Maybe so Neil, but help them at what cost?
Any?
Social security systems are crumbling all over Europe under the weight of the flood of (economical)refugees. Next year, there will be 12 countries added to the EEC.
Turkey is on the list after that.
Turkey has 65 million people with no economical future.
As you said, we will be sucked down until we drown, and when that happens even legit refugees won't have a place to turn to.
The way I see it, refugees are entitled to get help from us for the duration of the threat. After that, they - just like the economical 'refugees' - should have to prove they have some added value for this country in order to be allowed to stay.
But then we'll probably be accused of stealing talents from countries that they so badly need.