I think it's gross. Wait til she's older, but by then she probalby will have found someone else.
Find a woman your own age. ;)
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I think it's gross. Wait til she's older, but by then she probalby will have found someone else.
Find a woman your own age. ;)
follow the 2 year rule like i do.
still cant get layed though <_<
ask yourself if you had a little sister who was 14 and dating an 18 year old would you get mad or not like it?
who me you ask? i'd beat the sh*t out of the 18 year old who was dating my sister if she was signaficantly younger then him. 14/18 thats just sick. the diffrence between that and 20/24 is that they are both over 18 and adults.
haha he probly cant. :lol:, i know that was mean but come on why would you go for a girl that much younger when you could find a girl whose actually around your age. that was any locals wont consider you a peodphileQuote:
Originally posted by Sparkle1984@1 January 2004 - 15:22
I think it's gross. Wait til she's older, but by then she probalby will have found someone else.
Find a woman your own age. ;)
First off, I can find a gurl my age!
But, I like her. I know alot about her, adn we get along good. Im not a sicko or anything.. I just wanted to find out peoples opinions
i dont see any reason in dating someone that i just dont like.
leafs, there is nothing wrong with it. If you two get along fine, then just for go it man
Thanks Skweeky
It depends man, is she like a "older" 14, or a "younger" 14, hope you get what I mean.
Everyone say's it's only 4 years, but the difference between 14 - 18 may as well be 4 light years, hence the older, younger 14, it can make all the difference.
So, kinda go for it, but just keep it on the low down, when she hit's 15, you should be relatively ok. You can get it into trobule, espically with young girls talking here and there, telling there parents, before you know it all sh!t has broken loose and your the worst guy the neighbourhood has ever seen.
Once you have that label man, they just do not listen to a word you say, they won't let you even try to justify your self. SLAM - Labeled, End.
So just keep it pretty plotonic for a few months, make sure you're both comfortable, and when she hit's 15, talk to her, see what she thinks then.
I suggest you keep the info away from her dad if possible, no need for a rift to arise for no reason.
So, in my opinion, go for it man, just stay safe about it, no need to get into sh!t for it, cause that'll just destroy the relationship along with any chances it has.
Good luck!
P.S - Make sure you research some good hiding places, just incase it goes t!t's up :ph34r:
Dude you should be careful and just wait until she's legal.
You don't want to be labeled a kiddy-fiddler for life. :ph34r:
Helllooooo, she IS legal.
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yep if both consent to it. Though its perfectly legal, its frowned upon and some people arent open minded enough to see the whole picture.Quote:
Originally posted by Skweeky@2 January 2004 - 00:50
Helllooooo, she IS legal.
So? If you have a chance to be happy you have to grab it with both hands no matter what the rest of the world thinks of it
i agree. But its one of those things easier said than done. Unfortunate as it is.
It is rather unfortunate, althought the government system finds it legal and ok.. That many others in society, find it wrong and unjust.. I guess someone can find the love of their life at 14, while others can only do that at 34..
She seems to be mature for her age, she doesnt play with barbies, she does the same type of stuff that me and her brother do
I should have put quotation marks around legal. But anyway... <_< :lol:Quote:
Originally posted by Skweeky@2 January 2004 - 01:50
Helllooooo, she IS legal.
Like thisiswhoweare says that sorta thing isn't entertained in society of the present at all. I am a person who says screw what others say but this kinda situation for most people is easier said than done.
you have to be 16 in the uk, so skweeky you must learn these laws and abide by them when you move to ayr.
it is easier said then done.. there are so many if and buts
Lol, dont think this city is big enough to have a hiding spot, would have to move away..lol
I dont really know her father, or know anything about him.. But one thing i know is that he is around 15 - 20 years older then his girlfriend
But, as many people have stated the maturity level has to be there.
She seems to be very mature for her age.
Becuase her mother just passed away, i spent about 3 hrs talking to her. I didnt bring anything up about relationships. I just talked to her about life, and whats on her mind.
:nono: i know the type of girl. i wouldnt go with if they were my age. they often think they are mature, but they ain't
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Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 03:00
...And like i said b4, love doesnt have to involve sex....
In that case.
So two guys or two girls at that age can be in love with each other, but no sex. Interesting.
Im taking everyones opinions into consideration, and getting closer to my decision
But, one thing i want to know.. All the parents on here, what would u do if ur 14 yr old daughter dated an 18 yr old guy. Your sons friend
Thanks Guys and Gurls
:angry: :angry: :angry:
(but then I'd still feel the same if she was 30)
i'd think that guy was a scumbag and ground my daughter until her menopause - sorry
ahahha im 14 (m) to, we dont care older women do.
I agree !! Well said.Quote:
Originally posted by J'Pol@1 January 2004 - 03:43
This is sick.
The Admin and Mods on this board should be ashamed of themselves for letting it go on.
I personally am ashamed of being a member of a forum which would allow this.
I joined this forum exactly one year ago today. I wish I had randomly chosen something else.
May God have mercy on your souls.
I don't think this conversation should ever have been started here.
There are more and more strange people in this forum lately
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Country Male-Female Sex Male-Male Sex Female-Female Sex
Albania 14 14/18? 14
Algeria 16 illegal illegal
Andorra 16 16 16
Antiqua (Barbuda) 16 18 16
Argentina 12/15/16 12/15/16 12/15/16
Armenia 16 Law repealed Law repealed
Aruba 16 16 16
Australia ACT 16 16 16
Australia NSW 16 16 16
Australia NT 16 18 16
Australia Queensland. 16 18 16
Australia SA 16/17 16/17 16/17
Australia Tasmania 17 17 17
Australia Victoria 16 16 16
Australia WA 16 16 16
Austria 14 18 14
Azerbaijan 16 16 16
Bahamas 16 18 18
Bahrain ? Illegal Illegal
Bangladesh ? illegal illegal
Barbados 16 illegal ?
Belarus 16 16 16
Belgium 16/18 16 16
Belize 16 ? ?
Bermuda 16 18 16
Benin ? illegal illegal
Bhutan ? Illegal ?
Bolivia 14f - 16M ? ?
Bosnia 16 16 16
Botswana 16f-14m illegal ?
Brazil 14/18 14/18 14/18
Brunei 14/16 illegal illegal
Bulgaria 14/15 14/18 14/18
Burkina Faso 13 21 21
Burma ? illegal ?
Burundi ? illegal ?
Cambodia (Kampuchea) 16 ? ?
Cambodia 16 ? ?
Cameroon ? illegal ?
Canada 14 14?/18 14
Cape Verde ? illegal ?
Cayman Islands ? ? ?
Chile 12 18 18
China 14 Not defined Not defined
China - Hong Kong 16 21 ?
Colombia 12/14 14 14
Cook Islands ? ? ?
Costa Rica 15/16 15/illegal 15/illegal
Cote D'Ivorie 15 ? ?
Croatia 14 14/18 14/18
Cuba 16 16 16
Cyprus 16 18? 18?
Cyprus- Sars 16 18 18
Czech Republic 15 15 15
Denmark 15 15 15
Dominica 16 ? ?
Dominican Republic 18 18 18
Dutch Antilles 16 16 16
Equador undefined ? ?
Egypt 18 18-illegal? 18-illegal?
El Salvador 16 ? ?
Eritrea 18 18 18
Estonia 14 16 16
Ethiopia 15 ? ?
Islands Malvinas 16 18 16
Faroe Island 15 18 18
Fiji 16 ? ?
Finland 16 16 16
France 15 15 15
French Guiana 15 15 15
French Polynesia Tahiti 15 15 15
Gabon 15 15 15
Georgia (Russia) ? illegal ?
Germany 14/16 14/16 14/16
Ghana ? ? ?
Greece 15/17 17 15/17
Greenland ? ? ?
Grenada 17 illegal illegal
Guam 16 ? ?
Guadelope 15 15 15
Guatemala 18 18 18
Guinea 15 ? ?
Guyana 13 illegal illegal
Haiti 18 18 18
Honduras 14/17 14 14
Hong Kong 18M/16F 21 ?
Hungary 14 14 14
Iceland 14 14 14
India 16 illegal illegal
Indonesia 17 no laws no laws
Iran 14f/17m illegal illegal
Iraq 18 ? ?
Ireland 17 17 17
Israel 16 16 16
Italy 14 14 14
Jamaica 16 illegal illegal
Japan 13 13 13
Jordan 16 illegal illegal
Kenya 16 illegal illegal
Korea 13 13 13
Kosovo 14 18 14
Kuwait ? illegal illegal
Latvia 16 legal? legal?
Lebanon 15/18 illegal illegal
Liberia 16 ? ?
Liechtenstein 14 14/18 14
Lithuania 16 18 16
Luxembourg 16 16 16
Macao 16/17 ? ?
Madagascar 21 21 21
Mali 16 ? ?
Malta 12/18 12/18 12/18
Malaysia Married-16? illegal illegal
Martinique 15 15 15
Mauritius 15 illegal illegal
México 12 18 18
Moldova 16 16 16
Monaco 15 15 15
Montenegro 14 14 14
Morocco 15 ? ?
Mozambique ? illegal ?
Namibia 16 ? ?
Nepal 16 ? ?
