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Congrats Z! Your life is about to change...are you ready for it? I wasn't, but
I instantaneously adapted . (evolutionous fatherhoodus)
I believe you will be brillant as a father. Your imagination will be a wonderful asset.
Your about to be a Papa!...Smile :)
Peace bd
Congrats dude, happy for you :)
Jonno :cool:
Congratulations to you and your partner.
:lol: :01:
Good Luck too, tricky little blighters kids :blink:
Quite often, they are downright beast... :devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by Biggles
Peace bd
:01: Congrats 15 :D
:ph34r: I have to agree with BD, they can be beastly buggers.... but.... wouldn't have em any other way.
:1eye: Least you can get lotsa useful tips on here, really wish I'd had that :lol:
:ermm: On the marriage thing, I dunno that it's so important. I think the important thing is what you and your partner want. Personally I'm not big on marriage, seen too many divorces. I was with my ex for 12 years (longer than plenty of marriages) and when we split it was very easy and amicable. No lawyers or legal stuff to mess with.
PS Hiya BD :wub:
Nice one, Zed. Congratulations :D
This year saw the birth of my first child and I have to admit nothing prepared me for the love you feel for the ickle thing. It truly is wonderful. As to tips, I'm probably a bit inexperienced to give advice but I find the actual parenting easy - I guess the tricky stuff comes when they can answer back.
The difficult part for me is the relationship with my girlfriend because it totally changed. The focus of your life will obviously alter drastically but neither of us were prepared for that, stupid as it sounds. Added to that are all the hormones buzzing about. It is difficult. I would say that you'll both need to be totally open and honest about your feelings for things to go smoothly. Maybe I wasn't so, initially.
As to getting married, unless you're religeous there is no point. You've already made the biggest possible commitment to each other by planning a baby. What difference will a piece of paper make.
Great news, Zeddy!!
Hereby i forgive you your negligence towards me............ :lol:
And don't listen to J2K2; don't marry!!!
If you are happy without it, why would you.
A kid needs loving parents, that small paper only complicates things.
Stay who you are and the toddler will have great parents.
Congrats again.
Yogi
Beside, marriage is legalized rape anyhow. :lol:
Kids are great, but only if you can give them back to their parents.
The longest 30 minutes I ever spent was with my friends 1 year old daughter, Her attention span was 15 seconds.
Get your sleep, you'll need it.
I take it you have never been married. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Barky
Peace bd