The worst member of the hdbits/sdbits staff

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Of course its the point they put the time and effort in and can decide who they do and do not want there, they can also choose what rules etc they want in place.
If people don't like them and no one uses the sites thats their own fault, but if these sites are doing well and have banned you then you need to realise just coz you aint wanted there does mena they are wrong.
Now go think for a while and grow up on this

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But I miss their irc channel. Even though I said in another thread that people in the #hdbits channel are shitty, I only meant it from one perspective. I actually miss those people.

Well you are saying a lot of different things about the site in these posts maybe you should have left it a while and really thought about what you wanted to say before throwing a load of :shit: about

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Originally Posted by OlegL

That's not the point. The point is that they have a truly bizarre mentality...

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Does the irony of this statement escape you OlegL?

To further what Duckater has been trying to express to you, the fact that you would go to the length of listing every staff member on a site and generalizing them all as bad, is bitter and unwarranted.

You were banned, we get that, but what could you possibly hope to accomplish? The poll isn't funny, and the fact that you keep wanting to add names to it demonstrates your overwhelmingly distraught view that the loss of a single tracker is the end of the world.

Perhaps, in the future, you will actually follow the rules on the trackers you are on instead of making a weak effort to publicly bash a sites entire staff team. Your selfimportant idea that this was a conspiracy on the part of all of them to deprive you of their content is absurd.

What is the purpose of this poll? What good is going to come out of it? Do you think members are going to boycott the site or something? I understand if you got banned and are upset but too keep harping on it will not do you any good! I have never been a member at HDB so I have no experience with their staff. Really I can't hate on any staff member of any site. I never had a problem with staff anywhere!

Op, i have seen you on other sites and you seem to be a good member, i do not understand this?

Any one got a brick wall I can knock down with me head as I am sure it would understand me better :)

Forgot to say after all in this thread I am glad you do not appear to be a member of GTi :)

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Any one got a brick wall I can knock down with me head as I am sure it would understand me better :)

Forgot to say after all in this thread I am glad you do not appear to be a member of GTi :)

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Some one beat you to it:
http://img171.imageshack.us/img171/995/koolaid.th.jpg

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Any one got a brick wall I can knock down with me head as I am sure it would understand me better :)

Forgot to say after all in this thread I am glad you do not appear to be a member of GTi :)

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/me starts a poll about which GTi staffer could beat OlegL in a cage fight :naughty:

I love this shit!!!

Fav threads at fst.

1º I got banned, i did nothing!

2º I got banned, for being a moron, but ill revenge myself over at fst!!

3º I got refused!! Ill expose them, and get my revenge at fst!!!

It sure is weird, for one off thoese staffs, to se a banned member doing this, what the hell do they think when they see this ?

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Originally Posted by Tokeman

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Any one got a brick wall I can knock down with me head as I am sure it would understand me better :)

Forgot to say after all in this thread I am glad you do not appear to be a member of GTi :)

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Some one beat you to it:
http://img171.imageshack.us/img171/995/koolaid.th.jpg

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No i did that for another idiot that not understand bashing staff of trackers not best thing to do :lol:

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Originally Posted by Intr4ns1t

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Any one got a brick wall I can knock down with me head as I am sure it would understand me better :)

Forgot to say after all in this thread I am glad you do not appear to be a member of GTi :)

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/me starts a poll about which GTi staffer could beat OlegL in a cage fight :naughty:

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Well there a few I think he might not want to get in cage or ring with as they train on a reg basis :lol:

Soz boys, but this has to be the lamest thread in quite some time I came across on fst...

Like said before; prolly best to think ahead the results of your actions/accusations/funny polls. It wouldn't be for long that someone *cough* gets hold of your IP and might kick you of other sites as well.

In all honesty, OlegL, take your losses (on any site) like a man and don't come whining like a little kitty-synonym and blame others without them defending (or even bothering) themselves...

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Originally Posted by Duckater

That may or may not be the case I cannot comment on as do not know them. But it does not mean they are not friendly with owners of other sites who may read this, which could cause you issues on there sites.