Netherlands 12/16 12/16 12/16
Netherlands Antilles 16 16 16
New Calendonia 15 15 15
New Zealand 16 16 16
Nicaragua ? ? ?
Nigeria 13 ? ?
Norway 16 16 16
Oman none illegal illegal
Pakistan none ? ?
Panama 12/18? ? ?
Papua - New Guinea 16 illegal 16
Paraquay ? ? ?
Peru 14 14 14
Poland 15 15 15
Portugal 14/16? ? ?
Philippines 12/18 18 18
Puerto Rico 14 illegal illegal
Qatar ? illegal illegal
Romania 14 illegal illegal
Russia 14/16? 14/16? 14/16?
Rwanda 18 18 18
San Marino 14/16 14/16 14/16
Saudi Arabia must be married illegal illegal
Senegal illegal illegal
Serbia 14 18 14
Singapore 16 illegal illegal
Slovakia 15 15 15
Slovenia 14 14 14
South Africa 16 19 19
South Korea 13 13 13
Spain 13 13 13
Sri Lanka 16 illegal 16
St.Kitts and Nervis 14/16 ? ?
St.Martin ? ? ?
Surinam 16 18 16
Sweden 15 15 15
Swaziland 18 illegal illegal
Switzerland 16 16 16
Syria 13/15 illegal illegal
Taiwan 16 16 16
Tanzania 15 illegal illegal
Thailand 15 legal at all ages? ?
Togo 14 ? ?
Tonga 16 illegal ?
Trinidad & Tobago 16 illegal illegal
Tunisia 20 illegal illegal
Turkey 15/16 18 18
Tuvalu ? illegal ?
Uganda 18 illegal illegal
Ukraine 16 16 16
United Arab Emirates 18 Illegal Illegal
Uzbekistan 16 illegal 16
Uruguay 16 ? ?
Vanuatu 18 18 18
Venezuela 16 16 16
Vietnam 18 ? ?
Vojvodina 14 18 14
Western Samoa ? illegal ?
Yemen ? illegal ?
Zaire ? illegal ?
Zimbabwe 12/16 illegal illegal
United Kingdom England, Scotland & Wales 16 16 16
United Kingdom Northern Ireland 17 17 17
USA Alabama 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Alaska 16 16 16
USA Arizona 18 law repealed law repealed
USA Arkansas 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA California 18 18 18
USA Colorado 15/17 17 17
USA Connecticut 16 16 16
USA D.C. 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Delaware 16/18 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Florida 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Georgia 16 16 16
USA Hawaii 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Idaho 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Illinois 17 17 17
USA Indiana 16 16 16
USA Iowa 14/16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Kansas 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Kentucky 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Louisiana 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Maine 16 16 16
USA Maryland 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Massachusetts 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Michigan 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Minnesota 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Mississippi 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Missouri 14/17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Montana 16/18 18 18
USA Nebraska 17 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Nevada 16 18 18
USA New Hampshire 16 18 18
USA New Jersey 16 16 16
USA New Mexico 17 13 13
USA New York 17 17 17
USA North Carolina 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA North Dakota 18 Law repealed Law Repealed
USA Ohio 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Oklahoma 16 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Oregon 18 18 18
USA Pennsylvania 16 16 16
USA Rhode Island 16 Law repealed Law repealed
USA South Carolina 14/16-bill pending Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA South Dakota 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Tennessee 18 Law Invalidated Law Invalidated
USA Texas 17 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Utah 16/18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Vermont 16 Law Repealed Law Repealed
USA Virginia 18 Law invalidated Law invalidated
USA Washington 16/18 16/18 16/18
USA West Virginia 16 18? 18?
USA Wisconsin 18 18 18
USA Wyoming 16/18? Law repealed Law repealed
USA Military 16 illegal illegal
USA Traveling Citizens 18
:o Is that true???.........Thats outragous :angry:Quote:
Originally posted by leafs116@1 January 2004 - 02:53
..Well I now know some new rules in Canada, after a little research, and if the gurl is 14 or older she can date and have consensual sex wiht an adult..
Jonno B)
Mine did - i had no problem with that Leaf - and thats the truth dude B)Quote:
Originally posted by leafs116@2 January 2004 - 05:48
Im taking everyones opinions into consideration, and getting closer to my decision
But, one thing i want to know.. All the parents on here, what would u do if ur 14 yr old daughter dated an 18 yr old guy. Your sons friend
Thanks Guys and Gurls
Peace
UKMan
:o Is that true???.........Thats outragous :angry:Quote:
Originally posted by JONNO_CELEBS+2 January 2004 - 16:00--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (JONNO_CELEBS @ 2 January 2004 - 16:00)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-leafs116@1 January 2004 - 02:53
..Well I now know some new rules in Canada, after a little research, and if the gurl is 14 or older she can date and have consensual sex wiht an adult..
