Nokia N Gage

i installed my n gage pc suite and when i connect it to a usb port it cant find it, the help file said i have to change the the com ports so that it can be used with only the n gage, i have tryed it cant find it, any idea what to plus i ive tryed to install/ untill a few times. thanks

how are you connecting it? cable? bluetooth? infared?

i am connecting with the usb cable it come with.

If you have XP, is it not automatically recoginzing that you are connecting something?