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UKMan
01-25-2004, 01:54 AM
... plus not many peeps seem to be posting here lately.

Nearly every thread is either spammed, flamed or just abused because someone else dosn't happen to like it, or maybe because they didn't think of it first.

Someone comes in here and makes a simple thread about how they feel or what they have done and it gets abused by someone else, instead of trying to understand why that person made it in the first place. No wonder there are so many crap threads arising, because there is no respect from others.

Most people here have nothing else to do and maybe, just maybe this place is the only place they can let off steam, or meet others who are just as bored, but what happens... they get attacked for being spammers or creating worthless threads. No thread is worthless, in the eye of the poster it might the most important thing of the day... a place to be heard and listened to. Maybe they are extremely unhappy and mobbed in the real world and this place is where they come to say things without being jumped upon.

Time for reflection i think from all concerned.

Agreed, there are some real bad threads, but what does that matter in the long run? Give it a rest from all the abuse and sarcasm and lets get this place back to where it was a long time ago.

Peace
UKMan

DWk
01-25-2004, 01:56 AM
STFU Ukkie!!!! :angry: :angry: :angry:


Haha jk man :D

Mad Cat
01-25-2004, 01:56 AM
I've been posting a lot in the place tonight, since I'm bored. What was it like before?


Lets make a No Spam/Abuse/CrapWorld!

Aaron_T
01-25-2004, 02:00 AM
lot's of regualr member's arent here so other people are coming in, it's all changing Ukkie

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:00 AM
uk man its not gonna happen there are too many jackasses here

Aaron_T
01-25-2004, 02:02 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:00
uk man its not gonna happen there are too many jackasses here
you are one of the main causes look at all of your spam thread's you ought to be ashamed :)

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:03 AM
yes im the problem when uk man is talking about people just like you who have problems with what everyone else does and what they post about

Aaron_T
01-25-2004, 02:06 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:03
yes im the problem when uk man is talking about people just like you who have problems with what everyone else does and what they post about
no, th No1 cause in the degradeing of the lounge is SPAM plain and simple, i think spam threads should be deleted without a link.

youre No 1 on that list mate <_<

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:08 AM
its spam to you yes but to other people well now this is the lounge every single post here is spam so delete the lounge then

4th gen
01-25-2004, 02:11 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:08
every single post here is spam so delete the lounge then
So if I can find one post which a majority of your peers vote not to be spam located in the lounge you&#39;ll leave the forum then?

Aaron_T
01-25-2004, 02:12 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:08
its spam to you yes but to other people well now this is the lounge every single post here is spam so delete the lounge then
how is every post here spam? i remember when every topic in the lounge was A TOPIC and not an endless spam fest

and can i just ask you, what is the point in having 2 account&#39;s and trying to show off with them, do you think you are impressing people, any daft bastard can create a 2nd account you are no different.

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:17 AM
the point i make is most of the topics posted in the lounge are only important to the person who has posted it so then its all spam isn&#39;t it well it is to you well because if you didn&#39;t post it its crap when i first go to this board i would post in other sections then they tell me it doesn&#39;t belong here and they say go to the lounge but then i go to the lounge and suddenly im spamming and don&#39;t give me that crap that im the only one who spams around look around im sure you will say duh i never said you are the only one who spams well i seem to be the only one that gets blamed for spamming you see how many threads sayin that there are less members posting and no one is online well its because of people like you who have a problem with everyone go to the stfu thread because you belong there is a big damn spam thread not started by me but because it wasn&#39;t started by me its not spam

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 02:17 AM
the lounge was to be made for people to sit back and chill or relax but now its turning into a personal animosity flame wars when somebody dont like next member post and the Mods take care of it but it still goes on and the same long time users provoke newcomers or noobs to flame back with them so it goes up in a big fire. I dont have nothing against long time board members or noobs(newbie)it just that this board will never understand what the lounge was meant for but who care anyway...........//??///




B)


I Demand

4th gen
01-25-2004, 02:18 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:17
the point i make is most of the topics posted in the lounge are only important to the person who has posted it so then its all spam isn&#39;t it well it is to you well because if you didn&#39;t post it its crap when i first go to this board i would post in other sections then they tell me it doesn&#39;t belong here and they say go to the lounge but then i go to the lounge and suddenly im spamming and don&#39;t give me that crap that im the only one who spams around look around im sure you will say duh i never said you are the only one who spams well i seem to be the only one that gets blamed for spamming you see how many threads sayin that there are less members posting and no one is online well its because of people like you who have a problem with everyone go to the stfu thread because you belong there is a big damn spam thread not started by me but because it wasn&#39;t started by me its not spam
Have you ever heard of a "full stop"? It looks just like this:

.

