All's well that end's well, sorta

[sArA]

Well, told the kids about me and the bf tonight....son was completely fine, and positively supportive.....

but....

daughter went completely off on one....ho hum...(always the drama queen) :dry:

Still, a bit of a chat later, and she has promised to give him the full force of her sarcastic wit and charm....basically she will metaphorically eat him alive! :lol: Which means that she has regained her sense of humour and their friendship (which has always been a good one) can continue. phew....close call but I think a save that Seaman would have been proud of.... ;)

[TheDave]

tell her to get her room ready for this guys daughter. she'll see the funny side

[bujub22]

tell her to tuff it out and get ready to get the hell out

[sArA]

He doesn't have any kids, but I did suggest he move in by Christmas! And yes by the time I made that comment she was ready to tut at me and raise an eyebrow....a very good sign.... :lol: :lol:

And no he won't be...but it was funny at the time

[sArA]

tell her to tuff it out and get ready to get the hell out


She is only 11...a bit young for independant living....I prefer to wait until she is at least 13! :lol: :lol: :lol:

[manker]

Nice one, Sara :D

I remember reading you were a bit concerned about this so it's great to hear that things panned out pretty well for you and your family.

[sArA]

Cheers manker....except they have to face each other tomorrow....bf has suggested a baileys glide (her favourite erm....tipple) as a bribe...she thought that was cool....so hopeful...;) .

I think her biggest concern was that he is a long term friend so the idea!!!!! OMG!!!

[keyser_soze]

Lifes a rollercoaster I hope it works out though. :)

[DanB]

Get her drunk on Baileys at 11? :ohmy:

Glad it turned out well though Sara :01:

[sArA]

Get her drunk on Baileys at 11? :ohmy:

Glad it turned out well though Sara :01:


They are small, and she sips it nicely over the course of the evening.

I have a theory that if alcohol is not seen as a taboo, it is less likely to abused later....I am erring towards the continental approach....

Besides, she likes the taste :blushing:

[sArA]

Experience tells me that you are correct in this approach.


Nice to see your old persona re-emerging :)

[bujub22]

She is only 11...a bit young for independant living....I prefer to wait until she is at least 13! :lol: :lol: :lol:
she's ready :devil:

j/k she'll get over it ;)

[DanB]

Don't start having lots of babies with him straight away though :P speaking from experience it effects the kid(s)

[Rat Faced]

About bloody time Sara :lol:

Glad you got it all out in the open with them, and it worked out so well so far :01:

[sArA]

Don't start having lots of babies with him straight away though :P speaking from experience it effects the kid(s)


I am too fucking old to start that game again!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

@ Rat...yeah, yeah....I know.... :rolleyes:

[DanB]

Cool, I was just checking :lol:

[vidcc]

He doesn't have any kids,
so he did

save that Seaman :lol:

[j2k4]

Happy for you, Doc-

I predict you'll be okay with the young'uns, as you're inclined to stay on top of the situation and not let things slide.

If he's worthy, you might introduce him here, although we might not be as accomodating as your daughter. :D

Good news; first in a while. ;)

[Rat Faced]

He's worthy J2..

Good sort, nice guy

[j2k4]

He's worthy J2..

Good sort, nice guy

Well and good, then; no one more deserving than our Sara. :)

[ruthie]

Congratulations..it's great when things go smoothly..especially with the kiddies.

[Strangelove]

Yeah, finally. :01:

Your right Ruthie, its hard to find someone the kids like sometimes.

[Mathea]

i think its good you told em too.... my memory is crap, but if i recall correctly you were worried bout breaking it to them, so glad it went smoothly

sounds like a nice guy, and its good that ur kids get along with him so well. Like you said the transition from "mom's friend" to "mom's bf" might take a little, but ultimately they're gonna want to see you happy