Waiting for the Baby

[99%]

The little baby which has quietly been growing over the last 9 months in my beloveds womb is expected as of now...
She is sleeping and sleeps alot to get energy beforel the world changes. We make as much quality time as we can and with friends before it happens.

For those of you who have been through this - did you also have this "waiting" time?

This silent moment where you don't know what is going to happen, when it will but all you know is its going to seriously (..painfull) intense?

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[peat moss]

Yes enjoy while you can , bcause it all changes so quickly . Most of it is good tho, try and take sometime off work when baby arrives to give her a hand . I envy you its a great time boy or girl , names picked out yet ? :)

[99%]

name for girl is easy
Sienna
if its a boy the list is long.. and heavily debated
the problem with boys names is that you have met too many guys you don't want him to be related to if you know what i mean - international applicable is of interest.

j2k4- she's the one that grinds her teeth at night - i have learnt to swallow /compromise - you mean there is more....

merci for conciousness

this silence before the .. is very very....absurd - normally in work life this build up to the climax opening night/exams/controls etc they generally deflate to nothing - in this case it is the reverse - more a quiet solid premunition and when the water breaks i feel it will explode and geometrically enhance in intensity from then on.

she sleeps


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[vidcc]

All of ours came before the expected date and all within a week of that date so I haven't had that "looking at my watch" experience.
They say sex is a good way to induce labour, so if you can't wait get romantic :P

It may be a while before you can be romantic again without interruption so don't waste the opportunity to be alone with your love. Make her realise how much you love her even if you don't "get jiggy with it"

If you are going to be present during the birth ask for a local anaesthetic for your hand....trust me she will try to break it and there it serves no purpose for you both to be in pain :lol:

You may be concerned when the baby comes out that your woman has produced a Californian raisin...don't worry this is just a quick transition :lol:

I wish you luck and joy in what is going to be the most wonderful life changing thing to enter your world. And in a few years as you stand in the rubble that used to be your house you will smile and know it is worth it

[99%]

vidcc bellisimo text

ask for a local anaesthetic for your handhttp://filesharingtalk.com/vb3/images/smilies/laugh.gif
- it gives me hope



And in a few years as you stand in the rubble that used to be your house you will smile and know it is worth it

fabulously tragichttp://filesharingtalk.com/vb3/images/smilies/laugh.gifhttp://filesharingtalk.com/vb3/images/smilies/crying.gif

weird when you meet the "earth mothers" or women who will help bringing the child to the word - before the birth - they treat you in a way which is quit so..not..so important...type of ..side thing...as a man you have little or no function other than support, in books advice for men is 2 pages whereas for the mother it is 10000.

who are we men in such a sutiuation

[brotherdoobie]

vidcc bellisimo text
:lol:
- it gives me hope



And in a few years as you stand in the rubble that used to be your house you will smile and know it is worth it

fabulously tragic:lol::cry:

weird when you meet the "earth mothers" or women who will help bringing the child to the word - before the birth - they treat you in a way which is quit so..not..so important...type of ..side thing...as a man you have little or no function other than support, in books advice for men is 2 pages whereas for the mother it is 10000.

who are we men in such a sutiuation

It is an odd feeling,when you realize the small role
you play in the conception and the birth of your child.
It's odder yet,when you realize how gigantic your role
can be (completley up to you) after the fact.
The hour drawls near Z...smile.

Peace bd

[Gripper]

As has been said enjoy these quiet moments,it is the most amazing thing I have ever witnessed,the emotions that run through you when they give you that little bundle to hold is fucking amazing,I felt like the whole world had shifted when I held mine,good luck to you,your spouse and little one

[sArA]

To all of you who have replied so eloquently,


I say thankyou.




you give hope :)

[vidcc]

You're about to travel to another dimension.
A dimension where time cannot be saved,
Where sleep seems a distant memory.
Where night is day and day is night.
But, where smiles and laughter are contagious.
It contains the depth of our fears and the height of our passion.
That's the crib post up ahead -
Your next stop, the Newborn Zone.

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[DanB]

Good luck dude, hope all goes well :D

[99%]

Thank you all
the baby still wants to chill inside the tummy
she sleeps

[tesco]

:ohmy: 3 days that's gotta be tough waiting.

[99%]

the babies safer (and more comfy (in aclaustophobic sort of way) in there
than out "here"
if its 2 weeks overdue we should contact hospital and they will use measures to start labour

[tesco]

the babies safer (and more comfy (in aclaustophobic sort of way) in there
than out "here"
if its 2 weeks overdue we should contact hospital and they will use measures to start labour
how does a ruler start labour? :unsure:


But, 2 weeks of just silentness waiting for the baby must be really hard.

[Rat Faced]

I envy you.. and feel for you.

As they said, there is nothing like it you'll ever experiance.

Good Luck




@Sara,

didnt know it was yours... :unsure:

[99%]

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[Gripper]

the babies safer (and more comfy (in aclaustophobic sort of way) in there
than out "here"
if its 2 weeks overdue we should contact hospital and they will use measures to start labour
how does a ruler start labour? :unsure:


But, 2 weeks of just silentness waiting for the baby must be really hard.
Its not a ruler they use,more like a long crochet needle which they insert up to the womb and use to break the waters :sick:

[|F1|]

how does a ruler start labour? :unsure:


But, 2 weeks of just silentness waiting for the baby must be really hard.
Its not a ruler they use,more like a long crochet needle which they insert up to the womb and use to break the waters :sick:

Thanks, nothing like reading that while eating.

[Gripper]

LOL sorry I've learn't not eat whilst surfing teh lounge,apart from gross stuff,very funny stuff causes a hell of a mess on the monitor when you LOL with a mouthful:)

[|F1|]

LOL sorry I've learn't not eat whilst surfing teh lounge,apart from gross stuff,very funny stuff causes a hell of a mess on the monitor when you LOL with a mouthful:)

Actually, I wasn't eating, I just finished eating. So, like swimming, I guess I have to wait a hour before viewing the lounge.:P