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Lilmiss
06-13-2004, 03:47 PM
Yes, I am.

http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/calvin+dances.gif

After two years and two months, Im finally free again.











:( :ph34r:
Snee
06-13-2004, 03:49 PM
Think happy thoughts.


Oh and was he really perfect?
UcanRock2
06-13-2004, 03:49 PM
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 15:55
Yes, I am.

http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/calvin+dances.gif

After two years and two months, Im finally free again.











:(  :ph34r:
Divorced...or you just said the hell with it?
Lilmiss
06-13-2004, 03:57 PM
Originally posted by SnnY@13 June 2004 - 15:57
Oh and was he really perfect?
He's far from perfect, and we just piss each other off now.
He called one of my pals in the middle of the night cos I had a dodgy txt on my phone. Its just getting silly. :(

I adore him, we have loads in common, and have just lost our baby, but things have gotta change.
But he's still living with me until he gets somewhere else. Its fluffing my head up.

Just dunno what to do with myself. :unsure:
Snee
06-13-2004, 04:00 PM
Try to focus on his flaws then. :)

I seem to recall something about him logging in here under your name too, if it helps.
UcanRock2
06-13-2004, 04:01 PM
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 16:05
and have just lost our baby.
What happened here?
Marius24
06-13-2004, 04:01 PM
take me lilmiss!! i'm single!! :lol: :lol:




:(
Lilmiss
06-13-2004, 04:07 PM
He&#39;s done far worse than that snny, pal. <_<
He&#39;s read my diaries, personal letters, bank statements, phone bills, and phone daily.
He has checked my undies to see if I have had sex, asked pals for information on me, had me followed, n more.

Its been driving me loopy, Its kinda like dating a stalker.
He also said I killed my baby, even though he took it back, it gutted me. :(
Snee
06-13-2004, 04:09 PM
Throw him out on his ass and never look back. :)

Fookin&#39; bstrd.
[B][O][T]
06-13-2004, 04:11 PM
Not very nice of Him :( I&#39;m sure You&#39;ll find a better one lilmiss :)

BOT
BawA
06-13-2004, 04:12 PM
I thought u had baby, :smilie4:
internet.news
06-13-2004, 04:14 PM
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 16:15
He&#39;s done far worse than that snny, pal.&nbsp; <_<
He&#39;s read my diaries, personal letters, bank statements, phone bills, and phone daily.
He has checked my undies to see if I have had sex, asked pals for information on me, had me followed, n more.

Its been driving me loopy, Its kinda like dating a stalker.
He also said I killed my baby, even though he took it back, it gutted me.&nbsp; :(
http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gif Burn him&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;11&#33;1 http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/mad01.gif
Lilmiss
06-13-2004, 04:15 PM
Thanks, Im sure things will get better.
Just cant believe what shitty luck Ive had.
UcanRock2
06-13-2004, 04:16 PM
Can we kill him now&#33;&#33;&#33;
Snee
06-13-2004, 04:17 PM
It sounds like getting rid off him is a good thing for you, so i&#39;m pretty sure I&#39;m happy for you right now. :)
AussieSheila
06-13-2004, 04:26 PM
;) There&#39;s someone out there that is worthy of you Lilmiss. If he does that shit now, it will only get worse.

Hang in there, it gets better.

:)
Lilmiss
06-13-2004, 04:27 PM
Yeah, I suppose Im half happy its over.
But its really hard to start getting over him, while he&#39;s still sharing a bed n telling me he loves me.
I really do love him to bits, just wish he wasnt such an http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/asshole.gif


Arggggghhhhh&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;
I need a holiday.
N a joint. ;)
AussieSheila
06-13-2004, 04:31 PM
:o Oh, that&#39;s so hard. But I&#39;ve walked away from the only 2 men I&#39;ve loved because they were assholes.

I found it wasnt worth it in the end.

:lol: Joints help. A lot.
Lilmiss
06-13-2004, 04:35 PM
Well, Im gonna go roll a huge one n sit at me frontdoor with a bottle of becks, and a book. Simple things in life, eh? :)

If anyone runs into Zero, can you tell him to get in touch with me please.

Cya all soon. :01:
DanB
06-13-2004, 04:39 PM
Hey lilmiss :D
Snee
06-13-2004, 04:40 PM
Originally posted by lilmiss@13 June 2004 - 17:43
If anyone runs into Zero, can you tell him to get in touch with me please.
Message sent. :)
misterSTFU
06-13-2004, 04:41 PM
look on the brightside. the guys on here are happy. we can dream again :ph34r:
j2k4
06-13-2004, 04:50 PM
Sounds like you&#39;re not quite "out-from-under" yet, lilmiss.

In any case, we&#39;re all pulling for you (as well you know :) ), and here&#39;s hoping you are able to assess new prospects with a keener eye toward your well-being.

