Girlfriend Trouble Ditch Or Date(keep) [Archive]

bronco

03-03-2003, 02:33 PM

What a question to ask i here you say!
...and why ask here also!

Well i don't know either but here goes anyway.

I have been seeing my g/f now for around 3 yrs and up until saturday night everything was going great,give or take the odd problem like i suppose all you guys have had,thats women for ya!

As i have said she has been as good as gold 'till saturday night.

Here's what happened.
It was a birthday party for one of her friends and they all went out for a drink and boogie as you do(girls night out only hence why i was'nt out, my mistake now :angry: )
Anyway to cut a long story short nothing happened while she was in the bars/clubs that she went in BUT while she waited for a taxi home she had a kiss with some f-ing guy.

So there it is, it probably seems like 'nothing' to all you guys but to me it's...well you know not great!

Since this she has not left me alone txting and phoning me up 24/7 saying sorry/love you blah,blah,blah.

Keep dating or ditch the bitch :angry:

You decide(well sort of :D )

mrcall1969

03-03-2003, 02:38 PM

She didn't cheat, it was only a kiss for chissake. :D

Ron

03-03-2003, 02:41 PM

She confessed, she's sorry, get over it!
As long as there's no tongue, or no penetration, nothing really happened. :D

Skweeky

03-03-2003, 02:43 PM

:blink: man, she just KISSED him u know, it's not like she's planning on moving in with him. Anyway, she calls you all the time, means she loves you a lot. Many things happen in the heat of the moment, nothing to get upset about. :)

mrcall1969

03-03-2003, 02:43 PM

Even tongues acceptable, as long as it's only in the mouth!

Ron

03-03-2003, 02:44 PM

Hmmm, how do you feel about cigars then, mrcall?

Razz

03-03-2003, 02:45 PM

Originally posted by Ron@3 March 2003 - 14:41
She confessed, she's sorry, get over it!
As long as there's no tongue, or no penetration, nothing really happened. :D
and no cucumbers :D

(ask ron)

but seriously i think u should give her another chance i mean she obviously regrets it and wants u

Skweeky

03-03-2003, 02:46 PM

oh come on....I mean, who wants to have sex with the same person for the rest of his life :lol:

don't be a hypocrite Ron :P :P

mrcall1969

03-03-2003, 02:47 PM

Originally posted by Ron@3 March 2003 - 15:44
Hmmm, how do you feel about cigars then, mrcall?
Hm better be carefull here.

I like a Brandy and a Cigar, but what thats got to do with his girlfriend going out on the pull I don't know.

Ps Sorry Bronco (joke)

bronco

03-03-2003, 02:48 PM

Originally posted by mrcall1969@3 March 2003 - 15:38
She didn't cheat, it was only a kiss for chissake. :D
Hmm...having had no previous experiance with girlfriends kissing other blokes i was'nt sure :blink:

Lol! so its normal and you would be happy for your g/f to snog other blokes ;)

chissake...Wtf.

*EDIT* Going off these replies looks like i'm in the minority p.s what a bunch of funny/dirty people we have here cucumbers :o wtf :D

mrcall1969

03-03-2003, 02:52 PM

Originally posted by bronco+3 March 2003 - 15:48--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (bronco @ 3 March 2003 - 15:48)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--mrcall1969@3 March 2003 - 15:38
She didn't cheat, it was only a kiss for chissake. :D
Hmm...having had no previous experiance with girlfriends kissing other blokes i was'nt sure :blink:

Lol! so its normal and you would be happy for your g/f to snog other blokes ;)

chissake...Wtf. [/b][/quote]
it's only a kiss.

I wouldn't mind but the wife might be a bit pissed that I had a g/f in the 1st place :D

Chissake = Chrissake :D :D

Ron

03-03-2003, 02:54 PM

Unless I misinterpret the verb "snogging", she just kissed him.
You shouldn't be happy about it, you should let it go.
If it happens again, then you might have reasons to distrust her.
Maybe the ole 'eye for an eye' might make you feel better?
If you'd live in Belgium, I might set you up for a reasonable price. :D

Grim

03-03-2003, 02:56 PM

I say i kiss is nothing, KEEP, but you will have to learn to stop being JEALOUS

bronco

03-03-2003, 03:00 PM

Originally posted by Ron@3 March 2003 - 15:54
Unless I misinterpret the verb "snogging", she just kissed him.
You shouldn't be happy about it, you should let it go.
If it happens again, then you might have reasons to distrust her.
Maybe the ole 'eye for an eye' might make you feel better?
If you'd live in Belgium, I might set you up for a reasonable price. :D
Funny you should suggest the 'eye for an eye'

She said i could with her blessing...one funny girl.

P.S may just take her up on this super offer :D :D

CornerPocket

03-03-2003, 03:02 PM

Have to agree it's only a kiss, but if you had to ask it's obvious you have feelings for her. Just let her know how it made you feel and ask her how she would feel if the tables were turned or happen to turn in the future B). Alcohol seems to always have its way :unsure:

Take another chance, but I wouldn't let it go pass 3 strikes...tops! Unless it changes to an open relationship :P

mrcall1969

03-03-2003, 03:02 PM

Originally posted by bronco+3 March 2003 - 16:00--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (bronco @ 3 March 2003 - 16:00)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--Ron@3 March 2003 - 15:54
Unless I misinterpret the verb "snogging", she just kissed him.
You shouldn't be happy about it, you should let it go.
If it happens again, then you might have reasons to distrust her.
Maybe the ole 'eye for an eye' might make you feel better?
If you'd live in Belgium, I might set you up for a reasonable price. :D
Funny you should suggest the 'eye for an eye'

She said i could with her blessing...one funny girl.

P.S may just take her up on this super offer :D :D [/b][/quote]
Hmmm Does she have lesbian tendencies too??

bronco

03-03-2003, 03:13 PM

Originally posted by mrcall1969@3 March 2003 - 16:02
[Hmmm Does she have lesbian tendencies too??
Would'nt mind but she has'nt :( but her sister has
and she's pretty tasty,would'nt say no :lol: if the g/f turned :D :D

mrcall1969

03-03-2003, 03:18 PM

Originally posted by bronco+3 March 2003 - 16:13--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (bronco @ 3 March 2003 - 16:13)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--mrcall1969@3 March 2003 - 16:02
[Hmmm Does she have lesbian tendencies too??
Would'nt mind but she has'nt :( but her sister has
and she's pretty tasty,would'nt say no :lol: if the g/f turned :D :D [/b][/quote]
OK it's settled, dump her date her sister!

ps I'm Joking.

Ron

03-03-2003, 03:24 PM

OK, it's settled.
Hump her, date her sister. :)
PS I'm joking too, ...sorta.

Knuckles187

03-03-2003, 05:54 PM

personally i would sit down and have a chat with her about it..

sort of like an interrogation.. try to find out if she really does love you etc blah blah blah.... just a way really... i would be nasty and say dump her..

but you cant let go of a good thing... if you get a good thing.. grab on with both hands and hold on tight.

Romeo.

mrcall1969

03-03-2003, 06:21 PM

Originally posted by Romeo187@3 March 2003 - 18:54
but you cant let go of a good thing... if you get a good thing.. grab on with both hands and hold on tight.

Romeo.
Ron knows all about that!! :D

bronco

03-03-2003, 07:21 PM

Some good advice there guys and some well dodgy stuff also :D
Quick update she's been around to see me and gave me a card to read,

Safe to say that she's not wanting to let a good thing go(if i do say so myself :D )

Big apology inside blah,blah,blah.seems pretty upset-bless.

Anyway i'm going to torture her now knowing that she's desparate to keep hold of us, i think i will give her a second chance but i'm going to make her sweat a bit,teach her a lesson.

Don't fcuk with the bronco :D

...tell you what,it's a good job she does'nt read this :D

Curley

03-03-2003, 07:26 PM

Go out, do the same (to make you feel better) then put it behind you lol. Question is, can you live with knowing that each time she goes out, she may be doing it again? Do you trust her enough not to take it a step further? I've been in both situations (was cheated on then did the cheating) and its not very nice. Now i'm single and enjoying every minute of it, I just have fun whilst waiting for Mr Right to come along ;)

Maybe its time to have a break from each other, have some fun and afterwards you can both have another go of it.

Anyway, good luck.

EDIT: Too late, as per :P

daveyjones

03-03-2003, 07:31 PM

its a simple thing , its not all about if SHE loves you but if you ALSO love her , from the way your talking you sound like you don't , if she came out and was the one who told you she kissed another guy then you need to ease up on her because she even told you in the first place , if you can't forgive and forget then there's no hope for the future for you two and to just drag it out and tortue her is only going to make you appear less attractive and less all the "hassle" so if you care you might just try to work out your problems in an adult manner rather than retaliation and misery.

FuNkY CaPrIcOrN

03-03-2003, 07:31 PM

Originally posted by Curley@3 March 2003 - 14:26
Go out, do the same (to make you feel better) then put it behind you lol. Question is, can you live with knowing that each time she goes out, she may be doing it again? Do you trust her enough not to take it a step further? I've been in both situations (was cheated on then did the cheating) and its not very nice. Now i'm single and enjoying every minute of it, I just have fun whilst waiting for Mr Right to come along ;)

:) :) :)

bronco

03-03-2003, 08:24 PM

Originally posted by daveyjones@3 March 2003 - 20:31
its a simple thing , its not all about if SHE loves you but if you ALSO love her , from the way your talking you sound like you don't .
Lol...psychic onboard!!
Did i not say that i would give her another chance,if i dd'nt love her i would'nt have thought twice about it,she would've been gone.

I'm just letting her know she's one lucky girl but if it happens again TA,TA
Show 'em who the 'daddy' is :D

She will learn the hard way DO NOT MESS WITH THE BRONCO.

phishman

03-04-2003, 02:07 AM

Originally posted by FuNkY CaPrIcOrN+3 March 2003 - 20:31--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (FuNkY CaPrIcOrN @ 3 March 2003 - 20:31)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteBegin--Curley@3 March 2003 - 14:26
Go out, do the same (to make you feel better) then put it behind you lol. Question is, can you live with knowing that each time she goes out, she may be doing it again? Do you trust her enough not to take it a step further?  I've been in both situations (was cheated on then did the cheating) and its not very nice.  Now i'm single and enjoying every minute of it, I just have fun whilst waiting for Mr Right to come along ;)
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:) :) :)[/b][/quote]
:x i never would have thought :x

but any ways its a kiss and you two have got a long way to go together
forget about ut next time it might be you

Spindulik

03-04-2003, 03:43 AM

I'd give her one chance, but a little kiss shouldn't be all that bad. Just be on your gaurd.

Too bad we let our emotions make our decisions.

Remember: Everything you do and experience with her now, is a miniature version of the rest of your life with her.

Start watching Maury Povich and Jerry Springer, to numb your senses a bit. Then when she does cheat, you'll know what to expect. -I love those Paternaty DNA tests on Maury. The couples are such a laugh!!!! :)

If she cheats on you with another girl, see if you can arrange a compromise while she is still feeling guilty (a little 3-way?), this will last for a very short time. Otherwise she'll dump you immediately, and you'll end up with nothing.