Teh stabbing must have put a strain on the relationship. T'is no wonder he is elsewhere (i.e. anywhere but Inverness)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilmiss
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Teh stabbing must have put a strain on the relationship. T'is no wonder he is elsewhere (i.e. anywhere but Inverness)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilmiss
Hey, I don't think £5-a-post is too much to ask for a "I'm not trying to covertly insult TheDave™"-guarantee. :angry:Quote:
Originally Posted by TheDave
I assume you were just mentioning this "in passing".Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr JP Fugley
:rolleyes:
Well case and point...Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr JP Fugley
I just came from the basketball court at my gym.
A friend of mine just fell out....his eyes were glassy and blank...paramedics took their fucking time getting there and took him to the hospital.
We went back to playing ball after he was taken.
He had no history of seizures or problems...
Next thing we know one of the other fellas who wasn't playing comes back from the hospital to the gym and says....
xxxx DIED!! :angry:
REAL LIFE...
You think I should give a fuck about someone calling me Bustyman or cawkmunch when there is shit like that happening? Should I actually be hurt?
Folks on here need a reality check.
Sorry for your loss.
Out of respect for your friend I think we should drop this discussion, if that's ok with you?
Edit: To explain the first line in bold, Busymans post was not there when I was typing it. My sympathy goes out to Busyman, obviously.
Well, looks like this thread has reached it's acme and is now gone silly, but a very nice read. A tip of my hat to those who have contributed to this fine thread.
I think the internet is real life and you can injure people with harsh words.
I agree with Busyman that people who are emotionally self sufficient and have a secure world away from the forum are "flame proof". It doesn't matter what people say, when I logoff, I still think that I am ok.
Egocentric comes in 2 flavors.
Some people think that they are correct, and smart and handsome and the cats ass, for no reason that anyone else can understand. They have no interest in your trivial comments as they are the only ones with meaningful comments. They are flame proof. And also have no insight.
Others are egocentric in that they think they are special and should be treated as such. People should go out of their way to praise them. Rules apply to others, they are obviously exempt from them.
Any post that does not endorse their point of view or praise them is like a seering brand and they react with extreme emotion. I could supply a fine example, but I'm not here to flame.
Busyman is right. Our healthiest posters are those who are self-confident or emotionally self sufficient. Call them a "fuck head" and they laugh and say "whatever". They come here for fun and nothing anyone says to them is going to hurt them in any meaningful way. I think that is why Busyman says that this is not real. He will carry no scars from this board, he has seen real-life trauma and felt real-life pain and no words from a 14 y/o is going to upset his equilibrium. Many people are not so balanced and a lot of that has to do with age and success in life.
You people cannot touch me but trolls do piss me off as they undermine my fun here. A time to get away from real concerns and just shoot the shit.
The forum is both real and unreal at the same time.
who else thinks hes chatting shit just for sympathy?Quote:
Originally Posted by Busyman
a friend of yours just dies and you come online to post it on a forum?
BULLSHIT
Hobbes, is there no one online whose opinion you value then?
I can understand what you say, as far as random strangers and idiots go. But what about someone with whom you've been discussing various matters on here, or elsewhere, and someone you feel is your friend, what would happen if they suddenly decided they didn't like you as a person, and told you so in the cruelest way possible?
I know it'd sting if someone I liked, for instance lilmiss (to pick someone out of this thread) told me she hated me and meant it.
I wouldn't be able to shrug that off and continue as if nothing happened, even tho' I've never seen her face to face.
That's what I mean about feeling it when it is someone I do respect.
To me it doesn't matter that much where I talk to someone, what matters is who they are. Idiots can't hurt me IRL either, well physically some can, obviously. But you know what I mean, I hope.
EDit: @scribblec: be quiet please, is that really necessary? I've never seen him make anything like that up just to prove a point, he isn't netweiser or someone.
Scribblec,
You are such an idiot, please leave the forum. You're just an ass, a complete ass.
I know Busyman, I argue with Busyman, he is always wrong when he disagrees with me, but he would never create a fake death for your sympathy.
Go fuck yourself.
how about you choke on my dick and die?Quote:
Originally Posted by hobbes
understandable ill be quiet nowQuote:
Originally Posted by SnnY
Thanks SnnY.Quote:
Originally Posted by SnnY
We all just stopped playing and almost everyone lost it.
As far as me posting here...wtf am I supposed to do?
I'm also watching the Lakers play the Cavaliers. I only post here when I'm doing something else.
If I sit here staring at the wall, I'll bitch up again. I already cried in front of my girlfriend and that's too much.
Moving on.....oh and go fuck yourself, scrub. :)
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Originally Posted by Busyman
lol scrub is almost as bad as bustyman...
Absolutely.Quote:
Originally Posted by SnnY
I was just saying just trying to clarify why Busyman says that this is not real, but also stating that it is real in some regard.
Busyman may be immune to the 14 year old on a rant, but he, like myself, would be hurt if someone that he liked and admired decided that he was a stupid shit.
Busyman was stressing real pain versus trivial insults from an anonymous stranger in his point that this forum wasn't real. Some people can get very upset by these insults and it was those people he was directing his posts to.
True insults, from true friends will always hurt, regardless the medium through which it is delivered. Insults from idiot strangers do not effect the secure individual.
