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hmmmm the wonders of life
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Originally Posted by megan343
Seriously I am so pissed off. I give up *sigh* People are just always going to be assholes. It's people like that who made my life harder and who still do today.
I hope you're not going to give up on this forum though, because you (and also Blyth!) have been like a breath of fresh air here these past couple of days.. ;)
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Originally Posted by megan343
Seriously I am so pissed off. I give up *sigh* People are just always going to be assholes. It's people like that who made my life harder and who still do today.
I hope you're not going to give up on this forum though, because you (and also Blyth!) have been like a breath of fresh air here these past couple of days.. ;)
You ole charmer, you. :naughty:
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Originally Posted by megan343
Seriously I am so pissed off. I give up *sigh* People are just always going to be assholes. It's people like that who made my life harder and who still do today.
I hope you're not going to give up on this forum though, because you (and also Blyth!) have been like a breath of fresh air here these past couple of days.. ;)
I'm sticking around mate. You lot are funny.
Megan, stay. Ignore the Cretinous Busyman. Disregard the Evil Muchspl3. Thwart the dread Grammar Pirate Manker!
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Yeah, there will always be arseholes. You can't change that.
There is no need for them to make your life more difficult tho', as soon as you've pegged them as an arsehole - completely disregard their opinion.
'Cos it doesn't matter.
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It is just an internet forum.remember that.
Good one's. Both a youz. ;)
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Thwart the dread Grammar Pirate Manker!
:o
Using my interweb handle as a proper noun - I should make ye walk the plan.
It's quite obviously a verb :naughty:
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It would have been even more :naughty: if I could have called it a copulative verb ... but I can't :mellow:
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Thwart the dread Grammar Pirate Manker!
:o
Using my interweb handle as a proper noun - I should make ye walk the plan.
It's quite obviously a verb :naughty:
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It would have been even more :naughty: if I could have called it a copulative verb ... but I can't :mellow:
plank. ;)
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I do 'cause I've been there (not quite though). I think the way help arrives is key.
So you admit that support and help are necessary in recovery when someone isn't dealing very well with life, rather than belittling the sufferer and telling them to buck up?
Funny how you change your mind...
No I don't think it's necessary. However, if certain help isn't working, try another avenue. Even today some of those of folk are a step away from starving themselves over again. Get out of the mirror. Focus on something else. Have fun. Ya like to have fun right? Is not eating fun? It has become habit forming. It started off with losing weight or even building muscle and now it's cyclic.
Some weird habits make one successful, some habits kill them. They are driven.
Want understanding? Try understanding other people besides yourself.
It mai chai-nge yaw thankang.
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So you admit that support and help are necessary in recovery when someone isn't dealing very well with life, rather than belittling the sufferer and telling them to buck up?
Funny how you change your mind...
No I don't think it's necessary. However, if certain help isn't working, try another avenue. Even today some of those of folk are a step away from starving themselves over again. Get out of the mirror. Focus on something else. Have fun. Ya like to have fun right? Is not eating fun? It has become habit forming. It started off with losing weight or even building muscle and now it's cyclic.
Some weird habits make one successful, some habits kill them. They are driven.
Want understanding? Try understanding other people besides yourself.
It mai chai-nge yaw thankang.
I agree with focusing on something else rather than ones own image. I have said something very similar myself.
Eating, for those with an eating disorder, is not fun. During recovery they have to learn to re-think the way they feel about food, but it is difficult to see something you struggle with as Fun.
I do consider others. I empathise with others although I may not understand them entirely. I think hard and try and gain all the facts before I make up my mind. I am also capable of altering my opinion based on new evidence.
Some people's opinions though, I consider and dismiss.
