sorryQuote:
Originally posted by the_faceman@7 January 2004 - 23:32
over-reacting much?
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sorryQuote:
Originally posted by the_faceman@7 January 2004 - 23:32
over-reacting much?
No I'm not over reacting, I'm pissed off.Quote:
Originally posted by the_faceman@8 January 2004 - 00:32
over-reacting much?
you can't tell from those pics you posted that there has been any burn trauma, so apologies for that. i am sorry that it now causes you to avoid the sun, which i can understand.
but, not knowing that, there isn't really anything that bad about saying, hey man, you're a bit pale, get the sunshine on you! not that many people have had serious burns, so it's not bad to assume that it's just cos you're a bit of a naturally pale bloke.
the pics weren't made to make you look albino or anything, just exaggerating the fact that you lacked a tan.
now calm down before u go red another way, with high blood pressure.
Look back, you all took the piss, fair enough we all take the piss but in my mind you all crossed the line and you've upset me, you ever bullied at school???
I fucking was, I had enough of that shit to last me a lifetime.
Sorry if you think I'm being stupid but I'm fucked off, big time!!!!
And you're not doing very well with the blood pressure comment either
:o I'd make an exception for you. ;)Quote:
Originally posted by Proper Bo, I tell thee@8 January 2004 - 00:29
You said something about not being able to have nuts in your mou....i'll stop there :P
Jonno, come on hun. Stop getting so wound up, you dont need to bite back to this and you know it. Theres loadsa people in here who accept you for what you are, and thats an honest truthful guy.
Im a lil white too, so what, we are British. :P
jeez man, don't start bring up stuff from back in school. if stuff from that far back in your life is still affecting you to this day go see someone about it, seriously.
it's not good for you to get this easily worked up. basically we all went, lol@ Jonno with no tan, and you seem to think we have cut to the bone.
edit-lilmiss posted before me, she has reminded me to point out that i am also severely lacking any colour at the moment due to living in scotland and not being on holiday for a long time. i was lobster red after T in the Park a few years back though, and my mates took the piss out of me for weeks. it wasn't offensive.
@Jonno - I think Faceman was only bantering with you on the pic, you do look untanned but just as most people would out of the sun - lame excuse but an opportunity to have bnanter oni here which is good fun most of the time. THe history behind it all was in no way apparent, we in Uk all look paler in the winter, and it seems to have brought stuff up for you. Sorry about all the crap things that have happened to you and you have got my and I'm sure FM's support but the arguament you are getting into isn't with Faceman
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Originally posted by lilmiss@8 January 2004 - 01:44
:o I'd make an exception for you. ;)
My argument is'nt with any one person, sorry if it comes out that way.
@FM.......I did'nt bring anything up, other people reminded me
You lot don't seem to get it, I'm upset.........you've hurt me and totally fucked my confidence up
Thanks
You all now have the opertunity to say "Oh fuck up you little twat"
:(
All they are doing Jonno is trying to take the spotlight away from themselves. That is what all bullies do. Only this time they are hiding behind a keyboard. It is always the same crowd in their various disguises. It is sad really. :(
i'm not gonna say that.Quote:
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@7 January 2004 - 23:54
My argument is'nt with any one person, sorry if it comes out that way.
@FM.......I did'nt bring anything up, other people reminded me
You lot don't seem to get it, I'm upset.........you've hurt me and totally fucked my confidence up
Thanks
You all now have the opertunity to say "Oh fuck up you little twat"
:(
I will say that it "should" be obvious that we were only intending to have a little dig at someone (who like someone pointed out, seemed like the majority of british people) who was a bit on the pale side, not someone with sensitive skin.
It shouldn't affect your confidence in any way either. if it has, i'm sorry that you feel that way. i can't really be sorry for making the pics though, because they weren't made with any malicious intent at all. i can only feel sympathetic to the reaction they have caused.
you consider gentle ribbing bullying?Quote:
Originally posted by bigboab@8 January 2004 - 00:58
All they are doing Jonno is trying to take the spotlight away from themselves. That is what all bullies do. Only this time they are hiding behind a keyboard. It is always the same crowd in their various disguises. It is sad really. :(
i actually asked a friend of jonnos before posting my pic what he would say. she said it wasn't offensive so i posted it.
if you genuinely believe i have set out to hurt someone i can't help but feel you are looking at it through evil-tinted spectacles.Quote:
Originally posted by bigboab@7 January 2004 - 23:58
All they are doing Jonno is trying to take the spotlight away from themselves. That is what all bullies do. Only this time they are hiding behind a keyboard. It is always the same crowd in their various disguises. It is sad really. :(
http://hometown.aol.co.uk/Lynne1977uk/blushing.gifQuote:
Originally posted by Proper Bo@ I tell thee,8 January 2004 - 00:52
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I entered this thrtad late but saw that it was just the useflu playful banter until realising Jonno was upset - now we all big Jonno fans and so guess people accidentily hit a nerve - apart from that it was the usual banterQuote:
Originally posted by bigboab@7 January 2004 - 23:58
All they are doing Jonno is trying to take the spotlight away from themselves. That is what all bullies do. Only this time they are hiding behind a keyboard. It is always the same crowd in their various disguises. It is sad really. :(
damn - the amount of people I've upset whilst pissed up on here probably btu I never measnt to bully or hurt - it was just playing
OK -0 remember nowe - so many vbullies saying that in detention at my schioool =- it is the intention - no-one intended to ghurt or humiliate or upset etc... it was menat to have a laugh with Jonno
At Jonno - Don't have a crap night frm this - you know you survived whatever happened that's why you da man :)
if you genuinely believe i have set out to hurt someone i can't help but feel you are looking at it through evil-tinted spectacles. [/b][/quote]Quote:
Originally posted by the_faceman+8 January 2004 - 01:01--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (the_faceman @ 8 January 2004 - 01:01)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-bigboab@7 January 2004 - 23:58
All they are doing Jonno is trying to take the spotlight away from themselves. That is what all bullies do. Only this time they are hiding behind a keyboard. It is always the same crowd in their various disguises. It is sad really. :(
Well can you explain to me why the same crowd of members keep attacking other members as a 'joke' sometimes getting rather personal and sometimes rather vulgar?
Well can you explain to me why the same crowd of members keep attacking other members as a 'joke' sometimes getting rather personal and sometimes rather vulgar? [/b][/quote]Quote:
Originally posted by bigboab+8 January 2004 - 01:05--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (bigboab @ 8 January 2004 - 01:05)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>Quote:
Originally posted by the_faceman@8 January 2004 - 01:01
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@7 January 2004 - 23:58
All they are doing Jonno is trying to take the spotlight away from themselves. That is what all bullies do. Only this time they are hiding behind a keyboard. It is always the same crowd in their various disguises. It is sad really. :(
if you genuinely believe i have set out to hurt someone i can't help but feel you are looking at it through evil-tinted spectacles.
please explain. don't hold back.
Ok Ok listen, SD it was funny the first few posts and I know who you asked and she was right, I did find it funny, I posted to that effect.
I'm afraid I'm extremly sensitive about this kind of stuff, as you may have noticed.
It sorta blew up a bit, I go defensive and when I do thats it, I'm like a machine.
Yes it has upset me and yes it's dented my already fragile confidence but I went a little OTT.
Sorry
Can we stop all this arguing please!
P.S and will someone aknowledge that lilmiss wants me :D (not bad eh, she's only about ten years older than me :lol: )
I seem to remember a members pic posed without her pemission. With unflattering references made to the pic. At least one post made in the thread that was unbecoming a Mod. Do you want me to go on?
OK - Group hug everyone.............Quote:
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@8 January 2004 - 00:08
Ok Ok listen, SD it was funny the first few posts and I know who you asked and she was right, I did find it funny, I posted to that effect.
I'm afraid I'm extremly sensitive about this kind of stuff, as you may have noticed.
It sorta blew up a bit, I go defensive and when I do thats it, I'm like a machine.
Yes it has upset me and yes it's dented my already fragile confidence but I went a little OTT.
Sorry
Are you talking about the mod I think you're talking about??..........Who said what?? :angry:Quote:
Originally posted by bigboab@8 January 2004 - 01:09
I seem to remember a members pic posed without her pemission. With unflattering references made to the pic. At least one post made in the thread that was unbecoming a Mod. Do you want me to go on?
@Sam.........Not yet
Okay... for the record - I didn't have time to post about it at the time as I was visiting my mother and checked my email to find that I had 30 some odd PMs regarding it. I was NOT offended by the signature that faceman created. After I investigated and found out who it was, I found it funny. I removed it, because others did find it offensive and there were a couple of people who were geniunely upset - if anyone recalls, I removed it and replaced it with a sarcastic joke, but did not take any action against anyone for it. Had I been hurt, I would have done more than that.
In this case, I don't think anyone is at fault. Jonno was hurt, but no one here could possibly have known his reasons for this, not knowing him personally.
Jonno, you have no reason to feel your confidence shaken. I for one still adore you, and you know that. :)
Heya Nikki ;)
(2 for 2 c'mon :D )
:P
OK - Nikki - ghet opn the Cheer Up Jonno Thread
I'm hoping it's a positiver thinf but maybe it isn't - anyway I agree with all you sdasidf adn so in
That makes a lot more sense, I always thought Nikki would have seen the funny side of that one :blink:
Jonno - I can see where you're coming from but at the end of the day it's just a laugh with a few pixels, I'm sure no-one meant for anyone to get hurt.
