Adultery!

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Originally posted by kurtsl0an+4 November 2003 - 08:51--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (kurtsl0an @ 4 November 2003 - 08:51)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-noname12@4 November 2003 - 06:48
Heres a better Idea, Claim that all this time the emails where from you, your the admin you can easly use the other accounts, make him feel sick to the stomach, wink at him a little call him "big boy" and I garantee (sp?) he will never cheat again.

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ummm, yeah - that won&#39;t work. just from emails i&#39;ve read, i know they&#39;ve done "it" like 4 times, and messed around on many other occasions (as late as last friday)....

i&#39;d think he would know the difference between eatin me out and eatin her out&#33; lmao - okay - that was over the top, but u get my drift. :) [/b][/quote]
Ohhh, kurtsloan.....

You "accidently" open multiple emails and read them in full..........

You are no better then the guy cheating on his wife.......

I&#39;d say: find another job where snooping around is not possible; just to protect yourself from all those malintended people........

:angry: Yogi

what is the company policy re: personal e-mails?

you could always send everybody a message reminding them of it

this shit happens in every office, stay out of it imho ;)

Stay out of it... Could even cost you your job in the end...

I don&#39;t see how in anyway it could cost him his job. I personally would blackmail him, but if you like him I wouldn&#39;t say anything and let it blow over, it isn&#39;t any of your business what he does with his personal life anyhow.

i would go for black-mail, if you&#39;re not comfortable with it you could always go for the anonymous black-mail (ie. send a brick through his window with a copy of the incriminating evidence attached)

or an alternative would be to tell everyone in cyber-web about it and maybe his wife will &#39;accidently&#39; find out

I&#39;m not able to judge unless I see the incriminating emails in their entirety, please post them below then I will tell you what I think... :P

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Originally posted by barbarossa@4 November 2003 - 12:04
I'm not able to judge unless I see the incriminating emails in their entirety, please post them below then I will tell you what I think... :P

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yeah, and leave the real names intact - i'll blackmail 'em if you won't

I cannot decide what you should do.

But it would be good if you would tell him openly (really openly)
- but in way openly that does not hurt - what you think on that topic.

remember: whatever he has done in this stuff looking on naked people?
he is also just human, but what I think? If the company get know that some
employees doing other things than working. You are paying paied for your work,
not for other stuff (this is just how some companied may see that issue)
and if every employee would not work they could close the company - and
that show one more TIME: Each employee or user counts like on kazaa&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33;
(just my thoughts)

thanks, david.

~nice dreams...

As a past IT person myself, let me give you some info that might aid you in your decision....

I don&#39;t know about anywhere else, but here in Canada what is in a person&#39;s email is confidential and can only be opened by technical personnel with permission from that person&#39;s superior. (doesn&#39;t mean it doesn&#39;t happen, just means that if you find something you can&#39;t do anything with it unless you were under orders).

Same thing applies to files on a users personal network drive. Even if the network admin found loads of porn up there, they can&#39;t say or do anything about it unless the person&#39;s superior has given permission to view the directories.

Sooooo... what do you do? Well, if she&#39;s been sending out crap and smut email to a lot of people, see if you can get one of these people to report her to her boss, and then he/she would probably give permission for you to be in those emails... then when it happens, you can approach your friend and say, "I came across these while I was doing a check of so and so&#39;s email for her boss, and I just wanted to ask you about it." This way, you don&#39;t look like a spy, and can&#39;t be fired for reading confidential information... and you can approach your friend with your concerns without having to admit you were spying...

In a workplace the computers are meant to be used for WORK PURPOSES ONLY.

However I know poeple use it to waste time. There have nothing wrong with someone wasting time with stupid emails at work but they cant complain if someone is paid to check them to see if any on work realted activity is going on.