a big difference in me when I was 20 as opposed to 24

silent VI
01-01-2004, 01:50 PM
Theres a gurl that lives a couple houses over from my house. Shes 14 but for some reason I really like her. I talk to her alot, becuase shes my friends sister. So, I know her pretty well.

I also know that she likes me too. And several times she has come on to me, and asked me out. Actually she tells me that she loves me, and that she will wait as long as she has to for me.

But I feel that theres no way i can do that. Becuase in Canada at 18 yrs ur an adult, so quite frankly id be a pedophile..I feel that it would be wrong do even think of something like that, let alone do it&#33;

What is your opinion ??

where in canada you should check the laws for your province here in bc at any age you can have sex with the youngest a 14year old as long as its consintual BTW :angry: :angry: dont even think about it ya CRADLE ROBING GOOF

djweiser
01-01-2004, 02:08 PM
Ok, best a 14 year old answer this one (allthough im kinda drunk at the moe)

depending on her personality , depends on what she will tell her m8s.
legally she cant have sex, so respect that. unless she comes up and says she wants it, dont even think it.
if you like each other, then go for it, but be carefull.

summerlinda
01-01-2004, 02:12 PM
A little story,

I was 14 when I met my 18 year old "true love". We got together and no-one bothered really, they all could see were were truly in love. And it lasted, we moved together when I was 17, he was 21.
Then, years later, when I was 22 [him being 26] we got married.

See the difference in age gets smaller when you get older?
14 - 18
17 - 21
22 - 26

Anyway, I think its up to people, as long as they are honest and genuine&#33;

Note: We got divorced at age 26 - 30 ;)

Whats so sick about it JP?

silent VI
01-01-2004, 02:18 PM
she cant have sex, so respect that.

:angry: your obiously an idiotin some contrys age of concent is as young as 12 and younger here see for self moron




Country Male-Female Sex Male-Male Sex Female-Female Sex

Albania 14 14/18? 14
Algeria 16 illegal illegal
Andorra 16 16 16
Antiqua (Barbuda) 16 18 16
Argentina 12/15/16 12/15/16 12/15/16
Armenia 16 Law repealed Law repealed
Aruba 16 16 16
Australia&nbsp; ACT 16 16 16
Australia NSW 16 16 16
Australia NT 16 18 16
Australia Queensland.&nbsp; 16 18 16
Australia&nbsp; SA 16/17 16/17 16/17
Australia Tasmania 17 17 17
Australia Victoria 16 16 16
Australia WA 16 16 16
Austria 14 18 14&nbsp;
Azerbaijan 16 16 16
Bahamas 16 18 18
Bahrain ? Illegal Illegal
Bangladesh ? illegal illegal
Barbados 16 illegal ?
Belarus&nbsp; 16 16 16&nbsp;
Belgium&nbsp; 16/18 16 16
Belize 16 ? ?
Bermuda 16 18 16
Benin ? illegal illegal
Bhutan ? Illegal ?
Bolivia 14f - 16M ? ?
Bosnia 16 16 16
Botswana 16f-14m illegal ?
Brazil 14/18 14/18 14/18&nbsp;
Brunei 14/16 illegal illegal
Bulgaria&nbsp; 14/15 14/18 14/18
Burkina Faso 13 21 21
Burma ? illegal ?
Burundi ? illegal ?
Cambodia (Kampuchea) 16 ? ?
Cambodia 16 ? ?
Cameroon ? illegal ?
Canada 14 14?/18 14

