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Originally Posted by
rejectOfAllah
I'm left as a man who has come to realise that he is so stupid that he could be deceived at a very fundamental level, so completely deceived that he placed complete trust in someone who was only ever using him to make themselves feel good. The deception carried out against me was deliberate and long term, and adapted over time to include the things that my deceiver knew would be the most offensive and hurtful things she could do to me. Weakness she learnt of because of my stupidity in trusting her so completely... in allowing her so close to me... closer than I'd ever allowed anyone before.
Had to go back a bit to find this, such a nutshell-neat capsule of butt-hurt bullshit.
Put that on a t-shirt and you've got an article everyone is familiar with, but chooses, nevertheless, to leave in the closet.
I don't think I even
know anyone who hasn't been through the 'wrenching bereavement' of a breakup, but throwing it out on the 'nets for the consideration of others is old hat as well.
In this forum alone, I would guess, over the years, somewhere between 4 and 5 thousand people have - stupidly - donned the 'kick me' crown, then complained about getting bruised.
There is nothing at all atypical of your experience - we have ALL been there, but some cannot resist the urge to offer it up as entertainment on the WWW.
You don't have to commit suicide, ffs, just quit sniveling.