Lol!Quote:
Originally Posted by scribblec
Here is the idiot stranger whose opinion is of no value to anyone. Thanks for showing up on cue.
Well you're almost as bad as diarrhea.Quote:
Originally Posted by scribblec
Damn dude, if I really could get my hands on you, I'd blind you in one eye.
If I wanted to make a point like that I could have easily posted some past shit that has happened. Making shit up is demonic.
I only hope that you aren't like this away from the net. You won't live long.
Anyway I know it's hindsight but I picked XXXX up on my team and there were other guys that hadn't played.
I wonder if I had picked someone else up would he still be alive.
Weird shit. :(
Well, what he had was an abnormal heart beat. It was simply a matter of time.Quote:
Originally Posted by Busyman
Shit happens BM, you know that by now.
It is natural to want to find a reason, to blame yourself in some way. It is just life, sometimes cruel and offering no excuses.
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Originally Posted by Busyman
i wish it was you dead instead :(
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Well you're almost as bad as diarrhea.
:blink: :lol:
goatse
When you your number is up that is pretty much it. If it wasn't basketball it would have been jogging or running for a bus - but I guess you know that really.Quote:
Originally Posted by Busyman
At least this way he went amongst friends and not alone or surrounded by the faces of strangers.
if my opinion is of no value as siad before then i see no reason why it should be prevented seeing as its "not real" and does "no harm"Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr JP Fugley
not really the time to try and prove a point like that
but it does prove it doesnt it?Quote:
Originally Posted by TheDave
I know he hit his head when he fell.Quote:
Originally Posted by hobbes
It was after a made basket. He was walking backwards and his eyes rolled up and he fell straight backwards and hit head in the back.
I don't think it was a heart thing because
he was out of it before he hit the floor
he had a pulse even after he seemed somewhat brain dead.
It's weird because he moved a little and was noticebly breathing but after he let out a moaning sound he didn't move again.
I'm angry because in hindsight I wish I had given CPR or even wished there was one of those defibillators where the machine does all the work.
I will sure make sure they get one now.
This is actually the second time a friend of mine had this problem. The other got up after 15 min. He woke up vomitting.
Why not apologise to Busyman, rather than dig your grave any deeper. That is what men who make mistakes do.Quote:
Originally Posted by scribblec
Perhaps, but why would you want to at this point?Quote:
Originally Posted by scribblec
Scribbley, do people whack you around the ear a lot and say "that's enough of that"?
not really, it's an exception to attack when someone is particularly vulnerable. something that might normally be used for light entertainment can suddenly seem like the only escape at a time like this.
busty, sorry if its cold disussing like this. i'll stfu now
:huh:Quote:
Originally Posted by Biggles
Actually I've known you to be quite the bitch before this thread. You have made no revelation...except maybe confirm it for others.Quote:
Originally Posted by scribblec
You ain't the first to hide behind the internet whilst talking shit.
So no you have no effect. I can't get my hands on you so logically it's a wash.
You can't even come up with an interesting insult....you got me beat hands down.
Sounds like an epidural hematoma.Quote:
Originally Posted by Busyman
Classically they hit their heads and are knocked out but quickly recover conciousness. Then, just minutes later, they collapse and die. Happened to a friend of mine who was biking with his dad. Dad fell of the bike and hit his head, woke up, got on the bike, then dropped over dead.
What happens is that the head hits the floor and breaks a blood vessel in the brain.
He probably broke his skull which lacerated a blood vessel. The bleeding vessel compressed the brain and the brainstem. Once compressed, the breathing center in the brainstem was shut down.
Sounds like a classic epidural hematoma. Nobody could have done anything. CPR would have been useless.
Sorry man, it was just shit happening.
and i suppose all your insults have been top of the range?
youve been whinging and crying about everything and every post
maybe karma is giving u an actual reason to cry now...
Scribblec,
I gave you a golden opportunity to salvage yourself, don't fuck it up. Be a man, not a child.
Good explanation but...Quote:
Originally Posted by hobbes
He lost consciosness before he hit the floor.
I saw him.
His eyes rolled up before falling he was just back pedaling and he didn't trip.
It's like he switched off and then fell.
im in between even though others might not think so ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by hobbes
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Originally Posted by Busyman
Good point, I was wondering if I misread that last post. Looks like I did.
The scenario just screams of "nothing anyone could do", I just wish I could give you the exact cause, there is a certain closure in that.
Maybe he had an anuerysm in the brain. Remember Laura Branigan just died of one at a young age. Pretty common in people with kidney disease.
No, you were a complete ass and you now need and have the ability to apologise for your posts.Quote:
Originally Posted by scribblec
You don't even have to like Busyman, but you should acknowledge that his situation supercedes any person to person conflict.
There is no inbetween here.
I am so sorry this happened, Busyman. My thoughts are with you. :(
I'll find out in the coming days.Quote:
Originally Posted by hobbes
I won't dare ask his best friend or his family right now.
His best friend will probably call or come up to the gym to talk about it in due time.
It's pissing me off only because I'm used to someone doing something to get killed, not some crap like "he just dropped dead" and had no history. :angry:
I'll wait and see.
Ain't that the truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Busyman