Take care. ;)
100%
06-13-2004, 05:05 PM
if you have split - then kick him out of the apartment immediatly

you both need reality checks and get on with your own life
Gemby!
06-13-2004, 05:39 PM
men &#33;&#33;&#33; :rolleyes:
Marius24
06-13-2004, 05:45 PM
Originally posted by gemby&#33;@13 June 2004 - 17:47
men &#33;&#33;&#33; :rolleyes:
women &#33;&#33;&#33; :ph34r:
sArA
06-13-2004, 05:52 PM
Good luck lillmiss....Just get him out asap....I let mine stay for a further 8 months after we split...almost made me go loopy......
Guillaume
06-13-2004, 06:15 PM
I don&#39;t really like this smiley,but it&#39;s useful sometimes: :hug:
Be strong Lil&#39; one&#33;
Don&#39;t let him stay whatever he says, it&#39;ll only make it even more painful...
Voetsek
06-13-2004, 06:17 PM
just get over it and beware the smiley looks way bad
internet.news
06-13-2004, 06:23 PM
Originally posted by Gurahl@13 June 2004 - 18:23
I don&#39;t really like this smiley,but it&#39;s useful sometimes: (EDITED OUT)

I hate it&#33;&#33;&#33; http://img12.photobucket.com/albums/v31/samsamsamsam/th_hugcensor.gif
Gemby!
06-13-2004, 06:39 PM
Originally posted by Marius24+13 June 2004 - 17:53--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Marius24 @ 13 June 2004 - 17:53)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-gemby&#33;@13 June 2004 - 17:47
men &#33;&#33;&#33;&nbsp; :rolleyes:
women &#33;&#33;&#33; :ph34r: [/b][/quote]
i sed men :rolleyes: &#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;

dont start an arguement &#33;&#33;&#33; :angry:

:P

now thats sorted let me say it again

men &#33; :rolleyes:
DanB
06-13-2004, 06:58 PM
Originally posted by gemby&#33;+13 June 2004 - 19:47--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (gemby&#33; @ 13 June 2004 - 19:47)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>
Originally posted by Marius24@13 June 2004 - 17:53
<!--QuoteBegin-gemby&#33;@13 June 2004 - 17:47
men &#33;&#33;&#33;&nbsp; :rolleyes:
women &#33;&#33;&#33; :ph34r:
i sed men :rolleyes: &#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;

dont start an arguement &#33;&#33;&#33; :angry:

:P

now thats sorted let me say it again

men &#33; :rolleyes: [/b][/quote]
women :rolleyes:
Voetsek
06-13-2004, 07:02 PM
playground fight go go go
hobbes
06-13-2004, 07:56 PM
Lilmiss,

I have followed your saga with this guy for a year now, and of course, to us he looks like a total prick because you used to vent here about things he did that pissed you off. I am sure that there is another side to him which makes him a little more human, but I think you need to GET HIM THE FUCK OUT, TODAY.

I&#39;m not going to recapitulate what you have posted in the past, but the summary is that you will never love him.

He doesn&#39;t want to go, you may be afraid of being alone and this pathetic situation will linger on and on.

You have a chance to hit the RESET button and start over. YOU need to take him out and find him a place, today.

You know we will be here to keep you company.
sArA
06-13-2004, 08:10 PM
Originally posted by hobbes@13 June 2004 - 20:04
Lilmiss,

I have followed your saga with this guy for a year now, and of course, to us he looks like a total prick because you used to vent here about things he did that pissed you off. I am sure that there is another side to him which makes him a little more human, but I think you need to GET HIM THE FUCK OUT, TODAY.

I&#39;m not going to recapitulate what you have posted in the past, but the summary is that you will never love him.

He doesn&#39;t want to go, you may be afraid of being alone and this pathetic situation will linger on and on.

You have a chance to hit the RESET button and start over. YOU need to take him out and find him a place, today.

You know we will be here to keep you company.
OMG&#33;&#33;&#33; I actually agree with Hobbes&#33;
Lilmiss
06-13-2004, 08:19 PM
Originally posted by hobbes@13 June 2004 - 20:04
I am sure that there is another side to him which makes him a little more human, but I think you need to GET HIM THE FUCK OUT, TODAY.




There is a generous, sweet, loving side to him.
But I dont need to moan about those bits. ;)

I know everything will be ok once he&#39;s gone, but I cant kick him out til he gets somewhere, he gave up everything to move in with me. I owe him a bit of time at least.

Thanks for the support guys.
Hobbes, I love the way you put things in black n white for me. :)
zapjb
06-13-2004, 08:48 PM
Beg or borrow the &#036; to get him another situ to live. NOW. And then say NEXT. And don&#39;t ever expect the money back. Just to get rid of him, it&#39;s worth your peace o&#39; mind.
RGX
06-13-2004, 09:48 PM
:(, bastard.....blaming you for the loss of the baby is so incredibly unfair....I agree with Hobbes and Zap, get him out of there NOW. I remember he got in fights with your friends, this guy sounds like he doesn&#39;t deserve you one bit.

Time to move on, throw all that baggage behind and start afresh, you deserve someone so much better. A lot of shit has happened to you recently and his treatment of you (from what I&#39;ve read) musn&#39;t have helped.

As always, I am here whenever you need me, MSN, PM, Soulseek, I&#39;m here.
Mathea
06-13-2004, 10:21 PM
even tho he gave up everything to be with you as u said in your post... it sounds as though you&#39;ve more than "made up for it" (even tho it shouldnt be seen like that, i hope u know what i mean




it seems as though u have been thru more than enough and by letting him stay, and share a bed, etc you&#39;re postponing your healing

its hard to let go sometimes but you need to be strong and do whats best for you, bc thats whats important its not your job to take care of him
hobbes
07-04-2004, 03:07 AM
I bet he is still around, do you get me point now? It is all about "want to"&#33;
GepperRankins
07-04-2004, 11:28 AM
Originally posted by hobbes@4 July 2004 - 03:15
I bet he is still around, do you get me point now? It is all about "want to"&#33;
:blink: