Are you sure like someone said before that sh isn't jus infactuated with older guys?
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Are you sure like someone said before that sh isn't jus infactuated with older guys?
cmon she is only 14 years old.
I dont think she has been around that much guys to like older men more.
I say just wait a while and get on her dads good side.
You dont wanna do something and then have the cops on your ass and her dad wanting to kill you. :lol:
that's because of the maturity level of the afformentioned ages....a 14 year old isn't nearly as mature as an 18 year old - but a 20 and 24 year old are pretty much on the same level - ;) [/b][/quote]Quote:
Originally posted by kurtsl0an+1 January 2004 - 07:57--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (kurtsl0an @ 1 January 2004 - 07:57)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Sparsely@1 January 2004 - 02:54
when you're 18 & 14 it seems like a big deal, but when you're only slightly older, say 20 & 24, people don't seem to think anything about it at all.
wrong, foo!
the fact is, females mature emotionally much faster than men.
and even so...there's a big difference in me when I was 20 as opposed to 24
where in canada you should check the laws for your province here in bc at any age you can have sex with the youngest a 14year old as long as its consintual BTW :angry: :angry: dont even think about it ya CRADLE ROBING GOOFQuote:
Theres a gurl that lives a couple houses over from my house. Shes 14 but for some reason I really like her. I talk to her alot, becuase shes my friends sister. So, I know her pretty well.
I also know that she likes me too. And several times she has come on to me, and asked me out. Actually she tells me that she loves me, and that she will wait as long as she has to for me.
But I feel that theres no way i can do that. Becuase in Canada at 18 yrs ur an adult, so quite frankly id be a pedophile..I feel that it would be wrong do even think of something like that, let alone do it!
What is your opinion ??
Ok, best a 14 year old answer this one (allthough im kinda drunk at the moe)
depending on her personality , depends on what she will tell her m8s.
legally she cant have sex, so respect that. unless she comes up and says she wants it, dont even think it.
if you like each other, then go for it, but be carefull.
A little story,
I was 14 when I met my 18 year old "true love". We got together and no-one bothered really, they all could see were were truly in love. And it lasted, we moved together when I was 17, he was 21.
Then, years later, when I was 22 [him being 26] we got married.
See the difference in age gets smaller when you get older?
14 - 18
17 - 21
22 - 26
Anyway, I think its up to people, as long as they are honest and genuine!
Note: We got divorced at age 26 - 30 ;)
Whats so sick about it JP?
:angry: your obiously an idiotin some contrys age of concent is as young as 12 and younger here see for self moronQuote:
she cant have sex, so respect that.
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Country Male-Female Sex Male-Male Sex Female-Female Sex
Albania 14 14/18? 14
Algeria 16 illegal illegal
Andorra 16 16 16
Antiqua (Barbuda) 16 18 16
Argentina 12/15/16 12/15/16 12/15/16
Armenia 16 Law repealed Law repealed
Aruba 16 16 16
Australia ACT 16 16 16
Australia NSW 16 16 16
Australia NT 16 18 16
Australia Queensland. 16 18 16
Australia SA 16/17 16/17 16/17
Australia Tasmania 17 17 17
Australia Victoria 16 16 16
Australia WA 16 16 16
Austria 14 18 14
Azerbaijan 16 16 16
Bahamas 16 18 18
Bahrain ? Illegal Illegal
Bangladesh ? illegal illegal
Barbados 16 illegal ?
Belarus 16 16 16
Belgium 16/18 16 16
Belize 16 ? ?
Bermuda 16 18 16
Benin ? illegal illegal
Bhutan ? Illegal ?
Bolivia 14f - 16M ? ?
Bosnia 16 16 16
Botswana 16f-14m illegal ?
Brazil 14/18 14/18 14/18
Brunei 14/16 illegal illegal
Bulgaria 14/15 14/18 14/18
Burkina Faso 13 21 21
Burma ? illegal ?
Burundi ? illegal ?
Cambodia (Kampuchea) 16 ? ?
Cambodia 16 ? ?
Cameroon ? illegal ?
Canada 14 14?/18 14
Cape Verde ? illegal ?
Cayman Islands ? ? ?
Chile 12 18 18
China 14 Not defined Not defined
China - Hong Kong 16 21 ?
Colombia 12/14 14 14
Cook Islands ? ? ?
Costa Rica 15/16 15/illegal 15/illegal
Cote D'Ivorie 15 ? ?
Croatia 14 14/18 14/18
Cuba 16 16 16
Cyprus 16 18? 18?
Cyprus- Sars 16 18 18
Czech Republic 15 15 15
Denmark 15 15 15
Dominica 16 ? ?
Dominican Republic 18 18 18
Dutch Antilles 16 16 16
Equador undefined ? ?
Egypt 18 18-illegal? 18-illegal?
El Salvador 16 ? ?
Eritrea 18 18 18
Estonia 14 16 16
Ethiopia 15 ? ?
Islands Malvinas 16 18 16
Faroe Island 15 18 18
Fiji 16 ? ?
Finland 16 16 16
France 15 15 15
French Guiana 15 15 15
French Polynesia Tahiti 15 15 15
Gabon 15 15 15
Georgia (Russia) ? illegal ?
Germany 14/16 14/16 14/16
Ghana ? ? ?
Greece 15/17 17 15/17
Greenland ? ? ?
Grenada 17 illegal illegal
Guam 16 ? ?
Guadelope 15 15 15
Guatemala 18 18 18
Guinea 15 ? ?
Guyana 13 illegal illegal
Haiti 18 18 18
Honduras 14/17 14 14
Hong Kong 18M/16F 21 ?
Hungary 14 14 14
Iceland 14 14 14
India 16 illegal illegal
Indonesia 17 no laws no laws
Iran 14f/17m illegal illegal
Iraq 18 ? ?
Ireland 17 17 17
Israel 16 16 16
Italy 14 14 14
Jamaica 16 illegal illegal
Japan 13 13 13
Jordan 16 illegal illegal
Kenya 16 illegal illegal
Korea 13 13 13
Kosovo 14 18 14
Kuwait ? illegal illegal
Latvia 16 legal? legal?
Lebanon 15/18 illegal illegal
Liberia 16 ? ?
Liechtenstein 14 14/18 14
Lithuania 16 18 16
Luxembourg 16 16 16
Macao 16/17 ? ?
Madagascar 21 21 21
Mali 16 ? ?
Malta 12/18 12/18 12/18
Malaysia Married-16? illegal illegal
Martinique 15 15 15
Mauritius 15 illegal illegal
Mιxico 12 18 18
Moldova 16 16 16
Monaco 15 15 15
Montenegro 14 14 14
Morocco 15 ? ?
Mozambique ? illegal ?
Namibia 16 ? ?
Nepal 16 ? ?
Netherlands 12/16 12/16 12/16
Netherlands Antilles 16 16 16
New Calendonia 15 15 15
New Zealand 16 16 16
Nicaragua ? ? ?
Nigeria 13 ? ?
Norway 16 16 16
Oman none illegal illegal
Pakistan none ? ?
Panama 12/18? ? ?
Papua - New Guinea 16 illegal 16
Paraquay ? ? ?
Peru 14 14 14
Poland 15 15 15
Portugal 14/16? ? ?
Philippines 12/18 18 18
Puerto Rico 14 illegal illegal
Qatar ? illegal illegal
Romania 14 illegal illegal
Russia 14/16? 14/16? 14/16?
Rwanda 18 18 18
San Marino 14/16 14/16 14/16
Saudi Arabia must be married illegal illegal
Senegal illegal illegal
Serbia 14 18 14
Singapore 16 illegal illegal
Slovakia 15 15 15
Slovenia 14 14 14
South Africa 16 19 19
South Korea 13 13 13
Spain 13 13 13
Sri Lanka 16 illegal 16
St.Kitts and Nervis 14/16 ? ?
St.Martin ? ? ?
Surinam 16 18 16
Sweden 15 15 15
Swaziland 18 illegal illegal
Switzerland 16 16 16
Syria 13/15 illegal illegal
Taiwan 16 16 16
Tanzania 15 illegal illegal
Thailand 15 legal at all ages? ?
Togo 14 ? ?
Tonga 16 illegal ?
Trinidad & Tobago 16 illegal illegal
Tunisia 20 illegal illegal
Turkey 15/16 18 18
Tuvalu ? illegal ?
Uganda 18 illegal illegal
Ukraine 16 16 16
United Arab Emirates 18 Illegal Illegal
Uzbekistan 16 illegal 16
Uruguay 16 ? ?
Vanuatu 18 18 18
Venezuela 16 16 16
Vietnam 18 ? ?
Vojvodina 14 18 14
Western Samoa ? illegal ?
Yemen ? illegal ?
Zaire ? illegal ?
Zimbabwe 12/16 illegal illegal
United Kingdom England, Scotland & Wales 16 16 16
United Kingdom Northern Ireland 17 17 17
USA Alabama 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Alaska 16 16 16
USA Arizona 18 law repealed law repealed
USA Arkansas 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA California 18 18 18
USA Colorado 15/17 17 17
USA Connecticut 16 16 16
USA D.C. 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Delaware 16/18 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Florida 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Georgia 16 16 16
USA Hawaii 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Idaho 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Illinois 17 17 17
USA Indiana 16 16 16
USA Iowa 14/16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Kansas 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Kentucky 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Louisiana 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Maine 16 16 16
USA Maryland 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Massachusetts 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Michigan 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Minnesota 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Mississippi 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Missouri 14/17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Montana 16/18 18 18
USA Nebraska 17 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Nevada 16 18 18
USA New Hampshire 16 18 18
USA New Jersey 16 16 16
USA New Mexico 17 13 13
USA New York 17 17 17
USA North Carolina 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA North Dakota 18 Law repealed Law Repealed
USA Ohio 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Oklahoma 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Oregon 18 18 18
USA Pennsylvania 16 16 16
USA Rhode Island 16 Law repealed Law repealed
USA South Carolina 14/16-bill pending Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA South Dakota 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Tennessee 18 Law Invalidated Law Invalidated
USA Texas 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Utah 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Vermont 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Virginia 18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Washington 16/18 16/18 16/18
USA West Virginia 16 18? 18?
USA Wisconsin 18 18 18
USA Wyoming 16/18? Law repealed Law repealed
USA Military 16 illegal illegal
USA Traveling Citizens 18
still shouldn't rush these things :)Quote:
Originally posted by DrunkeNStylE@1 January 2004 - 13:18
Canada 14 14?/18 14
QUOTE SummerLinda:
So do i Linda, unfortunately though a lot of straight laced tight a**ed individuals dont agree. Of course there should be "some" lower limitations, but its soooo hard deciding what is correct - but i dont think i shall go into that here, it could turn nasty B)Quote:
Anyway, I think its up to people, as long as they are honest and genuine!
Peace
UKMan
he has stated he wouldn't get physical and wouldn't rush things so it can't be that bad
Ok leafs116, here's a tip!Quote:
Originally posted by leafs116@31 December 2003 - 18:42
Shes turning 15 on monday, I told her that we should wait till shes 16 or 17
I was just wondering what other people think i Should do. Cuz I do like her, but I only want to do what is right
Don't do anything you might regret right now :nono: then come back here oh, let's say....perhaps a year from next monday and post your question again. ;) :smartass:
Fuck it if she is hot go 4 it...
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
No just wait a year or 2
in the mean time download lots of porn
It's only 4 years, and if you can talk to her, then why should there be a problem? Girls are more mature than guys, especially at that age, I'm sure it won't be a problem.
I don't know how it is there, but in Belgium it is allowed there to be a 5 year difference when one of the people is still underaged. I think that's healthy. Age doesn't mean that much. I was 17 when I met Bender, he was 34. We were together for 3.5 years and we didn't break up because if the age difference.
My boyfriend now is 34 (hehe, boyfriend, that's weird), I'm 20...
What I want to say is: if it feels right, and you both feel comfortable with it, why not do it then? Just make sure you talk about it and keep talking about what you both want and expect.
Good luck :)
hey skweeky i like ur sig
its the l337/\/355 man!
Physically IME (from those days), not mentally.Quote:
Originally posted by Skweeky@1 January 2004 - 17:16
It's only 4 years, and if you can talk to her, then why should there be a problem? Girls are more mature than guys, especially at that age, I'm sure it won't be a problem.
@GN: thank you
@Snny: I think the biggest difference is mentally. Girls are wondering and thinking about completely different things than boys at that age. I'm pretty sure of that
Oh yeah, I remember that bit. They were absorbed with boys 'n' fashion 'n' gossip, and apparently who could deliver the cruelest insult.
I read books, damn I was immature.
Not all girls are like that.
When I was 14 I started reading books about philosophy. My friends and I spent hours and hours talking about the meaning of things, and how we wanted our lifes to be, what our expectations were, tihngs like that...
The boys of my age were too busy playing with their Nintendo or playing football.
I certainly had the feeling THEY were just kids.
Too bad you were in another country then, I might have found you tolerable.Quote:
Originally posted by Skweeky@1 January 2004 - 17:38
Not all girls are like that.
When I was 14 I started reading books about philosophy. My friends and I spent hours and hours talking about the meaning of things, and how we wanted our lifes to be, what our expectations were, tihngs like that...
The boys of my age were too busy playing with their Nintendo or playing football.
I certainly had the feeling THEY were just kids.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
You would have LOVED me
Maybe, but I doubt you would have felt the same for me.
When I was fourteen I lost all my friends, and people kept pushing me so I became a nerve-wreck in the end.
I had an ulcer so I couldn't eat, which made me look like a skeleton, and I picked up lots of weird nervous habits, which took years to get rid of.
I don't think anyone saw past that not even the intelligent girls, and all I can say is that the way girls treated me, went far past the effects of any beating I got by other boys.
Their shallowness and insults and their way of looking at me as if I was something alien, was far worse than any physical scarring. If that's being mature...
Lets just say that half of the time I can even be certain that the me I see in mirrors and photoes is the me that others percieve, 'cuz' my mind keeps playing tricks on me. Some people tell me I look good, all I see is what they told me I was back then.
That's sad Snny. I don't think anyone at that age is capable of seeing much further than appearance I'm afraid...
It must be difficult for you. I was teased in highschool for one year and it made me feel really bad about myself. People can be so cruel :(
I'm a regular ray of sunshine today, ain't I :rolleyes:
Sorry about that.
Na, that's ok man. We all have our things we need to say sometimes
summerlinda, Id like to thank u for ur reply.. Maybe u can give me some idea whats on her mind, by telling me what u thought when u liked an 18 yr old..
PM me or something Summerlinda, btw what country are u from??
Everyones comments are helping my decision, both the negative and positive ones. Im thinking about looking at the laws, to see if there is any giving age differences for underage gurls and overage guys..
Did a little research found out some interesting stuff
VARIOUS AGE-RELATED LAWS IN CANADA
Any age
Can have an abortion without parental consent or knowledge (since the passage of Bill 19, the Health Care Consent Act, in 1996) (Ontario)
10 years old
Can operate a motorboat with 10 horsepower limit
12 years old
Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority
Can operate a motorboat with 40 horsepower limit
Can operate a snowmobile on approved trails after passing an approved course
14 years old
Can have consensual sex (vaginal and anal) with an adult (18 or older) (in 1995 the Ontario Court of Appeal struck down the age of consent for homosexual sex from 18 to 14)
16 years old
Can marry with parental consent (Ontario)
Can drive a car
Can operate a motorboat with over 40 horsepower and a personal watercraft
Can have ears or nose pierced without parental consent (Ontario)
Can purchase cigarettes (Saskatchewan)
17 years old
Can donate blood (all provinces but Quιbec).
18 years old
Can marry without parental consent (Ontario)
Can purchase a hunting rifle (Ontario)
Can join the military
Can pose nude for photos
Can vote in federal elections
Can have a VISA credit card without parental consent (Ontario)
Can purchase cigarettes (Alberta, Manitoba, Quιbec, P.E.I., Newfoundland)
19 years old
Can purchase cigarettes (B.C., Ontario, New Brunswick, Nova Scotia)
Can drink alcohol (Ontario)
25 years old
Can rent a car (Ontario)
ENOUGH said..... gogoogoggooggogogo :lol:Quote:
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 11:49
14 years old
Can have consensual sex (vaginal and anal) with an adult (18 or older) (in 1995 the Ontario Court of Appeal struck down the age of consent for homosexual sex from 18 to 14)
its fine as long as you dont rush her or pressure her, especially at her age :)
apart from that good luck and i hope 4 the best :D
well she's the one saying she loves him lol.... wheres the pressure?Quote:
Originally posted by Marius24@1 January 2004 - 11:53
its fine as long as you dont rush her or pressure her, especially at her age :)
apart from that good luck and i hope 4 the best :D
:w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool:
:blink: daftQuote:
12 years old
• Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority
• Can operate a motorboat with 40 horsepower limit
• Can operate a snowmobile on approved trails after passing an approved course
14 years old
• Can have consensual sex (vaginal and anal) with an adult (18 or older) (in 1995 the Ontario Court of Appeal struck down the age of consent for homosexual sex from 18 to 14)
Any age:
*I'll kill ya if you touch my sister
12 is too young for sex, I'd say the same about fourteen too.
How old to drive a motor boat in the UK?
fugley (39) :blink:
Well now that I know the Laws, it has helped abit. But, as I said b4, I wouldnt think about sex with her. If after a while of dating and she wanted to, now atleast I know I wont be breaking any laws.
Now that I know the government doesnt give a shit..
I still want to know other peoples opinions
ok wtf does that mean....have sex with a stranger?Quote:
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 11:49
12 years old
Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority
Thats Canada for you. :o
Has anyone else had any experiences or situations like this?
not me.... im ugly and i live in my computer.... my cats are the only females that like me enuff to sleep with me :lol:
ok wtf does that mean....have sex with a stranger? [/b][/quote]Quote:
Originally posted by DWk+1 January 2004 - 17:58--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (DWk @ 1 January 2004 - 17:58)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-leafs116@1 January 2004 - 11:49
12 years old
Can have sex with someone up to two years older who is not in a position of trust or authority
i was thinking that too.
wtf....so the 12-year old girls/boys should go sleep with some1 they dont trust.... nice law lmfao.... way to support serial rapists
/me again and still wants to know what JP finds so sick about this thread / subject?Quote:
Originally posted by J'Pol@1 January 2004 - 05:43
This is sick.
The Admin and Mods on this board should be ashamed of themselves for letting it go on.
I personally am ashamed of being a member of a forum which would allow this.
I joined this forum exactly one year ago today. I wish I had randomly chosen something else.
May God have mercy on your souls.
well she's the one saying she loves him lol.... wheres the pressure?Quote:
Originally posted by DWk+1 January 2004 - 17:54--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (DWk @ 1 January 2004 - 17:54)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Marius24@1 January 2004 - 11:53
its fine as long as you dont rush her or pressure her, especially at her age :)
apart from that good luck and i hope 4 the best :D
:w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: :w00t: :drool: [/b][/quote]
wanting it and having it are 2 totally different experiences ;)
:ph34r:
i'd wait at least two years man