Cape Verde ? illegal ?
Cayman Islands ? ? ?
Chile 12 18&nbsp; 18&nbsp;
China 14 Not defined Not defined
China - Hong Kong 16 21 ?
Colombia 12/14 14 14
Cook Islands ? ? ?
Costa Rica 15/16 15/illegal 15/illegal
Cote D&#39;Ivorie 15 ? ?
Croatia&nbsp; 14 14/18 14/18
Cuba 16 16 16
Cyprus 16 18? 18?
Cyprus- Sars 16 18 18
Czech Republic&nbsp; 15 15 15&nbsp;
Denmark 15 15 15
Dominica 16 ? ?
Dominican Republic&nbsp; 18 18 18
Dutch Antilles 16 16 16
Equador undefined ? ?
Egypt&nbsp; 18 18-illegal? 18-illegal?
El Salvador 16 ? ?
Eritrea 18 18 18
Estonia 14 16 16
Ethiopia 15 ? ?
Islands Malvinas 16 18 16
Faroe Island 15 18 18
Fiji 16 ? ?
Finland 16 16 16
France&nbsp; 15 15 15
French Guiana 15 15 15
French Polynesia Tahiti 15 15 15
Gabon 15 15 15
Georgia (Russia) ? illegal ?
Germany 14/16 14/16 14/16
Ghana ? ? ?
Greece&nbsp; 15/17 17 15/17&nbsp;
Greenland ? ? ?
Grenada 17 illegal illegal
Guam 16 ? ?
Guadelope 15 15 15
Guatemala 18 18 18
Guinea 15 ? ?
Guyana 13 illegal illegal
Haiti 18 18 18
Honduras 14/17 14 14
Hong Kong&nbsp; 18M/16F 21 ?&nbsp;
Hungary&nbsp; 14 14 14
Iceland&nbsp; 14 14 14&nbsp;
India 16 illegal illegal
Indonesia&nbsp; 17 no laws no laws&nbsp;
Iran 14f/17m illegal illegal
Iraq 18 ? ?
Ireland 17 17 17
Israel&nbsp; 16 16 16
Italy&nbsp; 14 14 14
Jamaica 16 illegal illegal
Japan 13 13 13&nbsp;
Jordan 16 illegal illegal
Kenya&nbsp; 16 illegal illegal&nbsp;
Korea&nbsp; 13 13 13
Kosovo 14 18 14
Kuwait ? illegal illegal
Latvia 16 legal? legal?
Lebanon 15/18 illegal illegal
Liberia 16 ? ?
Liechtenstein&nbsp; 14 14/18 14&nbsp;
Lithuania 16 18 16
Luxembourg&nbsp; 16 16 16&nbsp;
Macao 16/17 ? ?
Madagascar 21 21 21
Mali 16 ? ?
Malta&nbsp; 12/18 12/18 12/18
Malaysia&nbsp; Married-16? illegal illegal&nbsp;
Martinique 15 15 15
Mauritius 15 illegal illegal
Mιxico 12 18 18&nbsp;
Moldova 16 16 16
Monaco 15 15 15
Montenegro&nbsp; 14 14 14&nbsp;
Morocco 15 ? ?
Mozambique ? illegal ?
Namibia 16 ? ?
Nepal 16 ? ?
Netherlands 12/16 12/16 12/16
Netherlands Antilles 16 16 16
New Calendonia 15 15 15
New Zealand 16 16 16&nbsp;
Nicaragua ? ? ?
Nigeria 13 ? ?
Norway 16 16 16&nbsp;
Oman&nbsp; none illegal illegal
Pakistan none ? ?
Panama 12/18? ? ?
Papua - New Guinea 16 illegal 16
Paraquay ? ? ?
Peru 14 14 14
Poland 15 15 15
Portugal 14/16? ? ?
Philippines 12/18 18 18
Puerto Rico&nbsp; 14 illegal illegal
Qatar ? illegal illegal
Romania&nbsp; 14 illegal illegal&nbsp;
Russia 14/16? 14/16? 14/16?
Rwanda 18 18 18
San Marino&nbsp; 14/16 14/16 14/16&nbsp;
Saudi Arabia&nbsp; must be married illegal illegal&nbsp;
Senegal&nbsp; illegal illegal
Serbia&nbsp; 14 18 14&nbsp;
Singapore 16 illegal illegal
Slovakia 15 15 15
Slovenia&nbsp; 14 14 14
South Africa 16 19 19
South Korea 13 13 13
Spain 13 13 13
Sri Lanka 16 illegal 16
St.Kitts and Nervis 14/16 ? ?
St.Martin ? ? ?
Surinam 16 18 16
Sweden 15 15 15
Swaziland 18 illegal illegal
Switzerland&nbsp; 16 16 16
Syria 13/15 illegal illegal
Taiwan&nbsp; 16 16 16
Tanzania 15 illegal illegal
Thailand 15 legal at all ages? ?
Togo 14 ? ?
Tonga 16 illegal ?
Trinidad & Tobago&nbsp; 16 illegal illegal&nbsp;
Tunisia 20 illegal illegal
Turkey 15/16 18 18&nbsp;
Tuvalu ? illegal ?
Uganda 18 illegal illegal
Ukraine&nbsp; 16 16 16
United Arab Emirates 18 Illegal Illegal
Uzbekistan 16 illegal 16
Uruguay 16 ? ?
Vanuatu 18 18 18
Venezuela 16 16 16
Vietnam 18 ? ?
Vojvodina 14 18 14
Western Samoa ? illegal ?
Yemen ? illegal ?
Zaire ? illegal ?
Zimbabwe 12/16 illegal illegal
United Kingdom England, Scotland & Wales&nbsp; 16 16 16
United Kingdom Northern Ireland 17 17 17
USA Alabama&nbsp; 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Alaska 16 16 16&nbsp;
USA Arizona 18 law repealed law repealed&nbsp;
USA Arkansas 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA California 18 18 18&nbsp;
USA Colorado 15/17 17 17
USA Connecticut 16 16 16
USA D.C.&nbsp; 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Delaware 16/18 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Florida 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Georgia&nbsp; 16 16 16
USA Hawaii 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Idaho 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Illinois 17 17 17&nbsp;
USA Indiana 16 16 16
USA Iowa 14/16 Law Repealed Law Repealed&nbsp;
USA Kansas&nbsp; 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Kentucky 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Louisiana 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Maine&nbsp; 16 16 16
USA Maryland 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Massachusetts&nbsp; 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Michigan 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Minnesota&nbsp; 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Mississippi 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Missouri 14/17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Montana 16/18&nbsp; 18 18&nbsp;
USA Nebraska 17 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Nevada&nbsp; 16 18 18
USA New Hampshire 16 18 18&nbsp;
USA New Jersey 16 16 16
USA New Mexico 17 13 13&nbsp;
USA New York 17 17 17
USA North Carolina 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA North Dakota 18 Law repealed Law Repealed
USA Ohio 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Oklahoma 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Oregon 18 18 18
USA Pennsylvania 16 16 16
USA&nbsp; Rhode Island 16 Law repealed Law repealed
USA South Carolina&nbsp; 14/16-bill pending Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA South Dakota 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA&nbsp; Tennessee 18 Law Invalidated Law Invalidated
USA Texas 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Utah 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Vermont 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Virginia 18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Washington 16/18 16/18 16/18&nbsp;
USA West Virginia 16 18? 18?&nbsp;
USA Wisconsin 18 18 18&nbsp;
USA Wyoming 16/18? Law repealed Law repealed
USA Military 16 illegal illegal
USA Traveling Citizens 18

Marius24
01-01-2004, 02:24 PM
Originally posted by DrunkeNStylE@1 January 2004 - 13:18
Canada 14 14?/18 14
still shouldn&#39;t rush these things :)

UKMan
01-01-2004, 02:37 PM
QUOTE SummerLinda:

Anyway, I think its up to people, as long as they are honest and genuine&#33;

So do i Linda, unfortunately though a lot of straight laced tight a**ed individuals dont agree. Of course there should be "some" lower limitations, but its soooo hard deciding what is correct - but i dont think i shall go into that here, it could turn nasty B)

Peace
UKMan

Marius24
01-01-2004, 02:50 PM
he has stated he wouldn&#39;t get physical and wouldn&#39;t rush things so it can&#39;t be that bad

mrlessk
01-01-2004, 02:50 PM
Originally posted by leafs116@31 December 2003 - 18:42
Shes turning 15 on monday, I told her that we should wait till shes 16 or 17
I was just wondering what other people think i Should do. Cuz I do like her, but I only want to do what is right
Ok leafs116, here&#39;s a tip&#33;
Don&#39;t do anything you might regret right now :nono: then come back here oh, let&#39;s say....perhaps a year from next monday and post your question again. ;) :smartass:

MetroStars
01-01-2004, 03:00 PM
Fuck it if she is hot go 4 it...

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

No just wait a year or 2

in the mean time download lots of porn

Skweeky
01-01-2004, 04:16 PM
It&#39;s only 4 years, and if you can talk to her, then why should there be a problem? Girls are more mature than guys, especially at that age, I&#39;m sure it won&#39;t be a problem.

I don&#39;t know how it is there, but in Belgium it is allowed there to be a 5 year difference when one of the people is still underaged. I think that&#39;s healthy. Age doesn&#39;t mean that much. I was 17 when I met Bender, he was 34. We were together for 3.5 years and we didn&#39;t break up because if the age difference.
My boyfriend now is 34 (hehe, boyfriend, that&#39;s weird), I&#39;m 20...

What I want to say is: if it feels right, and you both feel comfortable with it, why not do it then? Just make sure you talk about it and keep talking about what you both want and expect.


Good luck :)

GCNaddict
01-01-2004, 04:26 PM
hey skweeky i like ur sig

its the l337/&#092;/355 man&#33;

Snee
01-01-2004, 04:27 PM
Originally posted by Skweeky@1 January 2004 - 17:16
It&#39;s only 4 years, and if you can talk to her, then why should there be a problem? Girls are more mature than guys, especially at that age, I&#39;m sure it won&#39;t be a problem.

Physically IME (from those days), not mentally.

Skweeky
01-01-2004, 04:29 PM
@GN: thank you

@Snny: I think the biggest difference is mentally. Girls are wondering and thinking about completely different things than boys at that age. I&#39;m pretty sure of that

Snee
01-01-2004, 04:33 PM
Oh yeah, I remember that bit. They were absorbed with boys &#39;n&#39; fashion &#39;n&#39; gossip, and apparently who could deliver the cruelest insult.

I read books, damn I was immature.

Skweeky
01-01-2004, 04:38 PM
Not all girls are like that.

When I was 14 I started reading books about philosophy. My friends and I spent hours and hours talking about the meaning of things, and how we wanted our lifes to be, what our expectations were, tihngs like that...
The boys of my age were too busy playing with their Nintendo or playing football.
I certainly had the feeling THEY were just kids.

Snee
01-01-2004, 04:42 PM
Originally posted by Skweeky@1 January 2004 - 17:38
Not all girls are like that.

When I was 14 I started reading books about philosophy. My friends and I spent hours and hours talking about the meaning of things, and how we wanted our lifes to be, what our expectations were, tihngs like that...
The boys of my age were too busy playing with their Nintendo or playing football.
I certainly had the feeling THEY were just kids.
Too bad you were in another country then, I might have found you tolerable.

Skweeky
01-01-2004, 04:44 PM
:lol: :lol: :lol:

You would have LOVED me

Snee
01-01-2004, 05:13 PM
Maybe, but I doubt you would have felt the same for me.

When I was fourteen I lost all my friends, and people kept pushing me so I became a nerve-wreck in the end.

I had an ulcer so I couldn&#39;t eat, which made me look like a skeleton, and I picked up lots of weird nervous habits, which took years to get rid of.

I don&#39;t think anyone saw past that not even the intelligent girls, and all I can say is that the way girls treated me, went far past the effects of any beating I got by other boys.

Their shallowness and insults and their way of looking at me as if I was something alien, was far worse than any physical scarring. If that&#39;s being mature...

Lets just say that half of the time I can even be certain that the me I see in mirrors and photoes is the me that others percieve, &#39;cuz&#39; my mind keeps playing tricks on me. Some people tell me I look good, all I see is what they told me I was back then.

Skweeky
01-01-2004, 06:03 PM
That&#39;s sad Snny. I don&#39;t think anyone at that age is capable of seeing much further than appearance I&#39;m afraid...

It must be difficult for you. I was teased in highschool for one year and it made me feel really bad about myself. People can be so cruel :(

Snee
01-01-2004, 06:12 PM
I&#39;m a regular ray of sunshine today, ain&#39;t I :rolleyes:

Sorry about that.

Skweeky
01-01-2004, 06:13 PM
Na, that&#39;s ok man. We all have our things we need to say sometimes

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:40 PM
summerlinda, Id like to thank u for ur reply.. Maybe u can give me some idea whats on her mind, by telling me what u thought when u liked an 18 yr old..

PM me or something Summerlinda, btw what country are u from??

Everyones comments are helping my decision, both the negative and positive ones. Im thinking about looking at the laws, to see if there is any giving age differences for underage gurls and overage guys..

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:49 PM
Did a little research found out some interesting stuff


VARIOUS AGE-RELATED LAWS IN CANADA
Any age

• Can have an abortion without parental consent or knowledge (since the passage of Bill 19, the Health Care Consent Act, in 1996) (Ontario)

10 years old

• Can operate a motorboat with 10 horsepower limit

12 years old

• Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority

• Can operate a motorboat with 40 horsepower limit

• Can operate a snowmobile on approved trails after passing an approved course

14 years old

• Can have consensual sex (vaginal and anal) with an adult (18 or older) (in 1995 the Ontario Court of Appeal struck down the age of consent for homosexual sex from 18 to 14)

16 years old

• Can marry with parental consent (Ontario)

• Can drive a car

• Can operate a motorboat with over 40 horsepower and a personal watercraft

• Can have ears or nose pierced without parental consent (Ontario)

• Can purchase cigarettes (Saskatchewan)

17 years old

• Can donate blood (all provinces but Quιbec).

18 years old

• Can marry without parental consent (Ontario)

• Can purchase a hunting rifle (Ontario)

• Can join the military

• Can pose nude for photos

• Can vote in federal elections

• Can have a VISA credit card without parental consent (Ontario)

• Can purchase cigarettes (Alberta, Manitoba, Quιbec, P.E.I., Newfoundland)

19 years old

• Can purchase cigarettes (B.C., Ontario, New Brunswick, Nova Scotia)

• Can drink alcohol (Ontario)

25 years old

• Can rent a car (Ontario)

DWk
01-01-2004, 06:52 PM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 11:49
14 years old

• Can have consensual sex (vaginal and anal) with an adult (18 or older) (in 1995 the Ontario Court of Appeal struck down the age of consent for homosexual sex from 18 to 14)
ENOUGH said..... gogoogoggooggogogo :lol:

Marius24
01-01-2004, 06:53 PM
its fine as long as you dont rush her or pressure her, especially at her age :)


apart from that good luck and i hope 4 the best :D

DWk
01-01-2004, 06:54 PM
Originally posted by Marius24@1 January 2004 - 11:53
its fine as long as you dont rush her or pressure her, especially at her age :)


apart from that good luck and i hope 4 the best :D
well she&#39;s the one saying she loves him lol.... wheres the pressure?

:w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool:

Snee
01-01-2004, 06:55 PM
12 years old

• Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority

• Can operate a motorboat with 40 horsepower limit

• Can operate a snowmobile on approved trails after passing an approved course

14 years old

• Can have consensual sex (vaginal and anal) with an adult (18 or older) (in 1995 the Ontario Court of Appeal struck down the age of consent for homosexual sex from 18 to 14)

:blink: daft

Any age:

*I&#39;ll kill ya if you touch my sister

12 is too young for sex, I&#39;d say the same about fourteen too.

fugley
01-01-2004, 06:57 PM
How old to drive a motor boat in the UK?

fugley (39) :blink:

leafs116
01-01-2004, 06:58 PM
Well now that I know the Laws, it has helped abit. But, as I said b4, I wouldnt think about sex with her. If after a while of dating and she wanted to, now atleast I know I wont be breaking any laws.

Now that I know the government doesnt give a shit..

I still want to know other peoples opinions

DWk
01-01-2004, 06:58 PM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 11:49
12 years old

• Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority
ok wtf does that mean....have sex with a stranger?

leafs116
01-01-2004, 07:00 PM
Thats Canada for you. :o

Has anyone else had any experiences or situations like this?

DWk
01-01-2004, 07:03 PM
not me.... im ugly and i live in my computer.... my cats are the only females that like me enuff to sleep with me :lol:

thisiswhoweare
01-01-2004, 07:28 PM
Originally posted by DWk+1 January 2004 - 17:58--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (DWk @ 1 January 2004 - 17:58)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-leafs116@1 January 2004 - 11:49
12 years old

• Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority
ok wtf does that mean....have sex with a stranger? [/b][/quote]
i was thinking that too.

DWk
01-01-2004, 07:49 PM
wtf....so the 12-year old girls/boys should go sleep with some1 they dont trust.... nice law lmfao.... way to support serial rapists

summerlinda
01-01-2004, 08:24 PM
Originally posted by J&#39;Pol@1 January 2004 - 05:43
This is sick.

The Admin and Mods on this board should be ashamed of themselves for letting it go on.

I personally am ashamed of being a member of a forum which would allow this.

I joined this forum exactly one year ago today. I wish I had randomly chosen something else.

May God have mercy on your souls.
/me again and still wants to know what JP finds so sick about this thread / subject?

Marius24
01-01-2004, 08:30 PM
Originally posted by DWk+1 January 2004 - 17:54--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (DWk @ 1 January 2004 - 17:54)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Marius24@1 January 2004 - 11:53
its fine as long as you dont rush her or pressure her, especially at her age :)


apart from that good luck and i hope 4 the best :D
well she&#39;s the one saying she loves him lol.... wheres the pressure?

:w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: [/b][/quote]
wanting it and having it are 2 totally different experiences ;)



:ph34r:

TheDave
01-01-2004, 09:55 PM
i&#39;d wait at least two years man

Sparkle1984
01-01-2004, 10:22 PM
I think it&#39;s gross. Wait til she&#39;s older, but by then she probalby will have found someone else.
Find a woman your own age. ;)

TheDave
01-01-2004, 10:25 PM
follow the 2 year rule like i do.


still cant get layed though <_<

Pitbul
01-01-2004, 10:59 PM
ask yourself if you had a little sister who was 14 and dating an 18 year old would you get mad or not like it?

who me you ask? i&#39;d beat the sh*t out of the 18 year old who was dating my sister if she was signaficantly younger then him. 14/18 thats just sick. the diffrence between that and 20/24 is that they are both over 18 and adults.

Pitbul
01-01-2004, 11:02 PM
Originally posted by Sparkle1984@1 January 2004 - 15:22
I think it&#39;s gross. Wait til she&#39;s older, but by then she probalby will have found someone else.
Find a woman your own age. ;)
haha he probly cant. :lol:, i know that was mean but come on why would you go for a girl that much younger when you could find a girl whose actually around your age. that was any locals wont consider you a peodphile

leafs116
01-02-2004, 12:35 AM
First off, I can find a gurl my age&#33;
But, I like her. I know alot about her, adn we get along good. Im not a sicko or anything.. I just wanted to find out peoples opinions

i dont see any reason in dating someone that i just dont like.

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 12:38 AM
leafs, there is nothing wrong with it. If you two get along fine, then just for go it man

leafs116
01-02-2004, 12:40 AM
Thanks Skweeky

mosaiegh
01-02-2004, 01:31 AM
It depends man, is she like a "older" 14, or a "younger" 14, hope you get what I mean.

Everyone say&#39;s it&#39;s only 4 years, but the difference between 14 - 18 may as well be 4 light years, hence the older, younger 14, it can make all the difference.

So, kinda go for it, but just keep it on the low down, when she hit&#39;s 15, you should be relatively ok. You can get it into trobule, espically with young girls talking here and there, telling there parents, before you know it all sh&#33;t has broken loose and your the worst guy the neighbourhood has ever seen.

Once you have that label man, they just do not listen to a word you say, they won&#39;t let you even try to justify your self. SLAM - Labeled, End.

So just keep it pretty plotonic for a few months, make sure you&#39;re both comfortable, and when she hit&#39;s 15, talk to her, see what she thinks then.

I suggest you keep the info away from her dad if possible, no need for a rift to arise for no reason.

So, in my opinion, go for it man, just stay safe about it, no need to get into sh&#33;t for it, cause that&#39;ll just destroy the relationship along with any chances it has.

Good luck&#33;

P.S - Make sure you research some good hiding places, just incase it goes t&#33;t&#39;s up :ph34r:

- Nightmare -
01-02-2004, 01:48 AM
Dude you should be careful and just wait until she&#39;s legal.

You don&#39;t want to be labeled a kiddy-fiddler for life. :ph34r:

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 01:50 AM
Helllooooo, she IS legal.

summerlinda
01-02-2004, 01:52 AM
Must.............Not............Reply

Must.............Not............Reply

Must.............Not............Reply

thisiswhoweare
01-02-2004, 01:56 AM
Originally posted by Skweeky@2 January 2004 - 00:50
Helllooooo, she IS legal.
yep if both consent to it. Though its perfectly legal, its frowned upon and some people arent open minded enough to see the whole picture.

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 01:58 AM
So? If you have a chance to be happy you have to grab it with both hands no matter what the rest of the world thinks of it

thisiswhoweare
01-02-2004, 02:01 AM
i agree. But its one of those things easier said than done. Unfortunate as it is.

leafs116
01-02-2004, 02:09 AM
It is rather unfortunate, althought the government system finds it legal and ok.. That many others in society, find it wrong and unjust.. I guess someone can find the love of their life at 14, while others can only do that at 34..

She seems to be mature for her age, she doesnt play with barbies, she does the same type of stuff that me and her brother do

- Nightmare -
01-02-2004, 02:12 AM
Originally posted by Skweeky@2 January 2004 - 01:50
Helllooooo, she IS legal.
I should have put quotation marks around legal. But anyway... <_< :lol:

Like thisiswhoweare says that sorta thing isn&#39;t entertained in society of the present at all. I am a person who says screw what others say but this kinda situation for most people is easier said than done.

Spider_dude
01-02-2004, 02:33 AM
you have to be 16 in the uk, so skweeky you must learn these laws and abide by them when you move to ayr.

leafs116
01-02-2004, 02:34 AM
it is easier said then done.. there are so many if and buts

Lol, dont think this city is big enough to have a hiding spot, would have to move away..lol

leafs116
01-02-2004, 02:58 AM
I dont really know her father, or know anything about him.. But one thing i know is that he is around 15 - 20 years older then his girlfriend

But, as many people have stated the maturity level has to be there.

She seems to be very mature for her age.

Becuase her mother just passed away, i spent about 3 hrs talking to her. I didnt bring anything up about relationships. I just talked to her about life, and whats on her mind.

TheDave
01-02-2004, 03:01 AM
:nono: i know the type of girl. i wouldnt go with if they were my age. they often think they are mature, but they ain&#39;t

Spindulik
01-02-2004, 03:05 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:00
...And like i said b4, love doesnt have to involve sex....


In that case.
So two guys or two girls at that age can be in love with each other, but no sex. Interesting.

leafs116
01-02-2004, 04:48 AM
Im taking everyones opinions into consideration, and getting closer to my decision

But, one thing i want to know.. All the parents on here, what would u do if ur 14 yr old daughter dated an 18 yr old guy. Your sons friend

Thanks Guys and Gurls

internet.news
01-02-2004, 04:56 AM
:angry: :angry: :angry:



(but then I&#39;d still feel the same if she was 30)

TheDave
01-02-2004, 05:09 AM
i&#39;d think that guy was a scumbag and ground my daughter until her menopause - sorry

D4rK0Soul
01-02-2004, 05:53 AM
ahahha im 14 (m) to, we dont care older women do.

Sparkle1984
01-02-2004, 01:07 PM
Originally posted by J&#39;Pol@1 January 2004 - 03:43
This is sick.

The Admin and Mods on this board should be ashamed of themselves for letting it go on.

I personally am ashamed of being a member of a forum which would allow this.

I joined this forum exactly one year ago today. I wish I had randomly chosen something else.

May God have mercy on your souls.
I agree &#33;&#33; Well said.
I don&#39;t think this conversation should ever have been started here.
There are more and more strange people in this forum lately

silent VI
01-02-2004, 01:25 PM
Country Male-Female Sex Male-Male Sex Female-Female Sex

Albania 14 14/18? 14
Algeria 16 illegal illegal
Andorra 16 16 16
Antiqua (Barbuda) 16 18 16
Argentina 12/15/16 12/15/16 12/15/16
Armenia 16 Law repealed Law repealed
Aruba 16 16 16
Australia&nbsp; ACT 16 16 16
Australia NSW 16 16 16
Australia NT 16 18 16
Australia Queensland.&nbsp; 16 18 16
Australia&nbsp; SA 16/17 16/17 16/17
Australia Tasmania 17 17 17
Australia Victoria 16 16 16
Australia WA 16 16 16
Austria 14 18 14&nbsp;
Azerbaijan 16 16 16
Bahamas 16 18 18
Bahrain ? Illegal Illegal
Bangladesh ? illegal illegal
Barbados 16 illegal ?
Belarus&nbsp; 16 16 16&nbsp;
Belgium&nbsp; 16/18 16 16
Belize 16 ? ?
Bermuda 16 18 16
Benin ? illegal illegal
Bhutan ? Illegal ?
Bolivia 14f - 16M ? ?
Bosnia 16 16 16
Botswana 16f-14m illegal ?
Brazil 14/18 14/18 14/18&nbsp;
Brunei 14/16 illegal illegal
Bulgaria&nbsp; 14/15 14/18 14/18
Burkina Faso 13 21 21
Burma ? illegal ?
Burundi ? illegal ?
Cambodia (Kampuchea) 16 ? ?
Cambodia 16 ? ?
Cameroon ? illegal ?
Canada 14 14?/18 14

Cape Verde ? illegal ?
Cayman Islands ? ? ?
Chile 12 18&nbsp; 18&nbsp;
China 14 Not defined Not defined
China - Hong Kong 16 21 ?
Colombia 12/14 14 14
Cook Islands ? ? ?
Costa Rica 15/16 15/illegal 15/illegal
Cote D&#39;Ivorie 15 ? ?
Croatia&nbsp; 14 14/18 14/18
Cuba 16 16 16
Cyprus 16 18? 18?
Cyprus- Sars 16 18 18
Czech Republic&nbsp; 15 15 15&nbsp;
Denmark 15 15 15
Dominica 16 ? ?
Dominican Republic&nbsp; 18 18 18
Dutch Antilles 16 16 16
Equador undefined ? ?
Egypt&nbsp; 18 18-illegal? 18-illegal?
El Salvador 16 ? ?
Eritrea 18 18 18
Estonia 14 16 16
Ethiopia 15 ? ?
Islands Malvinas 16 18 16
Faroe Island 15 18 18
Fiji 16 ? ?
Finland 16 16 16
France&nbsp; 15 15 15
French Guiana 15 15 15
French Polynesia Tahiti 15 15 15
Gabon 15 15 15
Georgia (Russia) ? illegal ?
Germany 14/16 14/16 14/16
Ghana ? ? ?
Greece&nbsp; 15/17 17 15/17&nbsp;
Greenland ? ? ?
Grenada 17 illegal illegal
Guam 16 ? ?
Guadelope 15 15 15
Guatemala 18 18 18
Guinea 15 ? ?
Guyana 13 illegal illegal
Haiti 18 18 18
Honduras 14/17 14 14
Hong Kong&nbsp; 18M/16F 21 ?&nbsp;
Hungary&nbsp; 14 14 14
Iceland&nbsp; 14 14 14&nbsp;
India 16 illegal illegal
Indonesia&nbsp; 17 no laws no laws&nbsp;
Iran 14f/17m illegal illegal
Iraq 18 ? ?
Ireland 17 17 17
Israel&nbsp; 16 16 16
Italy&nbsp; 14 14 14
Jamaica 16 illegal illegal
Japan 13 13 13&nbsp;
Jordan 16 illegal illegal
Kenya&nbsp; 16 illegal illegal&nbsp;
Korea&nbsp; 13 13 13
Kosovo 14 18 14
Kuwait ? illegal illegal
Latvia 16 legal? legal?
Lebanon 15/18 illegal illegal
Liberia 16 ? ?
Liechtenstein&nbsp; 14 14/18 14&nbsp;
Lithuania 16 18 16
Luxembourg&nbsp; 16 16 16&nbsp;
Macao 16/17 ? ?
Madagascar 21 21 21
Mali 16 ? ?
Malta&nbsp; 12/18 12/18 12/18
Malaysia&nbsp; Married-16? illegal illegal&nbsp;
Martinique 15 15 15
Mauritius 15 illegal illegal
Mιxico 12 18 18&nbsp;
Moldova 16 16 16
Monaco 15 15 15
Montenegro&nbsp; 14 14 14&nbsp;
Morocco 15 ? ?
Mozambique ? illegal ?
Namibia 16 ? ?
Nepal 16 ? ?
Netherlands 12/16 12/16 12/16
Netherlands Antilles 16 16 16
New Calendonia 15 15 15
New Zealand 16 16 16&nbsp;
Nicaragua ? ? ?
Nigeria 13 ? ?
Norway 16 16 16&nbsp;
Oman&nbsp; none illegal illegal
Pakistan none ? ?
Panama 12/18? ? ?
Papua - New Guinea 16 illegal 16
Paraquay ? ? ?
Peru 14 14 14
Poland 15 15 15
Portugal 14/16? ? ?
Philippines 12/18 18 18
Puerto Rico&nbsp; 14 illegal illegal
Qatar ? illegal illegal
Romania&nbsp; 14 illegal illegal&nbsp;
Russia 14/16? 14/16? 14/16?
Rwanda 18 18 18
San Marino&nbsp; 14/16 14/16 14/16&nbsp;
Saudi Arabia&nbsp; must be married illegal illegal&nbsp;
Senegal&nbsp; illegal illegal
Serbia&nbsp; 14 18 14&nbsp;
Singapore 16 illegal illegal
Slovakia 15 15 15
Slovenia&nbsp; 14 14 14
South Africa 16 19 19
South Korea 13 13 13
Spain 13 13 13
Sri Lanka 16 illegal 16
St.Kitts and Nervis 14/16 ? ?
St.Martin ? ? ?
Surinam 16 18 16
Sweden 15 15 15
Swaziland 18 illegal illegal
Switzerland&nbsp; 16 16 16
Syria 13/15 illegal illegal
Taiwan&nbsp; 16 16 16
Tanzania 15 illegal illegal
Thailand 15 legal at all ages? ?
Togo 14 ? ?
Tonga 16 illegal ?
Trinidad & Tobago&nbsp; 16 illegal illegal&nbsp;
Tunisia 20 illegal illegal
Turkey 15/16 18 18&nbsp;
Tuvalu ? illegal ?
Uganda 18 illegal illegal
Ukraine&nbsp; 16 16 16
United Arab Emirates 18 Illegal Illegal
Uzbekistan 16 illegal 16
Uruguay 16 ? ?
Vanuatu 18 18 18
Venezuela 16 16 16
Vietnam 18 ? ?
Vojvodina 14 18 14
Western Samoa ? illegal ?
Yemen ? illegal ?
Zaire ? illegal ?
Zimbabwe 12/16 illegal illegal
United Kingdom England, Scotland & Wales&nbsp; 16 16 16
United Kingdom Northern Ireland 17 17 17
USA Alabama&nbsp; 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Alaska 16 16 16&nbsp;
USA Arizona 18 law repealed law repealed&nbsp;
USA Arkansas 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA California 18 18 18&nbsp;
USA Colorado 15/17 17 17
USA Connecticut 16 16 16
USA D.C.&nbsp; 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Delaware 16/18 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Florida 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Georgia&nbsp; 16 16 16
USA Hawaii 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Idaho 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Illinois 17 17 17&nbsp;
USA Indiana 16 16 16
USA Iowa 14/16 Law Repealed Law Repealed&nbsp;
USA Kansas&nbsp; 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Kentucky 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Louisiana 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Maine&nbsp; 16 16 16
USA Maryland 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Massachusetts&nbsp; 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Michigan 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Minnesota&nbsp; 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Mississippi 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Missouri 14/17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Montana 16/18&nbsp; 18 18&nbsp;
USA Nebraska 17 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Nevada&nbsp; 16 18 18
USA New Hampshire 16 18 18&nbsp;
USA New Jersey 16 16 16
USA New Mexico 17 13 13&nbsp;
USA New York 17 17 17
USA North Carolina 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA North Dakota 18 Law repealed Law Repealed
USA Ohio 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Oklahoma 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Oregon 18 18 18
USA Pennsylvania 16 16 16
USA&nbsp; Rhode Island 16 Law repealed Law repealed
USA South Carolina&nbsp; 14/16-bill pending Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA South Dakota 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA&nbsp; Tennessee 18 Law Invalidated Law Invalidated
USA Texas 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Utah 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Vermont 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Virginia 18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Washington 16/18 16/18 16/18&nbsp;
USA West Virginia 16 18? 18?&nbsp;
USA Wisconsin 18 18 18&nbsp;
USA Wyoming 16/18? Law repealed Law repealed
USA Military 16 illegal illegal
USA Traveling Citizens 18

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 03:00 PM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 02:53
..Well I now know some new rules in Canada, after a little research, and if the gurl is 14 or older she can date and have consensual sex wiht an adult..

:o Is that true???.........Thats outragous :angry:

Jonno B)

UKMan
01-02-2004, 03:03 PM
Originally posted by leafs116@2 January 2004 - 05:48
Im taking everyones opinions into consideration, and getting closer to my decision

But, one thing i want to know.. All the parents on here, what would u do if ur 14 yr old daughter dated an 18 yr old guy. Your sons friend

Thanks Guys and Gurls
Mine did - i had no problem with that Leaf - and thats the truth dude B)

Peace
UKMan

DanB
01-02-2004, 03:03 PM
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS+2 January 2004 - 16:00--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (JONNO_CELEBS @ 2 January 2004 - 16:00)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-leafs116@1 January 2004 - 02:53
..Well I now know some new rules in Canada, after a little research, and if the gurl is 14 or older she can date and have consensual sex wiht an adult..

:o Is that true???.........Thats outragous :angry:

Jonno B) [/b][/quote]
I think I definitely have to agree with you there .


Doesnt seem right does it? <_<

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 03:09 PM
6pm new years eve I drove thru my town and a girl (approx 14 y/o) layed in the door of a shop with a real short skirt on, sober, laughing with a group of lads, legs open and no knickers&#33;&#33;&#33;.......If I was her dad I would have gone ape shit :angry:

14 is NOT acceptable&#33;&#33;&#33; Period&#33;&#33;

I&#39;m not being square or anything but 14 ??.......She&#39;s still a child, she can&#39;t vote, drink, smoke, drive or be convicted of anything&#33;&#33;

She is a child, an 18 y/o is classed as adult, although I still disagree with that too.

Sorry, just MO

Jonno B)

UKMan
01-02-2004, 03:14 PM
I finally found something you and i dissagree on Jonno - i hope this dosn&#39;t interfere with things :( :rolleyes: B)

Now cover up those nads before the neighbour sees &#39;em :lol:

Peace
UKMan

leafs116
01-02-2004, 03:22 PM
Sparkle, alot of the people who are replying to this have been here longer then you. Its someones opinion, doesnt mean the board is going bad or anything

Most of the people dont find it sick..Most find that its the society that would be the problem.. But you also have ur opinions, and ill take them into mind

UKMan, very respectable that you trusted ur daughter with that.. If i do decide to go out with her, I hope her dad will to

allskiillz
01-02-2004, 03:28 PM
i heard in vermont the age is 12 :frusty:

crazybint
01-02-2004, 03:45 PM
It may not seem like a huge gap, but there&#39;s a reason why the age of consent is 16. Sure, you may not be havin sex but people will make their own conclusions about you and it only takes her to say something to a friend and you could be in alot of trouble.
One of my friends (also 18) went out with a 14 year old and the entire community thought he was a pervert, you may have good intentions but society sucks.

But then you have to do what you think is right.....

Good luck :)

summerlinda
01-02-2004, 03:48 PM
So I am / was: Illegal, Wrong, Strange, Sick, Gross bla bla bla... [yes I do take this personal]

Hmmz, I never considered myself that way.... I was never told by my parents, friends, teachers and what not, I guess they were all wrong eh?

Better yet, I think I&#39;m gonna call my ex to tell him what a sick-pedo-pervert he was back then, and that I am gonna sue him. Cause that seems the right thing to do... Maybe I should even warn his new wife to keep an eye on him while he is bathing with their kid... considering he IS a sick-pedo-pervert.....:wacko:

Actually, I think I am a rather normal person and so is my ex, you think we go to Hell now, for being in love at age 14 - 18? :cry1: Please forgive us our sins, it will never happen again, I promise&#33;

@ Jonno, The picture you describe is NOT what this thread was about, the subject is being in love, not having a gang bang at age 14&#33;

BTW: It is okay for 12 year olds [yes we have them aboard] to view that Porn thread? Its rather explicit even though the penises and vagina&#39;s are pixelated. I know its not the same but still.... think about it... Smells like hypocrisy to me.

leafs116
01-02-2004, 03:52 PM
summer, would u let your daughter date an 18 year old when she is 14,
after your experiences??

UKMan
01-02-2004, 04:00 PM
@Linda - you make very valid points and i&#39;m soooo glad its a lady making these statements, because if it had been a bloke, like me for instance, then all hell would break loose :(

I cant speak for Jonno, so i wont.

Lets also try to remember that we all come from different enviroments and this has a lot of influence over how we think. Allthough this isnt the case all the time of course. Different countries have different laws and the Eastern cultures are even more liberal than we are - i just think its a shame that parents are not given more controll over how they think their own families should run. Of course o lot of parents havn&#39;t the faintest idea either of how to take care of their kids, but thats not a reason to take away these rights from all parents. Making laws also hinders those who have differing opinions - think about that for a while too.

My daughter was bought up in a very liberal manner and has turned out to be a wonderfull girl - having a baby soon - shes 21 btw now B)

Peace
UKMan

summerlinda
01-02-2004, 04:00 PM
Originally posted by leafs116@2 January 2004 - 16:52
summer, would u let your daughter date an 18 year old when she is 14,
after your experiences??
Depends on the circumstances.
Does the guy seem honest?
Is she "mature" enough? [there are differences in 14 year olds and 14 year olds]

If so, yes.
Why not? If it works out for them then good, if it doesn&#39;t, well, bad luck, thats how it goes, whether you are 14 or 16. You can&#39;t prevent your kids from heartache anyway.

If my parents had prohibited to go out with him, I would have done it secretly because we were truly in love and no wild horses could have dragged me away from him&#33; [and vice versa]

Its better to approve and keep an eye on them then to tell them they can&#39;t and they do it anyway and you wont have an eye on them, see what I mean?

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 04:14 PM
Ah, I see the sanity has returned. (hooray for SL and Ukkie)

I simply cannot understand that people are shocked because of a boy and a girl having feelings for each other when there is a 4-year difference.
In the thread about the guns most people are just joking around while those things are a bigger threat to everyones life <_<

I stick to my guns (ha ha ha) and say: go for it leafs, if you have feelings for each other, then at least you should explore them a bit further. You might regret it if you don&#39;t.

leafs116
01-02-2004, 04:18 PM
thanks skweeky

I think im going to talk to her about it, and see what she wants to do

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 04:22 PM
Best thing you can do mate :)

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 04:56 PM
Originally posted by summerlinda@2 January 2004 - 15:48
BTW: It is okay for 12 year olds [yes we have them aboard] to view that Porn thread? Its rather explicit even though the penises and vagina&#39;s are pixelated. I know its not the same but still.... think about it... Smells like hypocrisy to me.
Oh come on, there&#39;s a world of difference between a pic and making love, a pic wont get you pregnant for a start :rolleyes:

@UK........Everyone is entitled to their opinion :) and of course you have the right to be wrong :lol: :lol: j/k :)

As I said, it&#39;s my opinion, that&#39;s all :)


@ Jonno, The picture you describe is NOT what this thread was about, the subject is being in love, not having a gang bang at age 14&#33;

I was just making a point :)

As for the age gap, that makes no difference to me at all, my partener is 14 years older than me so I have no issues there at all :)

It&#39;s the fact that the girl is 14, I&#39;m sorry but it&#39;s just wrong, she IS a child, no one can argue that.

I&#39;m not going to fight anyone over this, I&#39;m merely stating fact :)

I&#39;m very liberal minded :) But seeing all these young girls walking about with kids, no father, lives in turmoil. This does&#39;nt apply to all I know and I&#39;m not saying that you Leafs are a bad guy, not by far, I don&#39;t know you and therefore cannot make assumptions, the fact that you asked opinions on this and metioned love and caring shows you are a caring person :)

But she&#39;s still 14, sorry, if she was 18 and you were 22, 30, 40 I have no problem, but she&#39;s 14 years old.

Jonno B)

UKMan
01-02-2004, 05:01 PM
@Jonno

@UK........Everyone is entitled to their opinion&nbsp; and of course you have the right to be wrong&nbsp; j/k&nbsp;

As I said, it&#39;s my opinion, that&#39;s all

:lol:
My point entirely Jonno - you have yours just like everyone else - now its up to Leafs to consider all the options.

Peace
UKLiberalMan

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 05:05 PM
Point taken Uk :)

Leafs&#33; I hope you make the right descision for the both of you, what ever the right descision is :)

Jonno B)

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 05:09 PM
Awww, let&#39;s all sit down together, smoke a joint and sing &#39;we shall overcome&#39;

UKMan
01-02-2004, 05:11 PM
Should we invite the girl as well?

PeacePipe
UKMan

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 05:12 PM
Can I sit next to Skweeks? :)

Jonno B)

leafs116
01-02-2004, 05:14 PM
HaHa

Dont think she&#39;d smoke some weed, but she is good at singing :music1:

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 05:15 PM
Of course you can. Pass on that pipe Ukkie, you&#39;ve had for over a year now :rolleyes:

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 05:21 PM
YAY&#33;&#33;........well you always used to jump on my lap...........my turn :P :lol:

Jonno B)

- Nightmare -
01-02-2004, 05:24 PM
The best of luck to you Leafs with her. Just be careful dude.

Don&#39;t want a lynch mob coming after ya. :lol:

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 05:24 PM
Woooo Jonno, this feels rather nice

UKMan
01-02-2004, 05:26 PM
hands over pipe and watches with great pleasure the ensuing frollicking B)

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 05:26 PM
Hmmm, me sucks thumb and goes to spleeb on Skweeks shoulder..............erm..........you&#39;ve stopped breathing :blink:

Jonno B)

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 05:27 PM
No no dear, I was just holding my breath. The sight of you sitting on my lap was a bit overwhelming, that&#39;s all.

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 05:30 PM
:lol: Yeah I bet it looks funny from Uks view point too :lol:

I must say, you very soft and comfy :) ............Whats that? :unsure:

Jonno B)

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 05:31 PM
Um...just my thighs, I gained some weight, you know what it&#39;s like these days :(

JONNO_CELEBS
01-02-2004, 05:37 PM
Gained weight...pfffft :rolleyes:

I don&#39;t mind ;)

Jonno B)

UKMan
01-02-2004, 05:37 PM
Keep that position guys - i have the camera ......... ahh, another one for the wall B)

Marius24
01-02-2004, 05:47 PM
:offtopic: :offtopic: :offtopic:


you guys hijacked this one good :lol:

UKMan
01-02-2004, 06:01 PM
It hasnt started yet :lol: :lol:

Point taken though ;)

Peace
UKMan

DanB
01-02-2004, 06:04 PM
Where&#39;s Jonno and that pic of his? <_< :lol:

Skweeky
01-02-2004, 06:06 PM
Come on Ukkie, this position isn&#39;t very comfortable to hold&#33; Take that pic

DanB
01-02-2004, 06:06 PM
:photo:

leafs116
01-02-2004, 06:10 PM
LOL, since the topic has now changed....