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Youse the one that needs to take those chill pills.I don't think am the only one who has seen staffers have a go at it in a more wicked way than this and if you really took time to know why this guy was banned,you wouldn't be on his neck like the way you are now.It doesn't reflect well on you or your site when you make posts suggesting that you would happily ban him if he was on your tracker then proceed to hand over his IP and personal details to a third party just coz he made this thread(you need some marketing 101 classes by the way as I don't see this as the proper marketing language for a site that just chucked).

His approach to the situation may not have been the best out there but your lectures are largely being unfair(its like you are threatening him or something)

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Originally Posted by The_Martinator

OP, do you have any idea how much people put into staffing at a tracker? Just sayin'.

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wow :rolleyes: wtf does your statement have anything to do with what the OP asked/said or the thread for that matter?or should I just pass and ask cabalo instead?

It is not the best approach the situation, which seems to have happened a while back. I do not see him saying that as if he was threatening the OP at all! More like saying if he creates a poll for every tracker he gets banned from, or keeps hammering on this one site then that may happen. Saw it as advice.

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Originally Posted by sez

His approach to the situation may not have been the best out there but your lectures are largely being unfair(its like you are threatening him or something)

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Originally Posted by sez

Youse the one that needs to take those chill pills.I don't think am the only one who has seen staffers have a go at it in a more wicked way than this and if you really took time to know why this guy was banned,you wouldn't be on his neck like the way you are now.It doesn't reflect well on you or your site when you make posts suggesting that you would happily ban him if he was on your tracker then proceed to hand over his IP and personal details to a third party just coz he made this thread(you need some marketing 101 classes by the way as I don't see this as the proper marketing language for a site that just chucked).

His approach to the situation may not have been the best out there but your lectures are largely being unfair(its like you are threatening him or something)

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Originally Posted by The_Martinator

OP, do you have any idea how much people put into staffing at a tracker? Just sayin'.

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wow :rolleyes: wtf does your statement have anything to do with what the OP asked/said or the thread for that matter?or should I just pass and ask cabalo instead?

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I have not said I would hand over his ip and have not said I would ban him, have said glad he does not appear to be a member.
So I suggest you re-read what I have put.
Yes I did say take a chill pill.
If he was a member would not be banned from GTi for this, people only get banned from GTi for actions there, but I do know trackers that will ban for this sort of thing, which is why I was trying to, at times a lighthearted way i.e. the chill pill comment (common phrase around my area), get him realise the way he as approached this is not the best method.

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Originally Posted by OlegL

Some people on the hdbits and sdbits staff are weird for the following reasons: they think they are running a university, but not a tracker. They truly believe that a person who doesn't know anything about NTSC framerates, about LAN, and about the VC1 video compression standard doesn't have a right to be on their trackers.
In April of 2008, I had to take a small test in order to join hdbits after receiving an invite. This test never had any questions about how to encode and etc. I passed that test. But, for some reason, that fucktarded asshole admin Valerio said this about me when I was in their irc channel: "I am surprised he was able to receive an invite". Unbelievable! Maybe he truly believes that hdbits is a university, but not a tracker?
People, something is genuinely wrong with Valerio and other hdbits/sdbits admins (memineours, for example).

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Originally Posted by OlegL

But as I said, I passed the small test that I had been required to take after receiving an hdbits invite. What I am complaining about is their attitude toward me when I was in their irc channel: they were constantly calling me retarded in the channel and they told me to check my IQ. I find it weird that they were saying it just because I had less knowledge than they did about high-definition, about PAL/NTSC, and etc.

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Originally Posted by OlegL

I still didn't tell you why I had been banned from hdbits/sdbits. This is how I got banned: I was in the #hdbits channel, and sportcenter didn't have % next to his nick, which made him look like a regular person in the channel, so nwo said something about it, and I joked that sportcenter was pretending to be a regular guy in the channel and that's why he didn't have % next to his nick. This is when nwo banned me from the channel. So I told sportcenter, "If you unban me in the #hdbits channel, I will immediately upload my DVDs to sdbits." After that, I started creating my offers on sdbits with the intention of uploading the DVDs after people would vote for these offers, but when the system op of sdbits memineours found out what I had told sportcenter ("If you unban me in the #hdbits channel, I will immediately upload my DVDs to sdbits."), he banned me from the sdbits tracker. When I started complaining about my sdbits ban on an hdbits forum, I was banned from hdbits as well. So, in one day I was banned from two trackers. :)

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A well deserved ban,eh?

