18 Yr Old And 14 Yr Old

i believe you wouldnt rush her, but 4 yrs is a long time to wait.
And even if you werent in a rush, its not to say she isnt.

If you really wanna date her, wait 2 years when shes reached more maturity (aint saying shes not mature, but give some time for her to get things in view), then date her. That way you wont wait as long till shes a legitimate age.

4yrs IMO isnt an issue. Heck theres a 15 yr gap between my parents. I dont find it gross, or unacceptable at all. But when underage laws come into play its a area worth thinking about (im not talking about the physical side of a relationshiop, but societys view on a nonphysical relationship between an underage and an adult), which i think leafs is doing the right thing about it.

This is screwed up!

You got to look at this realistically. What the hell are you thinking? That's jail bait. Have you watched a Lifetime Move lately on the LifeTime network? The guy is always guilty.

Do you plan on marrying her for the rest of your life? I guarantee that she'll change her mind sooner or later. A young teen girl always changes her mind.

okay leafs116:one point i want to make is that IF you do decide on "physical contact" then use protection, if you need advice on what this means then seek the appropriate channels...your school, parents, local organisations, the list goes on... but there is always someone to talk to about CONTRACEPTION.

I make no moral judgement on what you do, but make sure YOU take responsibilty for YOUR actions....also remember you are breaking the LAW...

edit: Of course it is important that this is what she wants as well...

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Originally posted by Withcheese@1 January 2004 - 01:15
...I make no moral judgement on what you do, but make sure YOU take responsibilty for YOUR actions....also remember you are breaking the LAW...

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...yeah, and you don't want to end up on the Maury Povich show as a guest.

if u go 4 it, and u get ocught, u get arrested, u get put in jail, u will have 2 movie away from were u live, cause thats considered being a phedophile. dude,see a phyciatrist, u need help, no offence at all. but thats plain rong.

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Originally posted by TheCanuk@1 January 2004 - 04:20
u will have 2 movie away

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see at least you'll be famous :)

if you're both in high school, she's fair game.

I hate this but:

What the fuck does anyone in law enforcement care if an 18 year old has consentual sex with a 14 year old?

Just be safe.

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Originally posted by kAb@1 January 2004 - 04:24
if you're both in high school, she's fair game.

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You're not the headmaster are you Leaf?? :blink:

Seriously though - this kinda thing would only be worth it if it was true love under which I'd question both of y'all ages (the amount of times I "fell in love" at 18 :lol: ) but as Withcheese says - PROTECTION - that's what seperates these situations from quandries to horror stories - if you do - do!