Jonno B) [/b][/quote]
I think I definitely have to agree with you there .
Doesnt seem right does it? <_<
6pm new years eve I drove thru my town and a girl (approx 14 y/o) layed in the door of a shop with a real short skirt on, sober, laughing with a group of lads, legs open and no knickers!!!.......If I was her dad I would have gone ape shit :angry:
14 is NOT acceptable!!! Period!!
I'm not being square or anything but 14 ??.......She's still a child, she can't vote, drink, smoke, drive or be convicted of anything!!
She is a child, an 18 y/o is classed as adult, although I still disagree with that too.
Sorry, just MO
Jonno B)
I finally found something you and i dissagree on Jonno - i hope this dosn't interfere with things :( :rolleyes: B)
Now cover up those nads before the neighbour sees 'em :lol:
Peace
UKMan
Sparkle, alot of the people who are replying to this have been here longer then you. Its someones opinion, doesnt mean the board is going bad or anything
Most of the people dont find it sick..Most find that its the society that would be the problem.. But you also have ur opinions, and ill take them into mind
UKMan, very respectable that you trusted ur daughter with that.. If i do decide to go out with her, I hope her dad will to
i heard in vermont the age is 12 :frusty:
It may not seem like a huge gap, but there's a reason why the age of consent is 16. Sure, you may not be havin sex but people will make their own conclusions about you and it only takes her to say something to a friend and you could be in alot of trouble.
One of my friends (also 18) went out with a 14 year old and the entire community thought he was a pervert, you may have good intentions but society sucks.
But then you have to do what you think is right.....
Good luck :)
So I am / was: Illegal, Wrong, Strange, Sick, Gross bla bla bla... [yes I do take this personal]
Hmmz, I never considered myself that way.... I was never told by my parents, friends, teachers and what not, I guess they were all wrong eh?
Better yet, I think I'm gonna call my ex to tell him what a sick-pedo-pervert he was back then, and that I am gonna sue him. Cause that seems the right thing to do... Maybe I should even warn his new wife to keep an eye on him while he is bathing with their kid... considering he IS a sick-pedo-pervert.....:wacko:
Actually, I think I am a rather normal person and so is my ex, you think we go to Hell now, for being in love at age 14 - 18? :cry1: Please forgive us our sins, it will never happen again, I promise!
@ Jonno, The picture you describe is NOT what this thread was about, the subject is being in love, not having a gang bang at age 14!
BTW: It is okay for 12 year olds [yes we have them aboard] to view that Porn thread? Its rather explicit even though the penises and vagina's are pixelated. I know its not the same but still.... think about it... Smells like hypocrisy to me.
summer, would u let your daughter date an 18 year old when she is 14,
after your experiences??
@Linda - you make very valid points and i'm soooo glad its a lady making these statements, because if it had been a bloke, like me for instance, then all hell would break loose :(
I cant speak for Jonno, so i wont.
Lets also try to remember that we all come from different enviroments and this has a lot of influence over how we think. Allthough this isnt the case all the time of course. Different countries have different laws and the Eastern cultures are even more liberal than we are - i just think its a shame that parents are not given more controll over how they think their own families should run. Of course o lot of parents havn't the faintest idea either of how to take care of their kids, but thats not a reason to take away these rights from all parents. Making laws also hinders those who have differing opinions - think about that for a while too.
My daughter was bought up in a very liberal manner and has turned out to be a wonderfull girl - having a baby soon - shes 21 btw now B)
Peace
UKMan
Depends on the circumstances.Quote:
Originally posted by leafs116@2 January 2004 - 16:52
summer, would u let your daughter date an 18 year old when she is 14,
after your experiences??
Does the guy seem honest?
Is she "mature" enough? [there are differences in 14 year olds and 14 year olds]
If so, yes.
Why not? If it works out for them then good, if it doesn't, well, bad luck, thats how it goes, whether you are 14 or 16. You can't prevent your kids from heartache anyway.
If my parents had prohibited to go out with him, I would have done it secretly because we were truly in love and no wild horses could have dragged me away from him! [and vice versa]
Its better to approve and keep an eye on them then to tell them they can't and they do it anyway and you wont have an eye on them, see what I mean?
Ah, I see the sanity has returned. (hooray for SL and Ukkie)
I simply cannot understand that people are shocked because of a boy and a girl having feelings for each other when there is a 4-year difference.
In the thread about the guns most people are just joking around while those things are a bigger threat to everyones life <_<
I stick to my guns (ha ha ha) and say: go for it leafs, if you have feelings for each other, then at least you should explore them a bit further. You might regret it if you don't.