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:19 AM
i don&#39;t wanna i mean not many people do that around here but it seems im required to do it though

J'Pol
01-25-2004, 02:21 AM
It&#39;s The Lounge, that&#39;s the point. Anything goes, other than photographs of a male pen ....

Sometimes it is quite wonderful, sometimes it is a heap of shite. It&#39;s a matter for the reader to decide which is which.

It&#39;s an ebb and flow sort of thing. Just enjoy and join in, or not as the case may be.

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:23 AM
yea they can decide what they hink of it but please keep you comments to yourself it would make the board a much better place

Aaron_T
01-25-2004, 02:24 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:23
yea they can decide what they hink of it but please keep you comments to yourself it would make the board a much better place
i agree, but you know what else would make board a better place, no useless multiple accounts.

4th gen
01-25-2004, 02:25 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:23
yea they can decide what they hink of it but please keep you comments to yourself it would make the board a much better place
Maybe it shouldn&#39;t surprise me, but it still does. You can manage to post that comment just a short period after calling myself and others "assholes".

Good point though J&#39;Pol, I don&#39;t think the lounge is as good at the current time as it has been in the past, but maybe in the future it&#39;ll go back to how it used to be.

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:26 AM
why don&#39;t you just again keep your comment to yourself take a look around at all the people with more than one account mabe i will talk to vb about it lets see a mod with more than one account i wanna see how he feels aboutthe flameing you are giveing people with more than one account and we will se how many days of moderation you will have

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 02:27 AM
Originally posted by 4th gen+25 January 2004 - 02:25--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (4th gen @ 25 January 2004 - 02:25)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:23
yea they can decide what they hink of it but please keep you comments to yourself it would make the board a much better place
Maybe it shouldn&#39;t surprise me, but it still does. You can manage to post that comment just a short period after calling myself and others "assholes".

Good point though J&#39;Pol, I don&#39;t think the lounge is as good at the current time as it has been in the past, but maybe in the future it&#39;ll go back to how it used to be. [/b][/quote]
it will never happen sorry to say that but thats God honest truth

Mad Cat
01-25-2004, 02:28 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 02:26
why don&#39;t you just again keep your comment to yourself take a look around at all the people with more than one account mabe i will talk to vb about it lets see a mod with more than one account i wanna see how he feels aboutthe flameing you are giveing people with more than one account and we will se how many days of moderation you will have
But VB doesn&#39;t use his past accounts does he?

4th gen
01-25-2004, 02:28 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:26
why don&#39;t you just again keep your comment to yourself take a look around at all the people with more than one account mabe i will talk to vb about it lets see a mod with more than one account i wanna see how he feels aboutthe flameing you are giveing people with more than one account and we will se how many days of moderation you will have
I have 18 stars worth of accounts myself :frusty:

You can contact a mod about my behaviour if you like, but I think that if any mod looks at a history of my posts and compares them to a history of your posts I won&#39;t be in as much hot water as you ;)

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:32 AM
well its nice not be be a jackass and insult everyone but i guess you feel diffirent about that you find it to be fun and you do it cuz u probibly don&#39;t like yourself :lol: and you call me a loser

4th gen
01-25-2004, 02:33 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:32
and you call me a loser
I don&#39;t recall ever calling you a loser

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:34 AM
no you just imply it strongly and i bet you have i mean what haven&#39;t you called me in the past

4th gen
01-25-2004, 02:36 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:34
no you just imply it strongly and i bet you have i mean what haven&#39;t you called me in the past
Do you have a link to me calling you a loser? There is a difference between implying things and saying them...also isn&#39;t it possible you misread my comments?