Id like to thank everyone for there opinions. And Id like to Wish you all a Happy New Year

Ill talk to her about my decision, see how she feels about it. Then Ill come back on, and update everyone

UKMan
01-02-2004, 06:11 PM
Originally posted by Skweeky@2 January 2004 - 19:06
Come on Ukkie, this position isn&#39;t very comfortable to hold&#33; Take that pic
Sorry Skweeky, ive run out of film now - you can both relax B)

Good job its a polaroid - we can see the results straight away ;)

Rocktron
01-02-2004, 07:32 PM
My Girlfriend is 24 and i am 38

I met her 6 years ago and i felt just like you that time.
14 years is a bit young in the eyes of this community, but if you like her because
your souls seems to connect.. well.. just wait a bit more.

If you like her that much?.. Wait okay?

You will both like each other by then just as much. And if not you made no
mistake in the eyes of the law and none in the eyes of all others.

Just wait...

leafs116
01-02-2004, 10:04 PM
@Rocktron - Your right, if its meant to be, it will be meant to be in a couple years as well.

The only reason, I even thought of posting the question, is because, lately shes been on my mind alot.

bigdawgfoxx
01-03-2004, 03:11 AM
Im 15 and in the 9th grade...I think im getting something going with a 14 year old thats in 8th grade, that i got with on new years..if ya know what i mean ;) damnn she good. haha fine as hellll too

Adster
01-04-2004, 02:05 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@3 January 2004 - 08:04
@Rocktron -&nbsp; Your right, if its meant to be, it will be meant to be in a couple years as well.

The only reason, I even thought of posting the question, is because, lately shes been on my mind alot.
OK lets see I wast almost 18 when I was going out with someone who just turned 15 year old and the first year with her was beautiful all sweet perfect. parents were OK because they said I was mature and thats what they preferred. i of course had to sleep in another room till she was 16 (legal age here) she used to call me from the other room when her parents were in bed.

but problem was.

I matured and she didn&#39;t she always acted 15 by the time I was 21 and she was 18 we broke up 2 times and I myself for the 4 years kept taking her back I even moved in with her witch lasted 6 months until she decided to rip her dick head problem. by taking me for a drive while he stole some of my stuff, games Cd&#39;s etc. and her mother was supposing suppose to be a Physiologist when she can&#39;t even control her own children. that girl totally fucked up my entire life and I ended up wasting a whole entire year 2003 of my life.


I keep saying I&#39;m over her and she has tryed numerous times to get me back but I keep saying no, but for some reason I keep thinking of the good times. Whenever I go too a place we had been I think "blah blah this is when this happened"

so what I&#39;m saying is fuck what I think anyway

just be prepared if you want a long relationship with this person these are the things that happens

and yes you don&#39;t top thinking about her been down that road before you get those butterfly&#39;s in your stomach can&#39;t eat, goes on and on, nut when your the age of 18 your Young and stupid and believe in anything.

Oh yeah and if I hadn&#39;t broke up with her at all I wouldn&#39;t have made 1 post here on this board

Personally Ill never trust a woman again "I&#39;m just a loser with no heart" .

Cotton
01-04-2004, 02:11 AM
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 02:53
Theres a gurl that lives a couple houses over from my house. Shes 14 but for some reason I really like her. I talk to her alot, becuase shes my friends sister. So, I know her pretty well.

I also know that she likes me too. And several times she has come on to me, and asked me out. Actually she tells me that she loves me, and that she will wait as long as she has to for me.

But I feel that theres no way i can do that. ..Well I now know some new rules in Canada, after a little research, and if the gurl is 14 or older she can date and have consensual sex wiht an adult..

But still the age difference, may cause questioning in society&#33;

What is your opinion ??
Go for it.

Fuck society, nowadays with all the growth hormons in chicken these little bessies and gettin the massive tits ect at a young age so therfore the legal age should be lowered but who cares, your downloading illegal music :music1: so y not go all the way become a sexual offender 2 :lol:

only jokin u urself said its legal so go for it, break that lil chick in. ;)

Friends sister... thats bound to be interesting :boxing:

Sh1t_H4pp3nz
01-04-2004, 02:22 AM
i think you should go get her....ask her if she would have a "Ronji Backdoor Session" and then fuck her up her virgin ass.....pussy is pussy nomatter what age....so just stick you small little cock in her >:)

JONNO_CELEBS
01-04-2004, 02:26 AM
Originally posted by Sh1t_H4pp3nz@4 January 2004 - 02:22
i think you should go get her....ask her if she would have a "Ronji Backdoor Session" and then fuck her up her virgin ass.....pussy is pussy nomatter what age....so just stick you small little cock in her >:)
:blink: What the f*** sort of post is that???? <_<

Jonno B)

Evil Gemini
01-04-2004, 02:26 AM
Your not going to last very long here you know ?

JONNO_CELEBS
01-04-2004, 02:32 AM
Are you talking to me?? :blink:

Are you talking to me?? <_<

Well I&#39;m the only one here B)

So you must be talking to me <_<

Are you talking to me? :01:

Jonno B)

UKMan
01-04-2004, 02:34 AM
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS+4 January 2004 - 03:26--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (JONNO_CELEBS @ 4 January 2004 - 03:26)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Sh1t_H4pp3nz@4 January 2004 - 02:22
i think you should go get her....ask her if she would have a "Ronji Backdoor Session" and then fuck her up her virgin ass.....pussy is pussy nomatter what age....so just stick you small little cock in her >:)
:blink: What the f*** sort of post is that???? <_<

Jonno B) [/b][/quote]
Couldn&#39;t agree more Jonno - remarks of that nature are totally sick and an appology is required - maybe he thinks pussy is just pussy no matter what the age, if so then there is a word for him widely used on the Internet&#33; :angry:

No Peace for You Sh1t_H4pp3nz, that was a pathetic reply and needs an immediate appology as stated above&#33;&#33;

Sh1t_H4pp3nz
01-04-2004, 02:36 AM
http://www.progz.org/pix/kidsontop.jpg

Evil Gemini
01-04-2004, 02:37 AM
Originally posted by Evil Gemini@4 January 2004 - 03:26
Your not going to last very long here you know ?
No Jonno LOL i was talking to shit stick over their :lol:

JONNO_CELEBS
01-04-2004, 02:39 AM
Obviously likes to be called a pervert, odd, very very odd.........

Jonno B)

Sh1t_H4pp3nz
01-04-2004, 02:44 AM
IM WORSE THAN A PERVERT.....IM FUCKING NUTS :wacko: :devil:

JONNO_CELEBS
01-04-2004, 02:51 AM
You Are The Weakest Link&#33;

Goodbye&#33;

Jonno B)

UKMan
01-04-2004, 02:55 AM
I think this thread has probably outlived its "best before" date anyways Jonno - time to close it maybe??

Peace
UKMan

Sh1t_H4pp3nz
01-04-2004, 03:00 AM
also if i had a 14 year old wanting 2 fuck me in canada i would slip &#036;50s in her panties while she dances for me :devil:

NikkiD
01-04-2004, 03:01 AM
I have to agree UKMan.

Sh1t_H4pp3nz, you may find that funny, most of us don&#39;t.