Feeling Sorry For Yourself

[JONNO_CELEBS]

Why is it that sometimes people feel like total shit, they truely believe they are crap at everything and everyone is against them?
I really don't understand this at all.
They sit around with a miserable look on their face wishing for something that will more than likely never happen and mope about it.
They try to cheer themselfs up with some music and a drink and that may make them smile for a little while but then they hear a song that knocks them right back to the start.
So then there's the drink, does it help?, does it make them feel worse but they can't see it?

Is there an answer for this?

No not really, bugger :(

Jonno B)

[bigboab]

Sorry Jonno :( I did not realize my webcam was on.

[LovePotion nr. 9]

Those people need love, Jonno!

Heaps of it.

Uninvited concentrated love injections.

That will cheer them up.

Lp9

[Gemby!]

sometimes you just aint in a good mood for a while - happens to all of us and with time hopefully it goes :)

[Aaron_T]

i hate being stuck in a rut, sometimes i can be miserable and in a bad mood for no reason even if its a good time like christmas.

[Gemby!]

im a teenager so i get moody fast and it usually stays there for a while :(

[Mr. Mulder]

Is there an answer for this?

Of course there is :) :) :)

http://www.btinternet.com/~wellmother/alabaster/prozac.jpg

[imported_greekboy]

Jonno_celebs have you been waching me for the past week. i have been feeling like crap, alot of things have happend to me in a week and i feel like shit. :(

[JONNO_CELEBS]

Originally posted by Azzz@6 January 2004 - 23:16
i hate being stuck in a rut, sometimes i can be miserable and in a bad mood for no reason even if its a good time like christmas.
xmas is a GOOD time???? :blink: Thats what I been doing wrong :rolleyes:

@Gems.......It'll pass, then you got to deal with this adult crap, give me back my teens anyday :( Even the beatings were easier :rolleyes:

Jonno B)

Edit: @Greekboy.....I'm sorry to hear that but I really don't see how that's my fault :unsure:

[Gemby!]

but sometimes its not even teenager stuff its just life itself &#33; <_<

[UKMan]

"What the world needs now
is love, sweet love
it&#39;s the only thing
that there&#39;s just too little of
What the world needs now
is love, sweet love,
no not just for some
but for everyone.

Lord, we don&#39;t need
another mountain,
there are mountains
and hillsides enough to climb
There are oceans
and rivers enough to cross,
enough to last
&#39;til the end of time.

What the world needs now
is love, sweet love
it&#39;s the only thing
that there&#39;s just too little of
What the world needs now
is love, sweet love,
no, not just for some
but for everyone.

Lord, we don&#39;t need
another meadow
there are cornfields
and wheat fields enough to grow
There are sunbeams
and moonbeams enough to shine
oh listen, lord,
if you want to know.

What the world needs now
is love, sweet love
it&#39;s the only thing
that there&#39;s just too little of
What the world needs now
is love, sweet love,
no, not just for some
but for everyone.

No, not just for some,
oh, but just for everyone."

Peace
UKMan

[JONNO_CELEBS]

@Gems..........I know, sorry did&#39;nt mean to patronise :unsure:

@UKdude.......Yeah, that&#39;s about it :)

Jonno :helpsmile:

[namzuf9]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 00:09
Is there an answer for this?

No not really, bugger :(

Jonno B)
Life answers to no-one.
Drink is good, its what I use. I know why I drink, I know the problems in my life that makes me wanna drink. The hard part is facing those problems head on.

I know the feeling of helplessness in life man and it sucks.
But as Frank Spencer once said:

Everyday in everyway, I&#39;m getting better and better&#33;


Anyways loves ya man (in a friendly, non homosexual way&#33;)

[JONNO_CELEBS]

Originally posted by namzuf9@6 January 2004 - 23:36


Everyday in everyway, I&#39;m getting better and better&#33;


Anyways loves ya man (in a friendly, non homosexual way&#33;)
:)

Trouble is I always followed his other saying...

Why do today what you can put off til 2morrow :rolleyes:

Jonno B)

[bigboab]

Originally posted by namzuf9@6 January 2004 - 23:36
Anyways loves ya man (in a friendly, non homosexual way&#33;)
So you male then? No wait a minute this is Jonno? :lol: :lol:

[internet.news]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@6 January 2004 - 22:09
Why is it that sometimes people feel like total shit, they truely believe they are crap at everything and everyone is against them?
I really don&#39;t understand this at all.
They sit around with a miserable look on their face wishing for something that will more than likely never happen and mope about it.
They try to cheer themselfs up with some music and a drink and that may make them smile for a little while but then they hear a song that knocks them right back to the start.
So then there&#39;s the drink, does it help?, does it make them feel worse but they can&#39;t see it?

