Well, F.P.:
You speak of the ubiqitous "they" as if you're not a part. When and how did you start out? Did you know most everything from the start? How do you learn if you don't question those that KNOW? Isn't a forum a place to discuss stuff like this?
99% of the people who respond to noob posts are constructive, thoughtful, and professional. Sometimes, I guess, some just like to rail their frustrations on the neophytes.....