J'Pol
01-25-2004, 02:38 AM
Originally posted by 4th gen+25 January 2004 - 03:33--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (4th gen &#064; 25 January 2004 - 03:33)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteBegin-Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:32
and you call me a loser
I don&#39;t recall ever calling you a loser[/b][/quote]
If you don&#39;t mind me stepping in, he is not a loser, he is a wanker. There is a big difference.

Try to get your facts right old bean.

4th gen
01-25-2004, 02:39 AM
Originally posted by J&#39;Pol+25 January 2004 - 01:38--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (J&#39;Pol @ 25 January 2004 - 01:38)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by 4th gen@25 January 2004 - 03:33
<!--QuoteBegin-Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 01:32
and you call me a loser
I don&#39;t recall ever calling you a loser
If you don&#39;t mind me stepping in, he is not a loser, he is a wanker. There is a big difference.

Try to get your facts right old bean. [/b][/quote]
Ah, that was the term I was looking for. Thanks for that :)

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:40 AM
anyway lets just shut up about people posts i will stop telling you how much of an asshole you are if you stop telling me how much crap my posts are and the board will be a better place

fugley
01-25-2004, 02:41 AM
I would like to see more meaningful discussions on deep stuff :blink:

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 02:42 AM
stop all the bitching it sound like you all are husband and wives fighting and shty



just a though ;)

pusher
01-25-2004, 02:42 AM
It&#39;s just a message board. I don&#39;t usually take anything I see or hear on this board seriously.

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:43 AM
Originally posted by fugley@25 January 2004 - 02:41
I would like to see more meaningful discussions on deep stuff :blink:
there isn&#39;t always something important to talk about

fugley
01-25-2004, 02:45 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot+25 January 2004 - 02:43--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Askjeevesbot @ 25 January 2004 - 02:43)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-fugley@25 January 2004 - 02:41
I would like to see more meaningful discussions on deep stuff&nbsp; :blink:
there isn&#39;t always something important to talk about [/b][/quote]
I agree - there&#39;s me ever expanding purple vein, for instance - it hactually obscures me nob now&#33; :blink:

fugley
01-25-2004, 02:46 AM
Prince wrote a song about that you know. Think he had the same problem. :blink:

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 02:52 AM
Originally posted by fugley@25 January 2004 - 02:46
Prince wrote a song about that you know. Think he had the same problem. :blink:
yea he did ,,,,,,,

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:53 AM
all this typeing is wareing me out

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 02:54 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 02:53
all this typeing is wareing me out
well quit typing then......just a though

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 02:55 AM
nah im bored nothing else to do

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 02:58 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 02:55
nah im bored nothing else to do
go look at some porn or work out chat

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 03:00 AM
nah i can&#39;t too many people around

hobbes
01-25-2004, 03:02 AM
Originally posted by fugley@25 January 2004 - 03:41
I would like to see more meaningful discussions on deep stuff&nbsp; :blink:
http://www.jamaicacottageshop.com/gallery/photos/wishingwellstone.jpg
http://www.wepray4u.org/images/wallpapers/stillwaters800.jpg

2 deep subjects for you- please begin Fugley

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 03:02 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 03:00
nah i can&#39;t too many people around
lol :lol: work out is the only option then

Evil Gemini
01-25-2004, 03:02 AM
This board goes so fast, that i think everything to be talked about has already been talked about.

I dont mind when people make pointless threads its just when they spam and spam and spam new threads that are pointless. (*cough*Internet.News**cough*)

As for the multiple accounts, i think its nothing to get angry about.

If they are doing very odd things like having a conversation making people think that they are two different people, that is sad.

Maybe a shoutbox will solve this problem of spamming because then we can all just chat aboout random shit in thier.

fugley
01-25-2004, 03:03 AM
I once coated an onion in creosote then ate it :blink:

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 03:03 AM
or just get a better kazaalite chat room because the current one stinks

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 03:07 AM
Originally posted by ZeroTolerance+25 January 2004 - 03:02--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (ZeroTolerance @ 25 January 2004 - 03:02)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 03:00
nah i can&#39;t too many people around
lol :lol: work out is the only option then [/b][/quote]
becides my hands hurt from typeing so the porn thing wouldn&#39;t work

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 03:08 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot+25 January 2004 - 03:07--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Askjeevesbot @ 25 January 2004 - 03:07)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by ZeroTolerance@25 January 2004 - 03:02
<!--QuoteBegin-Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 03:00
nah i can&#39;t too many people around
lol :lol: work out is the only option then
becides my hands hurt from typeing so the porn thing wouldn&#39;t work [/b][/quote]
sometimes i worry about people but i worry about you more, do you jackoff so much that your hand hurt?


im sorry but i got to laugh at that :lol: :lol: :lol:

Evil Gemini
01-25-2004, 03:09 AM
Originally posted by fugley@25 January 2004 - 04:03
I once coated an onion in creosote then ate it :blink:
Have you ever had a fried marsbar ??

fkn delicious :rolleyes:

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 03:09 AM
no it hurt from the typeing so like i said the porn thing wouldn&#39;t work

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 03:15 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 03:09
no it hurt from the typeing so like i said the porn thing wouldn&#39;t work
oh ok try streching your fingers so it would work

namzuf9
01-25-2004, 03:27 AM
Originally posted by ukdude@sometime today
Nearly every thread is either spammed, flamed or just abused because someone else dosn&#39;t happen to like it, or maybe because they didn&#39;t think of it first.

Someone comes in here and makes a simple thread about how they feel or what they have done and it gets abused by someone else, instead of trying to understand why that person made it in the first place. No wonder there are so many crap threads arising, because there is no respect from others.

Most people here have nothing else to do and maybe, just maybe this place is the only place they can let off steam, or meet others who are just as bored, but what happens... they get attacked for being spammers or creating worthless threads. No thread is worthless, in the eye of the poster it might the most important thing of the day... a place to be heard and listened to. Maybe they are extremely unhappy and mobbed in the real world and this place is where they come to say things without being jumped upon.

Time for reflection i think from all concerned.

Agreed, there are some real bad threads, but what does that matter in the long run? Give it a rest from all the abuse and sarcasm and lets get this place back to where it was a long time ago.

Peace
UKMan

The starting post was a complaint about flaming and what happens straight of the bat? A slanging match&#33; It always used to be such a nice place to come here and lately its like its turning to shit.
I used to love coming here but now I&#39;m kinda not fussed about visiting to even read let alone post.
Whydoes it have to be like this?
What has the Kazaa Lite Forum become?

Edit:typos

FatBastard
01-25-2004, 05:56 AM
Originally posted by Forum Rules
10. Do not Stalk. Do not travel the boards looking for people who you feel are breaking rules so you can tell them off. Do not warn people of the rules when they first arrive - that can be insulting. If someone is being a nuisance on the board, and a moderator is aware of the situation, consider backing off. Goading and provoking troublemakers takes control of the situation away from the moderator and makes their role more difficult.

Stalkers and Board Police, those are the biggest problems in the lounge.

chalice
01-25-2004, 05:58 AM
Originally posted by FatBastard+25 January 2004 - 05:56--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (FatBastard @ 25 January 2004 - 05:56)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Forum Rules
10. Do not Stalk. Do not travel the boards looking for people who you feel are breaking rules so you can tell them off. Do not warn people of the rules when they first arrive - that can be insulting. If someone is being a nuisance on the board, and a moderator is aware of the situation, consider backing off. Goading and provoking troublemakers takes control of the situation away from the moderator and makes their role more difficult.

Stalkers and Board Police, those are the biggest problems in the lounge. [/b][/quote]
stfu or I&#39;ll report your fat posterior.

ZeroTolerance
01-25-2004, 06:00 AM
Originally posted by chalice+25 January 2004 - 05:58--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (chalice @ 25 January 2004 - 05:58)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by FatBastard@25 January 2004 - 05:56
<!--QuoteBegin-Forum Rules
10. Do not Stalk. Do not travel the boards looking for people who you feel are breaking rules so you can tell them off. Do not warn people of the rules when they first arrive - that can be insulting. If someone is being a nuisance on the board, and a moderator is aware of the situation, consider backing off. Goading and provoking troublemakers takes control of the situation away from the moderator and makes their role more difficult.