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Originally Posted by Duckater

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Originally Posted by sez

Youse the one that needs to take those chill pills.I don't think am the only one who has seen staffers have a go at it in a more wicked way than this and if you really took time to know why this guy was banned,you wouldn't be on his neck like the way you are now.It doesn't reflect well on you or your site when you make posts suggesting that you would happily ban him if he was on your tracker then proceed to hand over his IP and personal details to a third party just coz he made this thread(you need some marketing 101 classes by the way as I don't see this as the proper marketing language for a site that just chucked).

His approach to the situation may not have been the best out there but your lectures are largely being unfair(its like you are threatening him or something)



wow :rolleyes: wtf does your statement have anything to do with what the OP asked/said or the thread for that matter?or should I just pass and ask cabalo instead?

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I have not said I would hand over his ip and have not said I would ban him, have said glad he does not appear to be a member.
So I suggest you re-read what I have put.
Yes I did say take a chill pill.
If he was a member would not be banned from GTi for this, people only get banned from GTi for actions there, but I do know trackers that will ban for this sort of thing, which is why I was trying to, at times a lighthearted way i.e. the chill pill comment (common phrase around my area), get him realise the way he as approached this is not the best method.

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are you sure that's the only thing that you've said or you want me to retrieve for you the post where you suggest trading his IP?

Go ahead find where I have said I would trade his IP :)

I was in the #hdbits channel, and sportcenter didn't have % next to his nick.

which made him look like a regular person in the channel.

so nwo said something about it, and I joked that sportcenter was pretending to be a regular guy in the channel

and that's why he didn't have % next to his nick.

This is when nwo banned me from the channel.



Is this really true ?

U didint forgot something or anything ?


@sez u think this is a deserved ban ?

Im probably missing out, whit the mental translation and all, but i think oleg was a target off someone very stupid.

Euh, no offense to anyone but I've been warned and temporarily kicked from lesser trackers for upping/offering "non-standard" uploads. This has nothing to do with scene-rules (whatever they are sometimes) but just because I upped things that didn't go down with staff that well.

So? Yeah, maybe OlegL was treated not too nicely but no doubt there have been loads of FAQs and rules on either site and one of those has been broken at some point. And in the end, I think that a staffer and in some situations, site-owners can remove/disable/ban people for anything (!!!), no reason given, regardless of the status of that member with or without any donations made ever. A tracker is no democracy, will never be so when you get tru your thick skull, you should be fine anywhere else!

Do I have hard feeling to any staff that warned/kicked me? No, no doubt there was a reason but can't be arsed to find that reason, start polls about staff or anything. Move on, find other trackers offering same releases and enjoy your bandwidth.

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Originally Posted by Bad-Day

@sez u think this is a deserved ban?

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Nuhh,he got banned for absolutely no reason if we are to go by what he's been telling us.I was just being sarcastic to people posting shit with absolutely no background.

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Go ahead find where I have said I would trade his IP :)

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/me puts his decoding cap on

The part where OLegL gets banned:

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Originally Posted by Duckater

but do you not think that the way the post is other trackers will not be wanting you in there ranks due to your re-action here(i.e ban his ass).

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Originally Posted by Duckater

No m8 if they(i.e staffers like you) see you on there trackers/sites may well be wary of your actions and slightest thing you will be banned as pre-judged on things like this(self explanatory).
I know I would be watching people on GTi who posted things like this about other staff as who knows who you would want to have a go at next(yeah get rid of em b4 they go balls out on ya).

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The part where you distribute OLegL's IP:

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Originally Posted by Duckater

But it does not mean they are not friendly with owners of other sites who may read this(i.e staffers like you), which could cause you issues on there(sic) sites(i.e after you give them his IP and other identification details otherwise how does he get in trouble if nobody rat him out).

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Still in doubt about those marketing 101 classes?

Come on sez; there is a big difference between Duckater actually saying to distribute an IP or making an example that if an IP gets distributed among several sites/staffs...

And yes, some staffs from diff trackers do know eachother...

