remember when the board used to let you "tag" threads with stuff?:smilie4:
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remember when the board used to let you "tag" threads with stuff?:smilie4:
so it'd just be a "zomg thread"?:unsure:
You might see why:
http://filesharingtalk.com/search.ph...vBForum_Thread
Do you know what Jacky, I don't give a fuck. No one here goes off whining and whinging when you spew sciency shit over thread after thread, so I can't see what grounds you have for whining about anyone else spewing a subject over any number of threads they like.
And just to spite you, I'm going to take manker up on this and answer it.
I have tried my best to encourage my wife to find someone else to fuck off with, unfortunately she knows which side her bread is buttered, and isn't having any of it. My only other option is to leave her, and doing that would mean she would obtain automatic custody of my children. I would then be stuck with having to travel/move to wherever she decided she wanted to go, in order to maintain a limited amount of contact and influence over my childrens lives. That's not acceptable to me. I'm also unwilling to have my children raised by her alone, whilst she isn't a bad mother, some of her values and beliefs aren't ones I want passed onto my children.
The analysis of the second thing is quite simple, no sane person shits on their own door step. So her claims about how my friendship was something she valued and something which was important to her, can only have been lies. In reality her behaviour proves she never valued my friendship or me at all. No true friendship can be based upon lies, and I'm afraid that one was. I find it quite sad really, this woman repeatedly told me about how she only had three true friends (I was supposedly one of them, and yes I realise that in light of what has happened that was probably a lie also). I find it quite sad that when she is presented with the opportunity to have someone as a true friend, she values it so little that she shits all over it by doing things she knows will completely fuck it up. As I've admitted to you, once you get me to stop speeling shite about women, I do still love that woman, and the idea that she's going to live her life without any (that would require a bit more of an explanation than I'm willing to post) true friends isn't one that fills me with joy. They do say however that you can't save people from themselves.
EDIT: Oh and one other thing, you said earlier that I was the only one here who classified myself as 'available', I'm not. I don't classify myself as available, I classify myself as 'standalone'. As I've repeatedly said, I wouldn't have another woman in my life, the ones I've known have proved beyond any doubt that the only thing you can rely upon women for, is betrayal.
So you're saying that you're a bit of a wanker.Quote:
Originally Posted by rOA
I feel as if I knew most of what you wrote in your post already. Much of it is why I described you as a decent guy. I think you really ought to let it go now though. You've chosen your path and it seems to be irretrievable with your former friend so move on, look toward your future instead of your past. What I mean is that I think the largest paragraph of your post is directed at her rather than me/the board. That ship seems to have set sail some time ago and I don't think you were on board.
I'm not sure how fresh this wound is but if you keep picking the scab, it will never heal.
My name is manker mankerson; I charge £5 per metaphor, £2.50 a cliché and I'll throw in all the pish you can drink.
Oh for fuck sake stop being a nancy. Man the fuck up. Everyone gets their hearts broken once in a while. Although it's usually about someone they've actually fucked at one stage or another.
This'll never go away on this board. Fact. Get used to it, or pretend you're somebody else.
I've been thinking about what you said in this post and I think you might have a point, maybe I haven't 'manned up' enough about all of this. So I've been thinking I need to go see this woman face to face, so that I can tell her what I think of her, to her face. What do you reckon?Quote:
Originally Posted by chavis
It's not just her either, there are some others who I'm thinking I should go see. The Scottish twat in Aberdeen, and that complete bitch from Newport Pagnell, and not forgetting the shit from Hartlepool. I've said for years that if you treat people with complete and utter contempt you shouldn't be surprised if they treat you in the same way, and I'm starting to think I haven't delivered on that front at all, and that I should.
Thank you chavis :-)
I took your advice and manned up, and I went and knocked on her door and by doing so treated her thoughts and feelings as she treated mine. All I need to do now is decide how long I should behave in this way towards her, she used me for 5 years, but I'm not sure that it might not be too much for me to behave just as disrespectfully towards her as she did towards me for a whole 5 years.
I see someone needs to learn the difference between stoically manning up and chasing across town like some bored housewife who wants to have a bit of a row with someone to add colour to an otherwise drab existence.
Have a row with her :lol:
I dont wan't to have a row with her. Even if that were possible that wasn't my intention.
I'm afraid that's all you can have for now, you're distracting me from the MILFs :yup:
You know, I've always wondered who the fuck would want to look at porn with 40-50 year old wiminz instead of hawt burds in their 20s.
And now I know.
Porn :lol:
Sorry to disappoint these are very real ladies in who've been having a lovely Christmas doo, and who have now decided they should stop in the hotel tonight.
I'll catch up with this thread tomorrow, have fun old chap... I will.
Oh, so you had to stop having fun with very real ladies in an hotel to log onto fst, read the thread and answer my half-arsed comments. Twice.
I'd feel special if you weren't making it up.
I remember a 15 year old once saying on here that he punched a burglar and snapped his arm like a twig, to impress the regs here.
Your desperately seeking approval post is on a whole new level, however.
Have you heard of these wonderful new things called smart phones?
They provide us modern people with the ability to do amazing things, like you know read stuff off the internet whilst we're having a smoke outside. Amazing stuff eh ;-)
It didn't work, like :dabs:
The only way you're ever going to get even CLOSE to impressing the regs is to start by getting an Even Steven with a Temp Taper Fade at the back...