Stalkers and Board Police, those are the biggest problems in the lounge.
stfu or I&#39;ll report your fat posterior. [/b][/quote]
both of you stfu before i do something about it :ghostface:

FatBastard
01-25-2004, 06:00 AM
Up to now, Chalice, your conduct on this board has been exemplary, so l am just going to issue you with a warning this time.

chalice
01-25-2004, 06:01 AM
lol. cheers, chubby.

DivineBeingX
01-25-2004, 06:23 AM
Originally posted by chalice@25 January 2004 - 06:01
lol. cheers, chubby.
its not nice to talk to fat people like that

evildon
01-25-2004, 07:13 AM
I am a rookie here so I don&#39;t know what it was like in The Good Old Days....


I understand this is the Lounge and anything goes...I hate Flamewars and your post suckwars and that nonsense..for all that it matters...I like the deep topics cause it makes one think and this in turn distracts me from making my eyeball collection any bigger....having a hard time hiding all of them and have ran out of room in my basement for the bodies..I mean donors of said eyes..they signed the bloody organ donar card ok&#33;&#33;....


anyway back to the subject at hand or eye-level as i prefer...We used to have a primal scream room for users to post rants and yell about bad stuff on their minds..kinda blow off steam type room...some threads are so silly that i just dont respond...because of the mood that I am in...but i dont call that spam...it goes with being in the lounge...I guess we could keep the lounge for non-serious threads only and make another philosophical room for deep stuff...something to think about...

I have had a deep-fried Twinkie&#33;&#33;..Ahhh.....



ED

FuNkY CaPrIcOrN
01-25-2004, 07:16 AM
;) Maybe if People would stop Posting everything in here and start Posting in the Right Sections.But no.They think because most People hang here it is better.

Thats the only thing I have against the Lounge.

FatBastard
01-25-2004, 07:31 AM
Originally posted by FuNkY CaPrIcOrN@25 January 2004 - 16:16
;) Maybe if People would stop Posting everything in here and start Posting in the Right Sections.But no.They think because most People hang here it is better.

Thats the only thing I have against the Lounge.
Shouldn&#39;t this be in SportsWorld? :)

hobbes
01-25-2004, 07:45 AM
And where the hell is "frivolous lawsuit world"? Funky&#39;s dog just bit me for attempting to exchange the Colt45 in his water dish with actual mountain spring water.

http://bellsouthpwp.net/F/u/FuNkY_CaPrIcOrN/bebe.JPG became http://www.blueiceberg.com/prints/gal4/4A/538.jpg

FuNkY CaPrIcOrN
01-25-2004, 09:08 AM
Originally posted by hobbes@25 January 2004 - 02:45
And where the hell is "frivolous lawsuit world"? Funky&#39;s dog just bit me for attempting to exchange the Colt45 in his water dish with actual mountain spring water.

http://bellsouthpwp.net/F/u/FuNkY_CaPrIcOrN/bebe.JPG became http://www.blueiceberg.com/prints/gal4/4A/538.jpg
:lol:

sparsely
01-25-2004, 09:10 AM
I agree.
there&#39;s way too much animosity here.
that&#39;s why I can&#39;t stand you goddamn people.

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 09:34 AM
i have to flame cuz everyone likes to flame me and plaing board police like they arent suppost to and since i came here people like 3 gen had something against me i would be happy if we got along and i wouldn&#39;t have to argure i don&#39;t come here to argue but it always turns out that way :(

I.am
01-25-2004, 09:44 AM
@Askjeevesbot, I dont think people will have problems if you hold a normal conversation. :)

But boy your posts are quite annoying sometimes for a simple reason that they are absurd. Its not because of this id. I remember when you joined (with a diff. name) you had topics asking who is biggest spammer in the lounge and were you the biggest yet. I remember exactly how your posts turned to. If only you had better intentions no one would be disliking you so much.
But hey, there is always time to change. :)

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 09:53 AM
but hey this is the lounge and well im not the only one wilh annoying topics but im the only one flamed for it though

I.am
01-25-2004, 10:34 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 02:53
but hey this is the lounge and well im not the only one wilh annoying topics but im the only one flamed for it though
thats the thing. You never try to get the point :) Do you always want to give reasons that others are like that too. Although people dont post about other people who do the same but i am sure they feel the same annoying way. Why not just leave complaining about others for a sec, and think about your own self. :)

The Real Santa
01-25-2004, 10:56 AM
santa thinks people should just shut up about other peoples posts and if you think someone&#39;s post is crap ignore it geez its not that hard.