Kinda sounds like "Minority Report"; sentencing peeps for something they think of doing instead of having done already!

Yes very in doubt m8 :)

Read it very carefully and adding text, even if brackets, assuming that what I was thinking.
I am guessing you do not have powers to read my mind, so please do not assume you know what I am thinking you know nothing about me :)

If you read every sentence it says things like may, could cause. If you knew anything about me at all you would now I say what I mean and mean what I say.
If he was on GTi and I was going to ban him (or any one else) he would have had a pm explaining why :)

I have banned very few people in 5 yrs of staffing/owning sites it is a last resort as far as I am concerned.


So over all I suggest you in future read what I put and not assume you know what I am thinking.

When you can find where I have literally said where I would trade his IP you are welcome to slate me as much as you want, but until then get the facts right and don't after the event try and make me look bad assuming you know what I am thinking :)

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Originally Posted by Duckater

I am guessing you do not have powers to read my mind, so please do not assume you know what I am thinking you know nothing about me :)

If you read every sentence it says things like may, could cause. If you knew anything about me at all you would now I say what I mean and mean what I say.
If he was on GTi and I was going to ban him (or any one else) he would have had a pm explaining why :)

I have banned very few people in 5 yrs of staffing/owning sites it is a last resort as far as I am concerned.


So over all I suggest you in future read what I put and not assume you know what I am thinking.

When you can find where I have literally said where I would trade his IP you are welcome to slate me as much as you want, but until then get the facts right and don't after the event try and make me look bad assuming you know what I am thinking :)

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At first I wasn't sure but now am more than certain its exactly what you were talking about.Thank you for confirming my special mind reading powers :lol:

All of the details in Duckater's posts can be reduced to a simple, "Grow up, OLegL, life isn't fair sometimes but your actions are making you look like an ass."

Duckater has made a great effort to try to calm OLegL and keep him from making a greater fool out of himself. OLegL does not seem to grasp this concept. Not. At. All.

Look back at OLegL's previous posts. I have tried to explain to him that it is better to be mature and positive rather than immature and negative. He has ignored my suggestions as well.

Excluding the possibilities of repercussions (real or imagined) by other site staff, consider the lack of trust he is creating with other members here. Do you want to invite him to any of the trackers that you are a respected member of?

When people act like immature, mouthy a-holes it has repercussions throughout the community. Same in the RW as it is here.

Bottom line...grow the fuck up, OLegL! :dry:

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Originally Posted by megabyteme

Bottom line...grow the fuck up, OLegL! :dry:

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Can this option be added to poll? :whistling

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Originally Posted by sez

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Originally Posted by Duckater

I am guessing you do not have powers to read my mind, so please do not assume you know what I am thinking you know nothing about me :)

If you read every sentence it says things like may, could cause. If you knew anything about me at all you would now I say what I mean and mean what I say.
If he was on GTi and I was going to ban him (or any one else) he would have had a pm explaining why :)

I have banned very few people in 5 yrs of staffing/owning sites it is a last resort as far as I am concerned.


So over all I suggest you in future read what I put and not assume you know what I am thinking.

When you can find where I have literally said where I would trade his IP you are welcome to slate me as much as you want, but until then get the facts right and don't after the event try and make me look bad assuming you know what I am thinking :)

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At first I wasn't sure but now am more than certain its exactly what you were talking about.Thank you for confirming my special mind reading powers :lol:

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Nice come back m8 must have taken you a while to think of that one :lol:
Your post also goes to prove you just wanted to look for an arguement and thought cool duckator looks easy prey and now you truely found out I aint you just come out with some garbage comment that proves nothing and supports even less of your previous posts
So I guess I should thank you for the fun even if it was short lived :)

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Originally Posted by FransTormer

Come on sez; there is a big difference between Duckater actually saying to distribute an IP or making an example that if an IP gets distributed among several sites/staffs...

And yes, some staffs from diff trackers do know eachother...

Kinda sounds like "Minority Report"; sentencing peeps for something they think of doing instead of having done already!

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Yeah it would be different if the last post was the only post he'd made sadly though it wasn't and if anything the other posts(including the funny last one)easily confirm this obvious IP distribution post.
Serb just found a partner.Two people that don't give a rats ass about privacy.

