Relax and enjoy is more fun than a frantic race to the finish,which you will always win,have you tried giving her a massage with scented oils and such?
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Relax and enjoy is more fun than a frantic race to the finish,which you will always win,have you tried giving her a massage with scented oils and such?
I read somethin' from Softpedia 'bout women and their orgasms:
Thought worth sharing...:)Quote:
Bad news for the guys. Women fake it. Maybe not every time, but it's a high probability that it has happened. The reasons can vary and the good news is it may not be you (or your technique) that impeded her from reaching the peak.
Researches revealed that just 25% of women can always (or almost always) reach orgasm during the contact (in the case of the males, this is well over 90%) This means that 75 % of the women need more than in-and-out movement to trigger their mechanism. So, what can impede a woman from getting the climax, making her use the theatrics, and what can guys do to avoid this?
Tip 1: Communication lack
It is extremely important for her to know that she can talk with you, tell you anything and you can listen to her, without your making "wise" comments.
"Many women are embarrassed to say what they want, and more importantly, telling you what they don't want." said Donna Wittrig, Resident Sexpert for Surprise Parties.
She doesn't want him to think she's harming his feelings, that's why the man must make her feel comfortable about that.
Tip 2: Find her sexual preferences
A man can get to the right point without directions. Ask her where her "buttons" are and assure her you're willing to do it without judging her. If she's still too shy, she could drive by sending signals or by guiding your hands.
Tip 3: To feel relaxed, in order to achieve an orgasm, a woman must feel herself attractive
"Many women have body issues. They may not think they are attractive enough, or sexy enough, for you." said Wittrig.
Women are bombarded with images of perfect bodies, perfect faces by media, net, TV and so on. Seeing you too interested in the big boobs you see around does not help. A woman needs to hear and often from you that she's beautiful and sexy and she looks amazing with certain cloth items...
Tip 4: Build the exhilaration moment
Call her in the middle of the day, telling her you can't wait to meet her tonight or/and send her hot messages. She'll be thinking about it all day.
Tip 5: Clitoral stimulations
Just 25% of women have just vaginal orgasms while many of the rest only clitoral orgasms. Thus, you have to play with her little love button if you want to rid off theater from your bed.
Tip 6: Accomplish her fantasies
Women have much more sexual imagination, which overcomes greatly the trio dreamed by over 80 % of the men. But women think on detailed story involving uniforms, princes, princesses or whatever damps her.
"Some women might want to be someone else for the night. This may make her feel more comfortable doing things she wouldn't normally do as herself." said Wittrig.
Tip 7: The wrong timing
She may be distracted, thinking on what must be done or happen, or she may just not have the mood. So, she will "whisper" just to cut off the party and get back to her businesses.
"Many women are perfectly fine with just pleasing you. It beats having you pumping away for hours when she's not in the mood." explained Wittrig.
Yeah, i've always given full body massages, i love giving them. I love the feeling of them relaxing bit by bit and hering the change in breathing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gripper
I've tried alsorts of oils. In China there are some really odd ones i've never seen in Britain. Her favorite is one made from the national flower of Bali or Thailand or summat. No idea of the name.
We also have this lubricant called Durex Play. It says it's for massages as well as sex, but my advice is stear clear, dries way too quickly. Also, they say it's edible and "you'll find it surprisingly sweet to eat". It is kinda sweet. Tastes like sweet shite though. Nasty. The bottle is also shaped like a dildo.
Good stuff.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hairbautt
I say this thread should be a sticky post (insert pun here...again). I'm not bothered about being laughed at, a few days mocking has changed my life in good ways.
But some guys who have similar problems might have no where to ask or look. Like Seedler.
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Originally Posted by jimbo12345
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Patter like that makes me all nostalgic.
I shouldn't be so harsh, he's only 12 or something. I'm 25. Laugh away Seedler....Quote:
Originally Posted by Hairbautt:glag:Quote:
Originally Posted by jimbo12345
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