UKMan
01-25-2004, 11:27 AM
I think that some of the posts here have kind of proved a point, but so far it hasn&#39;t been too bad. Just a few comments though:

Some of you seem to think its quite acceptable that the Lounge is "free for all" to comment on what they like - in one sense it&#39;s very true, it is free for anyone to make whatever comment they like, but do we have to accept the same people throwing dirt around, being cocky and nasty, spamming and flaming their "enemies" openly, attacking the same people over and over again??

I think not.

The regulars have gone... maybe never to come back - even that kind of remark gets "so what??" thrown back and "good ridance"... very sad indeed...

Peace
UKMan

Askjeevesbot
01-25-2004, 11:50 AM
don&#39;t get half of your post :unsure:

UKMan
01-25-2004, 11:52 AM
Originally posted by Askjeevesbot@25 January 2004 - 12:50
don&#39;t get half of your post :unsure:
What don&#39;t you get?

7thElement
01-25-2004, 11:57 AM
Originally posted by UKMan@25 January 2004 - 01:54
... plus not many peeps seem to be posting here lately.

Nearly every thread is either spammed, flamed or just abused because someone else dosn&#39;t happen to like it, or maybe because they didn&#39;t think of it first.

Someone comes in here and makes a simple thread about how they feel or what they have done and it gets abused by someone else, instead of trying to understand why that person made it in the first place. No wonder there are so many crap threads arising, because there is no respect from others.

Most people here have nothing else to do and maybe, just maybe this place is the only place they can let off steam, or meet others who are just as bored, but what happens... they get attacked for being spammers or creating worthless threads. No thread is worthless, in the eye of the poster it might the most important thing of the day... a place to be heard and listened to. Maybe they are extremely unhappy and mobbed in the real world and this place is where they come to say things without being jumped upon.

Time for reflection i think from all concerned.

Agreed, there are some real bad threads, but what does that matter in the long run? Give it a rest from all the abuse and sarcasm and lets get this place back to where it was a long time ago.

Peace
UKMan
Great post UKMan &#33;

I think you got the point. It is really disturbing that people take topics over wth spam or flaming.

I will start a little discussion in our team chat and try to find a way to stop this because spamming, flaming and hijacking topics is not fair at all.

Great to see that at least some people see it the same way.

My respect goes to you

Marc

bigboab
01-25-2004, 12:12 PM
I am sorry to say that I saw this situation was going to arise a few months ago. If members are going to be allowed to include &#39; I hate Americans&#39; and &#39;I hate Australians&#39; in their posts without expecting a backlash, then I think that they are very, very naive. This is an international Forum and should be treated as such. Not some little parochial plaything for a few immature adolescent students to flame the interrnational community.

The Mods have lot to blame for this by not stepping in and preventing the publication of some of the above statements. Everyone is proud of their own country irrespective of the views of other nations.

Now all we can do is try and build up that international feeling in the Forum. Try and see where we went wrong and if possible, redress the issues involved.


I hope we succeed. :)

Honey
01-25-2004, 12:39 PM
thank you UKbabe for a such a succint and well thought out thread... :hug:

and thank you for the people who then had to come and flame and spam this topic too... point proved&#33; <_<

@bb... couldnt agree with you more... particularly this in your sig... :hug:


Once trust is lost, it is never regained.

that pretty much tells the story i think... :huh:

:)

bigboab
01-25-2004, 12:48 PM
Hi Hon, nice to see you again. http://members.shaw.ca/wenpigsfly/smileys/cloud9.gif

Where have you been all my life. :)
OK&#33; so you weren&#39;t born half of it. :lol: :lol:

Lamsey
01-25-2004, 12:49 PM
Originally posted by bigboab@25 January 2004 - 11:12
The Mods have lot to blame for this by not stepping in and preventing the publication of some of the above statements. Everyone is proud of their own country irrespective of the views of other nations.
AH, but then the cries of "censorship" and "we have the right to free speech&#33;" come flying in.