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Originally Posted by sez

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Originally Posted by FransTormer

Come on sez; there is a big difference between Duckater actually saying to distribute an IP or making an example that if an IP gets distributed among several sites/staffs...

And yes, some staffs from diff trackers do know eachother...

Kinda sounds like "Minority Report"; sentencing peeps for something they think of doing instead of having done already!

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Yeah it would be different if the last post was the only post he'd made sadly though it wasn't and if anything the other posts(including the funny last one)easily confirm this obvious IP distribution post.
Serb just found a partner.Two people that don't give a rats ass about privacy.

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Try as you might sez you not filling your hole in just making it bigger :)

As for ip's I have never and will never distribute one :)

But hey you know nothing about me so I guess you think you just try and put me in a bracket with ome one else.

I am really glad you are here sez you are quiet entertaining even if it is at a low level, shame it is a low level me brain could use a work out and it seems you aint got a chance of giving it one :lol:

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Yes very in doubt m8 :)

Read it very carefully and adding text, even if brackets, assuming that what I was thinking.
I am guessing you do not have powers to read my mind, so please do not assume you know what I am thinking you know nothing about me :)

If you read every sentence it says things like may, could cause. If you knew anything about me at all you would now I say what I mean and mean what I say.
If he was on GTi and I was going to ban him (or any one else) he would have had a pm explaining why :)

I have banned very few people in 5 yrs of staffing/owning sites it is a last resort as far as I am concerned.


So over all I suggest you in future read what I put and not assume you know what I am thinking.

When you can find where I have literally said where I would trade his IP you are welcome to slate me as much as you want, but until then get the facts right and don't after the event try and make me look bad assuming you know what I am thinking :)

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Notice how you've started making incoherent posts and how every post you are making revolves around me knowing what you are thinking?yeah,thats me being right.Now how low do you really wanna keep this going.

Aww how cute... he's butthurt because he got banned from an internet site!

As long as you want keep it going m8 :)
Due to the fact you still cannot in the slightest show any where I would pass over an IP addy :)
Yet you are trying to look good and make it tho I do.

Also funny how you say my posts are incoherent posts when you have not even managed to copy and paste my last post, now is that not incoherant?
As for my posts reloving around you knowing what I think is due to the fact that the line you went down and failed in every attempt to put any substance to your posts.
Hence once again you changed the subject, or maybe your memory not good enough to remember where we started from?

You started by accusing me of things which upto now you have not proved in the slightest.
So you either need to admit you are wrong or in some way prove that I do pass on IP addies

Ok fine then,you'll have the last word but before that,mind twisting this in a way that is in line with your other posts but in a way that shows you don't hand over your members IPs to other trackers for banning?I swear i'll rest it if you do.You can pm me and do this in private instead of taking the thread to page 10 with irrelevant meaningless posts.

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Originally Posted by Duckater

But it does not mean they are not friendly with owners of other sites who may read this, which could cause you issues on there sites.

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Originally Posted by OlegL

Make your choice in this poll, please. Who, do you think, is the worst member of the hdbits/sdbits staff?

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Need a band aid and/or tissue?

Just my unsolicited $.02...

Saying that something exists, like IP alerts among site owners, (and it does happen) and being an active participant are two very different things. Telling a drunk driver that the police are looking for drunk drivers is a long ways from, "If you leave the house, I will call the cops." And the second statement might even be seen as responsible by some. I certainly don't want drunk drivers on the road and I don't want belligerent, loud-mouth children running around in the sites I enjoy.

FWIW, had Duckater made the same posts to me that he did to OLegL (and I pray I am never THAT STUPID), I would not see his comments as threatening. If anything, Duckater was too patient with OLegL and spent too much time trying to calm him. I certainly don't (as you can probably tell from my posts in this thread) have any more patients or nice things to say to OLegL. :noes:

Sorry, folks, if now you are thinking negative things about me. But FST is the best place to create threads similar to this one.

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I certainly don't want drunk drivers on the road

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I was born to drive drunk and high, never got a ticket in my life. :happy:

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Originally Posted by OlegL

Sorry, folks, if now you are thinking negative things about me.

