It's Better To Have Loved And Lost [Archive]

j2k4

06-12-2004, 03:05 PM

That's a tough nut to crack.

I suppose it would help if she hadn't (in my case) been a complete nightmare.

I think I would have to agree, though, to the former: If you hadn't ever been completely gutted by a woman, you'd never know what you were avoiding, eh? ;)

Marius24

06-12-2004, 03:06 PM

Originally posted by danb+12 June 2004 - 15:13--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (danb @ 12 June 2004 - 15:13)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Marius24@12 June 2004 - 16:08
NO IT FUCKING ISN'T!!! :angry:  :angry:  :angry:
Still feeling down? :( [/b][/quote]
lol of course :P

i have a bad feeling that i'm gonan be like this for some time so u guys (and gals) r gonna have to put up with it :P :P

edit, my bad english :rolleyes:

Gemby!

06-12-2004, 04:23 PM

Originally posted by Marius24+12 June 2004 - 15:14--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Marius24 @ 12 June 2004 - 15:14)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by danb@12 June 2004 - 15:13
<!--QuoteBegin-Marius24@12 June 2004 - 16:08
NO IT FUCKING ISN'T!!! :angry: :angry: :angry:
Still feeling down? :(
lol of course :P

i have a bad feeling that i'm gonan be like this for some time so u guys (and gals) r gonna have to put up with it :P :P

edit, my bad english :rolleyes: [/b][/quote]
u express those dam feelings and u express them good

but no nudity plz .. :blink:

Marius24

06-12-2004, 04:44 PM

Originally posted by gemby!+12 June 2004 - 16:31--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (gemby! @ 12 June 2004 - 16:31)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by Marius24@12 June 2004 - 15:14

Originally posted by danb@12 June 2004 - 15:13
<!--QuoteBegin-Marius24@12 June 2004 - 16:08
NO IT FUCKING ISN'T!!! :angry:  :angry:  :angry:
Still feeling down? :(
lol of course :P

i have a bad feeling that i'm gonan be like this for some time so u guys (and gals) r gonna have to put up with it :P :P

edit, my bad english :rolleyes:
u express those dam feelings and u express them good

but no nudity plz .. :blink: [/b][/quote]
damn <_< no nudity it is :lol:

peat moss

06-12-2004, 06:13 PM

Originally posted by Marius24@12 June 2004 - 07:08
NO IT FUCKING ISN'T!!! :angry: :angry: :angry:
Some times its best to remember the good times even if they were few and far in between. Women can't live with them can't kill em . That special one is just around the corner. :frusty:

Marius24

06-12-2004, 06:15 PM

Originally posted by peat moss+12 June 2004 - 18:21--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (peat moss @ 12 June 2004 - 18:21)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Marius24@12 June 2004 - 07:08
NO IT FUCKING ISN'T!!! :angry:  :angry:  :angry:
Some times its best to remember the good times even if they were few and far in between. Women can't live with them can't kill em . That special one is just around the corner. :frusty: [/b][/quote]
true... so true :(

peat moss

06-12-2004, 06:30 PM

Marius24 Three things !
1 Chin up

2 Don't listen to country music

3 If you really want to get her Goat, date one of her friends . Works evey time . :)

Arm

06-12-2004, 06:31 PM

:phone: Owner of alonely heart is better then, owner of a broken heart. :lol:

peat moss

06-12-2004, 06:32 PM

Originally posted by Arm@12 June 2004 - 10:39
:phone: Owner of alonely heart is better then, owner of a broken heart. :lol:
Ok who sings that? :lol: the band Yes ?

Arm

06-12-2004, 06:35 PM

Originally posted by peat moss+12 June 2004 - 13:40--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (peat moss @ 12 June 2004 - 13:40)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Arm@12 June 2004 - 10:39
:phone: Owner of alonely heart is better then, owner of a broken heart. :lol:
Ok who sings that? :lol: the band Yes ? [/b][/quote]
Arm gives you hint. The band name is the opposite of NO.

:-"

peat moss

06-12-2004, 06:36 PM

Great band too !

Ok off to p2p to find some Yes songs . :)

zapjb

06-12-2004, 07:23 PM

Yes ime It Is Better To Have Loved And Lost. Ask somebody who has gone through most or all of their lives without being in love once. :angry:

j2k4

06-12-2004, 07:42 PM

Originally posted by zapjb@12 June 2004 - 13:31
Yes ime It Is Better To Have Loved And Lost. Ask somebody who has gone through most or all of their lives without being in love once. :angry:
I expect after it does happen, you will feel the same way, no matter the outcome of whatever alliance you form, Zap.

To borrow from and paraphrase Neitzsche:

'That which doesn't kill me makes me stronger, and is thus ultimately of benefit to me.'

Biggles

06-12-2004, 07:55 PM

It matters not who won or lost, but how one played the game.

At least that is what our old School Rector used to say.

However, our school also taught "Dulce et Decorum est" and in not in the Wilfred Owen sense. I only discovered Owen later and thought "the buggers"

However, this is of no use to you Marius. At the risk of sounding like Internet News - keep an unlocked door on your heart. We cannot keep others' hearts (don't even think about the fridge - doh! I said don't go there) but we can care for our own.

The person that wrote the original quotation was speaking with the benefit hindsight - to see one's life in retrospect without the heady mix of love and infatuation would be to drain half the colour from the picture.

Marius24

06-12-2004, 08:03 PM

Originally posted by Biggles@12 June 2004 - 20:03
It matters not who won or lost, but how one played the game.

At least that is what our old School Rector used to say.