I&#39;ve said this before and I&#39;ll say it again - if we are too strict then we get slagged for being censors, if we&#39;re too lenient then we get slagged for not doing our jobs. There is no fine line between these either - rather a zone where they overlap.



Rock<->Mods<->Hard place

Honey
01-25-2004, 12:57 PM
Originally posted by bigboab@25 January 2004 - 19:48
Hi Hon, nice to see you again. http://members.shaw.ca/wenpigsfly/smileys/cloud9.gif

Where have you been all my life. :)
OK&#33; so you weren&#39;t born half of it. :lol: :lol:
nice to see you too BB... its been too long hasnt it?.. :huh:

pride in one&#39;s nation... yes it&#39;s something that is very much universal..

i was born in the UK yet have lived most of my life in Australia

and i dont see the need to take sides...

i am who i am

an individual... :)

bigboab
01-25-2004, 12:59 PM
Originally posted by Lamsey@25 January 2004 - 12:49
AH, but then the cries of "censorship" and "we have the right to free speech&#33;" come flying in.



I am not talking about &#39;free speech&#39; here. I am talking about provocation. If you step in and stop this, then I am sure you will have the backing of the board. Anyway what happened to a wee PM in the right place. It works for me. I have PM&#39;d a few people on this board when I thought that they were &#39;overdoing it&#39;. The results everytime were satifactory.

DanB
01-25-2004, 01:02 PM
What hope have we got when even a thread like this is hijacked to settle old scores? :(

RGX
01-25-2004, 01:24 PM
Come on doomsayers.....this place relies on one thing: MEMBERS.

That means its up to us (yes me, and you, and even you) to do something about it....sitting back and moaning isnt going to get us anywhere, and I should know because ive done my fair share of it. I see alot of posts saying "This board isnt what it used to be in the good old days". Well who made this board good? We did&#33; So lets get of our asses and put more of an effort in shall we?

I.am
01-26-2004, 12:23 AM
Originally posted by RGX@25 January 2004 - 06:24
Come on doomsayers.....this place relies on one thing: MEMBERS.

That means its up to us (yes me, and you, and even you) to do something about it....sitting back and moaning isnt going to get us anywhere, and I should know because ive done my fair share of it. I see alot of posts saying "This board isnt what it used to be in the good old days". Well who made this board good? We did&#33; So lets get of our asses and put more of an effort in shall we?
:) Yup.

Lets face it. There are people with whom you cant go along with and there are people with whom you can talk for hours. So why not avoid and ignore things that might provocate anyone and instead enjoy each other&#39;s company.

FunkyDawg76
01-26-2004, 03:24 AM
I&#39;m a member. With 3 STARS&#33; WOO-HOO&#33;

evildon
01-26-2004, 06:47 AM
Alot of the flaming and the provocative posts..I hate (insert sport or persons country etc here) are jus meant to start flameewars and gives the poster a feeling of power and some of it comes from immaturity and boredom...


users should understand that this is their forum too..even the ones that flame and they should realize that flaming just hurts their own forum..If new members get on here and see alot of backbiting and sniping at one another and slamming and hateful speech then more then likly the new members are gone..and sooner or later the forum dies because the Regulars get fed up with it to..of course their are some out there that get a power rush by doing this...and look at it as a victory that they have driven people away....I dont think you have to get along with everyone but you can be civil in your disagreement and not make it personal or make attacks on ones nationality etc....

It&#39;s not that hard and its not alot to ask...

ED

Busyman
01-26-2004, 07:57 AM
Let me be the first to say that

1. UKMan you have been one of the proficient at LOUD flaming; Even having a thread for it. Moving forward though, it&#39;s good to see that&#39;s changed. ;)

2. Flaming does have it&#39;s place. If there is member starting crap unprovoked, he/she deserves to get slammed for it (might I say I&#39;ll be first in line to do the slamming).
It&#39;s nice to have a good, clean, wholesome, enriching, enlightening, inspirational board..... :x but there should be a medium between that and a board with some fun and fire to it. A STFU if a member calls black people idiots is warranted sometimes.