Is there an answer for this?

No not really, bugger :(

Jonno B)
:angry: I hate people like that :angry:




:lol: :lol: :lol:

[DanB]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 00:39
Why do today what you can put off til 2morrow :rolleyes:

Jonno B)
That is a good one :)


I hope it passes Jonno, I get the blues myself sometimes. No reason behind it, it&#39;s just suddenly there.

It does lift though that&#39;s all you have to remember :)

[LovePotion nr. 9]

Originally posted by UKMan@6 January 2004 - 23:31
"What the world needs now
is love, sweet love
it&#39;s the only thing
that there&#39;s just too little of
What the world needs now
is love, sweet love,
no not just for some
but for everyone.

Lord, we don&#39;t need
another mountain,
there are mountains
and hillsides enough to climb
There are oceans
and rivers enough to cross,
enough to last
&#39;til the end of time.

What the world needs now
is love, sweet love
it&#39;s the only thing
that there&#39;s just too little of
What the world needs now
is love, sweet love,
no, not just for some
but for everyone.

Lord, we don&#39;t need
another meadow
there are cornfields
and wheat fields enough to grow
There are sunbeams
and moonbeams enough to shine
oh listen, lord,
if you want to know.

What the world needs now
is love, sweet love
it&#39;s the only thing
that there&#39;s just too little of
What the world needs now
is love, sweet love,
no, not just for some
but for everyone.

No, not just for some,
oh, but just for everyone."

Peace
UKMan
U speak my language, UKman. :rolleyes:

I bow for thee. :blink:

Lp9

[JONNO_CELEBS]

Originally posted by danb+6 January 2004 - 23:42--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (danb @ 6 January 2004 - 23:42)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 00:39
Why do today what you can put off til 2morrow :rolleyes:

Jonno B)
That is a good one :)


I hope it passes Jonno, I get the blues myself sometimes. No reason behind it, it&#39;s just suddenly there.

It does lift though that&#39;s all you have to remember :) [/b][/quote]
Sometimes there is :(

@Sam......I&#39;m just visiting your world ;)

Jonno B)

[UKMan]

@LovePotion nr.9 - just wish i could live up to my own preaching sometimes :unsure:

Peace
UKMan

[namzuf9]

Is this the official depression thread?
/me reaches for my bottle of JD&#39;s (outta beer :( ) :helpsmile:

[DanB]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 00:45
Sometimes there is :(
Very true and I wasn&#39;t making light of it

Just personally speaking it&#39;s not for me 99% of the time :huh:

[Skillian]

Probably won&#39;t be a very popular opinion but self pity is a rather unattractive trait - everyone gets a bit moody or depressed sometimes but whining about how hard one&#39;s life is overly self-indulgent - there are millions of people out there dealing with situations a hell of a lot worse.

[LovePotion nr. 9]

Originally posted by UKMan@6 January 2004 - 23:48
@LovePotion nr.9 - just wish i could live up to my own preaching sometimes :unsure:

Peace
UKMan
Not many preachers do, these days.

But you preach from the hart.

Only source of true love.

Amen.

Lp9

[internet.news]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@6 January 2004 - 22:45

@Sam......I&#39;m just visiting your world ;)


You&#39;re not welcome here Jonno (Damn - hope that was taken the right way) :blink:


anyway - bring a ball of string with you next time and we&#39;ll be able to find the way out :)

[JONNO_CELEBS]

@Skill............very very true, but they deal with theirs and we deal with ours, sometimes it helps to moan and winge :)

@Nam..........No dude it is&#39;nt, it&#39;s a moan thread :rolleyes:

Jonno B)

[namzuf9]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 00:54
@Nam..........No dude it is&#39;nt, it&#39;s a moan thread :rolleyes:

Jonno B)
Oh good. I&#39;ll just go get my missus&#33; :angry:

[JONNO_CELEBS]

This made me laugh.....it&#39;s a conversation between me and Baz just now.....

B: Make us a cuppa please

J: Ok

I get milk and a beer from fridge.....

J: I&#39;ll have a couple more of these

B: Of what (turns round) .......Beer&#33;

J: Yeah

B: Haha....I have a couple and I&#39;m happy, you just keep drinking til you sleep

I thought that was quite funny :)

Jonno B)

[internet.news]

careful Jonno - you almost at Samsam - before you&#39;ll know it you&#39;ll be at Samsamsam :o




Edit: I can patent myself as a form of alcoholism can&#39;t I?? :blink:

[Jackstermj]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@6 January 2004 - 23:09
Why is it that sometimes people feel like total shit, they truely believe they are crap at everything and everyone is against them?
I really don&#39;t understand this at all.
They sit around with a miserable look on their face wishing for something that will more than likely never happen and mope about it.
They try to cheer themselfs up with some music and a drink and that may make them smile for a little while but then they hear a song that knocks them right back to the start.
So then there&#39;s the drink, does it help?, does it make them feel worse but they can&#39;t see it?