However, our school also taught "Dulce et Decorum est" and in not in the Wilfred Owen sense. I only discovered Owen later and thought "the buggers"

However, this is of no use to you Marius. At the risk of sounding like Internet News - keep an unlocked door on your heart. We cannot keep others' hearts (don't even think about the fridge - doh! I said don't go there) but we can care for our own.

The person that wrote the original quotation was speaking with the benefit hindsight - to see one's life in retrospect without the heady mix of love and infatuation would be to drain half the colour from the picture.
yeah, i guess ur right :unsure:

j2k4

06-12-2004, 08:09 PM

Beautifully stated, Biggles.

We owe it to ourselves to develop the ability to perform some emotional "housekeeping"; we are less than presentable to prospective mates if we lack this ability.

Still, Marius, you have my empathy.

Heed the wisdom of Biggles. ;)

Marius24

06-12-2004, 08:12 PM

Originally posted by j2k4@12 June 2004 - 20:17
Beautifully stated, Biggles.

We owe it to ourselves to develop the ability to perform some emotional "housekeeping"; we are less than presentable to prospective mates if we lack this ability.

Still, Marius, you have my empathy.

Heed the wisdom of Biggles. ;)
thanks :lol:

i'm sure i'll get over it and i will just laugh back at this when (IF) i get over it :rolleyes:

Marius24

06-13-2004, 09:43 AM

umm, is it normal to be constantly sick.. yet i haven't eaten since and when i go to sleep i wake up 30 mins later in hot swets.. i got about 2 hours sleep last nite :(

j2k4

06-13-2004, 01:29 PM

It is also perfectly normal to be in a somewhat weakened and susceptible state, Marius.

Buck up; it'll be alright. ;)

Afronaut

06-13-2004, 02:09 PM

One thing i found to have some positive effect in those kind of times was to
try to keep myself busy with new things. It is not a cure really, but it helps.

I mean, picking up a new hobby with new ppl,
since everything Old in the Past seemed to remind about Her,
it better had to be New Things.

Eventually, someday you find yourself thinking what a waste of time
it can be to be stuck on X.

:cool2:

internet.news

06-13-2004, 02:19 PM

Originally posted by Marius24@12 June 2004 - 15:08
NO IT FUCKING ISN'T!!! :angry:  :angry:  :angry:
Damn right http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gifhttp://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gifhttp://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gif

Marius24

06-13-2004, 02:20 PM

Originally posted by Guitar-Slinger@13 June 2004 - 14:17
One thing i found to have some positive effect in those kind of times was to
try to keep myself busy with new things. It is not a cure really, but it helps.

I mean, picking up a new hobby with new ppl,
since everything Old in the Past seemed to remind about Her,
it better had to be New Things.

Eventually, someday you find yourself thinking what a waste of time
it can be to be stuck on X.

:cool2:
yeah i'm bored as fuck atm and it's getting me down.. i just downloaded some random comendy things nd its cheerin me up.. I think i might start karate soon nd next week i'm goin 2 france so tht'll get my mind of it :)

Voetsek

06-13-2004, 02:20 PM

Big load o cack man dat stinks

Marius24

06-13-2004, 02:21 PM

Originally posted by samsamsamsam+13 June 2004 - 14:27--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (samsamsamsam @ 13 June 2004 - 14:27)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Marius24@12 June 2004 - 15:08
NO IT FUCKING ISN'T!!! :angry:  :angry:  :angry:
Damn right http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gifhttp://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gifhttp://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gif [/b][/quote]
:lol: that smilie roxs :D

Afronaut

06-13-2004, 02:46 PM

Originally posted by Marius24+13 June 2004 - 15:28--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Marius24 @ 13 June 2004 - 15:28)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Guitar-Slinger@13 June 2004 - 14:17
One thing i found to have some positive effect in those kind of times was to
try to keep myself busy with new things. It is not a cure really, but it helps.

I mean, picking up a new hobby with new ppl,
since everything Old in the Past seemed to remind about Her,
it better had to be New Things.

Eventually, someday you find yourself thinking what a waste of time
it can be to be stuck on X.

:cool2:
yeah i'm bored as fuck atm and it's getting me down.. i just downloaded some random comendy things nd its cheerin me up.. I think i might start karate soon nd next week i'm goin 2 france so tht'll get my mind of it :) [/b][/quote]
The trick is to learn to keep your mind busy,
do something physical, that way you will get the sleep easier too.

That PC aint going to help you that much, well, maybe some laughs in here etc,
but do go outside and do something, it does help.

:)

Voetsek

06-13-2004, 02:48 PM

give it time for time heals all and time yes enough to plot.........

dwightfry

06-14-2004, 10:17 AM

I've been taught that relationships should be for selfgrowth. Sure it didn't work out, but how much of that relatioship defined who you are now. My fiance broke up with me a week before Christmas. Sucks, Sucks bad. But, I loved the entire time we were going out. The relationship made me grow in so many ways. Every responsible thing I've accomplished in the last 4 years have been due to that relationship. It showed me what it's going to be like with that next someone. So, it is true. If I hadn't loved and lost....I wouldn't be me, I wouldn't have my favorite memories, and I would still be completely lost on where I want to be.

Oh, and Always remember,

I'll be the round about
The words will make you out 'n' out
You change the day your way
Call it morning driving thru the sound and
In and out the valley

Ah Yes, they really put things into perspective, don't they? :P

Canti

06-14-2004, 08:36 PM

I had one of these:
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I REALLY loved it...

Then I lost it....

But I sure am glad I had it...
So I have to say I agree.

Ok, i've gone to all the trouble of writing this so I wont simply trash it, but I have to say that I just now realized that for gayness and banality, this post gets a 10/10