3. There seems to be a buddy system on the board that I&#39;ve observed for awhile.
Also banned folks seem to be able to pop back up announcing themselves without a hitch from the mods. For instance:

I never had a problem with Billy Dean yet he was able to post under Turkeyboy with a flame thread while on moderation. While it was entertaining (I unlike alot don&#39;t take this stuff too seriously), it was allowed to happen. Hmmmmmmm.

Dreamweaver bka Killa Sin was allowed to post, I mean spam even after announcing who he was. Some believed we should cut him some slack yet......there he was spamming away like committing murder fresh out of jail. :lol: :lol:

UKMan (sorry man) himself had a whole flame thread, which I might add, was "overlooked" by his "friends" and mods. Hell I flamed him myself in that thread; a thread that should have been locked IMMEDIATELY by the mods.
(again, it was rather entertaining) edit: btw it is still "unlocked" :lol: :lol:

There are many more.

I am not attacking anyone here but .....

Come...onnnnnnnn <_<


edit: UKMan, I just read both of your posts again and...I find them both laughable.
:lol: . I mean your first post seems to be in part a justification for your thread against a mod when, as a senior member here, you know better. If it was not, it&#39;s still weird coming from you of all people. I haven&#39;t seen the animosity you describe here lately since that thread (and many Askjeevesbot spankings) :lol: :lol: .
It is very easy to say the right things loudly to get a hand clap but.....

your past actions say different. ;)

mikenmike0001
01-26-2004, 09:24 AM
what does that word mean? Animosity.....

I.am
01-26-2004, 10:07 AM
Originally posted by mikenmike0001@26 January 2004 - 02:24
what does that word mean? Animosity.....
Who is your best friend?

This&#33; (http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?animosity)

chalice
01-26-2004, 10:12 AM
Originally posted by mikenmike0001@26 January 2004 - 09:24
what does that word mean? Animosity.....
Animosity- The practice of heavy blows to the back of your opponent&#39;s cranium when he&#39;s just a peacable kinda guy and doesn&#39;t really go in for all that machismo stuff.

mikenmike0001
01-26-2004, 10:14 AM
how much you say that.......that&#39;s exactly what happened to me last sunday.....hahah.......how ironic.....

chalice
01-26-2004, 10:15 AM
Originally posted by mikenmike0001@26 January 2004 - 10:14
how much you say that.......that&#39;s exactly what happened to me last sunday.....hahah.......how ironic.....
I know.

So it wasn&#39;t ironic at all. :rolleyes:

UKMan
01-26-2004, 10:50 AM
I am so glad that Busyman is feeling a lot happier about my posts:

1. UKMan you have been one of the proficient at LOUD flaming; Even having a thread for it. Moving forward though, it&#39;s good to see that&#39;s changed.
The last thing i want is for Busyman to be upset over anything i post. :lol:

I have also looked back over my posts Busyman and yet nowhere do i find any reference to the the fact that i havn&#39;t spammed or flamed. I was making a thread about how i thought it was time we changed and yet you attack me, accussing me of things i allready know about yet want to change.

You have missed the point totally - not only that, you go ahead and start flaming again. Instead of attacking me and being sarcastic, cant you just agree for once??
...........................

I mean your first post seems to be in part a justification for your thread against a mod
You&#39;ll have to explain the above quote - it dosnt make sense

Peace
UKMan

Askjeevesbot
01-26-2004, 11:43 AM
well too many words are being posted so i will just wait until the mods or anmin make a decision on what they will do

UKMan
01-26-2004, 11:55 AM
For once i agree Mr Bot - i have asked for it to be locked - peeps have said their bit, i can see nothing else happening than more spam and flaming from the usually element - actually thats good in one sense, it just proves the point even more.

Peace
UKMan

Askjeevesbot
01-26-2004, 11:57 AM
Originally posted by UKMan@26 January 2004 - 11:55
For once i agree Mr Bot - i have asked for it to be locked - peeps have said their bit, i can see nothing else happening than more spam and flaming from the usually element - actually thats good in one sense, it just proves the point even more.

Peace
UKMan
:P for once u agree :lol:

Afronaut
01-26-2004, 12:00 PM
Closing this Thread requested.

:cool2: