Yeah but perhaps you're wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by megan343
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Yeah but perhaps you're wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by megan343
Beauty has nothing to do with outward appearance.
Exactly!Quote:
Originally Posted by megan343
really? :blink:Quote:
Originally Posted by megan343
I suggest you buy a new mirror then
It all comes down to your perception. If you take cues for people around you then you're getting a distorted view. Social ritual and behavior distort what people really think. The bulk of society is hiding behind social masks in just about every situaltion.
Put the bong down VB :o
No bong here.
Sure?
A person is attractive when he/she feels they are inside. I've seen physically lovely women who are not attractive because of their personality, and physically "flawed" women who are beautiful because of who they are. Attractiveness is not the shape of the face, or how thin your ankes are, its about the whole package, body, soul, mind, personality, and most of all, how comfortable you are in your own skin.
I'm not the most "traditionally" appealing woman on earth, I'm not stick thin, and I no longer want to be because I now like myself, am comfortable with myself and am NEVER short of male attention. Hips and tits are a good thing. I still have bad days when I look in the mirror and say ughh, but on those days I try and focus on why I feel like that, maybe I'm stressed or something, and not on what it is I am feeling, kinda bypassing the self loathing and finding out the reasons behind it.
Megan, you hear people telling you you are lovely but you don't believe it, probably because you are used to feeling that way. Give yourself a break chick, imagine all the wasted energy thats gone into the worrying and the self-hatred. Try and do things that make you happy and the appearance becomes less and less important to you, until one day you accept who you are, in your own skin, in the one body you are ever going to have, and are happy with it. PM me and have a chat sometime lovey.
That's cow pucky.Quote:
Originally Posted by megan343
There's inward beauty and outward beauty.
If I didn't like the way a woman looked I might not ever talk to her. I mean it's possible but not likely.
Outward beauty, in most cases, draws a person near to either see their beauty, their shittyness (or simply be blinded by the beauty).
I've never stayed awhile with a shitty good-looking woman. She would only be good for one thing. :naughty: