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[internet.news]

Some of you ppl still making a joke of me being opened.
But I think you did not understand what I mean, I meant it seriously.
And I also have nothing against laughing. But I am feeling hurted by
some of you here.

[David_Duchovny]

The Thoughts Are Out There, but not everyone can accept them...

[internet.news]

Originally posted by internet.news@2 March 2004 - 22:03
Some of you ppl still making a joke of me being opened.
But I think you did not understand what I mean, I meant it seriously.
And I also have nothing against laughing. But I am feeling hurted by
some of you here.
LINK (http://filesharingtalk.com/index.php?showtopic=102853)


..combined the lot for that one didn&#39;t ya <_<

[Proper Bo]

You are just a human, we are all opened

If it hurted you, I&#39;ll stop.

[DanB]

http://www.pupazz.orcon.net.nz/stfu.jpg

I too am feeling hurted, by your incessant babbling of shite. Take me seriously and STFU for bit :)

[internet.news]

What I mean try it the nice way.

I did not say everyone.

[Canti]

Originally posted by internet.news@2 March 2004 - 23:03
Some of you ppl still making a joke of me being opened.
But I think you did not understand what I mean, I meant it seriously.
And I also have nothing against laughing. But I am feeling hurted by
some of you here.
If I found out you died tomorrow, I would take the day off, laugh, and make very cruel jokes about your death..

[callum]

Originally posted by Canti+2 March 2004 - 22:09--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Canti @ 2 March 2004 - 22:09)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-internet.news@2 March 2004 - 23:03
Some of you ppl still making a joke of me being opened.
But I think you did not understand what I mean, I meant it seriously.
And I also have nothing against laughing. But I am feeling hurted by
some of you here.
If I found out you died tomorrow, I would take the day off, laugh, and make very cruel jokes about your death.. [/b][/quote]
That&#39;s a bit much&#33;

I did laugh when i read it though :lol:

[Canti]

I agree, it is harsh... But the more he talks, the more it becomes true.

[callum]

Originally posted by Canti@2 March 2004 - 22:15
I agree, it is harsh... But the more he talks, the more it becomes true.
Good point.

[internet.news]

For all of you: I will remain opened, but I that really hurted me

and I think I will stop posting now here. Maybe I will only stay in contact

with the ppl from here I can seriously share my thoughts openly.

[internet.news]

Originally posted by internet.news@2 March 2004 - 22:21
For all of you: I will remain opened, but I that really hurted me

and I think I will stop posting now here. Maybe I will only stay in contact

with the ppl from here I can seriously share my thoughts openly.
I thought you said you weren&#39;t going to post outside your thread anymore?

Can&#39;t you keep the drama queeen crap in there?

[DanB]

Damn, where&#39;s a voilin smilie when you need it :lol:

[vidcc]

if he bothers you so much why do you read his posts?. :lol:
He (i think he is a he) does no harm

[internet.news]

No, I won&#39;t give up sharing my thoughts & concerns openly.

I will remain opened.

I can&#39;t judge about you, you are just human.

I can&#39;t expect anything of you, sad but true.

Shit Happens always.

I just try to be more honestly opened and friendly ;)

That is all I can do. And I am happy about that.

[Proper Bo]

Originally posted by vidcc@3 March 2004 - 00:25
if he bothers you so much why do you read his posts?. :lol:
He (i think he is a he) does no harm
my thoughts exactly, although I do enjoy a laugh at his/her engrish ;)

[DanB]

Well its hard when on a night like tomight it makes up 90% of the posts

[h1]

I think I will stop posting now here.
http://www.mcbriens.net/liam/img/smilies/w00tdribble.gifhttp://www.mcbriens.net/liam/img/smilies/w00tblur.gifhttp://www.mcbriens.net/liam/img/smilies/w00tdribble.gif

[Canti]

Originally posted by vidcc@2 March 2004 - 23:25
if he bothers you so much why do you read his posts?. :lol:
He (i think he is a he) does no harm
I actually skip most of the threads he makes...

If it wasnt for the same dumb shit he says over and over just so he can rack up his post count, I wouldn&#39;t care...

If he does get in the top ten I urge a mod to delete his account.

[internet.news]

BITCH (http://filesharingtalk.com/index.php?showtopic=101949&st=80)

Now I&#39;ve joined the.....

http://www.slightlywarped.com/forumpictures/BanHim/banhim.jpg

brigade :angry:

[shn]

Originally posted by internet.news@2 March 2004 - 17:03
Some of you ppl still making a joke of me being opened.
But I think you did not understand what I mean, I meant it seriously.
And I also have nothing against laughing. But I am feeling hurted by
some of you here.
http://www.chinkii.com/uploads/album/ladies/bsmeter.gif

You are obviously quite popular here in the lounge (to some). You generate replies immediately no matter how outlandish and silly your topic is. People flock to it when they see the name internet.news or any other of your well-known aliases.

So as for people being harsh to you...............you bring upon yourself. :)

[Canti]

Originally posted by samsamsamsam@2 March 2004 - 23:33
http://www.slightlywarped.com/forumpictures/BanHim/banhim.jpg
PERFECT&#33;
Too funny&#33;

[callum]

Originally posted by samsamsamsam@2 March 2004 - 22:33
BITCH (http://filesharingtalk.com/index.php?showtopic=101949&st=80)

Now I&#39;ve joined the.....

http://www.slightlywarped.com/forumpictures/BanHim/banhim.jpg

brigade&nbsp; :angry:
That post settles it, IN isn&#39;t just a weirdo he is also a total prick.

[DanB]

Callum, it&#39;s taken this long? :o


:lol: :lol: :lol:

[callum]

Originally posted by danb@2 March 2004 - 22:48
Callum, it&#39;s taken this long?&nbsp; :o


:lol:&nbsp; :lol:&nbsp; :lol:
I didn&#39;t know he was a prick, nobody told me :(

Edit - Did you manage to get that Busted album you were looking for.

[DanB]

Originally posted by callum+3 March 2004 - 00:51--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (callum @ 3 March 2004 - 00:51)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-danb@2 March 2004 - 22:48
Callum, it&#39;s taken this long?&nbsp; :o


:lol:&nbsp; :lol:&nbsp; :lol:
I didn&#39;t know he was a prick, nobody told me :(

Edit - Did you manage to get that Busted album you were looking for. [/b][/quote]
You bastard :P

I listened to 3 songs, stopped it and deleted it, what a pile of steaming :shit:

[NikkiD]

Originally posted by danb@2 March 2004 - 18:23
Damn, where&#39;s a voilin smilie when you need it :lol:
http://www.cains-cottage.co.uk/smileys/violin.gif

[DanB]

:lol: :lol: Thanks Nikki

[silent VI]

Originally posted by Canti+2 March 2004 - 23:09--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Canti &#064; 2 March 2004 - 23:09)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-internet.news@2 March 2004 - 23:03
Some of you ppl still making a joke of me being opened.
But I think you did not understand what I mean, I meant it seriously.
And I also have nothing against laughing. But I am feeling hurted by
some of you here.
If I found out you died tomorrow, I would take the day off, laugh, and make very cruel jokes about your death.. [/b][/quote]
id fly to his/her grave just to vandilize it

[Skweeky]

I think jokes about someones death and how happy you&#39;d be about it are rather distasteful <_<

Anyway:

I don&#39;t really know where to start here, but things are getting a bit out of hand.
IN, I think you have a real problem here that cannot be helped by hanging out on this forum. You started coming here and started posting about sharing your thoughts openly and things like that, fair enough. A few people started noticing that you used that phrase very often and started making jokes about it.

I think you have a problem with social norms and ethics, and I don&#39;t mean that in a bad way. I think you don&#39;t really understand where the line is sometimes, you don&#39;t understand when you insult someone by trying to invade their privacy (something you do quite often).
I think you are desperately looking for a way to act. And in a twisted way the people here give you that. They laugh with you and your silly posts and push you into a role. That felt rather comfortable for you at first, because you got attention and the jokes that were made about you were rather harmless at first.
The more attention you get the more obsessive you are trying to blend into that role. And the harder you are trying the more people are getting annoyed by it because there is hardly a way of avoiding it anymore.

Now you aren&#39;t feeling comfortable anymore. You tried your best to be the person the people here expected you to be but it didn&#39;t work out, all you got back was people mocking you and you want that to stop. You don&#39;t get why this is happening because you tried so hard to live up to everyones expectations.

I seriously advise you to go into therapy so you can learn how to deal with yourself and how to communicate with people. There&#39;s no shame in it. I myself am slightly autistic and I had to learn how to deal with that.




Well. maybe I am completely wrong here and then you can just ignore this entire post. But maybe you recogniwe some of your problems in what I wrote and I hope I helped you in that case.

[bigboab]

Me steps out of Squeeks way. I think that last whip lash by Dan may have hurt. :ph34r:

[Skweeky]

:huh: I&#39;m just trying to help him that&#39;s all.

Even the mods don&#39;t care anymore if he gets flamed apparently

[muchspl2]

well if it wasn&#39;t for the suicide threat I would be totally against your theory
I think he is just a attention whore, I mean come on,you could be accurate but I have seen the likes of IN on other forums and they are all the same

[bigboab]

Originally posted by Skweeky@3 March 2004 - 01:08
:huh:&nbsp; I&#39;m just trying to help him that&#39;s all.

Even the mods don&#39;t care anymore if he gets flamed apparently
Unfortunately the Mods are in a no win situation Squeeky. If they intervene they are interfering and if they dont itervene they are wrong. I dont envy them.
One of them pretends to be someone else too. :rolleyes:

[NikkiD]

If I step in at this point, it means putting him on moderation again. Which means watching him created countless numbers of accounts... again. Which means everyone else here gets more annoyed... again. And frankly, I don&#39;t have the patience for it. When he posted his website repeatedly, I warned him not to do it, he continued, and then his site was desecrated. I can&#39;t control what happens there. When he starts 20 topics in one night with basically the same subject, he is going to draw flame, and he has to realize this by now. I&#39;m still not sure whether it is done intentionally to troll and cause trouble, which I&#39;m becoming more convinced of by the day, or whether he just genuinely doesn&#39;t understand the consequences of his actions.

Friendly words of advice that ANY of us mods/admins have ever had for him have always been ignored, or even spurned - however cheerful his smiley filled rebuff may have been. We have tried.

So what do we do at this point, realizing that from a mod standpoint, it means that we have two options, account suspension or moderation of his account/accounts.

[Skweeky]

I&#39;m not pointing at anyone here.

I&#39;m just saying what I see. If that&#39;s right or wrong isn&#39;t up to me to judge

But something has to happen. And for the moment I think it would be better for his own sake if he just left.

Ah well, good night all and sweet dreams :)

[Spider_dude]

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[i]Originally posted by danb@2 March 2004 - 23:23
Damn, where&#39;s a voilin smilie when you need it&nbsp; :lol:
i made this for d and b.


edit maybe adding the pic would be nice.