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You bring this kind of negativity on yourself when you make posts like this. You will never get positive results with negativity.

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Originally Posted by OlegL

But FST is the best place to create threads similar to this one.

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FST is a great place to discuss issues. It is how you go about creating the discussion that makes all the difference.

Next time you have a problem, instead of making a negative post about someone who cannot defend their position (cowardly, BTW), why not post a topic about making a mends with trackers you have been banned on/or mods you have had a "spat" with.

You will get some good advice. Many people have been through the same thing as you. Some have been smart/tactful enough to actually remedy the problem. By creating this thread, you have burned all bridges behind you (with the site and its admins) AND you have burned bridges ahead of you by creating a bad reputation/image of yourself. I could not possible justify filling a [REQ] for you. I also could not justify mediating a situation for you.

What the Mod did to you was minimal to the damage you have done to yourself. Bottom line... not only did the mod defeat you (impose his will), but he has succeeded in letting you make things worse for yourself. If he is your "enemy" he is WAY ahead of you on points!

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Originally Posted by Tokeman

Some one beat you to it:
http://img171.imageshack.us/img171/995/koolaid.th.jpg

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No i did that for another idiot that not understand bashing staff of trackers not best thing to do :lol:

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Originally Posted by Duckater

Any one got a brick wall I can knock down with me head as I am sure it would understand me better :)

Forgot to say after all in this thread I am glad you do not appear to be a member of GTi :)

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/me starts a poll about which GTi staffer could beat OlegL in a cage fight :naughty:

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Well there a few I think he might not want to get in cage or ring with as they train on a reg basis :lol:

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Never argue with fools..they bring you down to their level & beat you with their experience.. :yup:

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Originally Posted by n00bz0r

Never argue with fools..they bring you down to their level & beat you with their experience.. :yup:

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Added to my sig. :D

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Originally Posted by megabyteme

You bring this kind of negativity on yourself when you make posts like this. You will never get positive results with negativity.

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Originally Posted by OlegL

But FST is the best place to create threads similar to this one.

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FST is a great place to discuss issues. It is how you go about creating the discussion that makes all the difference.

Next time you have a problem, instead of making a negative post about someone who cannot defend their position (cowardly, BTW), why not post a topic about making a mends with trackers you have been banned on/or mods you have had a "spat" with.

You will get some good advice. Many people have been through the same thing as you. Some have been smart/tactful enough to actually remedy the problem. By creating this thread, you have burned all bridges behind you (with the site and its admins) AND you have burned bridges ahead of you by creating a bad reputation/image of yourself. I could not possible justify filling a [REQ] for you. I also could not justify mediating a situation for you.

What the Mod did to you was minimal to the damage you have done to yourself. Bottom line... not only did the mod defeat you (impose his will), but he has succeeded in letting you make things worse for yourself. If he is your "enemy" he is WAY ahead of you on points!

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Okay, please give me one last chance. I know that a couple of days ago, I made a promise to you not to be negative, but broke that promise. Now I intend to keep my promise.

Sez, thank you for saying some kind words about me. I appreciate that.

You may not realize it yet, but you do have a huge influence on how events unfold and what happens to you. It's always best to calm down (take a day or two, or until you can deal with a problem rationally- however long that takes) before taking any action.

Try to work things out with the other party. Do so responsibly and respectfully.

If it is impossible to come to an understanding, go to someone with greater authority. But if you failed to act responsibly and respectfully when dealing with the first person, you just gave them ammo for their position. Chances are, you will have a weaker position in the discussion with the supervisor because the supervisor has a working relationship with the subordinate. You are (especially in the BT world) not that significant. The mod is DONATING his time to the site. You are a guest- always remember this!

Good luck with your changes. It will take time and effort to mend relationships after an event like this. Make your future posts reflect this change and you can regain some of that trust. Do not expect immediate results.

OlegL I do not think you are a bad person at all just don't like the metods you have used in this thread. You could have reversed the topic and said who is the fairtest and best on the sites and then you could have possible found the best person to approach.
If it not work it would also show up who is possible the least liked as they would have least votes.

So a lot of things like this if worded the opposite way can also show who is the worst due to lack of votes then you not make your self look bad to people but good ;)