Hell, I had tits a while ago :huh:
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Has sam^4 caught Adism? :ph34r:Quote:
positiver thinf but maybe it isn't - anyway I agree with all you sdasidf adn so in
feel free to say "Samsasmamsamsm is always right wehenvevet you antQuote:
Originally posted by Lamsey@8 January 2004 - 00:38
That makes a lot more sense, I always thought Nikki would have seen the funny side of that one :blink:
Jonno - I can see where you're coming from but at the end of the day it's just a laugh with a few pixels, I'm sure no-one meant for anyone to get hurt.
Hell, I had tits a while ago :huh:
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Has sam^4 caught Adism? :ph34r:Quote:
positiver thinf but maybe it isn't - anyway I agree with all you sdasidf adn so in
I think personally everyone may have learnt something here tonight including myself. Dont post anything flaming and naming a member without their permission. If you have their permission then let everyone know that. I am not talking about comical flaming here where you are quoting. That is what the board thrives on. :) If I have offended anyone with my remarks I am sorry. But it is in my nature to defend friends. I now consider my part in this closed. I promised I would not do this again. :(
:) See, if any of you lot were like Nikki I would have smiled ages ago :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally posted by NikkiD@8 January 2004 - 01:33
In this case, I don't think anyone is at fault. Jonno was hurt, but no one here could possibly have known his reasons for this, not knowing him personally.
Jonno, you have no reason to feel your confidence shaken. I for one still adore you, and you know that. :)
Ok guys listen, I'm sorry, I kinda got some issues going on atm and am a little jumpy and I'm sorta reacting a bit heavy handed, bloody good job I ain't in a pub :lol:
@Sam.........Cheers dude ;)
@Lamsey..........Dude, read the whole thread first :rolleyes: I said the pics did'nt bother me :rolleyes:
Jonno B)<<<Seee I'm back :)
Sorry
APology accepted :)Quote:
Originally posted by bigboab@8 January 2004 - 00:44
If I have offended anyone with my remarks I am sorry.
j/k - I don't hingk anyone hasd ofended me a much as mysekf
So you would have smiled if I had a nice pair? ;) :PQuote:
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@8 January 2004 - 02:46
:) See, if any of you lot were like Nikki I would have smiled ages ago :rolleyes:
:lol:
My bad :">Quote:
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@8 January 2004 - 00:46
@Lamsey..........Dude, read the whole thread first :rolleyes: I said the pics did'nt bother me :rolleyes:
My bad :"> [/b][/quote]Quote:
Originally posted by Lamsey+8 January 2004 - 01:54--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Lamsey @ 8 January 2004 - 01:54)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-JONNO_CELEBS@8 January 2004 - 00:46
@Lamsey..........Dude, read the whole thread first :rolleyes: I said the pics did'nt bother me :rolleyes:
jonno i am not trying to be funny here, but i can't understand what did bother you. seriously. i will pm you if you want.
DO that
Hiya Bo honey :)Quote:
Originally posted by Proper Bo, I tell thee@7 January 2004 - 20:35
Heya Nikki ;)
(2 for 2 c'mon :D )
:P
jonno i am not trying to be funny here, but i can't understand what did bother you. seriously. i will pm you if you want. [/b][/quote]Quote:
Originally posted by Spider_dude+8 January 2004 - 01:55--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Spider_dude @ 8 January 2004 - 01:55)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>Quote:
Originally posted by Lamsey@8 January 2004 - 01:54
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@8 January 2004 - 00:46
@Lamsey..........Dude, read the whole thread first :rolleyes: I said the pics did'nt bother me :rolleyes:
My bad :">
You did'nt read it all then did you, does'nt matter, I apologised, leave it at that.
Please :)
Bo, stop trying it on with my girl <_< :P
And believe me , you got a long long way to go for a pair like that :D
Jonno B)
You're just jealous cause I got lilmiss :P :lol:Quote:
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS@8 January 2004 - 03:05
Bo, stop trying it on with my girl <_< :P
And believe me , you got a long long way to go for a pair like that :D
That mean you got your swagger back? :)
You're just jealous cause I got lilmiss :P :lol: [/b][/quote]Quote:
Originally posted by Proper Bo, I tell thee+8 January 2004 - 02:07--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Proper Bo, I tell thee @ 8 January 2004 - 02:07)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-JONNO_CELEBS@8 January 2004 - 03:05
Bo, stop trying it on with my girl <_< :P
And believe me , you got a long long way to go for a pair like that :D
No cos I got my Nikki :P
And me & lilmiss are sound as a pound anyway :)
Shall I go on :P :lol:
@Sam........Yup :D
Jonno B)
You look like a show off to me JONNO_CELEBS :angry:
woo wooQuote:
Originally posted by Studly@8 January 2004 - 04:20
You look like a show off to me JONNO_CELEBS :angry:
woo woo
please do not judge a person before you know a person or be prepared to be cyber frisked!!!!
I'll hold him, you stick your arm up his ass :lol: :lol:
Jonno B)