The fact that I can remember that word-for-word is a testament to how much I was impressed by it, by the way :smilie4:
I will say this once. If anyone remotely resembling a middle aged man with a fucking ugly moustache turns up at my front door again I will call the police.
FUCK OFF YOU SAD MAN AND GET A LIFE
Call the filth anyway. Get a restraining order and get him arrested for crimes against mirrors while you're at it.
Props to reject for adopting a cunning disguise.
I can just imagine the chain of thought;
'if i grow lip fuzz, she'll realise that i'm no longer an obsessive, stalking, no life old guy and think i'm an opulent fox-hunting gent with a string of social events lined up. Like servicing milfs in a hotel or something'. :eyebrows:
I can't imagine why it didn't work.
Plus wan for calling the police btw.
Operator: Which Emergency service do you require?
Caller: Police please.
Operator: Transferring you now, please hold the line.
Police Operator: Please state the nature of the emergency?
Caller: A man who I lied to knocked on my door and said hello.
Police Operator: I see, did the man threaten you?
Caller: Ummm, no, not exactly.
Police Operator: Has he threatened you or hurt you before?
Caller: Well he's never hit a woman in his life, but that's not the point...
Yep, I like that idea, call the police, I'm sure they need the entertainment.
I am the sad little man I was made into by the behaviour of others. Others who oddly enough showed no respect or consideration at all for my thoughts or feelings, but who demand that I 'have' to respect and consider their thoughts and feelings. Better yet others who are really cowards, who were very happy to sit alone in a car with me lying to my face, but who now don't have the courage to stand in front of that same face and answer a simple statement of 'hello'. I'd suggest any such person, would have to be a pretty sad fucking coward to behave in such a way, and I'd be much happier to have an ugly moustache than the kind of nasty personality which would allow me to treat others so badly... but then I am now the proud owner of both.
I did keep saying the decent man was dead... murdered by the behaviour he had been subjected too. I guess I'm now coming to terms with not having to behave with more decency towards others than they've shown to me.
You lost me after "sad little man" I'm afraid...
That wouldn't be how it would happen. Never underestimate the effect of laying it on a bit thick.Quote:
Originally Posted by reject
I shall elucidate you.
'Sorry for coming into the station like this but I have a problem, there is this guy who is obsessed with me ...'
Obsessed, in what way?
'It might sound odd but he follows me around the internet, telling complete strangers his perception of me - which is less than flattering. He's been doing it since June'
Is there any proof of this?
'Oh yes, the posts are there for all to see. The only way I can describe the posts is obsessive, fixated and malevolent. I wouldn't care but he turned up at my residence last night. I have no idea how he got the address but since he knows where I work, I suspect he followed me home, which has freaked me out in and of itself'
I see, what did he say to you, any threats or violence?
'No. I exited the scene sharpish, he only managed to utter hello. It's just I'm worried because I live alone. He's an ex-squaddie you know, I think he might have that syndrome you read about'
How about we send a couple of Policemen around just to have a chat with him. That should work and if not, come back and tell us.
'Thank you'.
And then there'd be another conversation.
Hey, Dad. Why are the police coming here asking you to stay away from some chick half your age.
Um.
Um indeed. Any respect I had left for you has disintegrated. Loser. Kill yourself before you heap more shame upon this family.
Around the xmas dinner table will be fantastic in reject towers this year
That's brilliant, but you forgot to mention the moustache!!!
this again, again?:pinch:
:pinch:
Hey, Dad. Why are the police coming here asking you to stay away from some chick half your age.
Um. I have no idea who you are. I am your dad's evil moustachioed twin.
You're a fucking tool, that's who you are. Any respect I had left for you has disintegrated. Loser. Kill yourself before you heap more shame upon this family.
Better? :happy:
There are precedents set for internet stalking/bullying. It is obvious why Reject came here, and he has posted obsessively about their (lack of) relationship. It wouldn't need to be poured on too thick. He knows where she lives, works, and frequents online. He's married, and won't leave her alone. She has made it clear that she doesn't want anything to do with him. Several members here have suggested that he quit his obsessive actions.
Wouldn't take too much to get a restraining order on all 3 locations.
Yeah, that might be how it starts out, after all it would be silly to assume that someone who lies so much would be honest with the police. However I have no doubt the police sre capable of discerning the truth.
Do you realize the position you've created for yourself here, Reject? You came here as a stalker. Regardless of how much you like it here, make friends, etc., you will always be a stalker until you stop posting, and go away. It doesn't matter how many times you say you are over her. Don't care, or are wonderfully happy with your wife/life. You are, and will always be seen as a stalker. There is a permanent, underlying creepiness to that. Can you understand that?
That should be interesting to prove. A man who hasn't been near me or spoken with me in months is stalking me.
Just call the fucking police, I'm game. I'm sure they'll be very sympathetic to you feeling your feelings and thoughts aren't being respected by someone whos thoughts and feelings you shit all over, especially someone who you can't possibly claim has ever posed any threat to you.
I have no idea what the truth is, you seem incapable of delivering it and your words are the only thing I have to go on. The conclusion of which is basically what mbm wrote above.
You will understand, however, the police will need to visit you at your house should a complaint be made. After 5pm when they know you'll be in. What will your family make of it all.
My family would be horrified if the police turned up, completely shocked. Your wife already knows that you're a waste of space, but do your kids?
The sensible thing to do would be to avoid the immediate vicinity of the target of your infatuation.