Is there an answer for this?

No not really, bugger :(

Jonno B)
A lot of people don&#39;t understand it, not even the ones who are going through the hard times, or the ones who are feeling so bloody miserable. It&#39;s because feeling as they do, they just don&#39;t see any good at the time.

We all have our low times and sometimes we cannot find the cause for them, we just have them..it&#39;s life, not everyone is happy all the time. You couldn&#39;t of gone through all your life feeling happy all the time ;) We all have different reasons for feeling shit..sometimes there are people around us to help, at time there are not and maybe those times we reach for the bottle..I know I do it myself. Drink does help yes...at the time, because it just takes all the bad things away for that short time, it&#39;s like a reprieve...but its downside is, it just all comes flooding back the morning after, along with the headache.

We can only be happy with ourselves and try and deal with things best we can, no one is perfect..and we each deal with things differently, some better than others. All we can do is be there for people and hope we can help in some way :)

@ Skillian...Self Pity may look unattractive, but when you are feeling real shite and feel you have no reason to smile, then sometimes it&#39;s hard to actually think what others are going through in the world, because all you can think about is what&#39;s happening to yourself at the time..sad..but true&#33;&#33;

[imported_greekboy]

@jonno-i never side it was your falt, i just find it funny that u brought it up the week that i feel like crap. i ment no offence bro.

[JONNO_CELEBS]

@Sam....Nah, I ain&#39;t worried bout the Sam levels :rolleyes:

When I hit the Onnoj level that will be it :rolleyes:

Jonno B)

Edit: @Geekdude.........No offence was taken dude :)

[namzuf9]

Originally posted by Skillian@7 January 2004 - 00:51
Probably won&#39;t be a very popular opinion but self pity is a rather unattractive trait - everyone gets a bit moody or depressed sometimes but whining about how hard one&#39;s life is overly self-indulgent - there are millions of people out there dealing with situations a hell of a lot worse.
Come on you must know what it feels like to be pissed off.....
Where are we in the league now? :angry:

[imported_greekboy]

soooo why is every one so down. maby if some of u talk about it u may feel beter. With me its girl problems. i dont think shes redy for a comeitment. :(

[internet.news]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@6 January 2004 - 23:14
@Sam....Nah, I ain&#39;t worried bout the Sam levels :rolleyes:


Maybe you missed my post above that one - you too good for that.................although if it&#39;s just a drunken blow out (the non-sexual use of the phrase) then I guess sometimes it can be good to have the catalyst to discharge (again the non-sexual use of the phrase).....



:lol: :lol: :lol: Just realised this board is the worst place ever for people reading everything you type as sexual inuendo (not meant as "in your end ohh")

[Skillian]

Come on you must know what it feels like to be pissed off.....
Where are we in the league now?&nbsp;
Too true, but I think the pity comes from fans of other teams. :lol: Saying that, I think I can hear N£MO laughing at us...

[namzuf9]

Originally posted by Skillian@7 January 2004 - 01:23

Come on you must know what it feels like to be pissed off.....
Where are we in the league now?
Too true, but I think the pity comes from fans of other teams. :lol: Saying that, I think I can hear N£MO laughing at us...
&#39;kin russians :angry:

[creamer]

Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@6 January 2004 - 23:09
Why is it that sometimes people feel like total shit, they truely believe they are crap at everything and everyone is against them?
I really don&#39;t understand this at all.
They sit around with a miserable look on their face wishing for something that will more than likely never happen and mope about it.
They try to cheer themselfs up with some music and a drink and that may make them smile for a little while but then they hear a song that knocks them right back to the start.
So then there&#39;s the drink, does it help?, does it make them feel worse but they can&#39;t see it?

Is there an answer for this?

No not really, bugger :(

Jonno B)
how old r u jonno :huh:

[JONNO_CELEBS]

@Sam.......Heh I&#39;ll be ok as long as I don&#39;t go back again :rolleyes:

@Creamer.........erm..........26 why?? :unsure:

Jonno B)

[Aaron_T]

good night JONNO im going to BED now.

[JONNO_CELEBS]

ok AZZZZ sleep WELL dude :lol:

Stay cool brah B)

Jonno B)